FabSwingers.com forum: Lonely Intersex Female

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here since July, still no meets or interest,how can I improve this please? as I'm really down

P.S. Try and not be offensive please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amanda let people know what your interests are... that will help others see you as a kindred soul... someone to chat to and meet with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re gorgeous

The only thing I could say ( and it’s by no means a bad thing ) you’re very honest and your profile lays it all out.

If people are looking for nsa they may feel slightly wary

There’s definitely people out there - don’t lose hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only say, wish I were closer

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Get on the forums and chat so people can get to know you.

Maybe try a local social or even a club if you're feeling brave.

We're mostly a friendly, if rather odd, bunch

Nita

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"You’re gorgeous

The only thing I could say ( and it’s by no means a bad thing ) you’re very honest and your profile lays it all out.

If people are looking for nsa they may feel slightly wary

There’s definitely people out there - don’t lose hope "

That's what I was going to say. Maybe a wee bit tmi? That ass tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want NSA, it should be easier, something more meaningful is achievable.

Sometimes you have to be brutally honest with men as we struggle to take a hint.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"If you want NSA, it should be easier, something more meaningful is achievable.

Sometimes you have to be brutally honest with men as we struggle to take a hint."

Very true...Cal has no idea whatsoever if ladies fancy him

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have lovely pics and you look lovely. Echoing what others have said, perhaps roll back some of the very personal information, put up a VERY clear sentence about how you identify and what you are looking for at the top of your profile and share the rest of the info when you are comfortable trusting someone.

And get to socials. I suspect once people met you in person they would be enchanted. Would clubs be if interest to you? They’re good for making contacts too.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been to a couple of clubs, but men don't approach me

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Amanda, I've seen your post and read your profile.

If I can be frank with you, it's brutally honest, and frankly confusing.

You have been clinically diagnosed as a female so stick with it, the first passage can be erased as it's just too much detail, replace it with something less personal.

Add a few intimate details but nothing about the operations and the mutilation that occurred.

You're a woman so write about what you're looking for from the viewpoint of a woman, not as someone who has recently been assigned the gender.

You've got everything that every red blooded male is looking for, so exploit it and leave the personal stuff out until you've gotten to know someone more intimately.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Amanda, I've seen your post and read your profile.

If I can be frank with you, it's brutally honest, and frankly confusing.

You have been clinically diagnosed as a female so stick with it, the first passage can be erased as it's just too much detail, replace it with something less personal.

Add a few intimate details but nothing about the operations and the mutilation that occurred.

You're a woman so write about what you're looking for from the viewpoint of a woman, not as someone who has recently been assigned the gender.

You've got everything that every red blooded male is looking for, so exploit it and leave the personal stuff out until you've gotten to know someone more intimately."

^^I actually agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Squirrel said.

Your honesty and openess is to be admired but it will scare men off. Go by the 'need to know' mantra.

Be open but hold back on the details. Lovely arse btw

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Amanda, I've seen your post and read your profile.

If I can be frank with you, it's brutally honest, and frankly confusing.

You have been clinically diagnosed as a female so stick with it, the first passage can be erased as it's just too much detail, replace it with something less personal.

Add a few intimate details but nothing about the operations and the mutilation that occurred.

You're a woman so write about what you're looking for from the viewpoint of a woman, not as someone who has recently been assigned the gender.

You've got everything that every red blooded male is looking for, so exploit it and leave the personal stuff out until you've gotten to know someone more intimately.

^^I actually agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been to a couple of clubs, but men don't approach me

They don’t approach me either. I approach them.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Been to a couple of clubs, but men don't approach me

They don’t approach me either. I approach them."

Me three.

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