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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has there been any tests done on this?

For instance take a woman, and a man. The woman doesn't feel attracted to him. But take away and groom him so he looks different and place him before the same woman and what would the outcome be?

Would they find the person attractive or would they not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how u scrub up but yeh its defo a poss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before. "

Well, define what you expect of initial attraction? Is it the same for everyone?

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

For me 1st Impressions are usually right, you only get one chance to make that initial 1st impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before.

Well, define what you expect of initial attraction? Is it the same for everyone?

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No which is why its so hard to define, vive la differance!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before.

Well, define what you expect of initial attraction? Is it the same for everyone?

No which is why its so hard to define, vive la differance! "

If everyone is different how can you be sure that they are right, playing it right or none of what i just said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before.

Well, define what you expect of initial attraction? Is it the same for everyone?

No which is why its so hard to define, vive la differance!

If everyone is different how can you be sure that they are right, playing it right or none of what i just said? "

You can't which is why you have to treat everyone as individuals, rather than generalising.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Never been attracted to a man on looks alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks would be the first thing I would notice but after that it would come down to personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been attracted to a man on looks alone..."

unless ur blind i dont believe that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if there is no attraction there can a man recover through personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there is no attraction there can a man recover through personality?"

For swinging I wouldn't think so however for a relationship i think yes as the personality would matter more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there is no attraction there can a man recover through personality?"

As a friend, maybe, but I wouldn't fuck 'em.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if there is no attraction there can a man recover through personality?

As a friend, maybe, but I wouldn't fuck 'em."

Another question: If you have been drinking do you think your perception of initial attraction can be challenged afterwards?

If so , some guys are basically fucked - and i'm using this in the negative sense here

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he's a twat though, the moment he opens his mouth she will recognise him from before. "

+1

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Never been attracted to a man on looks alone...

unless ur blind i dont believe that "

I may judge on the pics I see, but would never say there was an "attraction" or not until I met him....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has there been any tests done on this?

Probably

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Never been attracted to a man on looks alone...

unless ur blind i dont believe that

I may judge on the pics I see, but would never say there was an "attraction" or not until I met him.... "

pretty much my attitude...tbh if i am looking for sex attraction isnt how i would define it.

making me laugh works if i am not in cock slut mode though

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"if there is no attraction there can a man recover through personality?"

Have met many people through socials on this site, ones i would never have met through seeing a pic alone...so yes, for me the personality wins through...provided he not a complete ugger!! lol

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