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Is your sexual performance ‘on point’?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve read a couple of veris describing aspects of a meet as being ‘on point’. Both times by men about women. One comment was about the woman’s hip thrusts, another about a woman’s lingerie. Both times grated to me, reading a little too much like marks out of 10.

Has the use of ‘on point’ changed subtly recently?

Would you be happy with your sexual performance being described as ‘on point’?

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"I’ve read a couple of veris describing aspects of a meet as being ‘on point’. Both times by men about women. One comment was about the woman’s hip thrusts, another about a woman’s lingerie. Both times grated to me, reading a little too much like marks out of 10.

Has the use of ‘on point’ changed subtly recently?

Would you be happy with your sexual performance being described as ‘on point’?"

I thought that term was for eyebrows...

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll have to check the feedback questionnaires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve read a couple of veris describing aspects of a meet as being ‘on point’. Both times by men about women. One comment was about the woman’s hip thrusts, another about a woman’s lingerie. Both times grated to me, reading a little too much like marks out of 10.

Has the use of ‘on point’ changed subtly recently?

Would you be happy with your sexual performance being described as ‘on point’?"

I would take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fuck how i fuck like it or lump it but its worked out well so far so im happy with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fuck how i fuck like it or lump it but its worked out well so far so im happy with it"

But would you be IK if someone described the fucking as ‘on point’? Compliment or slightly measured description of sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On point" is actually "en pointe", and a ballet term. Anyone that I know that uses is to mean good is likely to get a dig... Bloody stupid sayings these days! But yeah I get what you mean OP, is a bit of an odd statement when talking about a sexual encounter.

Sorry for going off topic, some things really get my goat!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sometimes I get too into what my fanjo wants and I can knock the timing completely out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than it being described as 'What's the point'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve read a couple of veris describing aspects of a meet as being ‘on point’. Both times by men about women. One comment was about the woman’s hip thrusts, another about a woman’s lingerie. Both times grated to me, reading a little too much like marks out of 10.

Has the use of ‘on point’ changed subtly recently?

Would you be happy with your sexual performance being described as ‘on point’?

I thought that term was for eyebrows..."
me too....don't think anyone's said that about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fuck how i fuck like it or lump it but its worked out well so far so im happy with it

But would you be IK if someone described the fucking as ‘on point’? Compliment or slightly measured description of sex?"

It seems kind of neutral

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""On point" is actually "en pointe", and a ballet term. Anyone that I know that uses is to mean good is likely to get a dig... Bloody stupid sayings these days! But yeah I get what you mean OP, is a bit of an odd statement when talking about a sexual encounter.

Sorry for going off topic, some things really get my goat! "

Thanks. I was genuinely wondering if I misunderstood what it had come to mean. I had thought it was a US athletics term. I hadn’t put it and the ballet term together..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

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By *layful cockMan
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea

I'm sure it's definitely a compliment but I'd definitely use different words like "WOW" OR "LETS GO AGAIN".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than being described as a shit shag I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its kind of like saying he did his job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would see it as them saying we were compatible sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm not sure I’d take it as a compliment. Seems an odd way to describe it. X

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"On point" to me, rather than being associated with the ballet term, is more a business speak term suggesting something is living up to or meeting expectations as in "sales figures this month were on point for this time of year"

So to have the way I had sex described that way would seem a little cold and clinical at best, and bordering on insulting - I'm not there to meet anyone's expectations, I'm there to have a mutually satisfying time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all."

That was the feeling it gave me, a little to much like Len holding a card up with ‘9’ on it. Good, but with a suggestion of critical evaluation.

I should add that I don’t know the evaluators or the evaluated.

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By *layful cockMan
over a year ago

Clacton-on-sea


"I would see it as them saying we were compatible sexually. "

I agree..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this a US/UK difference? Where’s Rudeboy when you need him?!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system."

You mean like some kind of verification??

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Is this a US/UK difference? Where’s Rudeboy when you need him?!"

Cambridge English Dictionary has it as:

"on point" (informal): as good as it could be; perfect:

e.g. My hair was on point

Still an odd way of describing sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not strictly ive no score card.

I go of how it feels and how whom im with responds id like to think that playmates have enjoyed me as I have them we are all as im learning on here different flavours .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this a US/UK difference? Where’s Rudeboy when you need him?!

Cambridge English Dictionary has it as:

"on point" (informal): as good as it could be; perfect:

e.g. My hair was on point

Still an odd way of describing sex though "

So actually a REALLY GOOD compliment! It just somehow doesn’t feel like that..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all."

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not. "

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too.."

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too.."

Well we don't need a multivariant analysis since we set our own weightings for the various criteria that we have agreed. But i can confirm there is a spreadsheet. I know that "wow, you're a new entry at #4" doesn't sound flattering, but it really is if you saw the full list. The standard to even enter the top 10 is tough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""On point" to me, rather than being associated with the ballet term, is more a business speak term suggesting something is living up to or meeting expectations as in "sales figures this month were on point for this time of year"

So to have the way I had sex described that way would seem a little cold and clinical at best, and bordering on insulting - I'm not there to meet anyone's expectations, I'm there to have a mutually satisfying time."

En pointe means to be up on the point of your toe, and nothing to do with performance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a US/UK difference? Where’s Rudeboy when you need him?!"

Up North he would say "By 'eck, that were fooking greet, lass".

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton


"Better than it being described as 'What's the point'"

haha that was funny and true ....

I think we live in a world where everyday we have to walk on egg shells hoping we dont offend, the English language is by far the best language in the world and what make it so good, is that it grows... new words formed from old words yet having the exact same meaning or even bad words moved from being negative over to a more positive format and made up by a new generation.

Obviously the opposite can and does apply but were talking about being on point...

being great...very good...superb...knowing your shit.

It was said and meant as a compliment, so take it for what it is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too..

Well we don't need a multivariant analysis since we set our own weightings for the various criteria that we have agreed. But i can confirm there is a spreadsheet. I know that "wow, you're a new entry at #4" doesn't sound flattering, but it really is if you saw the full list. The standard to even enter the top 10 is tough. "

With that much data you could start predicting which fabbers are best to meet, where they are most likely to live etc. Appogy it and flog it to help us avoid the fakes..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*appify

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better than it being described as 'What's the point'

haha that was funny and true ....

I think we live in a world where everyday we have to walk on egg shells hoping we dont offend, the English language is by far the best language in the world and what make it so good, is that it grows... new words formed from old words yet having the exact same meaning or even bad words moved from being negative over to a more positive format and made up by a new generation.

Obviously the opposite can and does apply but were talking about being on point...

being great...very good...superb...knowing your shit.

It was said and meant as a compliment, so take it for what it is... "

Enough with the eye rolling! It wasn’t said to me or about me and no one is taking offence..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too..

Well we don't need a multivariant analysis since we set our own weightings for the various criteria that we have agreed. But i can confirm there is a spreadsheet. I know that "wow, you're a new entry at #4" doesn't sound flattering, but it really is if you saw the full list. The standard to even enter the top 10 is tough.

With that much data you could start predicting which fabbers are best to meet, where they are most likely to live etc. Appogy it and flog it to help us avoid the fakes.."

"That much data" - are you calling us whores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I’m a shit fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See what I did there? God, I crack myself up .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I wouldn't want to feel like I'd been subjected to, tested and compared against some kind of regulation or standard. Is there as set of universal FAB standards? The quality of sex is something very subjective and bespoke to the dynamic between the people involved. What next an EBay style feedback system. Things like this sort of dehumanises us all.

We have an objective set of standards and scores for our meets (/10). We don't tell them their score, but we tell each other. I know instantly from the score whether Mrs Broken wants a repeat meet or not.

I bet you have a spreadsheet and run some multivariate analysis too..

Well we don't need a multivariant analysis since we set our own weightings for the various criteria that we have agreed. But i can confirm there is a spreadsheet. I know that "wow, you're a new entry at #4" doesn't sound flattering, but it really is if you saw the full list. The standard to even enter the top 10 is tough.

With that much data you could start predicting which fabbers are best to meet, where they are most likely to live etc. Appogy it and flog it to help us avoid the fakes..

"That much data" - are you calling us whores "

Hahaha! You set the scene..

Enthusiastic maybe..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See what I did there? God, I crack myself up . "

Sorry, I’m hungry and being dim. I might need an explanation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they did it on tiptoes and meant to type en pointe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps they did it on tiptoes and meant to type en pointe."

Well that would make total sense of the ‘her hip thrusts were en pointe’ comment.

By George Sir! You may have it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am, although, it depends who you fuck, as you have different connections with person to person

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