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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One and the Same!!!!!

OR

Wolves in Sheeps Clothing!!!!

Opinions please.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arooooo....baaaaaaa!

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By *eejay2015Woman
over a year ago

somewhere in Buckinghamshire

I've now been divorced longer than I was married. I consider myself single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arooooo....baaaaaaa! "

You never told me you'd visited Aruba.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married."

Mr B and I are both separated from our ex spouses and have been for quite sometime, I don’t see how your answer is relevant???

Neither of us are divorced yet as divorce is expensive and we are not planning on marrying each other anytime, we are perfectly happy with what we have. Just because someone is separated but still married it does not mean they shouldn’t be able have there fun on a site like this, am I totally wrong?? It’s 3am after alll !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One and the Same!!!!!

OR

Wolves in Sheeps Clothing!!!!

Opinions please.

"

Same thing. Just as bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ones clever enough not to of done it in the first place and the other will hopefully will be clever enough not to do it again

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married."

Agree with thus, I've spoken to several 'separated' who either still live with their spouses or still see them socially and for sex. Hence why I won't meet them. Divorced or single for me only. This applies to all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married."

Dont agree. Master is divorced and I'm separated, going through a divorce. Think that's a very harsh generalism. It's like saying avoid singles, they won't commit to anything. Or stay clear if the married ones, only one may be swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do guys want to know if you have ever been married, when you tell them you are single?

and why can't single guys accommodate?? surely they aren't fibbing about not being married?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I'm nether of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm both - twice!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married."

I’m separated. I have a decree nisi and am waiting for my ex to pull his finger out in the financials for us to get our absolute. We’ve been separated for 15 months, haven’t lived together in any of that time and I own my own home now. Am I to be avoided?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am divorced now 2 years.

I have also been single and not involved in anything remotely serious in 2 years.

So I consider myself single as single can get.

On paper I am divorced and single.I have single taxes also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ones clever enough not to of done it in the first place and the other will hopefully will be clever enough not to do it again "

What a sad view.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Separated 6 years now. Divorce is pending but it’s a ball ache over here But I’m stull single and not answerable to no one except myself and my daughter and my 3 boys and my three dogs and the tax man. But nevertheless. It’s all good

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Never been married and it'll never happen... I don't mind people who are separated though, if it's all over with it's over, a piece of extra paper isn't going to make much of a difference..

(just for the record ..I'm separated... from reality most of the time)

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My answer would depend on the situation & context.

Filling in forms, I'll tick the divorced box.

If I'm asked, are you married? I'll answer, no very happily divorced.

If asked if I'm single, I'll say, yes.

I've lived a single life for 13yrs but I am still a divorcee.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m married but separated 18yrs where the hell do I fall into ....

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I’m married but separated 18yrs where the hell do I fall into .... "

My arms? My bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m married but separated 18yrs where the hell do I fall into ....

My arms? My bed?"

Very smooth

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I've been divorced ...and I'm separated now....but hopefully divorce proceedings will begin soon...we have no assets to sort so should be quite simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorced here too, but I love being single - that’s how I see myself anyway

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married.

Agree with thus, I've spoken to several 'separated' who either still live with their spouses or still see them socially and for sex. Hence why I won't meet them. Divorced or single for me only. This applies to all. "

My fella is separated, i stop over at his very regularly and for lengthy periods. But yes on an NSA fuck sie i would rather avoid such people for the reasons you stated.

And yes it's a generalisation but i'm allowed to meet whoever i want, for all those questioning why i don't find you appealing or of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been divorced ...and I'm separated now....but hopefully divorce proceedings will begin soon...we have no assets to sort so should be quite simple "

Have a look on the .gov site, they have an online divorce service and it's really quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well one has never been married and the other has.

Separated are the ones to avoid, they are still married.

Agree with thus, I've spoken to several 'separated' who either still live with their spouses or still see them socially and for sex. Hence why I won't meet them. Divorced or single for me only. This applies to all. "

I consider divorced as a subset of single.

I’m separated. I consider myself single. Anyone who has spoken to me in person will know the chances of my husband and I ever having sex again.

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By *ash13Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I met a lass through the non vanilla life. She was very full on when we met and I was enjoying how things where going. I was always honest with her I'm separated, but the penny dropped and she bolted like a scolded cat! The last I heard was 'I didn't realize you are married'. I live on my own and can accomadate. I was gutted. So I've even written in my profile very clear about my status as I do belive a lot of women swerve for this reason. But I understand. So feel free to say hello those ladies that are not arsed with that piece of paper. Laters

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I always wonder this, especially when filling out paperwork. It feels a throw back to me of a time when marital status was everything in society. And a possibly a way to stigmatise divorcees. As far as I'm concerned I concluded the marital relationship side of my relationship with my ex when I divorced her. So as far as I'm concerned I was single after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a lass through the non vanilla life. She was very full on when we met and I was enjoying how things where going. I was always honest with her I'm separated, but the penny dropped and she bolted like a scolded cat! The last I heard was 'I didn't realize you are married'. I live on my own and can accomadate. I was gutted. So I've even written in my profile very clear about my status as I do belive a lot of women swerve for this reason. But I understand. So feel free to say hello those ladies that are not arsed with that piece of paper. Laters "

If its causing you problems why not get divorced?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been divorced longer than I was ever married, but I don’t get the “divorced, single, separated” thing.

If I meet someone and they ask if I’m single, I reply with yes.

If they ask if I’ve ever been married I tell them that I’m divorced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I read this thread I’d never considered that someone who was divorced wouldn’t be considered single. I don’t understand why they wouldn’t be. For people my age I think it would be rare for someone not to have been in a lengthy relationship or marriage, probably with kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone could have co habited for years then split. Is that different OP?

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I'm divorced and single. Just being divorced doesn't imply the other as you can be divorced and in a long-term relationship with someone which in some cases includes their previous spouse.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I've been divorced ...and I'm separated now....but hopefully divorce proceedings will begin soon...we have no assets to sort so should be quite simple

Have a look on the .gov site, they have an online divorce service and it's really quick. "
that's the plan

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