FabSwingers.com forum: What are your thoughts?

By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

The enjoyment of getting to know someone on a social meet... or the hot spontaneous meet for instant fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both have their merits

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Social meet for me

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

pure drivel with pure evil interludes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Whatever she wants.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Social always for me, there are too many nutters on here!!

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Whatever she wants. "

The perfect answer .... you win the prize... a packet of pickled onion monster munch. ..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Whatever she wants.

The perfect answer .... you win the prize... a packet of pickled onion monster munch. ..

I tend to do socials but some have lasted a quick expresso.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, at the same time

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

"Both, at the same time

Like the popular loaf. .. best of both..

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Spontaneous meets for me. Love them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials first, attraction is within the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only met someone for a spontaneous meet once.. My fault, I posted a late night meet. Was a fiasco. Never again.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not really into socials as such, but I like a mixture of planned and spontaneous.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Not really into socials as such, but I like a mixture of planned and spontaneous. "

Me neither but I don’t tend to use this site for meets anyway and I’m not here to keep Costa in business

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Planned ahead social with a view to more if we're both comfortable to is my preference

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

Social first, there has to be a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is a social meet first, with no expectation of anything at all other than a coffee (other beverages are also available) but if they do end in a little cuddle and goodbye peck then it’s a little bonus.

Then, hopefully, plan the follow-up meet..

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I've experienced both... both hot in there own way... although I like having fun outside of the bedroom so prefer social...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither... the long build up leading to an explosive first meet

No social. And rarely spontaneous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social. I can't help but feel a bit cheap and desperate personally when I find myself thinking of last minute rendezvous with strangers. Although, of course, I love them with people I know

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

First kiss with a total stranger! So hot.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Simultaneously spontaneously socially sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social. I can't help but feel a bit cheap and desperate personally when I find myself thinking of last minute rendezvous with strangers. Although, of course, I love them with people I know

This. I wouldn’t even do a spontaneous meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both have worked for me!.... the one spontaneous meet and seeing that look of desire in someones eyes when you first meet!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both - if chemistry is right the good fun takes over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have there uses but i do like a social meet to find out what they are like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The enjoyment of getting to know someone on a social meet... or the hot spontaneous meet for instant fun?

I love a bit of both. Going in with the best intentions to have a social and then them jumping on you. Aaaah but it's only happened once lol. Premeditated fucks just aren't the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social. No sex chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot spontaneous. Like on the same day spontaneous, sometimes within a few hours spontaneous. Sometimes within half an hour spontaneous. But spontaneous lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A jolly social and if spontaneity takes us oh gosh even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social is good,gives you the chance to get to know them a bit & see what their likes & dislikes are before taking things to the next level,or not if we don't click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social always for me, there are too many nutters on here!!"
oooooo the joys of having single males in your box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the mood I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand the appeal of the latter, but always opt for the former (for safety reasons, and also to gauge chemistry and build sexual tension)

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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

Well... seems like an even spread...

Love a spread...

Happy days

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