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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please enlighten me I’m confused how is letting your partner out with another woman/man fine but sharing pics with consent suddenly frowned upon

and why are married men scum even though we can prove our partners know we are here yet married woman who are cheating ok?

Seriously I’m very confused at this point but I guess this will get a bashing too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, you're not the only one who's confused

C

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“NO COCK PICS!” - checks their gallery, full of close up tit and foof pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s pissed you off?

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

If there was a lie detector apt in here most would not be on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing photos of your wife, if you can prove consent. But there’s lots of men who will share photos of their wife, girlfriend, ex etc without their knowledge, and either claim they have given consent, or just openly admit there was no consent given. I’ve had my photos/videos shared to people without consent, it’s a horrible shitty thing to do.

If you can prove consent, sure, go for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who’s pissed you off? "

I’ve only been using the forums for a couple of days and the hypocrisy is unbearable lol

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"If there was a lie detector apt in here most would not be on fab"

Same goes for a measuring tape that was accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married men and women playing away are both fine on fab, we just choose not to chat with them. We don't judge but do have our own rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s pissed you off?

I’ve only been using the forums for a couple of days and the hypocrisy is unbearable lol"

Is this one instance or everyone on FAB?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely nothing wrong with sharing photos of your wife, if you can prove consent. But there’s lots of men who will share photos of their wife, girlfriend, ex etc without their knowledge, and either claim they have given consent, or just openly admit there was no consent given. I’ve had my photos/videos shared to people without consent, it’s a horrible shitty thing to do.

If you can prove consent, sure, go for it "

Consent comes from her she chats on Kik and sends pics too we have never sent pics without the other knowing maybe I should get her to write a letter of consent and send to the fab admin

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If there was a lie detector apt in here most would not be on fab

Same goes for a measuring tape that was accurate."

Sky remote!

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who’s pissed you off?

I’ve only been using the forums for a couple of days and the hypocrisy is unbearable lol

Is this one instance or everyone on FAB? "

For me a few instances but no not everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't "let" your partner go out with other people, it's a mutual decision.

And yes your wife may be happy with you sharing her photos but just like when someone says their partner is happy for them to play alone until it is confirmed by said partner then people will be skeptical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Married men and women playing away are both fine on fab, we just choose not to chat with them. We don't judge but do have our own rules."

I have most definitely been judged but to start it was like water off a ducks back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did the person receiving the pics, ask for them? Were they unsolicited?

I've had guys send me graphic pic of women that I didn't ask to see nor did I want to see them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did the person receiving the pics, ask for them? Were they unsolicited?

I've had guys send me graphic pic of women that I didn't ask to see nor did I want to see them. "

Only send to people we are chatting to never unsolicited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the person receiving the pics, ask for them? Were they unsolicited?

I've had guys send me graphic pic of women that I didn't ask to see nor did I want to see them. "

I’ve had that before. Single men on fab showing me their skills No ta

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Read some EE Cummings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the person receiving the pics, ask for them? Were they unsolicited?

I've had guys send me graphic pic of women that I didn't ask to see nor did I want to see them. "

Same.

And I’ve always asked did they get permission from the woman in the photos whose face is clearly visible.

They always say yes, but I doubt all of them have asked for permission.

Besides, I don’t want to be sent action photos anyway.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

You should know that on fab having a vagina means in a lot of folks eyes you can do little or no wrong. having a penis means you will be damned by the same folk and your own gender will do you down to try and make themselves look good.

Until folk of all genders shout down the hypocrisy it'll continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is full of hypocrites and double standards. Don't worry yourself about it. Just so what makes you happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is full of hypocrites and double standards. Don't worry yourself about it. Just so what makes you happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s pissed you off?

I’ve only been using the forums for a couple of days and the hypocrisy is unbearable lol"

It's not going to get any better. Get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“NO COCK PICS!” - checks their gallery, full of close up tit and foof pics"

I’ve got this thread all wrong haven’t I!?

And there was me thinking it was a tongue in cheek hypocrisy thread!!

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Read some EE Cummings.

"

anyone lived in a pretty how town is a wonderful poem

some find it confusing, like fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“NO COCK PICS!” - checks their gallery, full of close up tit and foof pics

I’ve got this thread all wrong haven’t I!?

And there was me thinking it was a tongue in cheek hypocrisy thread!! "

Fannybaws

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here is always do goody, pretending they don't lock their meets in the cellar. When we all know that's the only way to get repeat meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear Orange is the new Black...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Shouting “DONT CARE” at the screen helps, so I’m told.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shouting “DONT CARE” at the screen helps, so I’m told. "

I will try that not sure what my work mates will think

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

If you work it all out OP let us know as you are not the only one confused at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DONT SEND COCK PICS, get asked for cock pics, yeah this happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"DONT SEND COCK PICS, get asked for cock pics, yeah this happens. "

That's because you have an aesthetically pleasing one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please enlighten me I’m confused how is letting your partner out with another woman/man fine but sharing pics with consent suddenly frowned upon

and why are married men scum even though we can prove our partners know we are here yet married woman who are cheating ok?

Seriously I’m very confused at this point but I guess this will get a bashing too "

The problem is people don’t log onto Fab when horny and ready to meet....

People are more concerned about everything else but the great sex they signed up for....

The way I look at we should have sub sites for different swingers...

People just here to chat and not meeting have their own site...

People that won’t meet married people have their own site...

People that only go to clubs have their own site..

People that want to meet for quick sex have their own site...

Bi People have their own site

Bareback people their own

Now if you can’t receive messages from people without similar interest... it would save everyone angst...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Pick the bits of Fab that work for you OP and ignore the rest.

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at times its hard to know what to do or say being a single guy.

ok.... i'll stop now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick the bits of Fab that work for you OP and ignore the rest.

Works for me."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please enlighten me I’m confused how is letting your partner out with another woman/man fine but sharing pics with consent suddenly frowned upon

and why are married men scum even though we can prove our partners know we are here yet married woman who are cheating ok?

Seriously I’m very confused at this point but I guess this will get a bashing too "

If you are sharing them from your single males account I can see how that would be frowned upon.

And as for the hypocrisy- it's just that the sexism of society has been reversed on here due to the laws of supply and demand.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Please enlighten me I’m confused how is letting your partner out with another woman/man fine but sharing pics with consent suddenly frowned upon

and why are married men scum even though we can prove our partners know we are here yet married woman who are cheating ok?

Seriously I’m very confused at this point but I guess this will get a bashing too

If you are sharing them from your single males account I can see how that would be frowned upon.

And as for the hypocrisy- it's just that the sexism of society has been reversed on here due to the laws of supply and demand.

Hope this helps."

Definitely not sharing from my single profile I wouldn’t even dream of that and I only share to people we have both been chatting to usually in a group chat on Kik

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