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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears. "

Some of them do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m one of them ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears. "

I'd say they're reading it now and thinking about which angle to go for next

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears.

Some of them do "

I’m shocked and surprised- the amount of threads asking them not to

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears.

Some of them do

I’m shocked and surprised- the amount of threads asking them not to

"

Men can do what they want when messaging

And rightly so. I still don’t appreciate the dick pics though haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

I’m pretty sure the kind of guys that do that don’t frequent the forums so this might fall on deaf ears.

Some of them do

I’m shocked and surprised- the amount of threads asking them not to

"

I know I’m not the first to say it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!"

Or send more than just their chin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I also request they don't attempt to start a conversation with dirty chat or telling me all about how horny my pics made them?

I can be as filthy as the next person but I do need to get to know them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

Wouldn't it be more effective to send that who the guy who did the offence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I also request they don't attempt to start a conversation with dirty chat or telling me all about how horny my pics made them?

I can be as filthy as the next person but I do need to get to know them first. "
Hi hello how are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duly noted OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I also request they don't attempt to start a conversation with dirty chat or telling me all about how horny my pics made them?

I can be as filthy as the next person but I do need to get to know them first. Hi hello how are you? "
good start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m one of them ??"

I stated I didn’t like them...come on man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples when you message can you say which one it is, doing the messaging. Thanks in advance X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!"

What if it’s Stevie Wonder ?

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By *avessMan
over a year ago

London


"....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!"

Oops im guilty of sunglasses, didn't realise this was a problem!?

I have gorgeous blue eyes btw... haha x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Couples when you message can you say which one it is, doing the messaging. Thanks in advance X "

We do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples when you message can you say which one it is, doing the messaging. Thanks in advance X

We do."

That was for all the other couples who don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just can’t see why any bloke can’t just seen a face shot if the lady or couple want anything else then see what happens

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way "

Yep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!"

Or not blur their eyes out!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way "

Or C they don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys and prefer to find them themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle.

Wouldn't it be more effective to send that who the guy who did the offence?"
No I think it's good to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I don’t always sent a face pic with first message, especially if I’m sending to someone who is not prepared to send face pic back. We all have our privacy, but people can’t expect to receive without doing the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way

Or C they don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys and prefer to find them themselves"

That’s me, I think the filter needs to go back on. Way too many that just send crude messages etc.

It’s a shame because there have been some really nice guys that have sent nice messages. So once I’ve got through as many as I can I’ll do some replies!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way

Or C they don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys and prefer to find them themselves"

Or D they prefer to play with other couples

Or E, F, G, H etc whatever reasons they damn well please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see that couples aren't looking for single guys...or at least that's the generally response or setting set to receive messages.. Must mean that either A.. Coupleshave only a lesbian/ bi lady... Or B, husbands selfish and wants his own way

Or C they don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys and prefer to find them themselves

Or D they prefer to play with other couples

Or E, F, G, H etc whatever reasons they damn well please "

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Another have a go at the single guy . I'm pretty certain single ladies and couple's don't attach face pictures.. certainly the odd pictures I'm sent are often boob's legs and bums..

If it causes you irritation possibly even vexes you op.. here's a thought ..use the tools the site provides to stop messages from those who don't do as you ask.. and initiate the contact yourself.. I always back up that reasoning with you know better than any description you provide the type of folk you're wishing to meet.

Don't forget though ..please send clear face pictures and more than a hi message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair I don’t always sent a face pic with first message, especially if I’m sending to someone who is not prepared to send face pic back. We all have our privacy, but people can’t expect to receive without doing the same. "

Not really asking for a face pic, just not 5 pics of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair I don’t always sent a face pic with first message, especially if I’m sending to someone who is not prepared to send face pic back. We all have our privacy, but people can’t expect to receive without doing the same.

Not really asking for a face pic, just not 5 pics of your cock."

Well that is a fair point lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another have a go at the single guy . I'm pretty certain single ladies and couple's don't attach face pictures.. certainly the odd pictures I'm sent are often boob's legs and bums..

If it causes you irritation possibly even vexes you op.. here's a thought ..use the tools the site provides to stop messages from those who don't do as you ask.. and initiate the contact yourself.. I always back up that reasoning with you know better than any description you provide the type of folk you're wishing to meet.

Don't forget though ..please send clear face pictures and more than a hi message."

I only ever send face pics never attach anything other than face pics. Purely because that’s what I’d like to see when someone messages me. If they want to look at other types of pictures, I have them on my profile.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Looks like I'm going to have to change my copy and paste message template

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

But spread buttock pics are still ok to send though, yes?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Can I also request they don't attempt to start a conversation with dirty chat or telling me all about how horny my pics made them?

I can be as filthy as the next person but I do need to get to know them first. "

I had one of those this morning. I think they were starting to scrape the barrel when they decided to message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always send face pics with first message only send cock if they ask for them and still I don't really get much attention back few messages here and there but it soon dies off any tips ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it crazy that i read the profile before messaging lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I also request they don't attempt to start a conversation with dirty chat or telling me all about how horny my pics made them?

I can be as filthy as the next person but I do need to get to know them first.

I had one of those this morning. I think they were starting to scrape the barrel when they decided to message me!"

I don’t know why you’d say that, hubby would be happy to meet a lady like you.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"To be fair I don’t always sent a face pic with first message, especially if I’m sending to someone who is not prepared to send face pic back. We all have our privacy, but people can’t expect to receive without doing the same. "

I do get a lot of face pics sent to me, I say I don't care about them in my profile.

They then get huffy if I don't send one back!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

Oh god! I so agree! So many openers are cock pics .... *delete!*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I'm going to have to change my copy and paste message template "

You only have the one?

Every fella on here should have a plethora of templates for different occasions!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

We dont all do that sometimes its better to ease your way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send a cock pic unless it’s requested..... unless this where I’ve been going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if my penis is better looking than my face

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Looks like I'm going to have to change my copy and paste message template

You only have the one?

Every fella on here should have a plethora of templates for different occasions! "

You mean you don't just have "R U Free"??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What if my penis is better looking than my face"
Well that's not entirely impossible depends on the beholder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like I'm going to have to change my copy and paste message template

You only have the one?

Every fella on here should have a plethora of templates for different occasions!

You mean you don't just have "R U Free"?? "

Of course! That's in my middle button repeated text menu though

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"What if my penis is better looking than my face"

You might have to rely on your stunning personality!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"What if my penis is better looking than my face"
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Oooft tough call

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away


"....and if they send a face pic could they please take off the sunglasses?!!!"

I'll send you a pic of my cock wearing sunglasses

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

You wouldn’t like what I am like now. Jeans, goatee beard, old style retro green jacket and 90s madchester hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send the cock and there won't be no looks of pity when you undress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

I like shit pics because it means I don't waste any time chatting to them. I don't ask for better pics. Why bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont send cock pics it generates too much laughter

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Not a rant but really???

When you attach a pic make sure I can see what you look like, I like cock don’t get me wrong, but you could send those pics after.

Cheers Pickle."

Don't really understand the difficulty tbh. If I fancy anyone, be it a single fem or couple and take the initiative to message first i'll normally attach a face pic with the first message. I feel it's better to establish if there's any attraction right from the outset.

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