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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often find it difficult to break the ice with someone. Other than 'hi how are you' or 'how was your day' just doesn't seem enough xx

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

The kisses at the end should help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some effort and imagination into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's on here it's simple. Read a bit of their profile and converse about that.

Or talk about their status, or something they may have posted in forums.

If their profile Just says "fill in later", no status and they never post... Well probably worth about as much effort as they put into their profile...

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Put some effort and imagination into it "

I would agree with this.

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All the ones you use OP half the site uses and it doesn't inspire women to reply if you want honest advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put some effort and imagination into it

I would agree with this.

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All the ones you use OP half the site uses and it doesn't inspire women to reply if you want honest advice. "

Really? Oh.

Btw, hi. How are you doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I look for in a message is indications that the sender has read my profile. There's plenty of information especially in my verifications that can be used as great icebreakers. If I get the sense that effort has been made, I reply. Even if I'm not interested, I'll still reply and let the sender know that I appreciate the time they took.

Unfortunately almost every message I get is a generic "Hi, how are you" they go straight in the bin. It's obvious when someone has made a bit of effort.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys. I'll take it all into consideration xx

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