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"Is it because you can write "cunt" here?" I would never be so crude | |||
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"Is it because you can write "cunt" here?" Can you really cunt cunt cunt oh so you can but you can’t write ch*ke even though a lot of women love it | |||
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"Is it because you can write "cunt" here? Can you really cunt cunt cunt oh so you can but you can’t write ch*ke even though a lot of women love it " A lot of women love cunt too | |||
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"Is it because you can write "cunt" here? Can you really cunt cunt cunt oh so you can but you can’t write ch*ke even though a lot of women love it A lot of women love cunt too" That they do my wife being 1 of them | |||
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"So, not your standard single male 'nobody wants me' whinge I am more than capable of holding my own and getting out there and having great meets Thing is, if truth be known, I have absolutely zero intention of meeting anyone other than maybe socially The idea of meeting people for sex is nice but, when it comes to it, the reality is I just can't be arsed It is, quite simply, too much hassle for the thrill of an afternoon or an evening with someone I never message anyone, though I might fab the odd pic When a message comes through, I simply read & delete In fact, I don't communicate with anyone save for a few posts on these here forums Am I experiencing what others mean when they save 'I've lost my mojo' ? I also wonder, if they were honest, how many other members (male, female and couples) are in the same boat How many of the 30,000+ people who are on here daily are actually here looking to hook up rather than just passing a mundane couple of hours ?" company? X | |||
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"So, not your standard single male 'nobody wants me' whinge I am more than capable of holding my own and getting out there and having great meets Thing is, if truth be known, I have absolutely zero intention of meeting anyone other than maybe socially The idea of meeting people for sex is nice but, when it comes to it, the reality is I just can't be arsed It is, quite simply, too much hassle for the thrill of an afternoon or an evening with someone I never message anyone, though I might fab the odd pic When a message comes through, I simply read & delete In fact, I don't communicate with anyone save for a few posts on these here forums Am I experiencing what others mean when they save 'I've lost my mojo' ? I also wonder, if they were honest, how many other members (male, female and couples) are in the same boat How many of the 30,000+ people who are on here daily are actually here looking to hook up rather than just passing a mundane couple of hours ?" 30,000 really I'm sceptical about that and I to rarely send introductory messages but how can one tire of sex it's pretty difficult I think unless you've been getting too much of it and hit the overload button, the same of which applies to anything you get too much of | |||
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"So, not your standard single male 'nobody wants me' whinge I am more than capable of holding my own and getting out there and having great meets Thing is, if truth be known, I have absolutely zero intention of meeting anyone other than maybe socially The idea of meeting people for sex is nice but, when it comes to it, the reality is I just can't be arsed It is, quite simply, too much hassle for the thrill of an afternoon or an evening with someone I never message anyone, though I might fab the odd pic When a message comes through, I simply read & delete In fact, I don't communicate with anyone save for a few posts on these here forums Am I experiencing what others mean when they save 'I've lost my mojo' ? I also wonder, if they were honest, how many other members (male, female and couples) are in the same boat How many of the 30,000+ people who are on here daily are actually here looking to hook up rather than just passing a mundane couple of hours ?" Have you made this clear in your profile for the benefit of others who are looking to meet? | |||
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"There is a sweet spot between being an eager beaver who imagines honey is going to drip off the trees here and into his pants and the resulting utter disenchantment of a bitter eeyore who has completely given up on the site. It's when you just come here as a person, happy to connect with other people with absolutely no agenda, and just assume nothing will ever come of it but count your blessings when they do. Perhaps this describes you " I can associate with the second paragraph, but not so much the first I am firm believer in making your own 'luck', so not getting meets would be down to me and how I approached the site & it's members rather than any failure on their parts | |||
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"Tbh i dont message anyone now apart from the select one, i reply to all that are sent to me, i cant stand ignorance." Does that mean you weren't selective when you first joined? | |||
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" Have you made this clear in your profile for the benefit of others who are looking to meet?" I have now Thank you for the nudge | |||
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"Because it beats watching Jeremy Kyle. " To be fair, smashing a brick into your own face beats watching Jeremy Kyle | |||
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"So, not your standard single male 'nobody wants me' whinge I am more than capable of holding my own and getting out there and having great meets Thing is, if truth be known, I have absolutely zero intention of meeting anyone other than maybe socially The idea of meeting people for sex is nice but, when it comes to it, the reality is I just can't be arsed It is, quite simply, too much hassle for the thrill of an afternoon or an evening with someone I never message anyone, though I might fab the odd pic When a message comes through, I simply read & delete In fact, I don't communicate with anyone save for a few posts on these here forums Am I experiencing what others mean when they save 'I've lost my mojo' ? I also wonder, if they were honest, how many other members (male, female and couples) are in the same boat How many of the 30,000+ people who are on here daily are actually here looking to hook up rather than just passing a mundane couple of hours ?" Exactly the same | |||
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"When we decided back in May that we fancied a break from meeting , we thought it would be like every other break we’ve had and may last a few weeks or a month or so . So here we are over four months later , and we are no nearer to wanting to meet anyone . The temptation isn’t there , and we can’t help but feel that our journey may be reaching its end . For some months before we actually stopped meeting we felt somewhat bored and disillusioned with the whole casual sex thing . And we always championed it before now ! " maybe as I said earlier you reached the meet overload point, too much of a good thing and all that | |||
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"Because it beats watching Jeremy Kyle. To be fair, smashing a brick into your own face beats watching Jeremy Kyle" Mr B!!!!! | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious?" That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. " I know I couldn’t , and as grateful as we are to all the single guys and women we’ve met and had fun with , I would see it as pointless if I was meeting couples for nsa sex . | |||
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"Because it beats watching Jeremy Kyle. To be fair, smashing a brick into your own face beats watching Jeremy Kyle Mr B!!!!! " Second only to smashing a brick into Jeremy Kyle's face | |||
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"Because it beats watching Jeremy Kyle. To be fair, smashing a brick into your own face beats watching Jeremy Kyle Mr B!!!!! Second only to smashing a brick into Jeremy Kyle's face " Fair point | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. I know I couldn’t , and as grateful as we are to all the single guys and women we’ve met and had fun with , I would see it as pointless if I was meeting couples for nsa sex ." Finally! Some recognition on the forum that swinging as a single is different to swinging as a couple. Thank you! | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. I know I couldn’t , and as grateful as we are to all the single guys and women we’ve met and had fun with , I would see it as pointless if I was meeting couples for nsa sex . Finally! Some recognition on the forum that swinging as a single is different to swinging as a couple. Thank you!" Well of course it is! There's bound to be some emotional issues. Unless someone is vehemently single! | |||
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"I've gone off meeting new people. I have a massive issue with safety at the moment. As a single it's always risky meeting a man on your own be it in a hotel or at his. Yes, you take the necessary precautions but at the end of the day there are some very strange people about. I don't know if I can get over that." Not even a social? | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious?" The forum is the place that swingers come to die. | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. I know I couldn’t , and as grateful as we are to all the single guys and women we’ve met and had fun with , I would see it as pointless if I was meeting couples for nsa sex . Finally! Some recognition on the forum that swinging as a single is different to swinging as a couple. Thank you! Well of course it is! There's bound to be some emotional issues. Unless someone is vehemently single! " Me. I can disconnect my emotions and still have strong mental bond with men I have sex with. I think I might be a man. | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. I know I couldn’t , and as grateful as we are to all the single guys and women we’ve met and had fun with , I would see it as pointless if I was meeting couples for nsa sex . Finally! Some recognition on the forum that swinging as a single is different to swinging as a couple. Thank you! Well of course it is! There's bound to be some emotional issues. Unless someone is vehemently single! Me. I can disconnect my emotions and still have strong mental bond with men I have sex with. I think I might be a man. " I like the way you think... | |||
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"I've gone off meeting new people. I have a massive issue with safety at the moment. As a single it's always risky meeting a man on your own be it in a hotel or at his. Yes, you take the necessary precautions but at the end of the day there are some very strange people about. I don't know if I can get over that. Not even a social? " Sorry, I meant for sex | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? The forum is the place that swingers come to die." They should have that as the tagline. | |||
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"It's better than facebook " So is stepping barefoot in dogshit tho | |||
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"There does seem to be a general air of ennui in the forums with lots of regular contributors saying they are not meeting. I come across a lot of hidden profiles. Perhaps being jaded is contagious? That's true, most forum regulars seem to distance themselves from the traditional swinging scene. I'm not sure i could do it as a single. " It's totally different as a single. I much preferred it with a partner to share the fun with. | |||
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"Tbh i dont message anyone now apart from the select one, i reply to all that are sent to me, i cant stand ignorance. Does that mean you weren't selective when you first joined?" No i just messaged pretty much anyone i was a eager beever like most other blokes on here. Im very selective now. | |||
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"I would love to meet, I've had some stress in my life over the last 15 months that hasn't made it a priority but I have still been looking, I just haven't found anyone I am sexually attracted to, not sure how to change that fact though " Buy a mask so you cant see there faces when on the job | |||
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"I've gone off meeting new people. I have a massive issue with safety at the moment. As a single it's always risky meeting a man on your own be it in a hotel or at his. Yes, you take the necessary precautions but at the end of the day there are some very strange people about. I don't know if I can get over that." Im with you on safety aspects. Safety in numbers. Im trying to meet ladies to meet people together. | |||
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"I've gone from uploading pics every other day and joining every 'fab a pic' thread to now, just posting sparingly. I do log in daily however" nice eyes x | |||
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"I've gone off meeting new people. I have a massive issue with safety at the moment. As a single it's always risky meeting a man on your own be it in a hotel or at his. Yes, you take the necessary precautions but at the end of the day there are some very strange people about. I don't know if I can get over that. Im with you on safety aspects. Safety in numbers. Im trying to meet ladies to meet people together. " I like your thinking! | |||
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"Rebrand yerself a Bus Wanker again " That didn't go well What other people get up to on the 192 I'd sooner not know about | |||
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"I find it's peaks and troughs OP - sometimes for me it's all about chatting to people with a view to meeting, and other times I get that sense of ennui that Tigerlily referred to and just hang about the forums spouting gibberish - yet lately I've found myself posting less and less. Then something will happen that will spark me re-energised into thinking about meeting more seriously. I think generally I just tootle along with no expectations of anything really and every now and again those expectations will be surpassed and all's well with the world for a while." I’m with that exactly however I usually find that if I just meander on nothing happens which usually suits me at the time.Sometimes I need a spark to ignite it all and then the ball starts rolling and it’s really fun,the art is then knowing when to step back and savour the memories | |||
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"I find it's peaks and troughs OP - sometimes for me it's all about chatting to people with a view to meeting, and other times I get that sense of ennui that Tigerlily referred to and just hang about the forums spouting gibberish - yet lately I've found myself posting less and less. Then something will happen that will spark me re-energised into thinking about meeting more seriously. I think generally I just tootle along with no expectations of anything really and every now and again those expectations will be surpassed and all's well with the world for a while. I’m with that exactly however I usually find that if I just meander on nothing happens which usually suits me at the time.Sometimes I need a spark to ignite it all and then the ball starts rolling and it’s really fun,the art is then knowing when to step back and savour the memories " Before you get jaded. Sounds like wise words. | |||
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