FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong with just watching?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen.

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen.

Deliberate typo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Wank around or walk around? Albeit both happen.

Deliberate typo.

It was a good one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!"

Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Because you should not have an opinion or be available to make your choices.

Now start blabbering and get your arse in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to watch too

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!

Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed.

I know this is roles reverse would you like peoole watching you get fuckes

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I like watching.. takes the pressure off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to watch and to be watched... Very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Nothing wrong with it. It can be a real turn-on to be watched, just as much as watching...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ??

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I like to watch too.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I like being watched. The only problem is I always wish they would join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Doesn’t really do it for me watching someone else. Rather be doing it myself. In private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being watched but love watching my fwb with someone else

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Love watching too, really turns me on, would rather have someone to myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs

Nice legs you would have too, love to stroke them

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

I have been watched and don’t mind watching....it’s very arousing!!

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

We like watching and being watched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen so many people fuck, I have become de-sensitized to it

I don't find it horny, but I'm not appauled by it either

I would only get horny if I was involved and, even then, I don't find threesomes or group fun half as horny as 1 on 1

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?

Like a director

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs

Nice legs you would have too, love to stroke them

How would you know ??

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I’ve never really thought about it , but I could be a watcher .... I’d not have to shave my legs

Nice legs you would have too, love to stroke them

How would you know ??

I can just imagine you have can see it in your eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well...could be arranged.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

I love it when a lady is watching play, be it when im playing or others, and love to see them start to touch themselves as they get horny watching

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?

Like a director

No I just watch silently without moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ??"

It leads to an awkward silence if the lady decides to sit out a MMF...

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Live porn would you request certain positions and outfits ?

Like a director

No I just watch silently without moving.

I can imagine moving something

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There was a Mfff in the dungeon at Pandora’s that created a large audience.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"There was a Mfff in the dungeon at Pandora’s that created a large audience.

What a lucky son of a gun, bet he was smiling like a cheshire cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nout wrong with just watching!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We really enjoy being watched when we are in clubs, is a big part of the turn on of being there and partly why we go.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We love watching..... And being watched, its why we at on here. Xxxxxx

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By *eavensScentCouple
over a year ago

Southend

"We love watching..... And being watched, its why we at on here. Xxxxxx"

Same here, it is a thrill watching and an even bigger thrill knowing you are being watched.... We only recently found that out on our first visit to a sex club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of watching/hearing a couple is a turn on for us, as is getting down and dirty in the same room as another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

It's the score boards... they put me off, either that or you yawn too loudly

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Nothing wrong with it at all, I say. I’ve been with people who really get additional pleasure from being watched. All part of the fun!

Good point. Exhibitionists would be peeved if no-one was watching. I'm needed.

If I had someone to shag then you could watch me Doris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t got a issue with it at all been watched by single women and couples in clubs and it’s a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love people watching us in a club environment. Such a turn on.

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By *adyinbedWoman
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Had this happen years ago with a buddy. Was having a mff when the third person said she wanted to sit and watch us two fuck while she played with herself. It was a very erotic experience ??

It leads to an awkward silence if the lady decides to sit out a MMF..."

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a watcher, bloody love it

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Part of my enjoyment of hosting parties and meets is watching my guests if any playing occurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is a watcher, she loves sitting opposite the orgy bed in the club until she gets so turned on she slides off the seat.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

We never frown on women (or anyone) watching as long as they are respectful. We love being watched and you'd be always welcome. To be honest we don't know anyone that frowns on women watching in a space for watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy to let ye ladies watch

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Nothing wrong with it at all. I'm meeting a couple where she wants to watch. It's just a kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs is a watcher, she loves sitting opposite the orgy bed in the club until she gets so turned on she slides off the seat."
puts down wet floor sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, if people like being watched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was with my ex one of my big fantasies was of spotting a hitherto unseen sexy woman sitting in a gloomy corner watching us. She'd put a finger up to her lips and shhh. Then as she watched intently and I fucked my ex staring intently at her, she'd part her legs and start to play with herself.

Anyone who doesn't think that's hot can leave right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can watch, but you are on kettle or bar duties after

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

If you want to watch then I don't see any problem with it the frowners are just frustrated people who should concentrate on their own lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"

That was a horizontal dancing disarrrster darling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"

Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?"

Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Nothing wrong with it as far as I'm concerned. I like to watch a lady masturbate and would also like to be watched.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

On the big bed at Libs it was common to see ladies watching the show. Several times I looked up from the ex to see them watching the show. Probably more to do with how my ex looked than my cum face.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

We love this as well. You'd be very welcome to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

Nothing wrong with that OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?

Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?"

I love the idea of a tea lady with a little tea trolley going round the club keeping everyone refreshed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

Or starting a mexican wave and leading mocking chants at the other teams supporters?

Oh god, imagine if she starts chanting “you don’t know what you’re doing “!

I'll lead the wanking men - their cocks will rise in a Mexican wave.

I'll sit in the corner in my anorak with my flask of coffee and a packet of pickled onion Monster Munch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

I love the idea of a tea lady with a little tea trolley going round the club keeping everyone refreshed."

Like Mrs Overall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will you be holding up scoring paddles like the judges on Strictly, OP?

Or providing refreshments when we stop for a breather?

That was a horizontal dancing disarrrster darling!"

Arrange a mmmmmmmf then someone can hold up a "Se-veeeeeeeeen"

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I have seen so many people fuck, I have become de-sensitized to it

I don't find it horny, but I'm not appauled by it either

I would only get horny if I was involved and, even then, I don't find threesomes or group fun half as horny as 1 on 1"

This

Seeing people fuck at clubs or parties just has no appeal for me, I find I'm completely disconnected and oblivious to it (might as well be watching rutting wildebeest on National Geographic). A private threesome can be fun if it's with 2 people I've completely got the hots for (a very rare occurrence), but in reality I really just prefer an intense 1-1 these days... Maybe it's just me getting older, maybe it's just that I've got someone who satisfies me in every way, or maybe I've just become jaded to the whole swinging thing... But that's just me. If you like to watch OP, you go for it!!

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

I’d like to be watched

Watch me

I’ll put on a real good show

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

It wouldn't bother me if you watched. I'd just be pleased you were getting your rocks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's frowning upon it?

Weirdos

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I just want to watch people fuck. I don't want to join in.

People go to footie matches and that's ok when the fans don't join in.

Men wank around clubs just watching.

So why is it often frowned on when a woman just wants to watch?

You are more than welcome to watch us any time

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"There was a Mfff in the dungeon at Pandora’s that created a large audience.

What a lucky son of a gun, bet he was smiling like a cheshire cat

Couldn’t possibly comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's frowning upon it?

Weirdos

Maybe something to do with OP's steel heals making a log of noise as she is climbing the ladder to peer through the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's frowning upon it?

Weirdos

Maybe something to do with OP's steel heals making a log of noise as she is climbing the ladder to peer through the window

Makes a change from wind chimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Binoculars?

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By *ick71Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I like to watch and be watched, such a turn on for me being watched either when i am fucking or just wanking

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I quite like watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like watching

Perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to watch too. Why don't we create a fab group of ladies just for this? Then we can tell each other when stuff comes up and go along together? We could provide side commentary lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to watch, particularly when I visit clubs. As soon as I arrive and grab a drink I tend to go check out what’s happening, and at various points in the night will stop my play to watch others.

What I do find frustrating is the amount of times my watching is mistaken for ‘loitering with intent’ and the male watchers assume I’m there to play with them. In one club in particular the best viewing areas become rather predatory later in the night and I’m unable to indulge myself voyeuristically. There definitely seems to be a few people who struggle with a woman liking to just watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to watch, particularly when I visit clubs. As soon as I arrive and grab a drink I tend to go check out what’s happening, and at various points in the night will stop my play to watch others.

Maybe we just need a "voyeurs only" sign that we can stand under so men don't take our watching as intent to do anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we just need a "voyeurs only" sign that we can stand under so men don't take our watching as intent to do anymore?"

Haha that might help! Usually once I’ve told one or two off for touching me they get the message.

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