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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

what does it take... from scented candles... to softe lighting, music(what type) to certain edible aphrodisiacs .. How wouldyou create a sensuous atmosphere, what would you use.. and perhaps what would you avoid...(I relaise this will get hijacked lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usual here...

Music, soft lights (essential) a few nibbles... drinks, sexy mood.. lingerie

But the company is what makes a night a sexy night.. Banter, the way the talk turns flirtatious, the slight touch as you pass the drinks.. the gaze, the giggles

The whole thing is the mood in a way really.... Ahhhhhh The memories

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Usual here...

Music, soft lights (essential) a few nibbles... drinks, sexy mood.. lingerie

But the company is what makes a night a sexy night.. Banter, the way the talk turns flirtatious, the slight touch as you pass the drinks.. the gaze, the giggles

The whole thing is the mood in a way really.... Ahhhhhh The memories "

well i am horny now just reading that- are you at home???? - CAB!!!!!

LOL

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Usual here...

Music, soft lights (essential) a few nibbles... drinks, sexy mood.. lingerie

But the company is what makes a night a sexy night.. Banter, the way the talk turns flirtatious, the slight touch as you pass the drinks.. the gaze, the giggles

The whole thing is the mood in a way really.... Ahhhhhh The memories

well i am horny now just reading that- are you at home???? - CAB!!!!!

LOL"

Lighting the candles... putting the nibbles out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway... "

Whats dead.. the fingers after too many nibbles or the nailbiting excitement of seeing us dressed to please....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abit of porn on the telly

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway...

Whats dead.. the fingers after too many nibbles or the nailbiting excitement of seeing us dressed to please....? "

ah tell him to stop waffling and get his kit off, lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Abit of porn on the telly "

mmmmmmmmmmmm what sort of porn hey???

hey????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abit of porn on the telly

mmmmmmmmmmmm what sort of porn hey???

hey????"

Just something to get the taste buds going...volume very low tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abit of porn on the telly

mmmmmmmmmmmm what sort of porn hey???

hey????

Just something to get the taste buds going...volume very low tho "

I usually just slowly undress... unbuttoning the jeans, then the fly... undo the cufflinks on the crisply ironed shirt...letting it fall open.. to reveal my torsoe... giving a fleeting glimpse of what lays beneath...

Feck me.. these womens mags are ace man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abit of porn on the telly

mmmmmmmmmmmm what sort of porn hey???

hey????

Just something to get the taste buds going...volume very low tho

I usually just slowly undress... unbuttoning the jeans, then the fly... undo the cufflinks on the crisply ironed shirt...letting it fall open.. to reveal my torsoe... giving a fleeting glimpse of what lays beneath...

Feck me.. these womens mags are ace man... "

Oooooo er

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

All this scented cards and stuff I am trying to figure how this seduction stuff fits in with swinging.

Bit of music and beer but all them candles might melt your prophylactic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this scented cards and stuff I am trying to figure how this seduction stuff fits in with swinging.

Bit of music and beer but all them candles might melt your prophylactic!

"

Its pure preference freddie... I prefer a more feminine woman.. women and beer tend to suit the more rugged man, like yourself maybe.... and if they are wearing a condom too.. thats your choice mate lol...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"All this scented cards and stuff I am trying to figure how this seduction stuff fits in with swinging.

Bit of music and beer but all them candles might melt your prophylactic!

Its pure preference freddie... I prefer a more feminine woman.. women and beer tend to suit the more rugged man, like yourself maybe.... and if they are wearing a condom too.. thats your choice mate lol... "

Thanks Notts... I was concnerned about saying this publicly but I like a bit of sophistication myself.... lol so am in agreement with you there...

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"All this scented cards and stuff I am trying to figure how this seduction stuff fits in with swinging.

Bit of music and beer but all them candles might melt your prophylactic!

Its pure preference freddie... I prefer a more feminine woman.. women and beer tend to suit the more rugged man, like yourself maybe.... and if they are wearing a condom too.. thats your choice mate lol... "

Probably very different for a married/attached bloke to a single one. It just made me smile a little that’s all for a swinger’s site. On the sophistication side well I like to play the oik on here mate far more fun that way. You might be shocked to see me in non Freddie mode though.

Playing bareback with strangers………..well it’s a choice thing mate for you to make

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just invite me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Playing bareback with strangers………..well it’s a choice thing mate for you to make

"

lol... Now you keep refering to this... anything you wanna get off ya chest lol????

You seem to think this is something we offer mate????

Never with strangers... pmsl!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


".. and perhaps what would you avoid...(I relaise this will get hijacked lol)"

and then it started..........lol

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"

Playing bareback with strangers………..well it’s a choice thing mate for you to make

lol... Now you keep refering to this... anything you wanna get off ya chest lol????

You seem to think this is something we offer mate????

Never with strangers... pmsl!!! "

Lol you mentioned it and to be honest with adults i wouldn't preach but i would agree with you on that one.

Get back to opening your birthday pressies. Did you get a scalextric? Can we all have a go if you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lol you mentioned it and to be honest with adults i wouldn't preach but i would agree with you on that one.

Get back to opening your birthday pressies. Did you get a scalextric? Can we all have a go if you did "

That was yesterday.. and was about riding horses pmsl...

Oooerrr....

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"

Lol you mentioned it and to be honest with adults i wouldn't preach but i would agree with you on that one.

Get back to opening your birthday pressies. Did you get a scalextric? Can we all have a go if you did

That was yesterday.. and was about riding horses pmsl...

Oooerrr....

"

Im just not gonna ask!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy birthday to you

happy birthday to you

lets all get together and give mr notts a group shag for his birthday.

and oi freddy, no picking on the birthday boy, thats my job ya oink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"happy birthday to you

happy birthday to you

lets all get together and give mr notts a group shag for his birthday.

and oi freddy, no picking on the birthday boy, thats my job ya oink

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway... "

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway...

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!! "

he can be a tight ass sometimes...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway...

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!! "

Magners anyone???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies... ladies, A warm room, lightly scented..with a subdued but not dingy lighting arrangement.. a few well placed finger nibbles and a few suggestive but never sleazy comments..

Along with giving the impression your keen... but never desperate!!

If thats fails... they are usually just about dead anyway...

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone??? "

Well thats a first!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

he can be a tight ass sometimes...lol"

I need new blinds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone???

Well thats a first!!! "

Shhhhh The rumours have started now lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone???

Well thats a first!!!

Shhhhh The rumours have started now lol... "

And they are all probably true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone???

Well thats a first!!!

Shhhhh The rumours have started now lol...

And they are all probably true!!! "

Errr.. The tight arse can be or not... depends who's asking lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone???

Well thats a first!!!

Shhhhh The rumours have started now lol...

And they are all probably true!!!

Errr.. The tight arse can be or not... depends who's asking lol.... "

Can we leave your arse out of this please!!! Seen enough of it over the last few weeks!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"

he can be a tight ass sometimes...lol

I need new blinds... "

pppsssst- its the one on the landing i can see thru.....;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still waiting for those finger nibbles!!!!!!!

Magners anyone???

Well thats a first!!!

Shhhhh The rumours have started now lol...

And they are all probably true!!!

Errr.. The tight arse can be or not... depends who's asking lol....

Can we leave your arse out of this please!!! Seen enough of it over the last few weeks!!!"

Hands up.. baby hands up... gimme gimme lol.......

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