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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy " Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy " Yeah shocking Women should submit when requested | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() Basically a husband suggests that wives do not have the right of refusal when it comes to sex. | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() Wtf Of course they do OP, surely this is a wind up? You can’t seriously agree with him | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() I think its He shouldnt have to ask and if he does he shouldnt be rejected ... like its his right as a husband whether the wife wants to or not ? ![]() | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() ![]() He's on a wind up No man really thinks like this | |||
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"So I think you’re saying that whenever a husband fancies sex with his wife, she should immediately comply? That’s not how a partnership should work is it? Ideally a husband shouldn’t have to plead for sex, but similarly it can’t be ‘on demand’ either! Communication is the key! " or sexual chemistry and high libidos | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage " And consensual sex | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage " And? I have an extremely low sex drive, it’s picked up a bit but when we got married we rarely had sex. My husband was, and still is totally fine with this. Yes, sex is important, but Jesus Christ ![]() | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage " Yeah you have. Marriage is about so much more than sex. I have no time for people who bleat about not getting sex..... no one is stood on your windpipe ffs... Have a wank and enjoy other things about the people you live with and are supposed to love. | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage And consensual sex" Lol | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage " So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage And consensual sex Lol" Well that tells me all I need to know about you | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage And? I have an extremely low sex drive, it’s picked up a bit but when we got married we rarely had sex. My husband was, and still is totally fine with this. Yes, sex is important, but Jesus Christ ![]() I love sex but I wouldn't leave a partner who wasn't up to it ..... specially if it was due to illness or working hard...... good cuddle and a laugh does more for couples than free fanny. | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage And? I have an extremely low sex drive, it’s picked up a bit but when we got married we rarely had sex. My husband was, and still is totally fine with this. Yes, sex is important, but Jesus Christ ![]() Exactly! I love sex, sex is amazing, it’s not my fault I have an extremely low sex drive...most husbands understand that and it isn’t an issue ![]() | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. " I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? | |||
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"So I think you’re saying that whenever a husband fancies sex with his wife, she should immediately comply? That’s not how a partnership should work is it? Ideally a husband shouldn’t have to plead for sex, but similarly it can’t be ‘on demand’ either! Communication is the key! or sexual chemistry and high libidos" Surely that's all figured out before you marry? | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? " Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. | |||
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"So I think you’re saying that whenever a husband fancies sex with his wife, she should immediately comply? That’s not how a partnership should work is it? Ideally a husband shouldn’t have to plead for sex, but similarly it can’t be ‘on demand’ either! Communication is the key! or sexual chemistry and high libidos Surely that's all figured out before you marry?" My point... here | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares." 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat " Five days?! Poor him! My husband goes weeks and weeks without me wanting sex, and he’s never cheated. And I know he never will. Don’t blame women for the fact men cheat, men (and people in general) cheat because they want to cheat. | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat " Men cheat for a variety of reasons though, not just cause there's no sex at home | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat Five days?! Poor him! My husband goes weeks and weeks without me wanting sex, and he’s never cheated. And I know he never will. Don’t blame women for the fact men cheat, men (and people in general) cheat because they want to cheat. " I’m the husband ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat Five days?! Poor him! My husband goes weeks and weeks without me wanting sex, and he’s never cheated. And I know he never will. Don’t blame women for the fact men cheat, men (and people in general) cheat because they want to cheat. " You sound like you have a great relationship together ![]() | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat Five days?! Poor him! My husband goes weeks and weeks without me wanting sex, and he’s never cheated. And I know he never will. Don’t blame women for the fact men cheat, men (and people in general) cheat because they want to cheat. You sound like you have a great relationship together ![]() We do ![]() | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? " I’m not sure if you’re trolling or if you really believe this | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat Five days?! Poor him! My husband goes weeks and weeks without me wanting sex, and he’s never cheated. And I know he never will. Don’t blame women for the fact men cheat, men (and people in general) cheat because they want to cheat. You sound like you have a great relationship together ![]() ![]() It's good to see a couple getting it right | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat " Keep things alive seems to translate in your head as open your legs when I want. NO marriage licence says must be fucked daily or will be derided and cheated on. Add to your thoughts what a shit shag many men are, or how bad at washing, or maybe they keep their wives short of money, call them fit to burn, criticise their clothes , friends or parental skills........ who knows. Maybe the woman is left to do everything and see to kids and collapses into bed exhausted and sweaty but is still expected to perform the 'final duty' of the day .... Fuck off to that. | |||
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"Thanks guys learnt a lot -You either find someone who’s your equal in every way or don’t get married " If you married someone who’s equal in you in every way then life would be so unbelievably boring | |||
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"Lol it was 5 nights in a row - I forgot to mention I felt sorry for him and they’re newly weds! I’ve clearly got the wrong conception of marriage So 5 nights you heard through the walls this conversation. What a load of bollocks. Marriage doesn’t mean ownership that assumption went out with the ark. Sex must be consensual. I heard him say it whilst they where arguing lol I must be old fashioned if a man wants to have sex with his wife whom he loves why wouldn’t she want to have sex with him if the love is equal? Oh my god Because everyone has a choice? It’s called consent. Being in love doesn’t mean you’re horny and want fucked 24/7. I adore and love my husband as much as he adores and loves me but if one of us doesn’t want to have sex, oh well. It doesn’t matter. Who cares. 5 nights in a row - I wouldn’t have a wife for long lol And anyway I’m not saying she can’t say no but surely once you get married your sealing the deal to keep things alive till the day you die - hence why a lot of men cheat Keep things alive seems to translate in your head as open your legs when I want. NO marriage licence says must be fucked daily or will be derided and cheated on. Add to your thoughts what a shit shag many men are, or how bad at washing, or maybe they keep their wives short of money, call them fit to burn, criticise their clothes , friends or parental skills........ who knows. Maybe the woman is left to do everything and see to kids and collapses into bed exhausted and sweaty but is still expected to perform the 'final duty' of the day .... Fuck off to that." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks guys learnt a lot -You either find someone who’s your equal in every way or don’t get married " Correction ........ it can one person is a total shit and the other a total doormat | |||
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"Thanks guys learnt a lot -You either find someone who’s your equal in every way or don’t get married Correction ........ it can one person is a total shit and the other a total doormat " There's a recipe for either cheating or therapy | |||
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" Marriage is about so much more than sex. I have no time for people who bleat about not getting sex..... no one is stood on your windpipe ffs... Have a wank and enjoy other things about the people you live with and are supposed to love. " . I like this ^^^ going to save it and use it if that's ok | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() ![]() My ex husband did, unfortunately there’s men out there that do x ![]() | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() ![]() ![]() I was being facetious And yes, there are men out there that still think like this. That women are part of their goods and chattels | |||
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"I could over hear the neighbours arguing last night and from what I could tell he was saying to the wife - He shouldn’t ask for sex when she’s isn’t on her period and if he does shouldn’t get rejected lol What’s your thoughts on this ? I kinda agree with the guy Can you repeat the scenario more simply? I haven’t slept in over 24 hours and my brain can’t process it ![]() ![]() My ex husband used to! Even though he insulted how I looked almost constantly... Hence the ex bit ![]() | |||
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