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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would someone having scars put you off

I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)

I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone having scars put you off

I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)

I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion

"

Learn to love them

Your issue with them will be bigger than it will be for those you meet

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

Not at all. Equally I do not fetishise scars.

If I’m playing with someone, I will explore, stroke, kiss them everywhere including any scar areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

I love scars

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

I have scars from circumcision so it's hardly like stretchmarks or razor bumps would put us off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest, I have a big scar from surgery too. Have you tried bio oil, it’s meant to be pretty good at reducing the appearance of scars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It wouldn’t bother me in the slightest, I have a big scar from surgery too. Have you tried bio oil, it’s meant to be pretty good at reducing the appearance of scars. "

I will get some to try thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Including scars peoples imperfections are perfection for me. It what made them who they are

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah. These things often seem to matter more to the person who has them than anyone else. Wouldn't bother me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Including scars peoples imperfections are perfection for me. It what made them who they are "

Absolutely, to me it also shows strength as they've survived whatever reason they have the scar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars all over. I dont care and my meets done either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads of scars. Wouldn’t bother me if anyone else did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I have scars, stretch marks on my body,and very pigmented skin on my forearms. I look like I have giraffe skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a C section scar and have some psoriasis on my arms from food allergies - never seems to put anybody off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't bother me. I get it though, I developed a couple of proper lumpy big stretchmarks on my stomach earlier this year (after being stretchmark free my whole life) and although the redness has faded no one's seen me naked since they appeared so I'm pretty self conscious about them still.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I am covered with them from top to bottom. Particularly on the face and legs. I don’t care I have learnt to live with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo. Not at all!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Scars on other people don’t bother me and I have a large one running right down my middle. Since being on fab, I’m no longer embarrassed for people to see it. I’d be dead without it so if anyone doesn’t like it, that’s their problem not mine

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By *ix-foot-two-stuMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Would someone having scars put you off

I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)

I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion

"

No. There are loads of reasons why someone can get hung up over their appearance. I think what trumps all of those is how a person feels about them self. If a person is confident, self confident, interesting, engaging, fun etc. then the attraction is to their sexiness as a person. Sex is mostly in the mind, isn't it?

So if you feel lacking in self confidence then act like those issues are invisible. Fake it until you make it.

Get out there and have some fun.

Might be more easily said then done, but you will inevitably get compliments along the way and they help boost your self esteem.

Least ways that's what I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all it’s part of life I’ve got a good few on me to say the least haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rather big scar across my gut just below my rib cage and it doesn't bother me one bit and i don't care if anyone else is bothered.

You should think the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all makes me feel so much better x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I have lots of scars across my stomach, but without a few of them I wouldn’t be here. Nobody has ever said anything about any of them, not even the big one on my left boob so they mustn’t be very noticeable or put anyone off x

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

scars mean you've lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a turn off at all, i have a long scar from an abdominal incision as well s large round scar near it which are slightly herniated in 3 places to boot and people don’t even notice it or at least pretend they don’t haha

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I've got two big hernia repair scars on either side of my groin, as well as a burn mark on my arm and scars on my legs, I don't really notice them anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio oil is good, rub it in quite hard as it breaks down the scar tissue. So my doc told me and it seemed to work.

Some things put me off meeting people but it's because I have a tendency to say stupid things and I'd probably offend the person.

People don't see the things that we see. That scar or stretch marks that you think is obvious- other people probably just see your amazing tits or cheerful smile. x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I have mental scars which I hide really well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im perfectly imperfect.

As we should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're life scars, they show that you've lived and survived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are the tattoos of life, I had quite a few good scars but recently acquired another which is 10” long right down the middle, it has gone keloid and looks very prominent, using bio oil daily as fairly self conscious of it, but without it, I wouldn’t be here. Each scar tells a story the story of our lives, early days for me but I am not hiding it from anyone,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody seems to mind mine.. curious but doesn't put anyone off.. I don't think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are part of our bodies life map, they are symbols of who we are and what we ve been thru

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone having scars put you off

I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)

I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion

"

I have scars not from any surgery but they are part of who I am I'm not ashamed of them. Mind there not visible

Mrs c

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! I’ve got a good few and long as it’s nothing like sloth from the goonies it’s all fine

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Would someone having scars put you off

I used to have very pale skin which I was told was soft, (they could have been lying)

I've had gall bladder surgery and now have scars which I hate with a passion

"

Oooh! No! I love scars - I think they’re very sexy!

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