FabSwingers.com forum: Dating sites

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi be been using several dating sites for about a year now, had quite a few dates that have ended up just being sex, why is it that on a site (fs) that is based around people meeting and have sex I find myself struggling on here? Does anyone else feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve found it the other way round.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Lots.

Although I don't use the dating sites as I reckon the majority of blokes will bullshit ya with the disguise of wanting to date to get in yer undies.

On here I at least I know that's the reason they're getting in touch and I "only" need to figure out what other bullshit they're trying to feed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites"

In a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

In a nutshell

Why do we do it then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites"

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on dating sites in the past but didnt find a potential boyfriend. Many men just wanted sex (hiding it by inviting me for coffee or dinner etc). So I left those sites and am only on fab to enjoy sex. At least here I don't need to read the usual dating site bollocks to get me into bed

I still meet socially first but I choose my sexual partners off fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs. "

I don’t consider myself a sleazball at all, I just enjoy a woman’s company, there’s nothing wrong in that is there?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs.

I don’t consider myself a sleazball at all, I just enjoy a woman’s company, there’s nothing wrong in that is there?"

Not at all, there are many on here that are lovely, but you seriously only need to spend a few minutes reading the crap in a females inbox to see the majority ARE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs.

I don’t consider myself a sleazball at all, I just enjoy a woman’s company, there’s nothing wrong in that is there?

Not at all, there are many on here that are lovely, but you seriously only need to spend a few minutes reading the crap in a females inbox to see the majority ARE."

Oh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs. "

I was talking about how guys are perceived. I think guys aren't given the benefit of the doubt on here as often as on the dating sites. It's to your credit that you haven't written us all off. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t sleazeballs.

I’ve only ever been polite and not rude to people on here, am I doing something wrong?

I don’t consider myself a sleazball at all, I just enjoy a woman’s company, there’s nothing wrong in that is there?

Not at all, there are many on here that are lovely, but you seriously only need to spend a few minutes reading the crap in a females inbox to see the majority ARE.

Oh yes! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

In a nutshell

Why do we do it then?"

Because we're sleaze balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

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Why do we do it then?

Not all of us mate

Because we're sleaze balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know why I am on here and that’s to find women who enjoy adventurous sex as much as I do as IMO it is harder to get a sense of what someone is looking for on the more mainstream sites. I guess I’m just a sophisticated sleaze ball

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

In a nutshell

Why do we do it then?

Because we're sleaze balls

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Numbers and context. There are far more women on the dating sites than on here. And on there you're just a man, possibly a gentleman. On here you're some sleaze ball who joins sex sites

Bit harsh

. There is actually a small (admittedly very small) amount of men on here who aren’t

sleazeballs. "

Thanks for that!! Yes I'm 1 of the minority yet still gets me know where.. guess I'm just a minger swinger

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

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I get far more luck on dating sites. Women’s inboxes on here get bombarded so even if you are a genuine guy, chances are your message will be lost

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