FabSwingers.com forum: Women that say they don't like a profile with cock pics on it....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I like a nice cock pic, don't want to see 27 pix of the same one from every angle and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't got enough #disclaimers to get away with this still fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind one or two..

But not 106

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike a massive hashtag list more

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Play to your audience. If you're looking for women, more risqué shots are less likely to work. If men, the opposite (generally).

And as Fab has no pictures of my pussy and only one nude which isn't public, I'm not a hypocrite in saying so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's got no vag pics on it. Aside from that one.

#bangmybook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see one or two cock pics, I like to see what is on offer. I don't have a vag pic on mine though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Can of worms is about right looking at some cock pics

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Don't you like pussy pics then?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I were a man, I'd have one or two well taken, tasteful, cock shots. Because some do want to see what they're getting, as noted, and I'd want to play to as many angles as possible.

But it wouldn't be my profile picture and I'd have a selection of more tasteful teasing shots as well.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Do you get all those meets without any messages back and forth at all then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Most certainly double standards ha. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Don't have face pictures then. Be a bit more mysterious. Lexi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You haven't got enough #disclaimers to get away with this still fella"

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dislike a massive hashtag list more

Well I am sorry

How can I make it upto you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Don't you like pussy pics then? "

Love them. A bit too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a nice cock pic, don't want to see 27 pix of the same one from every angle and nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a nice cock pic, don't want to see 27 pix of the same one from every angle and nothing else.

It's a bit hard to get different angles apart from "top down" without help though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics are fine.

It’s when they have 30 of them and nothing else that it becomes a bit boring looking at the same dick at different angles with different objects next to it.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Cock pics are fine.

It’s when they have 30 of them and nothing else that it becomes a bit boring looking at the same dick at different angles with different objects next to it.

And some times the Lynx can is more interesting than the dick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cock pics are fine.

It’s when they have 30 of them and nothing else that it becomes a bit boring looking at the same dick at different angles with different objects next to it.

And some times the Lynx can is more interesting than the dick!"

So true.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I have never met a person because they had a pretty penis so no .. I don’t need to see it.

I dont have any revealing pics of myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have never met a person because they had a pretty penis so no .. I don’t need to see it.

I dont have any revealing pics of myself "

Lol

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Don't have face pictures then. Be a bit more mysterious. Lexi"

Thanks Lexi - appreciate the tip, but having been on here fora fair few months I've only just put an open face pic. up as my profile photo due to not getting a lot of interest prior to then. Almost all of the success I have had has been down to attending socials. Not complaining but it is a bit of a minefield to get things right, despite plenty of advice in the forums. My suspicion is that the numbers game is the only true constant. (Just an observation).

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Do you get all those meets without any messages back and forth at all then?

Hiya! Not very often - almost all of my meets have been due to attending socials (which I find out about on here, so not saying Fab isn't a good thing by any means). When I have had the occasional reply we've had some right old chats, even if it hasn't resulted in meeting - which is lovely in itself - but replies are a rarity. Not meaning to sound like one of the moaners, was just an observation that however I've set up my profile, or whatever I've shown r.e. photos it's made no difference in terms of a success rate. That being said I'd say I've been very lucky to have met some really fantastic people, just primarily via gatherings. Have to say you look fabulous by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a woman's choice and personal preference. It is allowed

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's a woman's choice and personal preference. It is allowed"

That was my point really. I know a lot of guys bemoan their lack of success, but it can appear to be impossible to get it right. Guys do have to jump through hoops / tick boxes, but could easily rule themselves in or out on the slightest detail, when they may have otherwise been a great match. It's what I meant by it sometimes being a numbers game. It's never dull, that's for certain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bored looking at cocks. It's like looking through an Argos catalogue when you're bored.

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By *rickyd72Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've got to admit to having a few too many cock pics on my profile. However, I lived with erectile dysfunction for a couple of years until I found viagra and got my confidence back. My pics are more of a statement of "wow, look, I'm whole again!"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I get bored looking at cocks. It's like looking through an Argos catalogue when you're bored."

Sometimes with a lot of manky bargain bin stuff thrown in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally women don’t have 108 close up photos of there clunge and send unsolicited ones in a first message OP, that’s the slight difference.

You ever heard of a bloke moaning about all the unsolicited vagina photos they’ve been sent, yeah it doesn’t happen.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Generally women don’t have 108 close up photos of there clunge and send unsolicited ones in a first message OP, that’s the slight difference.

You ever heard of a bloke moaning about all the unsolicited vagina photos they’ve been sent, yeah it doesn’t happen. "

So true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couole of arty cock pics I can handle, but when it comes to a whole folder full of cock with varying degrees of pubic hair and taken from every compass angle paired with sock clad feet in the background, not so keen..

~ Bonnie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bored looking at cocks. It's like looking through an Argos catalogue when you're bored."

Love this

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I do have a couple of cock pics but they're reserved for select people, never for public consumption. I prefer to leave a bit to the imagination and engage with women in a way that they'll be eager to see it in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do have a couple of cock pics but they're reserved for select people, never for public consumption. I prefer to leave a bit to the imagination and engage with women in a way that they'll be eager to see it in person

This man knows what he’s doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

Does this happen then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were a man, I'd have one or two well taken, tasteful, cock shots. Because some do want to see what they're getting, as noted, and I'd want to play to as many angles as possible.

But it wouldn't be my profile picture and I'd have a selection of more tasteful teasing shots as well. "

I agree with that. I have cock pics but are in full body pics. Gives variety. And yes close up profile pics of cocks. Why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bored looking at cocks. It's like looking through an Argos catalogue when you're bored.

Sometimes with a lot of manky bargain bin stuff thrown in. "

I don't look at people in that respect. They are to my taste, or not.

You and I will be someone's manky bargain bin rejects to someone.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

This man knows what he’s doing.

Definitely like the sound of this - absolutely something I try to do, IF I can get a response to start with. It can be a bit of a vicious circle in some respects. The only good advice to guys lacking success is keep trying and adapt - be open to different avenues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

So don't look at them then?

Given the choi e between looking at ugly cocks and sexy puszies isn't that hard a choice for me. If you prefer looking at cocks there are loads to choose from.

We got a message from a guy yesterday saying

Love your pics what do you think of mine?

He had 27 public pics, all of his cock, WTF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Rules of Fab

When you grow tits, call all the shots.

If you take cock, you can call some of the shots.

If you are in a couple you think you can call the shots, but it is the tits who actually calls the shots.

Tv/TS only call the shots if they don't look like Dame Edna.

BBC and bulls are invited to call the shots but again only on the say so of the tits.

Everyone else has to buy the shots.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Rules of Fab

When you grow tits, call all the shots.

If you take cock, you can call some of the shots.

If you are in a couple you think you can call the shots, but it is the tits who actually calls the shots.

Tv/TS only call the shots if they don't look like Dame Edna.

BBC and bulls are invited to call the shots but again only on the say so of the tits.

Everyone else has to buy the shots."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But then when you look at there's is full of pussy pics.

A bit double standard like isn't it?

Us blokes can't win.

#openedupacanofworms

#lookoutbelow

#someonesgettinglynched

#ifyouthinkeverythingisseriousyouneedtogetoutmore

Rules of Fab

When you grow tits, call all the shots.

If you take cock, you can call some of the shots.

If you are in a couple you think you can call the shots, but it is the tits who actually calls the shots.

Tv/TS only call the shots if they don't look like Dame Edna.

BBC and bulls are invited to call the shots but again only on the say so of the tits.

Everyone else has to buy the shots."

Grow some tits I say...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I get bored looking at cocks. It's like looking through an Argos catalogue when you're bored.

Sometimes with a lot of manky bargain bin stuff thrown in.

I don't look at people in that respect. They are to my taste, or not.

You and I will be someone's manky bargain bin rejects to someone."

Sure. And I'd never reveal what specifically I feel that way about. But there are some pictures where I just cannot fathom why anyone would use to sell themselves. (I'm talking about things I find disgusting which are probably towards the edge of Fab bad taste, not "he's got an ugly cock". I don't have strong feelings about penis appearance as a rule)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried face pics and cock pics - but when you've a face like a well kept grave and a cock like a party sausage then nothing's going to work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like to see nothing but cock pics. One tasteful shot is more than enough.

No vag pics on public display on my profile.

What’s the point of all the #’s?????

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Men, on the whole, like looking at vulvas, hence if you want to attract a man posting a pic of your vulva is a good strategy.

Women, on the whole, don't like looking at penises, so if you want to attract a woman, posting a pic of your penis is not a good strategy.

It's that simple.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Don't have face pictures then. Be a bit more mysterious. Lexi

If you have attended socials that you found out about through this site, then it is working for you. What else do you expect?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Men, on the whole, like looking at vulvas, hence if you want to attract a man posting a pic of your vulva is a good strategy.

Women, on the whole, don't like looking at penises, so if you want to attract a woman, posting a pic of your penis is not a good strategy.

It's that simple. "

And today's star prize goes to....

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Not convinced it makes a whole lot of difference - my profile only shows pictures of my face, but still zero messages. Must be proper ugly!

Don't have face pictures then. Be a bit more mysterious. Lexi

If you have attended socials that you found out about through this site, then it is working for you. What else do you expect?"

Nothing - I've never had expectations. I don't subscribe to the arguments from those who get nowhere on the site. Plenty of people on forums advise it, but it's up to the individual to work for them. All I was saying was that messaging has largely proved to be a complete waste of time in my experience , whereas attending socials has been successful. It was a positive comment. I have no 'entitled' attitude to this. If you saw it as a negative you read it the wrong way.

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