FabSwingers.com forum: Your Fab Persona v Your 'Real' Persona

By *.D.I.D.A.S OP Man
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

How does your Fab personality differ to the offline version away from Fab?

Would you prefer the real you to be more like the Fab you or does your digital self not express itself as fully as the actual you?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

What you see is what you get with me - regardless of whether it's here or the real world. The only difference is I am probably a little more shy and retiring in person than I am here until I'm comfortable in a situation or with someone I know well - everything else is exactly the same in terms of the way I act and think about life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea. I might not show so many naked photos to people off line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty much the same, though not as confident in person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much the same though my job requires me to be less of a gobby cow and more the caring, sensitive type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty much the same, maybe a little more quiet on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a little mofe reserved in a group until i have a drink then all bets are off as is my kit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm quite different. My real life persona would be eaten alive on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always me, I can't put an act on, and I'm no actress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more or less the same on or off fab, although i have been told im far more understanding and caring in person

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Think I'm the same here as I am IRL, maybe a bit more confident here... and naked more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more sarcastic.

It doesn't translate very well on here sometimes.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

People may misinterpret my written word in here, but I'm the same in real life, as I am online. Take me or leave me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face. "

I’m super shy. Is that an issue?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face.

I’m super shy. Is that an issue?"

My FWB recently told me that he didn't know if he fancied me because I was so shy when we met the first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just even more of a twat in real life than I am on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The longer I have been on here the closer that my real life and fab life personas have become. I think they've blurred together pretty much now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face.

I’m super shy. Is that an issue?

My FWB recently told me that he didn't know if he fancied me because I was so shy when we met the first time. "

Oh really?! Oh lord help me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face.

I’m super shy. Is that an issue?

My FWB recently told me that he didn't know if he fancied me because I was so shy when we met the first time.

Oh really?! Oh lord help me"

Ha, I suspect you're better than I was. I've changed a lot in the last few months.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm the same, including walking about with no shirt on at every opportunity

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more cheeky and chatty in person, mainly because it's easier to gauge people's reactions face to face.

I’m super shy. Is that an issue?"

Nothing wrong with shy Cheekiness can create giggles, which gets round that anyway.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I would say as a person Im the same. The decision I make are very different though when meeting.

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

We’re pretty much the same, we have to be, too many people know us on and off here, we’d soon be called out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im the same... maybe more chattier in person

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Basically the same in the real world though I do get to be funnier with my tales about life in general ...care land and the joys of owning a husky x

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

We’re pretty similar, although I think my Fab self is a bit more forward than the real world me.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Pretty similar. Slightly more restrained in work, otherwise this is me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 on 1 im more funny tho

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I'm more sarcastic.

It doesn't translate very well on here sometimes."

Me too. Some people are not on that wavelength and it’s sifficul to convey in text. I also wear more clothes I real life

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I tend to wear more clothes in real life and flirt a whole lot more.

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By *hickinthewarmMan
over a year ago

Fife

What you see is what you get, I don’t alter my attitude to things just because I’m online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the real world much easier...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use more words in real life.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I find I have to be as restrained on here as much as in real life..

Very few see the real me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does your Fab personality differ to the offline version away from Fab?

Would you prefer the real you to be more like the Fab you or does your digital self not express itself as fully as the actual you?

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My persona is the same wherever I am

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

They're virtually identical. I'm outgoing, chatty, relaxed yet confident and assertive when need be, regardless if it's Chillout or S*****

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I can be a bit introverted but chatty at the same time if that’s even a thing

I do like a good natter with people I get on well with and I am a little flirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much the same with a tad less nudity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m pretty much the same, though not as confident in person x "
this is me unless i know who im meeting

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London

id actually say im very different as to being open about what im into

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I find I have to be as restrained on here as much as in real life..

Very few see the real me"

I get that, in real life I am straight talking but that can get you a seat on the naughty step on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more sarcastic.

It doesn't translate very well on here sometimes."

Sarcasm is harder to read online then the Chinese language! People have not known how to take me many a time online. As I'm a sarcastic little biych.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably no where near as voyeuristic irl as I am on here.

Plus there's no place to discuss fixing up old cars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us are any different. That said we don’t pursue vanilla people so as not to offend.

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By *thena123Woman
over a year ago

Swansea

I am who I am....im very much the same in real life as what I am on here....but I'm real life I tend not to filter what I say before I do so and it can land me in hot water every now and again.xxx

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Mine are completely different. Not just the obvious. Biggest is confidence. As Claire I’m very confident. As I guy can’t see why anybody would be the least bit interested in me. Luckily my GF disagrees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, isn’t reality a bitch?

My fab profile isn’t the best in the world, I admit that I could have tried harder. However, my real life is piss boring. If I didn’t still have my kids at home I would hardly ever see anyone outside of work.

Would I like to change all of that? Well no is the answer. I’m comfortable at home and am never lonely, thank the gods.

Sure I’d love to get more sex, but it is not the be all and end all. Me and my ex were at it like rabbits until she had her “change,” and while there are still a few things on my bucket list, there is not that much.

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