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Single women who are not prepared to say hello on the phone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here 7 years off and on single women give it the "Don't want married men" but ask for the number..... The lets talk off here is a no go ??

LOL !!

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Been here 7 years off and on single women give it the "Don't want married men" but ask for the number..... The lets talk off here is a no go ??

LOL !!

"

????/

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

When I was meeting as a single fem I woukdn't talk on the phone. My choice.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't talk on the phone either. What of it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why if your single you can block them if you don't enjoy there chat.

So your real with no voice ?

Yes lets meet with no voice.

If your on this sort of site why no voice ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

English is not my first language so calling makes me pretty anxious. I'm trying to avoid it when possible and no I'm not married :D

Kitten

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"English is not my first language so calling makes me pretty anxious. I'm trying to avoid it when possible and no I'm not married :D

Kitten"

Not yet, when’s the wedding?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"English is not my first language so calling makes me pretty anxious. I'm trying to avoid it when possible and no I'm not married :D

Kitten

Not yet, when’s the wedding? "

It was last weekend...not ours though, but groom said we are next Give us a few more years

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone, avoid it at all costs and would never expect anyone to speak to me on the phone nor judge anyone refusing too

Not sure how or why you;re linking that to married men though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my number after a lot of talking on here, if we have decided to meet.

After being here and finding out that some men only want a wank, be it through phone sex or sex chat, I am careful about who gets my number.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hold on,

You messaged them,or they messaged you,you fancy them,they fancy you,he asks..fancy a chat on the phone....oh no you have to meet me to hear my voice LoL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate talking on the phone, avoid it at all costs and would never expect anyone to speak to me on the phone nor judge anyone refusing too

Not sure how or why you;re linking that to married men though?"

He's saying the women are probably married too, because they won't talk on the phone.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yeah. I don’t give my number out to just anyone. It’s a no. Kik live video chat is fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Married women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To right

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't do phone calls until after I have met someone. And would not give out my personal number either. Not sure I fully understand the post.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hold on,

You messaged them,or they messaged you,you fancy them,they fancy you,he asks..fancy a chat on the phone....oh no you have to meet me to hear my voice LoL "

Well yes. I don't give my number to strangers. That's common sense.

And meeting allows me to judge whether you are who you claim to be, whether the charm is real. I call it my creep test. If I don't know if you're a creep, you're not getting my number. If I've not looked you in the eye, I don't know if you're a creep.

Hell, most people I've slept with on Fab don't have my number, and I'm keeping it that way.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

An unwillingness to give out a number says nothing at all about someone's marital status.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"I hate talking on the phone, avoid it at all costs and would never expect anyone to speak to me on the phone nor judge anyone refusing too

Not sure how or why you;re linking that to married men though?

He's saying the women are probably married too, because they won't talk on the phone. "

Well most women think single men who wont talk are married,

double standards

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We won't chat on the phone either, there are lots of reasons why.

We are regularly verified by meets so what more does a phonecall prove?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?"

Yes, and I don't blame you for being suspicious. There are some of us though who don't like giving numbers too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate talking on the phone, avoid it at all costs and would never expect anyone to speak to me on the phone nor judge anyone refusing too

Not sure how or why you;re linking that to married men though?

He's saying the women are probably married too, because they won't talk on the phone.

Well most women think single men who wont talk are married,

double standards "

That's what the OP is saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have a second mobile , giving a number is no proof of being single. I don’t really understand the correlation though between talking on the phone and your marital status.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?"

You're welcome to draw your own conclusions, of course, but as noted there are other explanations. I take each person as I find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but I won't talk on phone etc. I only message on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm.

I hardly give out my number (it's difficult to even get my kik details) and I certainly don't talk on the phone.

I'm as single as I possibly can be, and I was a woman the last time I checked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you just meet someone with a message off here.

Well as I said been on here off and on 7 years meet a few very GORGEOUS women,asked them how fab has treated them,loads has said the bloke who turned up wasn't the bloke in the profile.

Why not get a voice or watts app,kik so you know who you are meeting,you go on a message from this site ??

Really you must be brave.

And blokes also turned up OMG your not like your PICS !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Your mobile bill must be low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works better if you quote posts so people know who you're talking to OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you find them just reading there profile.

It's all in the voice !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t give my number out to anyone and everyone.

Made that mistake before and ended up having to change it.

I will speak on the phone in my time with someone I intend to meet. You’d be surprised how many use the “Can we talk on the phone” line in order to get their rocks off and then onto the next one, so I don’t blame some people for being hesitant.

If a phone conversation is mandatory for you to meet someone state it in your messages or on your profile so those who don’t do this can pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works better if you quote posts so people know who you're talking to OP. "

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"English is not my first language so calling makes me pretty anxious. I'm trying to avoid it when possible and no I'm not married :D

Kitten

Not yet, when’s the wedding?

It was last weekend...not ours though, but groom said we are next Give us a few more years

K"

I’ll be waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It works better if you quote posts so people know who you're talking to OP. "

I'm new to the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?"

10 years, single or couple at various times, hardly anyone gets my number. Not sure I've ever been accused of cheating, and if I had then they can jog on, I'd have lost all interest in meeting them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

You're welcome to draw your own conclusions, of course, but as noted there are other explanations. I take each person as I find them. "

You go on pics ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

10 years, single or couple at various times, hardly anyone gets my number. Not sure I've ever been accused of cheating, and if I had then they can jog on, I'd have lost all interest in meeting them"

But if you were a male !!

So no male turned up as he was in the pic's?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

You're welcome to draw your own conclusions, of course, but as noted there are other explanations. I take each person as I find them.

You go on pics ??"

Pictures are the last thing I care about. Messages, profile, verifications, then pictures. If positive interaction then social, and on from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, people who I plan to meet will get my kik and/or WhatsApp details after talking on here long enough for me to trust them with any other details. I've talked to people for up to nine months before meeting, normally an average of three, four months before meeting and they've always been who they said they are and I've never been disappointed. And I haven't talked to any of them on the phone before meeting.

The only acception was a forum user who I hadn't messaged for like a year but we'd talked on the forums a bit. I picked him up for a last minute social when I was staying near him, and since then we've talked a lot on kik and plan to meet again. That situation hasn't disappointed me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't assume anyone who doesn't talk on the phone to be married. Infact I would never ask as I personally hate it too.

No kik or anything similair either just go on pictures on here and lots of messaging (lots) no one has ever not been who they were supposed to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

10 years, single or couple at various times, hardly anyone gets my number. Not sure I've ever been accused of cheating, and if I had then they can jog on, I'd have lost all interest in meeting them

But if you were a male !!

So no male turned up as he was in the pic's?

"

In all honesty in 10+ years and dozens of meets, never had a no show, never had someone turn up that wasn't who I expected, never really judged by verifications, never have webcammed or spoke on the phone. Gut instinct and a healthy degree of cynicism go a lot further than mandatory "must be a fake" arguments because a person does things differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't assume anyone who doesn't talk on the phone to be married. Infact I would never ask as I personally hate it too.

No kik or anything similair either just go on pictures on here and lots of messaging (lots) no one has ever not been who they were supposed to be. "

Strange your "sex" does !!

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

How many messages do you think should be exchanged on fab, before speaking on the phone op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if blokes don't there accused of been married/living with someone,get my drift ?

10 years, single or couple at various times, hardly anyone gets my number. Not sure I've ever been accused of cheating, and if I had then they can jog on, I'd have lost all interest in meeting them

But if you were a male !!

Had plenty of so called females wanting phone sex on here,sounding like Julian Clarey !!

So no male turned up as he was in the pic's?

In all honesty in 10+ years and dozens of meets, never had a no show, never had someone turn up that wasn't who I expected, never really judged by verifications, never have webcammed or spoke on the phone. Gut instinct and a healthy degree of cynicism go a lot further than mandatory "must be a fake" arguments because a person does things differently"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I wouldn't assume anyone who doesn't talk on the phone to be married. Infact I would never ask as I personally hate it too.

No kik or anything similair either just go on pictures on here and lots of messaging (lots) no one has ever not been who they were supposed to be.

Strange your "sex" does !!"

Not all of us so please don't assume.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't assume anyone who doesn't talk on the phone to be married. Infact I would never ask as I personally hate it too.

No kik or anything similair either just go on pictures on here and lots of messaging (lots) no one has ever not been who they were supposed to be.

Strange your "sex" does !!"

Well obviously not all or I wouldn't have bothered to reply.

I don't give a tuppence if you're married or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many messages do you think should be exchanged on fab, before speaking on the phone op?"

Depends on the exchange of messages,how close you feel to meet.

Don't you think the assurance should be there ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive) "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive) "

VERI'S dont make me laugh

So you would post a bad veri !!

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Its good to chat after a day or so on here as its quicker and you can get a better feel of someone if they don't have time to work out answers to questions asked as people don't on the phone.

However there has to be an initial attraction to someone and I will call withheld to start with as I don't want some psyco calling me at all hours wanting dirty chat as that's what 50% plus of guys think a phone call is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't take long to escalate to "won't do this or that" therefor married.

I'm starting a bingo game to see what is the most obscure reference on fab which proves someone is married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger? "

But you will share your body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?"

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm quite happy to chat on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

booty calls

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive)

VERI'S dont make me laugh

So you would post a bad veri !!

"

The general etiquette I've seen is if it's a bad meet, no veri is given.

The only veris I haven't posted are accidental duplicates or ones where the person put my name in it.

But even if you don't read things into veris like I know some do ("makes a good cuppa" is apparently code for not good things), the fact that (say in my case) 20+ people have said I am who I say I am and that I meet... isn't at least some assurance?

It proves more than a voice does, I think. I could get my mate on the phone for all you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?"

If I have planned to meet with someone for a social with a view to playing if we like each other I always exchange phone numbers. I never ring a man and expect us both to keep them private and if he wants to call me he will check by text or WhatsApp that I am free to speak first.

Any man who refuses to give a phone number and only wants to chat on kik would not be able to meet with me.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Been on here 8 years never once given out my phone number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint."

And that is precisely the reason I don’t give out my number. I know how easy it is to track a phone just from the number, literally anyone with a computer can do it.

When it comes to sharing my body, I have done just that in my time in here and my veris are genuine. Understandably some people choose not to believe them (it’s not hard to set up profiles) but I don’t think the moral lays with whether a person is willing to share their body or not.

People on here thrust their numbers into my inbox every day expecting me to respond. Literally two people here have my number and that is because I knew them way before coming onto Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive)

VERI'S dont make me laugh

So you would post a bad veri !!

The general etiquette I've seen is if it's a bad meet, no veri is given.

The only veris I haven't posted are accidental duplicates or ones where the person put my name in it.

But even if you don't read things into veris like I know some do ("makes a good cuppa" is apparently code for not good things), the fact that (say in my case) 20+ people have said I am who I say I am and that I meet... isn't at least some assurance?

It proves more than a voice does, I think. I could get my mate on the phone for all you know. "

Who 121

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

"

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Been on here 8 years never once given out my phone number "

Nor do I ever intend to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you "

One rule for one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you

One rule for one ?"

Keep going...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive)

VERI'S dont make me laugh

So you would post a bad veri !!

The general etiquette I've seen is if it's a bad meet, no veri is given.

The only veris I haven't posted are accidental duplicates or ones where the person put my name in it.

But even if you don't read things into veris like I know some do ("makes a good cuppa" is apparently code for not good things), the fact that (say in my case) 20+ people have said I am who I say I am and that I meet... isn't at least some assurance?

It proves more than a voice does, I think. I could get my mate on the phone for all you know.

Who 121"

I don't know what you mean. But if you're trying to work out if I'm a real woman, my verifications tell you way more than a phone call. Anyone could give a woman a script and tell her to wind you up. The odds of me not being a woman who meets are tiny at this stage. (fake veris exist, but above a certain number of veris and looking at how well the verifying profiles are established themselves should clear that up)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint.

And that is precisely the reason I don’t give out my number. I know how easy it is to track a phone just from the number, literally anyone with a computer can do it.

When it comes to sharing my body, I have done just that in my time in here and my veris are genuine. Understandably some people choose not to believe them (it’s not hard to set up profiles) but I don’t think the moral lays with whether a person is willing to share their body or not.

People on here thrust their numbers into my inbox every day expecting me to respond. Literally two people here have my number and that is because I knew them way before coming onto Fab"

Ever heard of "block" ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you

One rule for one ?"

Like it or not, women are trained to be more cautious with their safety than men. Doesn't mean they're hiding things.

If you don't like the methods they're using, jog on.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I (miss)hate talking on the phone,so if this was a demand from someone there wouldn't be a meet.

I think its peoples personal choice ,if not for you then others will be happy to chat.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you

One rule for one ?

Like it or not, women are trained to be more cautious with their safety than men. Doesn't mean they're hiding things.

If you don't like the methods they're using, jog on. "

I'm 48 don't like "jogging"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're worried about fakes, only meet well verified people who are verified by other well verified people. Or make your risks low risk (a public location of no importance to you not too far from home). (the first person I met from Fab said it was worth the punt for the distance, and the beer in Wetherspoons isn't so bad so if I'd been a no show or a bloke then the only harm was a drive)

VERI'S dont make me laugh

So you would post a bad veri !!

The general etiquette I've seen is if it's a bad meet, no veri is given.

The only veris I haven't posted are accidental duplicates or ones where the person put my name in it.

But even if you don't read things into veris like I know some do ("makes a good cuppa" is apparently code for not good things), the fact that (say in my case) 20+ people have said I am who I say I am and that I meet... isn't at least some assurance?

It proves more than a voice does, I think. I could get my mate on the phone for all you know. "

I think some people are so dogmatic about what they think proves someone is a fake that it doesn't matter what other evidence there is to contradict it, they just won't consider that someone could be genuine.

My last couple profile had dozens of verifications from socials and clubs across the country but occasionally I;d get called fake for not being photo verified or for refusing to go on cam. The logic makes no sense to me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint.

And that is precisely the reason I don’t give out my number. I know how easy it is to track a phone just from the number, literally anyone with a computer can do it.

When it comes to sharing my body, I have done just that in my time in here and my veris are genuine. Understandably some people choose not to believe them (it’s not hard to set up profiles) but I don’t think the moral lays with whether a person is willing to share their body or not.

People on here thrust their numbers into my inbox every day expecting me to respond. Literally two people here have my number and that is because I knew them way before coming onto Fab

Ever heard of "block" ??"

Works great here. Doesn't work without significant risk and/or disruption giving out your number.

"Sorry boss, Mum, have to change my number because I misjudged a guy on a casual sex site and he's crank calling me at 2am."

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"I hate talking on the phone, avoid it at all costs and would never expect anyone to speak to me on the phone nor judge anyone refusing too

Not sure how or why you;re linking that to married men though?

He's saying the women are probably married too, because they won't talk on the phone.

Well most women think single men who wont talk are married,

double standards "

I wouldnt say that ,

Theres people of both sexes who don't like talking on phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet as a single woman on fab and wouldn’t give out my number. Nor would I expect a man to give me his number to prove he isn’t married.

If you are wanting to have a phone chat with someone before meeting and they aren’t up for it, then that’s that really. Not much you can do I’m afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone numbers can easily be googled, tracked to social media (if you have it linked) etc. Yes, you can block numbers - but why should you have too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested if anyone thinks im hiding something because i won't give out my number..its still not happening

I hate talking to strangers on the phone..it makes me anxious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature "

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint.

And that is precisely the reason I don’t give out my number. I know how easy it is to track a phone just from the number, literally anyone with a computer can do it.

When it comes to sharing my body, I have done just that in my time in here and my veris are genuine. Understandably some people choose not to believe them (it’s not hard to set up profiles) but I don’t think the moral lays with whether a person is willing to share their body or not.

People on here thrust their numbers into my inbox every day expecting me to respond. Literally two people here have my number and that is because I knew them way before coming onto Fab

Ever heard of "block" ??"

100% not the point in which I am making. I am not complaining in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn."

So what is this site? Some people may use it as a dating site...they can use it if they wish. There’s plenty of couples who have met on here. If you’re looking for an open relationship, what better place to look for someone than on a swingers site?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Yeah. I don’t give my number out to just anyone. It’s a no. Kik live video chat is fine. "

This works for me too

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I hate talking on the phone. Have real anxiety about it. I feel sick when my phone rings. I don't ring friends or family for a chat and they know not to ring me.

So no, I'm not going to say hello on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate talking on the phone. Have real anxiety about it. I feel sick when my phone rings. I don't ring friends or family for a chat and they know not to ring me.

So no, I'm not going to say hello on the phone. "

I’m the exact same. Husband has disconnected the house phone because I kept having panic attacks when it rang

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Aah this thread is just what I needed, what a tonic

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

So what is this site? Some people may use it as a dating site...they can use it if they wish. There’s plenty of couples who have met on here. If you’re looking for an open relationship, what better place to look for someone than on a swingers site? "

I get this line a lot.

I want people to give a rat's arse about me before we have sex. Apparently this means I'm looking for a husband. No, it means someone who respects me is less likely to hurt me, and sex is better when it's not just mechanical. Communication and friendliness are wonderful things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

So what is this site? Some people may use it as a dating site...they can use it if they wish. There’s plenty of couples who have met on here. If you’re looking for an open relationship, what better place to look for someone than on a swingers site?

I get this line a lot.

I want people to give a rat's arse about me before we have sex. Apparently this means I'm looking for a husband. No, it means someone who respects me is less likely to hurt me, and sex is better when it's not just mechanical. Communication and friendliness are wonderful things. "

Oh I agree!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn."

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

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By *otYourUsualGirlWoman
over a year ago

Northampton


"

I get this line a lot.

I want people to give a rat's arse about me before we have sex. Apparently this means I'm looking for a husband. No, it means someone who respects me is less likely to hurt me, and sex is better when it's not just mechanical. Communication and friendliness are wonderful things. "

All of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you just meet someone with a message off here.

Well as I said been on here off and on 7 years meet a few very GORGEOUS women,asked them how fab has treated them,loads has said the bloke who turned up wasn't the bloke in the profile.

Why not get a voice or watts app,kik so you know who you are meeting,you go on a message from this site ??

Really you must be brave.

And blokes also turned up OMG your not like your PICS !!"

Listening to a voice or getting a number or kik name won't guarantee the person showing up is the one from the photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listening to a voice or getting a number or kik name won't guarantee the person showing up is the one from the photos."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and on there profile "don't smoke"

Mmmmmmmmm meet a woman smoking like a chimney"

How many Lads have you met ?

Let it all out cmon. What else gripes you

One rule for one ?"

There are no rules, just things people are willing to accept, or not.

I sometimes ask for a specific photo for verification. If they don't want to do it I respect their wishes and either bow out gracefully or take a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Kik PURELY for Fab verification purposes. It's aa great way to send real time selfies and video chat without giving my phone number out.

I'm also happy to verify newbies via kik video.

Never would I give my number out again on here. I'm not married, I just like to have a little control over how messages are sent to me and when I view them. I stupidly gave a Fab meet my number some years back and I got bombarded with dick pics and filth on WhatsApp all day long when I was at work. Then phonecalls demanding to know why I hadn't replied. Then he found me on Facebook through my mobile number. Creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

The word "cunt" say's it all to you message

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

The word "cunt" say's it all to you message

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse."

The word "Cunt" says it all to your message

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I hate talking on the phone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have Kik PURELY for Fab verification purposes. It's aa great way to send real time selfies and video chat without giving my phone number out.

I'm also happy to verify newbies via kik video.

Never would I give my number out again on here. I'm not married, I just like to have a little control over how messages are sent to me and when I view them. I stupidly gave a Fab meet my number some years back and I got bombarded with dick pics and filth on WhatsApp all day long when I was at work. Then phonecalls demanding to know why I hadn't replied. Then he found me on Facebook through my mobile number. Creepy "

But plenty of face pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse."

Another with "cunt" !!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse."

^^ I totally agree with this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse."

Thx's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse.

Thx's "

So the cap fits then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for "

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a play phone which is on at my convenience.

If and only if I share my number it is only to confirm things just before a meet.

I have whatsapp for family only and kik for fab only.

Saying that you can block somehow implies it is your fault for trusting someone with your number and them then abusing it.

The argument you are on a sex site just doesn't wash. If you can't be trusted to respect someone's privacy, you are the sort of cunt who does track people down on facebook,.thinks it's ok to send a friend request "to break the ice" and sets up false profiles to get round blocks.

If the cap fits, roll it into a tight tube and shove it up your arse.

Thx's

So the cap fits then?"

Don't wear a cap

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!"

It's also called, it's their body, their life, and their boundaries, and they can do with it as they see fit.

I don't care if it's the House of Lords website. I'm still going to do things the way they work for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aah this thread is just what I needed, what a tonic "

No gin ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn."

Hello... knock knock, anyone in there. Not everyone is the same and some people will want more than nsa sex. Some people (like me) like to have a connection with those I fuck, that way I can fuck them with feeling and gusto rather than like I'm sitting on a dildo whilst filing my nails or looking at the ceiling wondering if I've washed my work clothes.

Does that make me wrong? No.

It makes me a mighty good fuck.

Would I also be willing to swing as a couple if things progressed? Yes. So tell me, what exactly do I need to learn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

It's also called, it's their body, their life, and their boundaries, and they can do with it as they see fit.

I don't care if it's the House of Lords website. I'm still going to do things the way they work for me. "

Go on blame BREXIT !!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

It's also called, it's their body, their life, and their boundaries, and they can do with it as they see fit.

I don't care if it's the House of Lords website. I'm still going to do things the way they work for me.

Go on blame BREXIT !!"

I'd rather blame those at fault, those who want me to do things I don't want to.

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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands


"How many messages do you think should be exchanged on fab, before speaking on the phone op?

Depends on the exchange of messages,how close you feel to meet.

Don't you think the assurance should be there ?? "

I understand your point about assurances, but there are some men who tend to push women into giving out their phone numbers to them, sometimes too early in the conversation. On another site, I had a guy asking for my number on the second message and persisted for 2 more messages. When I didn’t give it out, I was then accused of being a man. With another guy, we started exchanging emails off the site and when I decided not to pursue it any further, I had accusations thrown at me. A third guy who had my number and after meeting him, I decided not to take it further. He continually tried to ring and message me for 6 weeks before he got the message. Yes, I could have blocked him, but then he could have used a different number to fool me into answering and I wasn’t willing to change my number.

So in these instances, it’s more secured for most women to remain on the site, as messages can be monitored and any abuse can be reported to admin.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I don’t even expect women to give me their number when I have played with them. They can message me on here or kik

Some fabsters do have my number but I respect them and don’t text them after 9 at night and not before 8 in morning

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"I give my number after a lot of talking on here, if we have decided to meet.

After being here and finding out that some men only want a wank, be it through phone sex or sex chat, I am careful about who gets my number."

Same here

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out. "

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I stopped giving out my number a few years ago, after giving it to a single guy who had never been married, as his wife called me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I - like so many other people on here - wish to keep sex lives and geral social lives separate.

Personally, I don’t like sharing my number with anyone that isn’t family, a close friend or a work colleague. Why would I share it with a stranger?

But you will share your body?

Sharing your body is on your terms.

Sharing your phone number is a licence for full intrusion. Phone calls whenever they are horny, biity calls, constant messages etc.

Some people can't and won't show restraint."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple"

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !! "

If you don't like her stipulations, don't message or meet her. Your boundaries matter. But ours do too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !!

If you don't like her stipulations, don't message or meet her. Your boundaries matter. But ours do too. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !!

If you don't like her stipulations, don't message or meet her. Your boundaries matter. But ours do too. "

Oh the fab no cock pics but here is my pussy and arse pics !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !! "

There is a tv/ts in Northern Ireland who had a job as a Telephone Sex Operator who got the job because they could mimic a woman perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

That's the top and bottom of it... "no way am I giving my number out"

Simple

Oh so lets travel because she can't and no voice on the phone to find out oh no show.

But she wanted pic's of me before we exchanged messages,you know...NO PIC NO REPLY !!

There is a tv/ts in Northern Ireland who had a job as a Telephone Sex Operator who got the job because they could mimic a woman perfectly.

"

Was I going to meet i'm in Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you seem to have a lot of angst about how other people choose to use the site.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If it is really important to you that you speak to somebody on the phone before arranging a meet, and the person that you are discussing this with will not speak on the phone, then you are simply not a match.

You should just agree that you are not compatible, and continue looking for someone more compatible.

It might save time for people who won't speak on the phone to mention it in their their profile and for people who need to speak on the phone before arranging to also mention that in theirs.

There are lots of options to take into consideration when looking at compatibility for a meet. If they don't match, they just don't match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP, what was the problem again? Did some super sexy 27 year old model figure turn up to a social and was a heavy set dude called Trevor?

Voice calls prove nothing, verification if verified as not circular proves a person is real, and may resemble any pictures. Instinct and social meet in suitable place is the way forward.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!"

In that case, I would politely direct you to your local harbour or red light district and hand over your hard cash like the rest of the punters, this site is definitely not for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like someone has been stood up and travelled a fair distance to be stood up.

Life is shit like that sometimes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

This is a very angry thread about not much at all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a very angry thread about not much at all really "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, you seem to have a lot of angst about how other people choose to use the site. "

No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

or a hello after work,never said "phone~sex" just a "HELLO"

when free,I'm sure you are sometime to make you "REAL"

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"OP, you seem to have a lot of angst about how other people choose to use the site. "

This

I blame the full moon today. So many angry people on here your be forgiven if you thought it was Thursday with all the ranting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to suck cock and get fucked in the ass.

Chatting on the phone? Boring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like someone has been stood up and travelled a fair distance to be stood up.

Life is shit like that sometimes."

Wrong.

Been here 7 years so no LOL "Sherlock"

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner "

People have and they use them they are just baiting the troll because its a quiet night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

In that case, I would politely direct you to your local harbour or red light district and hand over your hard cash like the rest of the punters, this site is definitely not for you! "

Do I get my sub money back then as I had it so wrong oh my veri's to ??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Have to say that your attitude is what makes me shy away from phone calls to be honest. You're coming across as very aggressive. Why would anyone want to talk to someone like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

In that case, I would politely direct you to your local harbour or red light district and hand over your hard cash like the rest of the punters, this site is definitely not for you!

Do I get my sub money back then as I had it so wrong oh my veri's to ??

"

One is a generic lady looking to meet men. The other two have hidden profiles...

I'm drawing no conclusions from that Sherlock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner "

I have kik if I want to contact someone from fab outside fab. No need for a throwaway phone IMO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to say that your attitude is what makes me shy away from phone calls to be honest. You're coming across as very aggressive. Why would anyone want to talk to someone like that? "

Why because I have an opinion ?

Soz forgot am I am Dom or Sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner

I have kik if I want to contact someone from fab outside fab. No need for a throwaway phone IMO"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Have to say that your attitude is what makes me shy away from phone calls to be honest. You're coming across as very aggressive. Why would anyone want to talk to someone like that?

Why because I have an opinion ?

Soz forgot am I am Dom or Sub "

An opinion is all well and good if you have the means to discuss it without calling people cunts as you seem to have done throughout this thread.

I get the discussion point but your delivery is unnecessarily aggressive and confrontational

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner

I have kik if I want to contact someone from fab outside fab. No need for a throwaway phone IMO

"

Hope your proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gobsmacked ... has nobody heard of throwaway pre paid credit phones...

They only cost a tenner

I have kik if I want to contact someone from fab outside fab. No need for a throwaway phone IMO

Hope your proud"

Of having a kik account?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Have to say that your attitude is what makes me shy away from phone calls to be honest. You're coming across as very aggressive. Why would anyone want to talk to someone like that?

Why because I have an opinion ?

Soz forgot am I am Dom or Sub

An opinion is all well and good if you have the means to discuss it without calling people cunts as you seem to have done throughout this thread.

I get the discussion point but your delivery is unnecessarily aggressive and confrontational "

And an inability to see other perspectives to the point of utter absurdity... isn't a good look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well classic.

Being told by private message my replies are not very nice to you all.

I apologise.

But if you read the replies I have had Ive been called a "CUNT"

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

When you give your number, it links to all other places in social media etc. This would certainly leave a woman vulnerable with a not right. Or for those married.

We have spoke to folk contemplating giving the number then low and behold the nutter energies a few more messages in

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Got a feeling you’ll soon find out how just many woman have heard of the block feature

Plenty have.

Not a dating site wish some would learn.

I wish men would read and respect my profile, it's never going to happen, but in answer to your question, if I am contemplating meeting someone I have no qualms about have a chat on the phone and have done so many a time.

Oh and I hate the 'it's not a dating site' it just shows lack of respect if this is quoted at me, as I am long past the sex with no connection, if men don't get that, they can quite simply fuck off. That may be blunt, but it also means they haven't bothered to move past the pretty pictures or more likely not give a shit about who or what I am looking for

Its called "Fab Swingers" not POF or a another dating site so if men or women ask you not to date your on the wrong site ffs !!

In that case, I would politely direct you to your local harbour or red light district and hand over your hard cash like the rest of the punters, this site is definitely not for you!

Do I get my sub money back then as I had it so wrong oh my veri's to ??

"

Oh Your £5? I forgot that was meant to be a guarantee for sex, like I said, if you want it hard and fast put your hand in your pocket and pay for it, that will suit your need better as far as I can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school. "

Hows the labour party con going ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?"

RED

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to say that your attitude is what makes me shy away from phone calls to be honest. You're coming across as very aggressive. Why would anyone want to talk to someone like that?

Why because I have an opinion ?

Soz forgot am I am Dom or Sub

An opinion is all well and good if you have the means to discuss it without calling people cunts as you seem to have done throughout this thread.

I get the discussion point but your delivery is unnecessarily aggressive and confrontational

And an inability to see other perspectives to the point of utter absurdity... isn't a good look. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?"

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time. "

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!"

I don’t understand how this is political

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political "

Why no babies go to school ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political

Why no babies go to school ?

"

Because education usually starts at age four to five. Babies may attend a nursery or have a nanny etc if parents work or someone else may care for the babies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political

Why no babies go to school ?

Because education usually starts at age four to five. Babies may attend a nursery or have a nanny etc if parents work or someone else may care for the babies. "

So whats this got to do with the headline ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political

Why no babies go to school ?

Because education usually starts at age four to five. Babies may attend a nursery or have a nanny etc if parents work or someone else may care for the babies.

So whats this got to do with the headline ?"

It was pointed out that maybe parents have young children that take up most of their time so do not have ‘free time’ to make a phone call

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political

Why no babies go to school ?

Because education usually starts at age four to five. Babies may attend a nursery or have a nanny etc if parents work or someone else may care for the babies.

So whats this got to do with the headline ?

It was pointed out that maybe parents have young children that take up most of their time so do not have ‘free time’ to make a phone call "

I said kids go to school

So you had time to call.

I was going to fab you amazing derriere pic but with all the fabs you notice my fab.

But that derriere WoW!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not all children go to school, some single parents work, some people don't want to call for any variety of reasons which I'm sure aren't good enough for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No excuse me Dont like bullshitters if your single,don't get me wrong you cant call because of kids is fair enough,but you not with kids all the time "SCHOOL"

What if they have babies? They stay with their parents quite a lot of the time. And babies don't go to school.

Hows the labour party con going ?

Shussssssshhhh now. It's sleepy time.

MMMM strange like the reds keep shouting but cant be replied

Why can you talk to me on profile but not respond.

Labour for ya !!

I don’t understand how this is political

Why no babies go to school ?

Because education usually starts at age four to five. Babies may attend a nursery or have a nanny etc if parents work or someone else may care for the babies.

So whats this got to do with the headline ?

It was pointed out that maybe parents have young children that take up most of their time so do not have ‘free time’ to make a phone call

I said kids go to school

So you had time to call.

I was going to fab you amazing derriere pic but with all the fabs you notice my fab.

But that derriere WoW!!"

Yes kids do go to school, but you said that people don’t want to phone because they have kids. Which is true in some cases, and some ‘kids’ are babies which take up pretty much all of your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all children go to school, some single parents work, some people don't want to call for any variety of reasons which I'm sure aren't good enough for you. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not all children go to school, some single parents work, some people don't want to call for any variety of reasons which I'm sure aren't good enough for you.

"

Do I need to fab your derriere again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out. "

You don't need to give your number out. Takes there's a d withhold yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

You don't need to give your number out. Takes there's a d withhold yours "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll hear my voice if/when we meet for a social at a mutually convenient location. There's plenty of other evidence that I am who I say I am. No way am I giving my number out.

You don't need to give your number out. Takes there's a d withhold yours "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

perhaps so

but were are on about the meet ?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t talk on the phone because -

1. Personal choice

2. It makes me feel uncomfortable talking to a stranger.

3. Previous experience they only wanted phone sex

4. I have kids at home. They are over 18 and therefore have big ears.

5. I really shouldn’t have to explain why. I’m 50 years old and manage meets just fine without making phone calls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t talk on the phone because -

1. Personal choice

2. It makes me feel uncomfortable talking to a stranger.

3. Previous experience they only wanted phone sex

4. I have kids at home. They are over 18 and therefore have big ears.

5. I really shouldn’t have to explain why. I’m 50 years old and manage meets just fine without making phone calls.

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So you know eveyone on here ?

No"2 Don't talk to strangers ?

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over a year ago

I HATE talking on the phone. It's 2018. I've forgotten how to do it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I HATE talking on the phone. It's 2018. I've forgotten how to do it!!!"

No mobile ?

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