FabSwingers.com forum: To scared to talk on the phone!!!

By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Some people just dont like talking on phone.

I probably wouldnt have answered either.

Even if its friends or family i cant get off the phone fast enough.

I wouldnt jump to the conclusion just yet that hs hiding anything.

Some people are just uncomfortable when it comes to phone talks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both"

*Suitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have answered either

I hate talking on the phone with someone who is effectively a stranger..

If you don't think i am who i say i am fair enough but don't try and catch me out..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone to people I don't know. If I do talk it has to be on my terms when I'm ready. If someone rings me without permission I will tell them no. Of they do it again I block the - I don't live fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt I'd have answered either. Not one for chatting on phone.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone and avoid at as much as possible unless I'm driving.

If I was texting someone new on Fab and they decided to call me I wouldn't answer it either

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

He's married the next time you speak on the phone don't be surprised if he's standing next to the M25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have answered either

I hate talking on the phone with someone who is effectively a stranger..

If you don't think i am who i say i am fair enough but don't try and catch me out.. "

This for me too. Perhaps have the decency to ask them if it's convenient time for you to call them too before doing so. There could be a million and one reasons why they couldn't/wouldn't talk to you.

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

I would prefer to meet socially ,a phone call can be awkward with a stranger .At least with a face to face you can read body language ect.

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"He's married the next time you speak on the phone don't be surprised if he's standing next to the M25"

Tee hee I hear you hun. Yeah I don't get why texting is fine but the minute you say you would like to hear my voice so I call you don't answer puzzled me. Oh well his loss tee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may have been with kids or friends.

OP why did your gut tell you there was something wrong? What other 'clues' are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I wouldn't answer either.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"He's married the next time you speak on the phone don't be surprised if he's standing next to the M25

Tee hee I hear you hun. Yeah I don't get why texting is fine but the minute you say you would like to hear my voice so I call you don't answer puzzled me. Oh well his loss tee hee"

Should of teased him out with voice notes then hit him with the phone call about 10pm when the wife's going to bed

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I regularly don't answer the phone, even with friends. I prefer to text and email.

Yesterday a friend of mine actually sent me a text (after I'd ignored her call) and said - "phone me, it's important!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy chatting on the phone in general but prefer texting those of here. Not sure how I'd feel if a fabber called me without agreement.

That said - never ignore that gut feeling

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I find talking to people I don't know on the phone, quiet hard.

If someone I was texting from here was yo suddenly call me without warning, I wouldn't answer either.

Consider the possibility also of being with one of my children, a friend or being somewhere totaly impractical for a first time chat.

If someone wants yo talk yo me, it has to be when I say it's OK.

Doesn't mean I'm hiding anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being on fab automatically makes some people suspicious of the slightest thing anyway..

I would wonder why a grown woman was saying 'tee hee' tbh as that sounds a bit creepy but what would i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

*Suitable"

I prefer shitable

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm very single and live with my cat but if someone rings me I get very tense and anxious so don't answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone too - for some reason, I just don't understand what the caller is saying, no matter how clear their speech is. I dislike phones in general, they always seem to ring when I don't want to talk to anyone or I'm busy, and the ringing just sounds like "TALK TO ME NOW, TALK TO ME NOW". Maybe I need a new ringtone

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"I think being on fab automatically makes some people suspicious of the slightest thing anyway..

I would wonder why a grown woman was saying 'tee hee' tbh as that sounds a bit creepy but what would i know"

So my laugh is different so what!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone as well unless i'm comfotable with that person.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to.

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

"We have had calls on what was on our play phone before now without warning, we ignored them. People have a life outside of Fab and are not always available to answer phones or even just don't want to."

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd never just phone someone off fab without texting to see if it's OK first. They may be busy, at work or with friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe nerves got the better of him. Have you spoken via text since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't answer a call from someone I hadn't met without arranging a time to talk.

If they ring when I'm in a public place or with my family I'm not going to have a conversation with them in earshot of others, or have to disappear into my room to talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."

In your OP you said you called because "something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right", not because he asked you to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."

Maybe he was expecting a "yes you may, is now a convenient time for me to ring you?"

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

If they haven't witheld their number I generally always answer... I prefer a phone call to a long drawn out message thing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "

I barely answer calls from my friends let alone a stranger I've only txt etc.

A whole load of reasons why he might have ignored you. Maybe got a Better offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."

Sounds like he already cum and you was too late to call

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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life.

Sounds like he already cum and you was too late to call

~You're probably right as hes messaged me quite abit after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most people I would prefer to arrange a time to talk especially the first time as I'd be nervous.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"Some people just dont like talking on phone.

I probably wouldnt have answered either.

Even if its friends or family i cant get off the phone fast enough.

I wouldnt jump to the conclusion just yet that hs hiding anything.

Some people are just uncomfortable when it comes to phone talks"

This. I can talk on phone all day at work. Hate idle chit chat on the phone

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

*Suitable"

I preferred shitable - they could both be on the bog "Hi! It's nice to...hnnnnnnnh *plop* finally chat!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate talking on the phone too

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "

What other things were telling you something wasn't right?

You might as well give the full story you've changed tack once already on the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "

But he's "Fab single and living alone".

I saw a guy for a while who was genuinely single but he used a separate phone for swinging and when he had a real girlfriend he used to take the sim out of it and hide it in the loft to stop him being tempted.

It takes all kinds.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Semi related I used to game online quite a bit and people would log into voice over up software while gaming.

Your literally talking to a bunch of strangers but is a big thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "
could he have been at work or in dentist chair or with a meet or with his kids or bank manager or at a job interview

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I rarely answer the phone .... unless I know who it is ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely answer the phone .... unless I know who it is ...."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very few people I answer the phone to and even they get don't get answered sometimes. I'm normally doing 3 or 4 things at once, so talking on the phone wouldn't help. A text you can reply when you get a few seconds and then go back to doing other stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both"

the little shit should have answered

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

An unscheduled phone call would not have been answered by us either. We do sometimes if unsure about a profile as for a chat over the phone but always ask them to tell us when is convenient.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

There's only ever one side to a story on these threads .. though the story changed..like some have said they'd not answer as well.. and any reason a lady gives for not doing or won't do something I can pretty much say the same reason will apply to other genders as well

Single guy had posted a similar tale that he'd rung a lady unannounced there'd be a different reaction from some on this thread.

Single lady posts the same tale ..the guys obviously got lots to hide.. cheating already got his rocks off .. amazing how some folk think having a vagina makes you an angel and having a penis the devil.

Whatever the reason, he chose not to answer. He's given you a reason why he didn't .. you either believe him or not.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I find talking to people I don't know on the phone, quiet hard.

If someone I was texting from here was yo suddenly call me without warning, I wouldn't answer either.

Consider the possibility also of being with one of my children, a friend or being somewhere totaly impractical for a first time chat.

If someone wants yo talk yo me, it has to be when I say it's OK.

Doesn't mean I'm hiding anything.

This for me too!

I’m with my kids a lot of the time - or at work! In either case there’s no way on earth I’m going to pick up a call from someone from fab unless they’re one of my genuine friends - not just a potential shag!

It’s only manners to arrange a mutually convenient time to chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wont do phone calls ever. Ive got nothing to hide i just dont like talking to people if i cant see their facial expressions

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

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That's funny.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes, text first to see if it's convenient to call. I rarely call my family and friends, before I've texted them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wont do phone calls ever. Ive got nothing to hide i just dont like talking to people if i cant see their facial expressions"
Ha hey talking on phone is a good way to judge character it's something I like doing

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

Shitable is my new favorite word.

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over a year ago

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Shitable is my new favorite word.

Mine too

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over a year ago

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Shitable is my new favorite word.

Mine too

I'm going to try and use it in as many sentences as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's only ever one side to a story on these threads .. though the story changed..like some have said they'd not answer as well.. and any reason a lady gives for not doing or won't do something I can pretty much say the same reason will apply to other genders as well

Single guy had posted a similar tale that he'd rung a lady unannounced there'd be a different reaction from some on this thread.

Whatever the reason, he chose not to answer. He's given you a reason why he didn't .. you either believe him or not."

hit the nail on the head there. It's all the white knights

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

He could have been somewhere that he couldn't speak openly, yes it's possible that he is up to no good, but if I had given someone my number to text me and they then called, I probably wouldn't have answered either.

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By *r Appreciator.Man
over a year ago

Bedfordshire.

"Shitable is my new favorite word.

Mine too

I'm going to try and use it in as many sentences as possible

I've been waiting for the opportunity today but it hasn't presented itself yet.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Shitable is my new favorite word.

Mine too

I'm going to try and use it in as many sentences as possible

I've been waiting for the opportunity today but it hasn't presented itself yet.

Not for me either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few days ago I was texting back and forth with someone and I decided to call them as something in my mind was telling me somthing wasn't right.

The person told me they were single and lived alone and would like to get to know me better and the minute I call they refused to answer the phone.

Has anyone else experienced this? His excuse was I caught him of guard hence him refusing to answer the call. "

Off guard. What is that even ment to mean?. I smell bs here 100%. Lexi

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I'm confused....He asked to hear my voice and when I called he never answered, I didn't realise he meant schedule an appointment for the following week.

He clearly said "Can I hear your voice" maybe I misunderstood oh well such is life."

That isn't what you said in your OP

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't have answered my phone

either if I hadn't been expecting a call

but do like to have a little chat at

some point before going on a date or meet

as it helps to put both sides a bit more

at ease and can help to tell if you're

going to get on or not.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

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Shitable was better

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Arrange a time to call thats shitable for you both

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Shitable was better

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The most amazing part of this thread is the amount of people who avoid talking to their own vanilla friends. I find that very odd??

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