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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for our female companions here.

You date three guys and they've each got a great personality. But they're different in the following ways.

1) A guy you don't love, who isn't attractive, but is absolutely loaded

2) A guy you could maybe learn to love, who's very attractive, and relatively set up

3) A guy you're head over heels for, is quite attractive, but hasn't got two pennies to rub together

Which one would you pick?

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'd follow my heart...no 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely number 3, the other two wouldn’t even get a look in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 3 definitely x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

2

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i


"A question for our female companions here.

You date three guys and they've each got a great personality. But they're different in the following ways.

1) A guy you don't love, who isn't attractive, but is absolutely loaded

2) A guy you could maybe learn to love, who's very attractive, and relatively set up

3) A guy you're head over heels for, is quite attractive, but hasn't got two pennies to rub together

Which one would you pick? "

I’m literally having a similar conversation right now with a friend, I’m not fussed on the money part but need the love and attraction bit and for him to stand on his own two feet, I have to pick number 4, he doesn’t exist yet though, I think he got lost on the way to the line up, just my luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is number 1? If Hes about to croak and leave it all to me then I'll have him.

If not then number 3

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

3... as long as we have enough for thdcessentials that's all that matters.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The essentials...

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Ha ha you don’t mention if he is capable in a certain place

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By *uuLuuWoman
over a year ago

Watford

You don't take pick for what op! Is it a trip down the Nile? Message? Making a garden hut?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

No 1 but Im a hotwife

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It would be the one who I connect with most.

Physically, mentally and emotionally.

The one I feel most comfortable with, who can be myself with, relax and open up to. The one I can be open and honest with. The one I trust and the one who I think feels the same way about me too.

If it’s none of them, then the one that fucks best till the next great fuck comes along

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. I want head over heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

3, but depending on the reasons why he doesn't have any money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 3.could never be with someone just for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. I want that head over heals feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I respect the realists on here... but I the romantics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The latter always!

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By *rxmrsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin westmeath galway

Definitely have to go with number 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 3.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take Lolly Badcock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 3

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

3 all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. Ive seen 1 go wrong too many times, Ive done 3 so would just have to hope no 2 could make me laugh at least

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'd go for the cash, love is a waste of time and has led me down the wrong path before.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I always try to find 2 and end up with 3!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

2. Basically who I’m married to. I did eventually fall head over heels for him quite quickly!

I had 3. when I was in my early twenties. Lazy bastard. Would stay up gaming all night and sleep all day while I was working 15 hours a day to afford the rent. To hell with that. He eventually proposed but I thought I’d be having a child, not a spouse. So I called the wedding off 2 weeks before....

So 2, every time...

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Interesting. I've always been the starving artist type and always connected with girls who prioritised a good relationship and deep emotional and physical attraction above all else. All they want are cuddles, plentiful sex and maybe a nice handbag each birthday and christmas! But there comes a time when they want to build a nest and things like a suitable family home become important. Its never really been a territory where I felt comfortable.

But I have now taken a decision which will bring me closer to no1 financially eventually but sadly I will have make a sacrifice by living in a foreign land for a number of years to do so. It will be interesting to see whether it will change me as a person. I hate the idea of someone being with me only because of my money. My old man was poor throughout his life until he inherited a fortune and it turned him into a total dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. 3.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why doesn't no 3 have any money? Compulsive gambler, can't hold a job down, drinker? Struggling artist, principled charity worker?

In the long run you might as well go for love because money comes and money goes.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

So what I really meant to say is, yeah 3 is nice and romantic but is it sustainable and realisitic in the long term? 3 might be a good basis but eventually I think people need to evolve. I think I might have taken my time to delay this but I think it is time I grew up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never needed money. As long as I can pay my bills and have spare I'm fine so it's totally no 3

If I'm head over heels, he's having it whether he's loaded or not

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

Date all 3 just make sure they never meet

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

I have been with "3" and it was a disaster.

But I would go for "3" every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one that fucks best that I find hot.

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Depends what your needs are too. If you are 18 then your priorities will differ to someone who is 28 or someone who is 48.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d go for 2

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Have tried all 3 variations and it was shit. Much happier now with the full package

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends what your needs are too. If you are 18 then your priorities will differ to someone who is 28 or someone who is 48."

Very true. At 61 my priorities are very different to when I was younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had money 3. If not then 2. Lexi

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