FabSwingers.com forum: The worst judges of single men....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

... on Fab are the males in couples !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing. "

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men generally have a bit of a reputation on fab, but I’ve had more trouble with couples in all honesty. I’m sure I’ll be lambasted by a couple for this...

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

What bout the males in couples that started as singles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal."

Yeah I suppose I can see why. I guess not being judgemental myself I struggle with the bashing of other people in general.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What bout the males in couples that started as singles? "

It’s like ex smokers are the most judgemental of smokers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... on Fab are the males in couples ! "

I would disagree I have had hundreds of single guys bitching about other single men on here.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

"What bout the males in couples that started as singles?

It’s like ex smokers are the most judgemental of smokers. "

Nothing beats the piety of a new convert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby has a very good judgement of character, he's never wrong about people of any gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like we need a vote to narrow down this pressing issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... on Fab are the males in couples !

I would disagree I have had hundreds of single guys bitching about other single men on here. "

On the forums you get a few males hiding behind there couples profiles getting snide digs in. Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks like we need a vote to narrow down this pressing issue."

I deal with the issues that matter, this and my depressed dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... on Fab are the males in couples !

I would disagree I have had hundreds of single guys bitching about other single men on here.

On the forums you get a few males hiding behind there couples profiles getting snide digs in. Just an observation. "

You should have said that in your first post I didn't realise it was a dig at men in couples thread.

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

The single guys I have met have not given me a reason to not like them - it’s the married ones I am cautious of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal."

Presumably they are not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Presumably they are not

No they’re just having sex with someone in front of their partner. Personally that’s harder for me to understand than someone who is cheating on their partner but hey ho. Like i said. We’re not here to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... are other single men

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Been a single man on here so i know how hard things are.

Now I am on here as a couple i work on the simple level of manners cost nothing... If people are civil and both of us like them them we talk. Simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt know uf iv been judged dont care either im happy what i do only peoples judgment i care about or the ladys iv met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal."

Some of them do cheat though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldnt know uf iv been judged dont care either im happy what i do only peoples judgment i care about or the ladys iv met"

I’m allowed to judge you though aren’t I

. You can judge me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wouldnt know uf iv been judged dont care either im happy what i do only peoples judgment i care about or the ladys iv met

I’m allowed to judge you though aren’t I

. You can judge me too. "

Ok il allow the odd exeption

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though. "
Marriage breakers..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Single men generally have a bit of a reputation on fab, but I’ve had more trouble with couples in all honesty. I’m sure I’ll be lambasted by a couple for this..."

I've found the same actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing. "

I've found it's from couples' profiles that some of the worse vitriol is spouted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

I've found it's from couples' profiles that some of the worse vitriol is spouted. "

Yep. Not all tbf but certain ones yes. I just don’t like it full stop, whoever it is. Plenty of stuff on here I have pretty strong opinions on but choose to keep it to myself. Number 1. Nobody probably gives a shit. And 2. It’s got fuck all to do with me what they do.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Numpties come in all shapes and sizes (and profile types) I guess.

Now, about your dog, are you sure he’s not depressed because you spend more time posting on fab forums than scratching between his ears?

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"... on Fab are the males in couples ! "

Very true. Unless they were on fab as a single man before getting into a couple. That's why we get on well with guys as hubby knows how it is. Lexi

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By *BlueTooMan
over a year ago

eskbank

"... on Fab are the males in couples !

I would disagree I have had hundreds of single guys bitching about other single men on here. "

I would agree in this.. and it is valid.

I was here as a couple and the number of single men that winked/ messaged once and then several times when the profile clearly stated not too.. right at the top so it could not be missed.

However, some couple and single women.. start to chat and then ghost and some arrange to meet and then cancel / not turn up.

My point is: there are many people here who waste time, either in want to meet but can’t go through with it or just fantasy or maybe people who aren’t what they seem.

Unfortunately these ruin it for the genuine people.

Everybody deals with it in their own way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Presumably they are not

It’s more honest and open and that’s what I prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though. "

And that’s not cool then if they are judging others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though.

And that’s not cool then if they are judging others."

I am so close to proposing to you It's driving my balls into a frenzy

I mean...Yea they shouldn't judge others. Dickheads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though.

And that’s not cool then if they are judging others.

I am so close to proposing to you It's driving my balls into a frenzy

I mean...Yea they shouldn't judge others. Dickheads"

Don’t marry me unless you want to swing with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though.

And that’s not cool then if they are judging others.

I am so close to proposing to you It's driving my balls into a frenzy

I mean...Yea they shouldn't judge others. Dickheads

Don’t marry me unless you want to swing with me.

Deal. I'll see you in my PMs

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

I was contacted by a couple not long ago. It's fairly clear from my profile that I'm not looking for M/F couples but the male of this couple messaged me asking if I wanted to fuck his wife. I replied with a polite, 'thanks, but no thanks'. The reply to my message came from his wife, demanding to see the pics in my private gallery as her husband had sent me pics of her in his opening message. Again I was polite and told her I wasn't interested. I got dog's abuse from both of them then they blocked me.

I'm lucky in that I get exactly what I want from here but the perception seems to be that because I'm a single man I should be expected to jump at any offer or request presented to me. That's utterly ridiculous, but as Bruce Hornsby said, 'That's just the way it is...".

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

Waite patiently its worth so fare i only met one genuine couples if you are bored sending messages worth trying social or club events

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It's not rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah, these are genuine couples, can spot some bloke jerking off behind a couples profile from outer space.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

We have no problem with single men (or anyone else). Just simply take people as we find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!! That’s true.

And when I’ve read the bash the married men threads it’s the couples who do the proper bashing.

That’s because they are not cheating behind someone’s back. I would expect couples to be more vocal.

Some of them do cheat though.

And that’s not cool then if they are judging others."

No, but that's life

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I think perhaps women are the most harsh in their judgements of men. From what I’ve seen on the forums anyway. I wouldn’t know about in terms of meeting or messaging.

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