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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Hi this is mainly to all the ladies here.

What do many of ladies look for in a single gent.

Is it the appearence, profile pics, veris etc.

What would appeal to you to make you want to chat/meet

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics first, if there's no physical attraction it just won't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging. "

Pretty much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi this is mainly to all the ladies here.

What do many of ladies look for in a single gent.

Is it the appearence, profile pics, veris etc.

What would appeal to you to make you want to chat/meet"

Profile text like yours.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging. "

In a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not so fussed about the pics. Just looking for body type and not overly tattooed. Minus points for every cock pic and for pics sat in car.

The profile text is what does it for me. Informative but with humour wins every time.

If that looks good I’ll go back to the pics and read the message.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Pictures that grab my attention, if there's no attraction it end there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not so fussed about the pics. Just looking for body type and not overly tattooed. Minus points for every cock pic and for pics sat in car.

The profile text is what does it for me. Informative but with humour wins every time.

If that looks good I’ll go back to the pics and read the message."

I'm intrigued, why no pics in a car?

Like he might be hiding outside from the wife?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I see where they live first.

If they can accommodate.

Pics to see if there's an attraction.

Profile content to see a glimpse into how their mind works.

Read the message next, if all good reply

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hi this is mainly to all the ladies here.

What do many of ladies look for in a single gent.

Is it the appearence, profile pics, veris etc.

What would appeal to you to make you want to chat/meet

Profile text like yours. "

Well thankyou lovely lady

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My process usually goes something like the following when I get a first message:

Smoker? If so no.

Has this person stayed within my boundaries or done anything I specifically don't want? (got around my filters, things I've listed in my profile)

Message contents (does it tell me what I want to know, does it interest me, is it clear they've read and have responded to my profile? Are they polite, friendly and respectful?)

Profile text

Pictures/ attraction (plus too many cock shots is a no)

Verifications if applicable (is this person safe, friendly and respectful?)

Other if applicable (status or forum posts)

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging.

In a nutshell "

Does my profile picture capture anybodys attention?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging.

In a nutshell

Does my profile picture capture anybodys attention?"

I prefer the blue shirt pic.

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By *weetandHung OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Profile picture catches my attention first, then ill look at the rest of the pictures, then read the profile, if that's all good then I'll read the message they've sent. Or if they've not messaged me I'll hotlist them for future messaging.

In a nutshell

Does my profile picture capture anybodys attention?

I prefer the blue shirt pic. "

I will change it especially for you

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