FabSwingers.com forum: Temper Tantrums

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them..

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block. So easy and saves the irritation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you keep replying to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah but you’re an ethical slut, with control and standards.

I wonder how these people cope with not getting their way in real life? I’m thinking massive sulks and bullying of submissive partners.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?"

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah but you’re an ethical slut, with control and standards.

I wonder how these people cope with not getting their way in real life? I’m thinking massive sulks and bullying of submissive partners."

I think they are probably the kind of people that seek control in everything that they do, and when they realise they are faced with someone who won't bow down, they turn into children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it!!!

Apparently I'm a racist because I turned someone down!

A report for abuse and blocked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell me about it!!!

Apparently I'm a racist because I turned someone down!

A report for abuse and blocked! "

Those ones are the worst!

One came at me in the forums once because I was apparently racist for not wanting him.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It says a lot more about them than it does about you. There is no place for their kind of behaviour and it’s very unfortunate that it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested."

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Tell me about it!!!

Apparently I'm a racist because I turned someone down!

A report for abuse and blocked!

Those ones are the worst!

One came at me in the forums once because I was apparently racist for not wanting him."

Agreed. But if you don’t want me you’re sexist and ageist! #justsaying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It says a lot more about them than it does about you. There is no place for their kind of behaviour and it’s very unfortunate that it happens. "

Thanks, I just find it incredibly bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

"you women"

Nice one Clem.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It says a lot more about them than it does about you. There is no place for their kind of behaviour and it’s very unfortunate that it happens.

Thanks, I just find it incredibly bizarre."

I haven’t experienced it but it must be awful when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

Yeah some of them are very respectful after you reach out, it's just the small handful of idiots.

Some of them get so annoyed they send an abusive message right before blocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell me about it!!!

Apparently I'm a racist because I turned someone down!

A report for abuse and blocked!

Those ones are the worst!

One came at me in the forums once because I was apparently racist for not wanting him.

Agreed. But if you don’t want me you’re sexist and ageist! #justsaying!

Haha! How men hate when the tables are turned as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It says a lot more about them than it does about you. There is no place for their kind of behaviour and it’s very unfortunate that it happens.

Thanks, I just find it incredibly bizarre.

I haven’t experienced it but it must be awful when it happens. "

I hope you don't experience it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

Yeah some of them are very respectful after you reach out, it's just the small handful of idiots.

Some of them get so annoyed they send an abusive message right before blocking"

Thats irritating. They're too scared about what the reply would be. Wimps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

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The reason is sexual frustration, also an inability to understand reason.

Solution- for you: use the block function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

Yeah some of them are very respectful after you reach out, it's just the small handful of idiots.

Some of them get so annoyed they send an abusive message right before blocking

Thats irritating. They're too scared about what the reply would be. Wimps

Because they know that strong women would completely destroy them as we know how to handle pussies haha!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button."

Very true. I've had one have an entire tantrum whilst I was sleeping before.

I woke up and apparently I was a disrespectful whore with a loose vagina and saggy tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy."

But if you aren't interested in them why on earth are you continuing conversation with them? That's what I find odd. What's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm a racist ugly whore apparently.

I admit I laughed so hard. Had it been someone who's opinion mattered to me who thought that about me then I may be narked and questioning how I behave, however it was merely a adult sperm who couldn't handle rejection. Even worse for his ego, I stood up to him whilst rejecting him, recommending he spoke to women like humans, and nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy.

But if you aren't interested in them why on earth are you continuing conversation with them? That's what I find odd. What's the point?"

Literally to let them that it is inappropriate to keep messaging someone after a rejection.

I only ever send them two messages, one to say no, and another to tell them that politely that they are being creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!"

Because you weren't their type or to save you the embarrassment of messaging again at some point

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Being nice doesn't always work. You don't owe anyone and explanation.

I say no thanks, if they come back with nonsense. I delete , block and get on with life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!"

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nightmares on here.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fragile masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!"

Okay, that is weird that she blocked you, but kudos for you being a real man and taking it on the shoulder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy.

But if you aren't interested in them why on earth are you continuing conversation with them? That's what I find odd. What's the point?"

It puzzles me also..

Either reply because you are interested or don't because you aren't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a racist ugly whore apparently.

Oh my god, seriously?!

These people are insane!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy.

But if you aren't interested in them why on earth are you continuing conversation with them? That's what I find odd. What's the point?"

I agree, what is the point, send a reply saying no thank you and tell them you are going to block as it saves them trying to contact you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

Because you weren't their type or to save you the embarrassment of messaging again at some point "

I've solved that one now, I send a polite reply then block them so no more messages can be sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt instead of just blocking them. As has been said, some of them realise after that they have been a little creepy.

But if you aren't interested in them why on earth are you continuing conversation with them? That's what I find odd. What's the point?

It puzzles me also..

Either reply because you are interested or don't because you aren't "

This woman gets it! I sometimes wonder if I'm the only sane person on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being nice doesn't always work. You don't owe anyone and explanation.

I say no thanks, if they come back with nonsense. I delete , block and get on with life

I can't help being nice sometimes...I'm lovely until I'm in the bedroom haha!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I enjoy it when they throw a wobbler when I'm on my period.

I can't destroy them physically but I shall crush their ego with my period rage and big words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

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do you snore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people really struggle dealing with rejection too. Those people really shouldn't use this site, it will end up being quite destructive to them.

The number ratio is so sided to single guys on here, I think so many don't realise that, also don't have any clue what a single woman may actually want from this site either. As for the people who don't believe that you don't want to meet them even after you have told them, well I think that comes down to mental illness perhaps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fab has the very best of people, but also more than its fair share of those who I wonder how they tie their shoelaces much less function as law abiding adults. It's pathetic and frightening (if you allow yourself to dwell on the fact that these people live among us).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

do you snore?"

Haha! Only when I'm really ill

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

Because you weren't their type or to save you the embarrassment of messaging again at some point

I've solved that one now, I send a polite reply then block them so no more messages can be sent."

See, this fella gets it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people really struggle dealing with rejection too. Those people really shouldn't use this site, it will end up being quite destructive to them.

A lot of them come across as egomaniacs. The slightest bruise and they lose it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested. "

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fragile masculinity.

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"Trure masculinity" is always very fragile, it's just disguised.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab has the very best of people, but also more than its fair share of those who I wonder how they tie their shoelaces much less function as law abiding adults. It's pathetic and frightening (if you allow yourself to dwell on the fact that these people live among us). "

I can honestly say that this comment genuinely made me guffaw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

do you snore?

Haha! Only when I'm really ill"
Well its that time of year for flu

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

do you snore?

Haha! Only when I'm really illWell its that time of year for flu "

But alas! I am fit as a fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys can't handle the rejection as it makes a huge dent in their ego.

Me on the other hand have become totally used to rejection, so it's like water off a ducks back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

Okay, that is weird that she blocked you, but kudos for you being a real man and taking it on the shoulder!"

It does not bother me but I always give a polite thank you for your response reply there is no need to be vulgar or rude No means no simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men are arseholes , just block the ones that are

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I block them when they don’t get the message. I’ve tried being nice. It doesn’t always work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most guys can't handle the rejection as it makes a huge dent in their ego.

Me on the other hand have become totally used to rejection, so it's like water off a ducks back

There are so many people in the world that rejection shouldn't be something that causes such an explosive reaction. Cool and casual is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not all men are arseholes , just block the ones that are "

I know that, but I like to get some of the ones that pester, the benefit of the doubt.

One actually made another profile and came back into my inbox just to have a go at me. Some of these people are incredibly sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

do you snore?

Haha! Only when I'm really illWell its that time of year for flu

But alas! I am fit as a fiddle"
are you can I play a tune on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all men are arseholes , just block the ones that are "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone i had message from one guy that said "because i am so polite and none abusive i was going to send you my face pic no you can go fuck yourself you fucking polite twat" i teported hin he was blocked out from the site. For god sake what mind has this guy have !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

do you snore?

Haha! Only when I'm really illWell its that time of year for flu

But alas! I am fit as a fiddleare you can I play a tune on you "

Haha! What a line

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi everyone i had message from one guy that said "because i am so polite and none abusive i was going to send you my face pic no you can go fuck yourself you fucking polite twat" i teported hin he was blocked out from the site. For god sake what mind has this guy have !!!"

It's like he had two personalities in a single message.

I think it was Smeagol/Gollum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite!"
what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite! what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more. "

You're being very confrontational about this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

Some of them get so annoyed they send an abusive message right before blocking"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button.

Very true. I've had one have an entire tantrum whilst I was sleeping before.

I woke up and apparently I was a disrespectful whore with a loose vagina and saggy tits"

We have a fair number of those, plus loads who ask “can you tell me why not” which is annoying. People are generally rude nowadays so I guess it isn’t surprising they are vile to you.

His abuse about you being a disrespectful whore who has saggy tits are obviously wrong (I can’t comment on his other vile assertion but I bet he’s wrong about that too.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being nice doesn't always work. You don't owe anyone and explanation.

I say no thanks, if they come back with nonsense. I delete , block and get on with life

This. I never engage with anyone I'm not interested in meeting. My polite rejection is the end of the conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button.

Very true. I've had one have an entire tantrum whilst I was sleeping before.

I woke up and apparently I was a disrespectful whore with a loose vagina and saggy tits

We have a fair number of those, plus loads who ask “can you tell me why not” which is annoying. People are generally rude nowadays so I guess it isn’t surprising they are vile to you.

His abuse about you being a disrespectful whore who has saggy tits are obviously wrong (I can’t comment on his other vile assertion but I bet he’s wrong about that too.)"

I never respond when people ask why not, telling someone you don't find them attractive is never a fun thing to do and we are all here to have fun!

Thank you haha! I'm very sure that my vagina doesn't hang down either, so all his assertions were incorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most guys can't handle the rejection as it makes a huge dent in their ego.

Me on the other hand have become totally used to rejection, so it's like water off a ducks back

There are so many people in the world that rejection shouldn't be something that causes such an explosive reaction. Cool and casual is the way forward"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite! what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more.

You're being very confrontational about this subject."

Seems someone does not like us polite and courteous types. So I've just been to her profile and blocked her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people really struggle dealing with rejection too. Those people really shouldn't use this site, it will end up being quite destructive to them.

A lot of them come across as egomaniacs. The slightest bruise and they lose it."

I think a lot of the aggressive guys on here are probably the type that store up all the things they don't like in life and then can use online messages because you are not a person - they probably wouldn't turn up if you suggested a meet, its just a fantasy for them.

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

after reading your profile it says exactly what you want on it i would not reply to these creeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button.

Very true. I've had one have an entire tantrum whilst I was sleeping before.

I woke up and apparently I was a disrespectful whore with a loose vagina and saggy tits

We have a fair number of those, plus loads who ask “can you tell me why not” which is annoying. People are generally rude nowadays so I guess it isn’t surprising they are vile to you.

His abuse about you being a disrespectful whore who has saggy tits are obviously wrong (I can’t comment on his other vile assertion but I bet he’s wrong about that too.)

I never respond when people ask why not, telling someone you don't find them attractive is never a fun thing to do and we are all here to have fun!

Thank you haha! I'm very sure that my vagina doesn't hang down either, so all his assertions were incorrect"

I thought as much. Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

We don't get abuse- does that mean no-one is desperate to fuck us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention. "

Amen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite! what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more.

You're being very confrontational about this subject.

Seems someone does not like us polite and courteous types. So I've just been to her profile and blocked her."

that's very impolite of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested. "

Aaaah but then he can’t perv anymore from afar! Quelle tragédie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

Amen."
The touch paper has been lit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seem to be a few mixed views about this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you keep replying to them?

I replied to him twice.

Once to let him know that I wasn't interested, once to tell him that it's not right to expect everything from someone whom has said they are not interested.

I usually reply and say that I won't ever meet the type of man that won't take "no" for an answer.

Usually that makes the decent ones realise how creepy they are and they sometimes apologise. After that I don't ever reply again. If they get abusive just report them.

And always take abuse as a compliment. It means they are desperate to fuck you.

We don't get abuse- does that mean no-one is desperate to fuck us

Well I'm not desperate maybe that's why I laways send a polite reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the fuss.

At the end of the day it's an internet site full of strangers. They don't know me, their opinion of me is totally insignificant.

I have it on my profile that I won't reply if not interested and I don't. If they get stroppy that's their issue, it makes no difference to my day.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

So....I sent a lovely lady a polite, ‘I would like to fook thy bum’ol!’

She promptly blocked me.

Deplorable discourteousness on her part....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the fuss.

At the end of the day it's an internet site full of strangers. They don't know me, their opinion of me is totally insignificant.

I have it on my profile that I won't reply if not interested and I don't. If they get stroppy that's their issue, it makes no difference to my day. "

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite! what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more.

You're being very confrontational about this subject.

Seems someone does not like us polite and courteous types. So I've just been to her profile and blocked her.

that's very impolite of you

Nope was being polite and doing exactly what you where suggesting we all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

No it does not bother me at all, just find it strange when I'm being polite! what's being polite got to do with it?

It's just a tool of the site. Don't view it as anything more.

You're being very confrontational about this subject.

Seems someone does not like us polite and courteous types. So I've just been to her profile and blocked her.

that's very impolite of you

Nope was being polite and doing exactly what you where suggesting we all do

If ever a point was so completely missed... never mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

Aaaah but then he can’t perv anymore from afar! Quelle tragédie!"

If someone says no that's the end of it, I have no interest in perving their profile.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention. "

You’re wrong Tame. Block and delete does not stop a thing. They resurface with a new profile. I for one, would not enjoy that type if attention and nobody should have to experience it just because some folk are too immature to be on an adult site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love it when someone winks at me, sends me a friend request, then types a message, I politely reply I'm not interested, then he sends another one with a few pics in, I then repeat myself "Sorry but I'm not interested, you're not my type" and he then asks "Oh how come?"...

priceless

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

Plus, women are trained from a young age to be polite, accommodating, and give people the benefit of the doubt. It's training that needs to be undone to survive here, but it's a bit of a head fuck.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being polite. Some of you react to it likes it’s a crime ... it’s part of being a descent human being. Just because it’s a sex site doesn’t mean human behaviour has to disintegrate into the pits.

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested.

Aaaah but then he can’t perv anymore from afar! Quelle tragédie!

If someone says no that's the end of it, I have no interest in perving their profile.

Why the incredulity of being blocked then? Scarlet is correct, it shouldn’t bother you enough to post about it in the thread if there’s no loss to you. She’s explained why it doesn’t automatically translate to being rude but you’ve dismissed that so....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is absolutely nothing wrong with being polite. Some of you react to it likes it’s a crime ... it’s part of being a descent human being. Just because it’s a sex site doesn’t mean human behaviour has to disintegrate into the pits.

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life. "

Is this suggesting that a no reply or block is always impolite? I do hope not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

Amen. The touch paper has been lit

No paper needed, it’s all online these days.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life.

Is this suggesting that a no reply or block is always impolite? I do hope not."

Of course I’m not Estella I’m referring to the mocking of people that reply because they feel it is polite. Why do you hope not? If that was my opinion I would be just entitled to it surely?

Blocking and deleting is not the only way to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of men that react badly but if you want to see a tantrum then reject a female on here. They’re not used to it and rarely take it well at all in my experience so it’s far from just men that act in such a way.

I’d say simply deleting the message is the easiest way for all parties but you should be able to choose how you go about it, like the OP that likes to be polite.

It often gets lost that single guys have to do the hunting and that can lead to a lot of rejection, which can be tough for anyone. Quite frankly most women don’t understand this and haven’t had to deal with it, but are very critical all the same.

Also, we have probably all noticed the egos that some get from being on here and there are a lot that revel in rejecting people and aren’t the best people about it.

Basically if a guy is just a dick then block them accordingly, but remember it’s far from just the guys and some of your fellow females can fuel such behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life.

Is this suggesting that a no reply or block is always impolite? I do hope not."

It seems that some think so... that's why I'm the bad guy in this. It's no skin off my nose if others are suffering abuse from those they turn down. I get no abuse because I ignore those I'm not interested in. I'd rather be labelled impolite and be happy with my fab time than be polite to every message and be miserable. But hey ho. We all must do what is right for us.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life.

Is this suggesting that a no reply or block is always impolite? I do hope not.

I don’t ignore, I respond and I get a polite response back saying thank you for the reply. You’re right though ... we should do what suits us best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life.

Is this suggesting that a no reply or block is always impolite? I do hope not.

Of course I’m not Estella I’m referring to the mocking of people that reply because they feel it is polite. Why do you hope not? If that was my opinion I would be just entitled to it surely?

Blocking and deleting is not the only way to respond. "

Thank you for clarifying, I genuinely wanted to know and that makes more sense. I just find the binary argument frustrating! ie. to answer is polite and to ignore is not, that’s simplistic and wrong on many occasions, which was my point.

The hope not, was hoping that wasn’t your opinion. Even if it was, why would you then interpret that to mean you couldn’t have or voice that opinion? Thanks for asking and not assuming though, I appreciate that - as that interpretation is categorically not what I mean.

I think there’s more nuance to the posts disagreeing too than assuming intent is to mock. It might be, but I still think it’s worth asking. I read it as genuine disbelief.

I agree blocking and deleting is not the only way, but it is a way and its use can be for a multitude of reasons without the doer being ascribed as impolite. But you agreed with that!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I used to reply to every message when I was meeeting. Once I stopped meeting I changed my profile accordingly and made it clear I would only reply to friends and forumites. My profile states all other messages will be deleted and they are. I haven’t received abuse, although those that send messages again at some point I do block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just all women have been polite on here, never had one get funny. The only problems I’ve encountered are with couples, I just presume it was the bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I just all women have been polite on here, never had one get funny. The only problems I’ve encountered are with couples, I just presume it was the bloke."

*say

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I’m polite and I will stay that way. It works very well for me and has all my life. "

I'd rather reply to everyone and be nice, friendly, and accommodating in the way I've been taught since I was a toddler, but for me it results in an avalanche of abuse, whining, and generally too many messages to handle. You do what works for you, of course. I've decided that I'd rather find my Fab experience tolerable so I can meet those who are worth meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez you women make things hard for yourselves!

Yeah, yeah, yeah. We all know to report and block. Just sometimes they get their tantrum in quicker than we hit the block button.

Very true. I've had one have an entire tantrum whilst I was sleeping before.

I woke up and apparently I was a disrespectful whore with a loose vagina and saggy tits"

Must have been a shock when you looked down at your body..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

Plus, women are trained from a young age to be polite, accommodating, and give people the benefit of the doubt. It's training that needs to be undone to survive here, but it's a bit of a head fuck. "

Absolutely this. And it’s taken some of us a while.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Block and delete, block and delete. But women love the drama and the attention.

Plus, women are trained from a young age to be polite, accommodating, and give people the benefit of the doubt. It's training that needs to be undone to survive here, but it's a bit of a head fuck.

Absolutely this. And it’s taken some of us a while."

Oh god yes. Probably took me four months, during which I had (as I wasn't meeting much) a phenomenal amount of abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On from the other side of the fence.

I got a reply once saying "No not interested" so I replied "thank you for replying, take care and good luck in your search"

And I still got blocked!!

And? That really shouldn't bother you. They said they weren't interested so they've blocked so there's no further contact... saves you messaging someone who isn't interested. "

Plus stops them showing up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tendancy to spit dummy out inly when plans fall thru im embarassed to say

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By *aty_BWoman
over a year ago

Epsom, S, London

I would just block them before it get to a flashpoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I won't do it again honey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested? "

No idea - I wouldn't bother asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested? "

Because there full of themselves and think there gods gift. I delete all sent messages as soon as sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested? "

I don’t come back..Just a thankyou for the reply and acknowledging the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just aren't capable of handling rejection and aren't grown up enough to deal with situations. It's pathetic and you're better off ignoring them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

No idea - I wouldn't bother asking."

Haha! Don’t worry, I wasn’t expecting everyone to have an answer as it seems only a small group of people seem to do it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested? "

I'm not a bloke and I've not done it, but I've had messages telling me that they have to try again because I'm perfect for them and they have to have me. Ick. (shows no consideration for what I want, I end up blocking them)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

Because there full of themselves and think there gods gift. I delete all sent messages as soon as sent

That is a good reason, it seems some people need to understand such a think as diversity in taste.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

I should say, I know damn well I'm not God's gift etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

Frigid slut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some just aren't capable of handling rejection and aren't grown up enough to deal with situations. It's pathetic and you're better off ignoring them."

Oh I never respond to them, I just always wonder if it’s searching for a response or they really don’t understand that not everyone is attracted to them.

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

Is this not the exact opposite to being a slut??????

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

Frigid slut!"

Oh, the number of times I've actually been called that...

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

No idea - I wouldn't bother asking."

Same here, why waste your own and others time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

And when they follow it up with what they will do to you and literally write a dissertation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that when I request not to be constantly inboxed by someone to whom I have made it very clear I am not interested in, they become three year olds?

I mean like full on throwing toys out of the pram tantrums.

Eventually these kinds of people always call me a slut for not wanting to sleep with them

Frigid slut!"

Oh Jim! How did you know?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice "

Wait, I was the only one that signed a contract saying that when online I had to fuck anyone who looks at me within a 100 mile radius? What gives?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice "

Haha! I had one last night that said ‘I just booked a hotel for us, here’s my number, I will send you the address.’

I ignored it completely

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

No idea - I wouldn't bother asking.

Haha! Don’t worry, I wasn’t expecting everyone to have an answer as it seems only a small group of people seem to do it"

For me in this, if I ask I'm curious as to if there's something on my profile that has put them off which I could improve for future success, obviously I look the way I look so if that's the problem then that's fine

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By *irthy73Man
over a year ago

stourport

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

Wait, I was the only one that signed a contract saying that when online I had to fuck anyone who looks at me within a 100 mile radius? What gives? "
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Did you?

80 miles yes I’m in

lol (I wish)

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

Wait, I was the only one that signed a contract saying that when online I had to fuck anyone who looks at me within a 100 mile radius? What gives? "

Ohhhh we looked at you, we are on the VIP package so we fall into the extra milage range

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

And when they follow it up with what they will do to you and literally write a dissertation

Yeah. Or a wank fantasy that starts out like a bad horror film

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

No idea - I wouldn't bother asking.

Haha! Don’t worry, I wasn’t expecting everyone to have an answer as it seems only a small group of people seem to do it

That’s an interesting way at looking at it, but I don’t usually have the one to look at the profiles of those who message me. The impression in which they make is that initial message.

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over a year ago

Bristol

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

Haha! I had one last night that said ‘I just booked a hotel for us, here’s my number, I will send you the address.’

I ignored it completely "

Ohhh now you have his number, id be writing it on allllll the toilet walls i could... "Call for a good time, especially 9-5, send cock pics too 07xxxxxxxx"

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over a year ago

"Gentlemen, may I ask you why some of you come back and ask why we aren’t interested?

And when they follow it up with what they will do to you and literally write a dissertation

Yeah. Or a wank fantasy that starts out like a bad horror film

Literally just looked at my inbox and had one of those! I shuddered then laughed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

Haha! I had one last night that said ‘I just booked a hotel for us, here’s my number, I will send you the address.’

I ignored it completely

Ohhh now you have his number, id be writing it on allllll the toilet walls i could... "Call for a good time, especially 9-5, send cock pics too 07xxxxxxxx""

I’d put cock pics only

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Gawd.... Its almost as if there are men on here who are entitled to fuck who they want, when they want and they want a sandwich after... How dare any woman say no to messages like

"Wanna fuck?"

"I wanna ruin you"

Its almost as if there are rights and things...

Oh.... Wait... Bugger

**this post does contain sarcasm, if offended please seek immediate medical advice

Haha! I had one last night that said ‘I just booked a hotel for us, here’s my number, I will send you the address.’

I ignored it completely

Ohhh now you have his number, id be writing it on allllll the toilet walls i could... "Call for a good time, especially 9-5, send cock pics too 07xxxxxxxx"

I’d put cock pics only

Hehehe its only fair

see how certain men enjoy the tables being turned on them

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