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Shortest and longest time from initial contact to play meet?

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Both ends of the spectrum. What was the fastest and longest period of time from initial contact by message to an actual play meet?

My fastest was 5 days from initial contact to a meet that should've just been a social but turned out to be more (first fab meet no less!). The longest was three months of pleasant chatting and build up to an actual meet were everything was ventured. Both very satisfying and memorable

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The faster was pretty much instant (club encounter) the longest was probably about 3 months.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The shortest was 6 hours

The longest was over 3 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fastest was an hour (not like me but he was persuasive) but usually it takes me 2-3 months, longer sometimes depending on availability etc

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Putting aside people met in clubs (if I didn't the answer would be "seconds" ) think the fastest was a few weeks, longest (and the norm for me) was about four or five months of chatting and getting to know one another.

Had one meet where we agreed the date to meet in December or January, and that date was June!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Fastest was 4 days, met for a social day 2, then again 2 days later.

Longest, was almost a year, became great friends over that time, eventually sorted our diaries out & met for a social.

Still going strong 6mths later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All have been 2-4 weeks.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Shortest was a few months, longest was well over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortest was a few minutes (it didn't go well) to 2 years (due to distance/timing and went well)

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Excluding clubs a couple of hours is the quickest.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Shortest a few hour, longest a couple of years and counting lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortest a day, longest, almost 2 years. Both absolutely worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cpl hrs chatting on here then met in his hotel

(Was in my wild younger days lol)

Now I like to have a social 1st then arrange another play date.

Way too many nutters on here now for an instashag meet lol

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Shortest was about 90 minutes and the longest was a couple of years when our diaries finally synced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortest a few hours.

Longest, several months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a club, practically instant (on one or two rare occasions). On here, a couple of hours to a day (also fairly uncommon, due to finding so few people attractive). The only reason I would delay where there is obvious mutual attraction would be for logistical/geographical reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortest...four hours, started chatting 10am & met for a social at 2pm, ending up being more than a social though & still friends now

Longest...two weeks, because of the snow!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

it takes a couple of weeks to sort out a date so 2 weeks for the shortest. I can't think what longest has been. 4 months I would think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shortest, about 20 mins, longest about 18 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortest 24 hours and longest 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fastest was a couple of hours I think, the one and only time a "meet now" ever worked for me The longest was probably a few months.

C

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Outside of club's my shortest has been a couple of hours and the longest 2 weeks.

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By *hillout OP   Man
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Interesting the amount of people that have arranged a full on meet within mere hours of chatting outside of a club. Talk about delicious spontaneity!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My shortest was 24 hours. My longest over a year. Both lovely nights.

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By *onny69sMan
over a year ago

Donny

About 2 hours for the quickest. Longest I'm still working on it..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

3 years and getting longer but she'll give in eventually

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Fastest was just over an hour. Longest was over 3 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excludung club play, my fastest meet has been from first message to his bed within 2 hours. The longest I would say would be about a month.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Shortest was two hours

Longest was four years

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Off fab? I’d say 2 hours from first message to having sex

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Excluding club play, a week to four months. Under 24 hours if we count any sexual contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting the amount of people that have arranged a full on meet within mere hours of chatting outside of a club. Talk about delicious spontaneity! "

Sometimes you just have to go for it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Shortest about twelve hours

Longest about three years

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

Shortest a couple of hours and longest a couple of weeks so far, I’m still quite new here though so I’m sure there’ll be longer waits in the future

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Excluding clubs my fastest was a few hours (my first ever meet) and my longest has been a few months

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