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"It’s not good reallt is it?? Doesn’t take much to send a quick message to say you can’t make it or changed your mind or wimped out etc. " And at the time, not a day or two later. | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of me!" " | |||
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"It’s not good reallt is it?? Doesn’t take much to send a quick message to say you can’t make it or changed your mind or wimped out etc. And at the time, not a day or two later." | |||
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"Yeah so annoying. Been let down couple of times " We know people can be let down for one reason or another but a simple message would have been nice! Think our time waster radar needs resetting ha ha | |||
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"Awwwww, it's a horrible feeling but at least you have each other (hugs and kisses) " Thank you I told G last week, but he wouldn't listen Did you get any boots? | |||
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"What is the worst part of getting stood up? We have been on fab for a couple of years but tonight have been stood up for the first time. Meet arranged but a complete no show! We understand minds can change but a message would have been nice. Oh well the lads in pub got to perv over the Mrs " On the rare occasion that we arrange hotel meets, we tend to plan them close to a club. That way, if things don't go to plan... we can have a club night instead. Cal | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary " Any let down is crap! | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary Any let down is crap! " | |||
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"Yep I was let down, arranged a date to meet and on the day a no show and when asked for an explanation the response was confusion...! " Oh we haven't even asked, no point! | |||
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"Yep I was let down, arranged a date to meet and on the day a no show and when asked for an explanation the response was confusion...! Oh we haven't even asked, no point!" There lose | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of me!" " Luckily, we were able to make a night out of it and also had a laugh about it but the 90 minute round trip was a little annoying! Blimey, we only give them 1 chance!! | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of me!" " Who in there right mind would stand you up hun? x | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of me!" " I wouldn't give them a third chance! | |||
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"Awwwww, it's a horrible feeling but at least you have each other (hugs and kisses) Thank you I told G last week, but he wouldn't listen Did you get any boots? " How do you mean? You had a bad feeling about it? And no I didn't, most annoying!!! | |||
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"The worst part? Making an effort to get yourself all ready and sitting there like Billy no mates as the realisation dawns that they are not coming. It's annoying, embarrassing and a dent to the ego. " It’s a proper shit isn’t it?? It’s happened a few times to me and it’s really annoying and if you’re on your own you feel like you’ve wasted the whole evening. I’m a little on the shy side so find it difficult to strike up a conversation with just anyone I meet in a bar or coffee shop. It’s a bit different when the ice has been broken online in advance | |||
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"It's not happened to me but there's always a first time " Bet you stand up when peddling up hill ! | |||
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"It's not happened to me but there's always a first time " Well we hope it doesn't happen to you | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of Bloody he'll I'd never not show up for you! me!" " | |||
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"It's not happened to me but there's always a first time " I hope not..its a really crappy feeling | |||
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"It's not happened to me but there's always a first time I hope not..its a really crappy feeling" | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary " Oh dear i’ve heard alot of similar tales from here | |||
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"It's not happened to me but there's always a first time Bet you stand up when peddling up hill !" What do you think | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary Oh dear i’ve heard alot of similar tales from here " I attract them lol | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary Oh dear i’ve heard alot of similar tales from here I attract them lol" I wonder why must be something they like | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary Oh dear i’ve heard alot of similar tales from here I attract them lol I wonder why must be something they like " My sunny disposition lol | |||
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"Happened to me , meeting a couple that turned out to be a guy thinking he could turn me !! Since then ive been extremely wary Oh dear i’ve heard alot of similar tales from here I attract them lol I wonder why must be something they like My sunny disposition lol" Thats it | |||
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"I was let down last week again and it doesn't make me feel so good. People don't seem to appreciate the time and effort made for a meet. And I really don't believe any excuses anymore, even if they are genuine. "I'll never trust a person who let's me down more than twice. Once is a warning, twice is a lesson, and anything more than that is just taking advantage of me!" " Anyone letting you down needs psychiatric help. Best breasts on fab. | |||
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"Awwwww, it's a horrible feeling but at least you have each other (hugs and kisses) Thank you I told G last week, but he wouldn't listen Did you get any boots? How do you mean? You had a bad feeling about it? And no I didn't, most annoying!!! " It was just the way some of the messages had been written, made me think something not quite right! They had some lovely ones in Selfridges the other day. | |||
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"What is the worst part of getting stood up? We have been on fab for a couple of years but tonight have been stood up for the first time. Meet arranged but a complete no show! We understand minds can change but a message would have been nice. Oh well the lads in pub got to perv over the Mrs " Looking at your profile it's their loss ! | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. " Was it the same chap? | |||
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"What is the worst part of getting stood up? We have been on fab for a couple of years but tonight have been stood up for the first time. Meet arranged but a complete no show! We understand minds can change but a message would have been nice. Oh well the lads in pub got to perv over the Mrs Looking at your profile it's their loss ! " Thank you, nice profile too | |||
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"The RAC and AA should have their own profiles on here. The huge number of mysteriously broken down cars travelling to meets is amazing." Ha ha | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. Was it the same chap? " No. Two different men. Not good for ones self esteem. | |||
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"Had it happen once, just complete no show....no message, no excuse, just silence followed by blocked.....wasted the whole night and i don't get much free time as it is...was fekin livid. " Yeap, very similar to how it went but after waiting outside for half an hour, we blocked them as why wait to hear some crappy excuse! | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. Was it the same chap? No. Two different men. Not good for ones self esteem." Completly their loss, when I (Mrs) had a single profile before I met G, I was stood up and then got a message to say I looked hot sat waiting for him he had even followed me home! | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. Was it the same chap? No. Two different men. Not good for ones self esteem. Completly their loss, when I (Mrs) had a single profile before I met G, I was stood up and then got a message to say I looked hot sat waiting for him he had even followed me home! " Now that would freak me right out. I don’t understand why someone would do that | |||
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"Yep I was let down, arranged a date to meet and on the day a no show and when asked for an explanation the response was confusion...! " he didn’t know who he was? | |||
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"What is the worst part of getting stood up? We have been on fab for a couple of years but tonight have been stood up for the first time. Meet arranged but a complete no show! We understand minds can change but a message would have been nice. Oh well the lads in pub got to perv over the Mrs " the worst part is not knowing.......... Thinking omg am I /we not attractive...... Did we say something....... Is it here we're meant to be meeting........ Then realising it's tomorrow night........ Bugger me | |||
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"I wouldn’t give them a second chance if they let me down and didn’t have decency to let me know ... " | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. Was it the same chap? No. Two different men. Not good for ones self esteem. Completly their loss, when I (Mrs) had a single profile before I met G, I was stood up and then got a message to say I looked hot sat waiting for him he had even followed me home! Now that would freak me right out. I don’t understand why someone would do that " Some very strange people out there! | |||
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"We were supposed to meet a single woman on Friday evening, but she called Polly in the late afternoon to apologise as her daughter had decided to come over for the evening. So a night in front of the fire for us. Then our planned visit to another couple to watch the boxing (and have fun) had to be cancelled as Father-in-Law turned up unexpectedly. So another night in front of the fire. Now our afternoon meet today has just been cancelled because their daughter is sick. We know they are not "standing us up" as they have genuine excuses, but we are beginning to hate families!!!! lol" We would have understood if we would have got a message to say couldn't make it. We have to plan our meets due to having a family, luckily despite being left out in the cold we were able to get back locally and enjoy a few drinks! | |||
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"The worst bits are the wasted excitement, so a high followed by the big low of being left hanging. I can cope if I get an excuse even if it's bullshit as at least they've had the decency to inform me they ain't coming. It's the hanging on and not knowing that gives me rage. Then the dented ego and frustration, coz I've wasted electric, time, make up, and energy in getting ready. Plus financial cost if travelling." we had a gut feeling something was a miss but we had arranged the meet and wasn't not going to show up! The outfit and toy purchases won't go to waste but yes the frustration is highly annoying! Nice profile by the way | |||
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"I'll never understand why these people do it. If you have been chatting and getting along which leads to a meet why do they feel it's necessary to stand people up and not prewarn the person. It rude and selfish behaviour in my book and the person they've stood up has dodged a bullet but found out in the worst way. " | |||
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"The responses are markedly different when a couple or lady post these threads.. The folk who say his loss ... the guys lost nothing no time no effort he had no intention of meeting = no loss Delete.block.report... if it's the first time see if there were any red flags(I'm sure I read you said you were wary ) trust your gut instinct put another check in place ..if it's happening a lot to you ..change your selection process add some checks and balances." We agree, although not sure why you would report them? We had a gut feeling something was a miss but the time and place had been agreed, so we were not just not going to show up. | |||
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"The responses are markedly different when a couple or lady post these threads.. The folk who say his loss ... the guys lost nothing no time no effort he had no intention of meeting = no loss Delete.block.report... if it's the first time see if there were any red flags(I'm sure I read you said you were wary ) trust your gut instinct put another check in place ..if it's happening a lot to you ..change your selection process add some checks and balances. We agree, although not sure why you would report them? We had a gut feeling something was a miss but the time and place had been agreed, so we were not just not going to show up." You can report them as no shows..I'm not sure what purpose it serves however it's a feature on the report page so I'm guessing admin monitor. If I'm unsure even after time and place have been agreed ...I'd have made further checks. And Your gut instinct is generally right. | |||
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"The responses are markedly different when a couple or lady post these threads.. The folk who say his loss ... the guys lost nothing no time no effort he had no intention of meeting = no loss Delete.block.report... if it's the first time see if there were any red flags(I'm sure I read you said you were wary ) trust your gut instinct put another check in place ..if it's happening a lot to you ..change your selection process add some checks and balances. We agree, although not sure why you would report them? We had a gut feeling something was a miss but the time and place had been agreed, so we were not just not going to show up. You can report them as no shows..I'm not sure what purpose it serves however it's a feature on the report page so I'm guessing admin monitor. If I'm unsure even after time and place have been agreed ...I'd have made further checks. And Your gut instinct is generally right. " Sounds a bit harsh! Not sure what other checks you can do? | |||
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"I have been stood up twice. My very first planned meet didnt show and i stood outside a pub for 30mins in the pouring rain. The seconds time i was more annoyed as had travelled some distance by train only for him not to show. Was it the same chap? No. Two different men. Not good for ones self esteem. Completly their loss, when I (Mrs) had a single profile before I met G, I was stood up and then got a message to say I looked hot sat waiting for him he had even followed me home! Now that would freak me right out. I don’t understand why someone would do that Some very strange people out there!" strange but true | |||
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