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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please help me to understand...why would someone go through the lengths of messaging and arranging a meet but when you turn up it's radio silence

Why even bother in the first place right? ...or am I missing something lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Pricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not accusing but did you do your due diligence, or were you led by your cock?

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

It's people like the chaise. But they don't want to do the deed.

Don't worry we all go through that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always trust your instincts. If it sounds to good to be true it probably is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always trust your instincts. If it sounds to good to be true it probably is "

This.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Sorry to hear you’ve been messed about like that. It seems to happen a lot especially to newbies. Report the profile and block them and just be more cautious the next time.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Maybe they just chickened out at the last minute and were too afraid to tell you.

Maybe they weren't who they said they were and just wanted some attention or dirty talk

Maybe they just enjoy pissing people about.

Could be lots of reasons, but take something positive and learn from it

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Maybe they just chickened out at the last minute and were too afraid to tell you.

Maybe they weren't who they said they were and just wanted some attention or dirty talk

Maybe they just enjoy pissing people about.

Could be lots of reasons, but take something positive and learn from it "

Boobs

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Maybe they just chickened out at the last minute and were too afraid to tell you.

Maybe they weren't who they said they were and just wanted some attention or dirty talk

Maybe they just enjoy pissing people about.

Could be lots of reasons, but take something positive and learn from it

Boobs "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not accusing but did you do your due diligence, or were you led by your cock?"

What do you mean?

Were chatting, getting straight what we like and to expect so there are no bad surprises, sent face pic and others, got into a taxi for a 30min drive (I know silly me) and when I got off tried to get in touch but nothing

Is there something I missed?

Like I am not even mad, just trying to wrap my head around it and if I messed up something on my part then I'll be more than happy to hear it and learn from my mistakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they just chickened out at the last minute and were too afraid to tell you.

Maybe they weren't who they said they were and just wanted some attention or dirty talk

Maybe they just enjoy pissing people about.

Could be lots of reasons, but take something positive and learn from it

Boobs "

Always a good lesson

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I presume that you spoke to them on the phone first before turning up.

If not then they are just time wasters.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not accusing but did you do your due diligence, or were you led by your cock?

What do you mean?

Were chatting, getting straight what we like and to expect so there are no bad surprises, sent face pic and others, got into a taxi for a 30min drive (I know silly me) and when I got off tried to get in touch but nothing

Is there something I missed?

Like I am not even mad, just trying to wrap my head around it and if I messed up something on my part then I'll be more than happy to hear it and learn from my mistakes "

Well- from my experience there are some sick puppies that get off on wind-ups.

So due diligence might mean checking they are a verified member and verifications aren't all hidden. Checking that those that verified them look like real profiles?

Are they photo verified?

Did you take your time getting to know a little about them other than sexual talk? (Not always, but often talking about sex in detail early on can be an indicator of a male wanting wank material)

Did you get their number and speak on the phone? Or at least messaging?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

harlow

Same but different, all the build up, great plans. Shared pictures, numbers arrived to collect to do the deed! It wasn’t anyway the person in the pictures! What did they expect? I’d say oh ok your 30 years older a lot shorter and ...... well no need to be offensive. Left horney and a little pissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just enjoy the attention and the thrill of the chase. People like that are a pain in the arse but each to their own I guess.

It does make it a lot more difficult for those of us who genuinely want to meet.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Please help me to understand...why would someone go through the lengths of messaging and arranging a meet but when you turn up it's radio silence

Why even bother in the first place right? ...or am I missing something lol"

Men are strange x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not accusing but did you do your due diligence, or were you led by your cock?

What do you mean?

Were chatting, getting straight what we like and to expect so there are no bad surprises, sent face pic and others, got into a taxi for a 30min drive (I know silly me) and when I got off tried to get in touch but nothing

Is there something I missed?

Like I am not even mad, just trying to wrap my head around it and if I messed up something on my part then I'll be more than happy to hear it and learn from my mistakes

Well- from my experience there are some sick puppies that get off on wind-ups.

So due diligence might mean checking they are a verified member and verifications aren't all hidden. Checking that those that verified them look like real profiles?

Are they photo verified?

Did you take your time getting to know a little about them other than sexual talk? (Not always, but often talking about sex in detail early on can be an indicator of a male wanting wank material)

Did you get their number and speak on the phone? Or at least messaging?

"

Ok now I just feel stupid lol...no number given, no exact address....god damnit I am dumb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the input, I'll try to do better next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they’re a waste of space sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any social interaction is good to take these days

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