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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

As a single guy I get other single guys asking me. Meet me now and we can share my gf/wife

To me I think this is a hoax because in my eyes if you want to share your gf/wife wouldn’t you put yourself both as a couple. Not just the guy, surely get more responses and people actually thinking this is just a hoax

Have any of you guys experienced this and it’s 100% legit or are you a guy who genuinely does this and gets success. I’d want to see if this is genuine or bullocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same as you. My gut tells me it's a hoax and I'll treat it as such.

If a couple wants to invite me to play, they can at least start with a couples profile

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).

Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.

Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.

Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would tingle my spider senses.

In my experience, these have been hoaxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a single guy I get other single guys asking me. Meet me now and we can share my gf/wife

To me I think this is a hoax because in my eyes if you want to share your gf/wife wouldn’t you put yourself both as a couple. Not just the guy, surely get more responses and people actually thinking this is just a hoax

Have any of you guys experienced this and it’s 100% legit or are you a guy who genuinely does this and gets success. I’d want to see if this is genuine or bullocks. "
meet me now and share my wife

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).

Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.

Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.

Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are)."

But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's easy enough to have a video chat on KIK to verify if they're real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).

Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.

Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.

Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).

But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists "

Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate.

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By *andsome_Chef88 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).

Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.

Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.

Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).

But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists

Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate."

yeah and this aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those devious men.

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By *ake5176Man
over a year ago

City

99.9% of the time yeah, it’s a hoax. However, sometimes if I’m with a girl and it’s a spur of the moment thing, I’d use my own account to find a third. No point setting up a couples account for a one off and I’m not interested in single guys for just me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies get these messages too. I'm usually sceptical.

Conversely I never doubt it when a single fem contacts me asking to join her and her man

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ladies get these messages too. I'm usually sceptical.

Conversely I never doubt it when a single fem contacts me asking to join her and her man "

Want to meet my other half?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, it’s normally a hoax lol

Plus there’s usually a giveaway with those profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like the men who message me from a couples profile saying their 'wife is no longer playing and he has permission play alone' ..

I often wonder if its not just a single man trying his luck..

Either way i never respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could be either a hoax or a clever way for a couple to keep their message load down (though they could always block all genders and just make contact with those that they like).

Many couples have their own separate profiles too - a guy could be tasked with finding someone he'd potentially be comfortable sharing his partner with, as he'll know her requirements.

Always in these situations ask to - as a minimum - have a phone chat with all parties that you'll be meeting.

Some guys are bi curious and a lot of straight listed guys do have fun with other guys: nothing wrong with that but it does mean that some go fishing, never really knowing who's listed as straight but may be situationally bi. Perhaps when you guys get the male who's purporting to be a couple, you could fish if they're really up for some man on man action, even if you're not open to it. (It could help to reveal if they're just trying it on). It seems incredibly stupid - not to mention extremely dishonest and disrespectful - to have anyone travel/arrange a meet, only to find that the other attendees are not the actual people you'd expect to meet, nor wanting what you are).

But majority of the time these guys are listed as “straight males” if there were a description in the profile as to say there in a relationship (which I know 80% of guys will never admit) then I’d be like okay maybe. But know we have a lovely feature of direct picture message, if they’re trying to hide their woman and want to fish more efficiently. Wouldn’t you want to be believable and I think just sending a pic of the female would be more believable (doesn’t have to even be a pic of her face) just to let you know she exists

Not just a pic of the female as it is easy to find one but a pick of both together that's harder to fabricate."

It's a great way to suss them out.

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