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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

Start with hello...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Show him your boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try flirting a little and see how he reacts. That should give you some indication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some pussy juice over your fingers and make him smell them, if his pupils dilate it then means that he fancies you too.

Or you could simply ask him directly

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Ask if he's ever free for a drink, then take it from there...Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, but what do I say?

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Show him your boobs "

Many men's weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are enormously easier to chat up/seduce than women. Just be up front. We love that shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but what do I say?"

Hello, I like the look of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see what relevance the 'ten years younger' has tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us men are simple creatures just put it on him he won't say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but what do I say?"

Tell him you’re into him. Mention that you’ve thought about him fucking you and the offer is on the table if he’s interested.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Men are enormously easier to chat up/seduce than women. Just be up front. We love that shit."

I couldn't agree more. I know I'd love it!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?' "

I don’t think guys ever stop thinking with their cock, we just learn how to hide the fact that we do it

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Hello, fancy a drink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?' "

swop drink for fuck incase he gets the wrong idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stand in front of him and text him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?' "

I mean... you're not wrong. I don't know why women fret over stuff like this. YOU have the power in these situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve lost my number. Can I have yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send some feelers out. Flirt gently, then up the ante... if it goes well, you shouldn't even need to ask him. He will ask you

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?'

swop drink for fuck incase he gets the wrong idea "

That's kind of what the 'something' implies

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Yes proposition him..what’s the worst that could happen

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

Start with hello..."

Is it me you're looking for?

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

Be brave . I’m sure he’s like most younger guys and has a fantasy of being with a woman older than him fingers crossed for you let us know how things plan out x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That’s what I’m hoping

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"So he's 26 and probably still thinking with his cock. He'll most likely be up for it...

'Hi, do you fancy going for a drink or something one evening?'

I don’t think guys ever stop thinking with their cock, we just learn how to hide the fact that we do it "

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Wanna watch porn on my flat screen bedroom mirror

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was thinking of just passing him a note with my number rather than asking directly. Any other suggestions without asking him outright?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Was thinking of just passing him a note with my number rather than asking directly. Any other suggestions without asking him outright?"

Pass him a note ?! Are you 12yo ?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Ask a mate to name drop you and see what his response is, But it all sounds a bit childish, Just ask him if he fancies a drink at your local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking of just passing him a note with my number rather than asking directly. Any other suggestions without asking him outright?"

Have you never asked a guy out before?

How old are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but what do I say?"

Do you want to leave the single market before the UK does ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t really know him, he’s on a course and we kinda clicked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking of just passing him a note with my number rather than asking directly. Any other suggestions without asking him outright?

Have you never asked a guy out before?

How old are you "

36, It says on her profile, you’re most welcome.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Wanna watch porn on my flat screen bedroom mirror"

That line works everytime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, but what do I say?

Do you want to leave the single market before the UK does ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

"

^^ This ^^

The odds of him blowing you out are incredibly low. We (straight men) are at the bottom of the food chain. We have the lowest value. You have all the power here. Use it to your advantage.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I don’t really know him, he’s on a course and we kinda clicked"

If you don't really know him you don't want him having your number, do you?

Put your big girl pants on and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

^^ This ^^

The odds of him blowing you out are incredibly low. We (straight men) are at the bottom of the food chain. We have the lowest value. You have all the power here. Use it to your advantage."

We have no idea what she looks like and no idea what he looks like, so who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a wind up?

Hey , would you like to have drink?

Try it

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

^^ This ^^

The odds of him blowing you out are incredibly low. We (straight men) are at the bottom of the food chain. We have the lowest value. You have all the power here. Use it to your advantage.

We have no idea what she looks like and no idea what he looks like, so who knows. "

and does he even like women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Would you like me to ask him out for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?"

Really??

Take your phone and we’ll run you through it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to measure 8inch can I borrow your cock?

Hey, how you doin? *Wink*

Do you know any good restaurants, want to take me to one?

How about you skip the gym and work out on me instead?

Complement him about his hair, clothing, something. Then about going out for a drink.

Good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a wind up?

Hey , would you like to have drink?

Try it"

I’m thinking you may be correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?"

Go out for a drink... or two... or 3. Be flirty. Get close (physically) to him, if he seems to be interested kiss him, and invite him back to yours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faf?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?"

Work your womanly thang!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?"

Nice one OP, you sucked a few people in, nothing to see here, clearly a wind up.

#WeKnowWhoYouAre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dread to think how shit the sex would be if you don’t even know how to ask him for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dread to think how shit the sex would be if you don’t even know how to ask him for it "

Do I suck it or blow ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to measure 8inch can I borrow your cock?

Hey, how you doin? *Wink*

Do you know any good restaurants, want to take me to one?

How about you skip the gym and work out on me instead?

Complement him about his hair, clothing, something. Then about going out for a drink.

Good luck!! "

You had me at "I need"

The rest was kinda just filler lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

^^ This ^^

The odds of him blowing you out are incredibly low. We (straight men) are at the bottom of the food chain. We have the lowest value. You have all the power here. Use it to your advantage.

We have no idea what she looks like and no idea what he looks like, so who knows.

and does he even like women "

Doesn’t matter.

The odds are in her favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dread to think how shit the sex would be if you don’t even know how to ask him for it

Do I suck it or blow ?! "

Well if you're Fab straight you will already know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some pretty mean comments, I was only asking for genuine advice

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"...but if I ask him to go for a drink, he might just think I’m being friendly

How will he know that I want his cock?

Nice one OP, you sucked a few people in, nothing to see here, clearly a wind up.

#WeKnowWhoYouAre"

Do we? Do you? Spill....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Some pretty mean comments, I was only asking for genuine advice "

I wasn't being mean. That is genuinely how I would approach it but I'm shit at all that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this guy is at work don’t be overtly sexual, flirt and ask him for a drink. If you want to be sure that he gets your drift then ask if he has a wife or girlfriend at home.

If he’s not at work and at the gym or something, go straight to it if that’s all you want from him OR be clear with your eyes but go with a cheesy af with your pick up line so if he’s afronted you can both laugh it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

As a man. Speaking for most men. He most likely won’t blow you out.

^^ This ^^

The odds of him blowing you out are incredibly low. We (straight men) are at the bottom of the food chain. We have the lowest value. You have all the power here. Use it to your advantage.

We have no idea what she looks like and no idea what he looks like, so who knows. "

Exactly lots of 26 year old guys might think with their cocks but surely not them all

Ask him out for a drink OP and take it from there . Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what a woman did to me, just say, presuming you've chatted at length, "you seem interesting, can we grab a coffee".

Then drop hints.

Touch his leg, make a few suggestive hints masked as risqué jokes.

Look him in the eyes, check if his pupils are dilated. If they are, asking him if he'd like coffee somewhere more private.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do what a woman did to me, just say, presuming you've chatted at length, "you seem interesting, can we grab a coffee".

Then drop hints.

Touch his leg, make a few suggestive hints masked as risqué jokes.

Look him in the eyes, check if his pupils are dilated. If they are, asking him if he'd like coffee somewhere more private."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I was on a date and didn't even know. The only reason I clicked was because the guy said "this is a nice date" in the middle of it. I have found out since that if someone of the opposite sex asks you to go for a drink it's more than likely that he fancies you. If you don't want to ask him that then chat to him more and see how he reacts, ask him if he's seeing anyone and questions of that nature. Not everyone is good at picking those signals up, I certainly wasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him that you're an any hole is a goal girl. He'll fuck you

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Wanna watch porn on my flat screen bedroom mirror

That line works everytime!"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

Do you work with him ?

YES......... go no further.

NO....... tell him you want to go for a coffee n a chat ...... take it from there

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Even if you work with him enlighten him to the joys of older wimmin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve lost my number. Can I have yours?"

Brilliant!

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Perhaps find out if he's in a relationship first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what happened since op ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 13years older then Mrs t. She made the first move I had no idea until she tried . Glad she did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

You are consenting adults. Age is but a number..

Go for it....

If you feel he fancies you, use good body positive open language and get in close to him.

Let the chemistry build, sparks fly and see what happens...

Good luck

Mistress Amelia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just stand in front of him and text him "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some pretty mean comments, I was only asking for genuine advice "

Yes, and a lot of people are answering based on Fab etiquette, which is hardly the same in the real world/workplace! Is there a tearoom or something at work where you can regularly bump into him alone, start a conversation and casually ask him if he'd like to go out for a drink some time. I am all in favour of the subtler approach, particularly at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

Be yourself , subtle flirting if he doesn't take the hint just ask him out for a coffee and cake who turns down women with cake x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit him with 3 stones then

1. Id love to play/fuck you

2.Fancy grabbing a bacon roll with me?

3.Fancy grabbing a cuppa ,a bacon roll,and fucking me?

How could anyone resist ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hit him with 3 stones then

1. Id love to play/fuck you

2.Fancy grabbing a bacon roll with me?

3.Fancy grabbing a cuppa ,a bacon roll,and fucking me?

How could anyone resist ? "

Im.sold lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out."

You're 36...you can't be that clueless surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a younger guy who’s 10 years younger than me and I get the vibe he fancies me. How do I make my move without it being cringe? I really want him to fuck me but not too sure if he’ll blow me out.

You're 36...you can't be that clueless surely? "

I'm 40 and I'm more clueless than that.

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