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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Prove me wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong"

You’ve not had much to do with gay men have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be arsed I'm too busy eating cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are women here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t put anyone down, thin or large. We all have our admirers and are beautiful in our own way x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are women here "

A couple, the rest are fakes or lesbians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw the title OP and I thought it was another of the Yellow Curvy Fruit Mans threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t put anyone down, thin or large. We all have our admirers and are beautiful in our own way x "

Yes all women are beautiful and fat men are cunts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your slim thread was anything to go by, yeah you could be right. Plus a woman called me ‘ginge’ on here the other day, so yes I concur !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Women are the worst for that in general I’d say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw the title OP and I thought it was another of the Yellow Curvy Fruit Mans threads. "

How does it feel to be wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw the title OP and I thought it was another of the Yellow Curvy Fruit Mans threads.

How does it feel to be wrong? "

Bored of you now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw the title OP and I thought it was another of the Yellow Curvy Fruit Mans threads.

How does it feel to be wrong?

Bored of you now."

Thanks god!

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"There are women here

A couple, the rest are fakes or lesbians"

Fake lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong"

Welcome to the big balls club OP

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

Some women are very bitchy, but I think it's more to compensate for their own insecurities or because they love drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP "

I don't follow?

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP "

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls "

I have big balls for soft spots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls "

As long as they’re not hairy

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

As long as they’re not hairy "

Definitely. Hairy balls

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

I have big balls for soft spots"

perfect match

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

As long as they’re not hairy "

I've been working away so they're not fully maintained. But for you I'd shave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

As long as they’re not hairy

I've been working away so they're not fully maintained. But for you I'd shave "

Ahh I’m flattered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

As long as they’re not hairy

I've been working away so they're not fully maintained. But for you I'd shave

Ahh I’m flattered "

You should be, I don't shave for just anyone you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong

Welcome to the big balls club OP

I've got a soft spot for guys with big balls

As long as they’re not hairy

I've been working away so they're not fully maintained. But for you I'd shave

Ahh I’m flattered

You should be, I don't shave for just anyone you know "

Would you wax for me though? It doesn’t hurt honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny men are put down all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny men are put down all the time"

All shapes and sizes are put down on here though. Just gotta let it go over your head. You are what you are. Everyone’s attracted to different things. I’m not really attracted to skinny men but I’m not that keen on really hard ripped muscles either. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny men are put down all the time

All shapes and sizes are put down on here though. Just gotta let it go over your head. You are what you are. Everyone’s attracted to different things. I’m not really attracted to skinny men but I’m not that keen on really hard ripped muscles either. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder my lovely "

Ps. Do you think you’re skinny? That’s not what I call skinny

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Skinny men are put down all the time"

Dat ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny men are put down all the time"

I second this

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

“Real women have curves”

“Skinny Minnie”

“Only dogs like bones”

These seem to come from Women the most which surprises me. You don’t see it as much the other way round. I think as mentioned it stems from insecurity

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"“Real women have curves”

“Skinny Minnie”

“Only dogs like bones”

These seem to come from Women the most which surprises me. You don’t see it as much the other way round. I think as mentioned it stems from insecurity

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I think you are wrong there, most of those phrases have come from guys trying to ingratiate themselves on someone in the forum.

I’m a larger lady and have no problems with the slimmer lady in here it anywhere, well done you beautiful slim ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"“Real women have curves”

“Skinny Minnie”

“Only dogs like bones”

These seem to come from Women the most which surprises me. You don’t see it as much the other way round. I think as mentioned it stems from insecurity

I think you are wrong there, most of those phrases have come from guys trying to ingratiate themselves on someone in the forum.

I’m a larger lady and have no problems with the slimmer lady in here it anywhere, well done you beautiful slim ladies "

Them phrases are on countless womens profiles. Personally, I don't think I've ever seen a man say them in the forums. If I have its very far and few between

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"“Real women have curves”

“Skinny Minnie”

“Only dogs like bones”

These seem to come from Women the most which surprises me. You don’t see it as much the other way round. I think as mentioned it stems from insecurity

I think you are wrong there, most of those phrases have come from guys trying to ingratiate themselves on someone in the forum.

I’m a larger lady and have no problems with the slimmer lady in here it anywhere, well done you beautiful slim ladies "

What do you mean by well done?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Depends. Men are definitely worse for body shaming on the "real or fake tits" threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“Real women have curves”

“Skinny Minnie”

“Only dogs like bones”

These seem to come from Women the most which surprises me. You don’t see it as much the other way round. I think as mentioned it stems from insecurity

I think you are wrong there, most of those phrases have come from guys trying to ingratiate themselves on someone in the forum.

I’m a larger lady and have no problems with the slimmer lady in here it anywhere, well done you beautiful slim ladies

What do you mean by well done? "

The opposite to rare I presume

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't put anybody down based on how they look.

I've been fat, I've been on the receiving end of that kind of treatment.

One of my favourite quotes

“A strong woman stands up for herself. A stronger woman stands up for everybody else.”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone takes shit too seriously on here. Who cares. I’m verging on lardarse status with all this chocolate I’m eating. May carry on, men love big fat women bouncing on them. It’s true I saw it on eurotrash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who told you that, tin ribs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who told you that, tin ribs? "

Aww, that just reminded me of my dad; he used to call me that when I was a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong"

I can't,saying that I don't know any men that body shave.

Swimmers perhaps,but not round here,too bloody cold.

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By *ewbieCouple400Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

The only woman I body shame is myself! I’m my own worst enemy. I have however been known to message women on here, telling them how amazing they look! It’s about building each other up and not tearing them down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only woman I body shame is myself! I’m my own worst enemy. I have however been known to message women on here, telling them how amazing they look! It’s about building each other up and not tearing them down! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever."

Me neither although I do admit to a little cry when I see spiderwoman and Annie and a few others. Makes me book a couple of extra gym classes, then I get over it and grab another packet of chocolate buttons. I’m my own worst enemy

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By *ewbieCouple400Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever.

Me neither although I do admit to a little cry when I see spiderwoman and Annie and a few others. Makes me book a couple of extra gym classes, then I get over it and grab another packet of chocolate buttons. I’m my own worst enemy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever.

Me neither although I do admit to a little cry when I see spiderwoman and Annie and a few others. Makes me book a couple of extra gym classes, then I get over it and grab another packet of chocolate buttons. I’m my own worst enemy "

Well you look cracking and id share a packet of chocolate buttons with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever.

Me neither although I do admit to a little cry when I see spiderwoman and Annie and a few others. Makes me book a couple of extra gym classes, then I get over it and grab another packet of chocolate buttons. I’m my own worst enemy

Well you look cracking and id share a packet of chocolate buttons with you "

Cracking. Haha. Are you from ooop norf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only woman I body shame is myself! I’m my own worst enemy. I have however been known to message women on here, telling them how amazing they look! It’s about building each other up and not tearing them down! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I don’t know, both sexes can be bad. But it is worrying how viscous some woman can be when I would expect them to stick together type of thing.

Men banter, ‘my cocks bigger/they’re not muscles etc..) but body shaming? I’ve never thought of it as such. My brother has a nickname that refers to his size, he’s never had an issue with it, but gets me thinking how he might feel about it personally if ‘body shaming’ was brought up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive not spoken to guys on here so couldnt comment but ive found some horrible women on here that do this. Id never body shame anyone ever.

Me neither although I do admit to a little cry when I see spiderwoman and Annie and a few others. Makes me book a couple of extra gym classes, then I get over it and grab another packet of chocolate buttons. I’m my own worst enemy

Well you look cracking and id share a packet of chocolate buttons with you

Cracking. Haha. Are you from ooop norf?"

Norf of London

Souf of Scotland

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By *oxychick35Couple
over a year ago

thornaby

Some girls put on there profile if your looking for a stick insect or a twig move on imagine if other girls put if yr looking for a lard arse move on they would get hate mail lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some girls put on there profile if your looking for a stick insect or a twig move on imagine if other girls put if yr looking for a lard arse move on they would get hate mail lol"

Hahaha that’s true! I do have if you’re looking for slim and petite im not for you on mine though. But there’s no need for “jog on” or “ move on”.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some girls put on there profile if your looking for a stick insect or a twig move on imagine if other girls put if yr looking for a lard arse move on they would get hate mail lol"

Go for it, lets see what happens. We'll put it down to a social experiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not women... They are girls... Women don't feel the need to slag other females off to make them feel better about themselves! Girls are awful creatures tho!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"Some girls put on there profile if your looking for a stick insect or a twig move on"

Many do and it's much more of a turn off than a extra few pounds ever is, shooting themselves in the foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some girls put on there profile if your looking for a stick insect or a twig move on imagine if other girls put if yr looking for a lard arse move on they would get hate mail lol"

I've seen both. On men and women's profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WHAT ON EARTH?

How dare you ? Imply all women are narrow minded and or shallow.

I certainly am not a body shamer in any way shape or form.

How terribly ignorant and judgemental ...

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

For many people male or female, attack is the best form of defence. They tend to hang themselves. I wouldn’t worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both sexes are as bad. In real life women tend to look you up and down though and you think yeah I know what you’re thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think both sexes are as bad. In real life women tend to look you up and down though and you think yeah I know what you’re thinking. "

Exactly, being bitchy isn't dependant on gender but on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only body I shame, is my own. I prefer to empower others, than put them down. There's enough people who like to drag others down. I'm in the 'It's not gender specific' camp. It's a certain type of person who takes enjoyment from it. Not one sex as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bidys are just flesh and bone to me i want your giggles humour banter so dont go in for shaming folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever been body shamed by a handful of females, but I have been body shamed by hoards of males.

Growing up I was bullied for being very thin as I have metabolism problems, and it was guys that hit me and made comments and pushed me down stairs, not women.

Everyone has the right to feel happy and proud of who they are as their bodies tell a story of their past. I will never body shame anyone as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only body I shame, is my own. I prefer to empower others, than put them down. There's enough people who like to drag others down. I'm in the 'It's not gender specific' camp. It's a certain type of person who takes enjoyment from it. Not one sex as a whole. "

Usually based in there own insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only ever been body shamed by a handful of females, but I have been body shamed by hoards of males.

Growing up I was bullied for being very thin as I have metabolism problems, and it was guys that hit me and made comments and pushed me down stairs, not women.

Everyone has the right to feel happy and proud of who they are as their bodies tell a story of their past. I will never body shame anyone as a result."

well you got the last laugh i bet most of them would hit there mothers to put hands on you now hubba hubba

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only ever been body shamed by a handful of females, but I have been body shamed by hoards of males.

Growing up I was bullied for being very thin as I have metabolism problems, and it was guys that hit me and made comments and pushed me down stairs, not women.

Everyone has the right to feel happy and proud of who they are as their bodies tell a story of their past. I will never body shame anyone as a result.well you got the last laugh i bet most of them would hit there mothers to put hands on you now hubba hubba "

I have recently been in contact with one and he was extremely apologetic, blaming it on his own insecurities as well as mob mentality which I completely get it. Now that he has daughters, he understands how important being body positive will be, as his five year old wanted to go on a diet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, women do bodyshame other women more.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"There are women here

A couple, the rest are fakes or lesbians"

Or men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Prove me wrong"

You're right

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Have to say I get plenty of guys messaging me slagging of my photos of my body , so so many more than the woman do , think I've only had 2 women be derogatory about me , where it's that many a week for the guys !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both sexes are as bad. You see it in social media all the time. Prefer the woman crush Wednesdays posts with woman posting about woman they admire. Much more positive.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"Have to say I get plenty of guys messaging me slagging of my photos of my body , so so many more than the woman do , think I've only had 2 women be derogatory about me , where it's that many a week for the guys !!!! "

You get random people messaging you to slag off your body?

Thats fucked up even for Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I'm too busy eating a packet of Jaffa's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I'm too busy eating a packet of Jaffa's "

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I'm too busy eating a packet of Jaffa's

I wish "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I better not say anything.. any ting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think either sex is any worse. Women body shame other women due to insecurities, men body shame certain types of women due to trying to impress another type of woman. It's less common for women to body shame men though I think, and likewise you don't often see men body shaming other men. Men on here are more likely to pick on personality traits of other men rather than their appearance I think. Just my observations.

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