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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious as to who uses the winks to see whos interested ie get a wink back befor sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use them ..

I don't look either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't use them ..

I don't look either "

Me either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i get a wink I'll look who has sent it

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I don’t often send them but I had a pleasant surprise this evening of having a wink returned by a real hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as a rule. I usually just bulk delete them.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I use them a lot on my couples profile, not so much on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not used them yet as most women don't like them and I'm not here to annoy others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send winks to show interest and will sometimes message people who have winked me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like a clear win by the No lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them, but seem to be in the minority.

I think so much of this needs mutual attraction, a wink just says "Hi, have a look, and if you like,wink back"

Better than a "How are you" message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are pointless. The idea is meant to show interest and save time but you might as well just send a messege anyway because 9 times 10 you dont hear back from them soooo....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like them, but seem to be in the minority.

I think so much of this needs mutual attraction, a wink just says "Hi, have a look, and if you like,wink back"

Better than a "How are you" message

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Totaly agree saves annoying people with unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I’ve never even looked at winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annoys the hell out of me. A couple of times we have received a wink, looked at the profile, liked them so sent a message saying thanks for the wink, would you like to chat and then they haven't replied. Don't wink someone if you don't want to instigate chat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink a day helps you work rest and play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use em clearly that’s why I striking out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use em clearly that’s why I striking out lol"

Must be where were going wrong dude

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

Winks are like wanks.

If no one noticed it’s its ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annoys the hell out of me. A couple of times we have received a wink, looked at the profile, liked them so sent a message saying thanks for the wink, would you like to chat and then they haven't replied. Don't wink someone if you don't want to instigate chat! "

On other sites I used to get loads of winks every day, used to reply but 99 times out of 100 never got a reply back and have often wondered why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Annoys the hell out of me. A couple of times we have received a wink, looked at the profile, liked them so sent a message saying thanks for the wink, would you like to chat and then they haven't replied. Don't wink someone if you don't want to instigate chat! "

Exactly! What is the point? youre preaching to the chior

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Annoys the hell out of me. A couple of times we have received a wink, looked at the profile, liked them so sent a message saying thanks for the wink, would you like to chat and then they haven't replied. Don't wink someone if you don't want to instigate chat!

On other sites I used to get loads of winks every day, used to reply but 99 times out of 100 never got a reply back and have often wondered why."

I suspect that on some sites they’re system generated from bot accounts to make it look like it’s a site where you’ll get noticed by the ladies and to encourage you to message them. Mostly a tactic used by sites where single men have to pay quite a lot of money for using the message features

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We bulk check them see if they look alright and either wink back or just send a message. Sometimes if we think a guy looks ok, got good veries we’ll wink to open a link so he can wink/message and see if our judgement is right! We’ve had to block single guys from messaging as few cockwarriors seem to think they’re it! Just ruin it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink to see if any interest before messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use them ..

I don't look either "

Doh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use them ..

I don't look either

Doh "

I know...

Im a lost cause

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Don't bother but reply to decent messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wink to see if any interest before messaging "

Well now how long do you wait from wink to message?

I get messaged a lot and a lot of the time it says on their profile 'they winked you 1 second ago' and i dont think thats right..

You should wink then if no response at all then don't message...ever

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

I must be one of the few women who use them, they’re a non invasive way of catching someone’s attention, if I get a wink and like the person I’ll wink back, if I don’t it saves having to send a rejection message and getting abuse back, I like the wink system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wink to see if any interest before messaging

Well now how long do you wait from wink to message?

I get messaged a lot and a lot of the time it says on their profile 'they winked you 1 second ago' and i dont think thats right..

You should wink then if no response at all then don't message...ever "

Noted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wink to see if any interest before messaging

Well now how long do you wait from wink to message?

I get messaged a lot and a lot of the time it says on their profile 'they winked you 1 second ago' and i dont think thats right..

You should wink then if no response at all then don't message...ever "

It's the triple whammy cracks me up ... simultaneous wink, friend request, and one-liner

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