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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order)

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No, literally none do

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Have you been unlucky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you been unlucky? "

No he's just ugly

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Aren't you interested in ones your own age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

There's a shortage on here

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"There's a shortage on here "

Of...?

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

So why cut off at 58?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cut off at 58?"

Why not?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Better off going bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cut off at 58?

Why not?"

I'm not into 99 year old women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cut off at 58?"

Because i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are "

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"So why cut off at 58?"

Her choice ,just like yours is 63

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Does that mean your sex ife ends before retirement age 67?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that mean your sex ife ends before retirement age 67?"

Find a woman who's into 67 year olds then

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are "

Exactly what I was going to say

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. As old as my dad or as young as my child is off limits for me. I just seem to prefer my age or younger too. I’m sure some women do though. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that old but no facial hair which is what you prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?.. "

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Not for me. As old as my dad or as young as my child is off limits for me. I just seem to prefer my age or younger too. I’m sure some women do though. Good luck "

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By *aked tradesman22Man
over a year ago

limerick

Hey hello all

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

No, they are more likely to go for a younger couple, so start a profile like that instead.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Often get interest for young people on here

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Nope

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By *un grey guyMan
over a year ago

leicester.


"So why cut off at 58?

Because i can"

Lol. X love that answer

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

See your looking for men women to 99 competition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest. "

Personally, I'm quite shocked. I think I must have hibernated for 10 years without realising. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest.

Personally, I'm quite shocked. I think I must have hibernated for 10 years without realising. . "

Yep like sleeping beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all reletive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all reletive"

Interesting input there lovely.

What is?

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I'm guessing he means age.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Nope"

As in nope not too old for me! But not too young either! Hence age range set as guidance

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"See your looking for men women to 99 competition? "

Reply and quote so we know who you are responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our preferences, I like older men,though I quite like a younger guy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest.

Personally, I'm quite shocked. I think I must have hibernated for 10 years without realising. .

Yep like sleeping beauty "

More like Rip Van Drago, but I wouldn't say no to that kiss to wake me up...

..knowing my luck it will be a Prince..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cut off at 58?

Why not?

I'm not into 99 year old women"

Really you're missing out

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

You’re asking if women are interested in a 67 year old man yet your own age preference ends at 63?

Answered your own question there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if many older ladies lose confidence? Out in the real world I get approached/chatted to by considerably younger women, but very few of or near my own age.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No one's said it yet OP so allow me - some will, some won't and some are neither here nor there.

I tend to focus on the ones that will rather than worry overly about any that won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if many older ladies lose confidence? Out in the real world I get approached/chatted to by considerably younger women, but very few of or near my own age."

I think you get more confident as you get older. I used to worry all the time, my legs look fat, I’ve got a couple of stretch marks, my boobs aren’t under my chin anymore etc etc but now I’m more like I am what I am. As long as I’m happy with myself that’s all that matters. Ive definitely become less tolerant and less of a worrier in my old age!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I wonder if many older ladies lose confidence? Out in the real world I get approached/chatted to by considerably younger women, but very few of or near my own age.

I think you get more confident as you get older. I used to worry all the time, my legs look fat, I’ve got a couple of stretch marks, my boobs aren’t under my chin anymore etc etc but now I’m more like I am what I am. As long as I’m happy with myself that’s all that matters. Ive definitely become less tolerant and less of a worrier in my old age! "

Spot on comments, feel the same x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like older guys than myself, the issue can be that sometimes the fab age isn't actually their real age so before you know it you could be shagging someone that's over your age preferences!!

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Two schools of thought on shagging what? At least your getting one if that's what you when out for or if you prearranged didnt you do homework?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does that mean your sex ife ends before retirement age 67?"

No, it ends when you register on this forum.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Extensive research by Sydney University clearly confirms that men in late 50’s early 60’s are by far the best lovers.

You can’t argue with science. It goes on to report that English men in this age range with the initials SJ are particularly gifted.

Form an orderly queue please.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

If you joined forum and that's your thought bye I've had a cracking morning can't keep up with it all

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

try to liven your profile up a bit OP, there are loads of ladies into older guys here on FAB but you need to light their fire a bit so rewrite/reinvent your profile so you sound more interesting.

Take off upper limits too as I know some very naughty ladies in their 60's & older, also try clubs as age matters to some on here whereas in a club people like you for being you & the age thingy is out of the window when you meet in person.

I was trying to contact a lady here on FAB myself with no luck as I was out of her age range by 12yrs, we recently met at a club & now where good friends which proves my point.

Ignore the negative comments & enjoy FAB it is a good site.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Hello is that my son that's joining in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of young women looking for sugar daddies.. good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are "

changing the subject here but may i say your breasts and nipples are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello is that my son that's joining in? "

You need to click on “reply and quote” instead of reply so people know which comment you’re referring to

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thanks for the advise on that one I have to be a bit flexible on here as other things in life to sort (shortage of time)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you joined forum and that's your thought bye I've had a cracking morning can't keep up with it all "

I didn’t join, i won a free membership in a raffle.

Good to read that a guy is getting more than he can handle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older guys than myself, the issue can be that sometimes the fab age isn't actually their real age so before you know it you could be shagging someone that's over your age preferences!!"
Does that matter as you must have fancied them to let them shag you .

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hello is that my son that's joining in?

You need to click on “reply and quote” instead of reply so people know which comment you’re referring to "

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Hello is that my son that's joining in? "

If you were referring to me I'm 57 lol

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hello is that my son that's joining in?

You need to click on “reply and quote” instead of reply so people know which comment you’re referring to "
first time on forum does it show second attempt at this

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hello is that my son that's joining in?

If you were referring to me I'm 57 lol"
no yours was the interesting reason do your profile and adjust age range specifiedmost helpful will work on that later

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Hello is that my son that's joining in?

If you were referring to me I'm 57 lolno yours was the interesting reason do your profile and adjust age range specifiedmost helpful will work on that later "

Thats ok mate I didn't think I put anything offensive lol

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hello is that my son that's joining in?

If you were referring to me I'm 57 lolno yours was the interesting reason do your profile and adjust age range specifiedmost helpful will work on that later

Thats ok mate I didn't think I put anything offensive lol"
if you had I'm afraid it wouldn't be first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

38....Is that old?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men my age, or a little older. I have to find them both physically and intellectually attractive, too.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"38....Is that old?"

Depends if their upper limit is 35 lol

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I like men my age, or a little older. I have to find them both physically and intellectually attractive, too.

"
just looking at you I'm thinking I'm in your area at weekends you'd probably enjoy my company social life brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like men my age, or a little older. I have to find them both physically and intellectually attractive, too.

"

You just want everything don't you?...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I prefer older men. "Pwease cum inside me daddy".... gets 'em everytime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest. "

Hey at least you looked, even if you didn't stay. How old did you think I am, before you knew?....

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but ......."
not advised just a quick get on and see where it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but .......not advised just a quick get on and see where it goes "

Have we decided where it goes?

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

The forums aren't the place to meet people on FAB try the search & put in your age range/preference & you post code, let FAB find people interested in someone your age etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two schools of thought on shagging what? At least your getting one if that's what you when out for or if you prearranged didnt you do homework? "

Try reply + quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but .......not advised just a quick get on and see where it goes

Have we decided where it goes?"

Where it goes nobody knows

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"The forums aren't the place to meet people on FAB try the search & put in your age range/preference & you post code, let FAB find people interested in someone your age etc."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but .......not advised just a quick get on and see where it goes "

You should ask for profile advice

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"You've been here 5 weeks ! You didn't ask for profile advice so I won't but .......not advised just a quick get on and see where it goes

You should ask for to gile advice "
that's your homework sorted the best profile you're going to get is one that's written by someone who would like to read it

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

I am well old 45

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

My point tried to private reply can't blocked by Age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met a couple oc ladies in clubs who have played with me but i cant message them on here as i am too old fof their profile range.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Unless everyone has either gone to lunch or died of laughter I'm thinking it's time to wrap this one up been a giggle had a good few profile views shame there was so many men st8 here sorry and some interesting messages too till next time enjoy fab s-grey

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I like older guys than myself, the issue can be that sometimes the fab age isn't actually their real age so before you know it you could be shagging someone that's over your age preferences!!Does that matter as you must have fancied them to let them shag you ."

I said 'could be'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like men my age, or a little older. I have to find them both physically and intellectually attractive, too.

You just want everything don't you?..."

Hope springs eternal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest.

Hey at least you looked, even if you didn't stay. How old did you think I am, before you knew?.... "

In your 40s. Haven’t seen your face though. So you could have an old wrinkly face for all I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

Read profile age limits that gives you a clue to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m old but I workout and stay in shape.it stands me in good stead in the bedroom Lol but hey try not to worry about my age to much as it’s just a number

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order)

Read profile age limits that gives you a clue to that."
is that your profile or mine that your looking at I notice that you'll go older some won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple lol yes x

Nikki

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

OP, the honest answer is that very few women will be attracted to a 67 year old average man who can't accommodate. You may be a lovely person, as I am sure you are, but your chances on here are minimal.

Sorry, if that's bad news, but better to be told the truth than comforting bollocks I always think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are

How about ones that look younger and have the mind of a schoolboy?..

I was surprised at your age when I looked to be honest.

Hey at least you looked, even if you didn't stay. How old did you think I am, before you knew?....

In your 40s. Haven’t seen your face though. So you could have an old wrinkly face for all I know! "

I could indeed, but you'll never know as in an ironic twist, I'm too old to message you!.....

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"OP, the honest answer is that very few women will be attracted to a 67 year old average man who can't accommodate. You may be a lovely person, as I am sure you are, but your chances on here are minimal.

Sorry, if that's bad news, but better to be told the truth than comforting bollocks I always think. "
its not in any way harsh or hurtful the truth being it works I do OK today has been fantastic long may it continue

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Back on with the subject of age looked at local updates reasently % added new pictures some have dates on 3years previous reminds me of meet up a while ago profile and pic said 48yr old took usual stuff wine etc door opens at least 16yrs older than stated have coffee and chat explains with apology next would I be interested in mother and daughter action 'yes please' shouts up stairs mother we're on for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back on with the subject of age looked at local updates reasently % added new pictures some have dates on 3years previous reminds me of meet up a while ago profile and pic said 48yr old took usual stuff wine etc door opens at least 16yrs older than stated have coffee and chat explains with apology next would I be interested in mother and daughter action 'yes please' shouts up stairs mother we're on for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back on with the subject of age looked at local updates reasently % added new pictures some have dates on 3years previous reminds me of meet up a while ago profile and pic said 48yr old took usual stuff wine etc door opens at least 16yrs older than stated have coffee and chat explains with apology next would I be interested in mother and daughter action 'yes please' shouts up stairs mother we're on for one

"

I think thats a joke from facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m old but I workout and stay in shape.it stands me in good stead in the bedroom Lol but hey try not to worry about my age to much as it’s just a number "

So you either think 45 is old or you too are 67 but lie about it

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I’m old but I workout and stay in shape.it stands me in good stead in the bedroom Lol but hey try not to worry about my age to much as it’s just a number

So you either think 45 is old or you too are 67 but lie about it "
actually 67 I do ok physically fit but not a gymnast can and do get younger female attention /action just looked at a couple of other profiles don't seem to be a million miles away from mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Better off going bi. "

See you later.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Back on with the subject of age looked at local updates reasently % added new pictures some have dates on 3years previous reminds me of meet up a while ago profile and pic said 48yr old took usual stuff wine etc door opens at least 16yrs older than stated have coffee and chat explains with apology next would I be interested in mother and daughter action 'yes please' shouts up stairs mother we're on for one

I think thats a joke from facebook "
not sure about Facebook but joke yes

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Back on with the subject of age looked at local updates reasently % added new pictures some have dates on 3years previous reminds me of meet up a while ago profile and pic said 48yr old took usual stuff wine etc door opens at least 16yrs older than stated have coffee and chat explains with apology next would I be interested in mother and daughter action 'yes please' shouts up stairs mother we're on for one

I think thats a joke from facebook not sure about Facebook but joke yes"

I tell it better... all about timing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has anyone had a 99 yr old yet ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone had a 99 yr old yet ...?"

Does it count if it involved a shovel and was post mortem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m old but I workout and stay in shape.it stands me in good stead in the bedroom Lol but hey try not to worry about my age to much as it’s just a number

So you either think 45 is old or you too are 67 but lie about it actually 67 I do ok physically fit but not a gymnast can and do get younger female attention /action just looked at a couple of other profiles don't seem to be a million miles away from mine? "

i was not responding to you...it was to the person who thought 45 was old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has anyone had a 99 yr old yet ...?

Does it count if it involved a shovel and was post mortem?"

it's all a numbers game I guess!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always liked older. But now Im older the older I like are getting too old Give me a good 10 yrs older than me and Im still happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always liked older. But now Im older the older I like are getting too old Give me a good 10 yrs older than me and Im still happy "

10?.........dammmit!...

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"has anyone had a 99 yr old yet ...?

Does it count if it involved a shovel and was post mortem?"
they are a bit rare but there's so nice old wines out there! Old girl Queens too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always liked older. But now Im older the older I like are getting too old Give me a good 10 yrs older than me and Im still happy

10?.........dammmit!... "

Give or take 5 or 6 yrs then

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I have always liked older. But now Im older the older I like are getting too old Give me a good 10 yrs older than me and Im still happy

10?.........dammmit!...

Give or take 5 or 6 yrs then "
its more the charm of the mature gentleman that your draw towards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cut off at 58?"

My cut off is 52.

It's personal choice like anything in life

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Looking at ages of some people on here there appears to be no future cut off age and stop I'll just have to keep looking for the 99 year old and invite everyone round to watch the action thanks for participating s-grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at ages of some people on here there appears to be no future cut off age and stop I'll just have to keep looking for the 99 year old and invite everyone round to watch the action thanks for participating s-grey "

the best thing you can do is attend clubs...or do an advanced search on here stating the age limit you like..and maybe change your avatar for a smiley pic

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Looking at ages of some people on here there appears to be no future cut off age and stop I'll just have to keep looking for the 99 year old and invite everyone round to watch the action thanks for participating s-grey

the best thing you can do is attend clubs...or do an advanced search on here stating the age limit you like..and maybe change your avatar for a smiley pic "
thanks already on it had some cracking tips already but a serious must is pic but do I put a down stairs pic on as well since some ladies don't like them in their in box (is there somewhere else to shave them?) dick pics that is

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older men but not ones that look older than even they say they are "

This is a very good point when I turned 50 I stopped just hounding the Thirty- something's got real and looked for women in my age group, amazing I have had amazing times with ladies well into their 60s and ironically since I stopped pesting, the younger ones are showing interest too

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

You were obviously stimulated by my topic since your back to it it only started as a giggle since there wasn't a lot happening on site ( others had commented) had I lot of messages and views on the day had a funny bit too some guy almost spilt his drink at a silly couple of lines that were exchanged made my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, literally none do"

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"No, literally none do "
that's where you're wrong it's a fact no longer speed it's comfort and passion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You were obviously stimulated by my topic since your back to it it only started as a giggle since there wasn't a lot happening on site ( others had commented) had I lot of messages and views on the day had a funny bit too some guy almost spilt his drink at a silly couple of lines that were exchanged made my day"

Was that aimed at me?

Im not stimulated by it ..

Its just another thread made by someone who is older and needs help..so i gave some

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"You were obviously stimulated by my topic since your back to it it only started as a giggle since there wasn't a lot happening on site ( others had commented) had I lot of messages and views on the day had a funny bit too some guy almost spilt his drink at a silly couple of lines that were exchanged made my day

Was that aimed at me?

Im not stimulated by it ..

Its just another thread made by someone who is older and needs help..so i gave some

"
no it wasn't aimed at you I thought yesterday afternoon. That this topic as such had all but expired but still very much alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always liked older. But now Im older the older I like are getting too old Give me a good 10 yrs older than me and Im still happy

10?.........dammmit!...

Give or take 5 or 6 yrs then "

Ooh you little tease...

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem? "

Go for it. Although I’m a bit scared to look how old you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem? "

What is the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem?

What is the problem?"

I see have no problem at all in her keep looking at my profile, might even chat with her if she decides to make contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem? "

For them there is no problem...

For you there is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "
Hey someone for everyone here you're just settling yourself up to be insulted by the holyer than thou brigade, it can be a tough environment for guys but older women exist here to you have to make the best if what you've got, the 35 year age gap is only achieved if you have money or exceptional looks, so not a great example to quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) Hey someone for everyone here you're just settling yourself up to be insulted by the holyer than thou brigade, it can be a tough environment for guys but older women exist here to you have to make the best if what you've got, the 35 year age gap is only achieved if you have money or exceptional looks, so not a great example to quote "
setting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

A word of warning, when a significantly younger one looks and makes contact approach with caution as its usually a means to extort money or personal information from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op have you tried looking at people in your area in search then clicking on I'm the age they're looking for box then reducing your age limit to your minimum limit ,if so how many ladies were available,did u send a polite message with a recent face pic,did u get any replies,if the answer was no to all the above then there lies your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here op you need to be a realist there will be ladies that will meet u on here for sure but don't expect them to be half your age ,work with what you got and be polite and think about what u send that's best advice I can give

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This is 1 milked thread

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By *ilted CameronMan
over a year ago

South East & London & Scotland


"No, literally none do "
Just saw your message. Damn, that's me ruled out x

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

OP yes they do, and go with older women too.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough


"Just seen on another forum on lounge about someone getting interest from someone 35 yes 35 years younger so what's the problem?

For them there is no problem...

For you there is "

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I don't mind older... but most older than me are already dead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind older... but most older than me are already dead lol"
lol very funny

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON

I'm 2 years over a lot of ladies cut off. Bit frustrating sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 2 years over a lot of ladies cut off. Bit frustrating sometimes "

Why frustrating?

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I'm 2 years over a lot of ladies cut off. Bit frustrating sometimes

Why frustrating? "

So close and yet so far lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'm 2 years over a lot of ladies cut off. Bit frustrating sometimes "

Just change your date of birth

#noneedtothankme

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By *eenherebeforeMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"I'm 2 years over a lot of ladies cut off. Bit frustrating sometimes

Just change your date of birth

#noneedtothankme "

I'm not a liar mate

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"No one's said it yet OP so allow me - some will, some won't and some are neither here nor there.

I tend to focus on the ones that will rather than worry overly about any that won't "

...and I’ll add that just because they don’t want to meet you, does not mean they won’t meet men your age.

I don’t care about the age thing at all but I care A LOT about attraction.

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By *BlueTooMan
over a year ago

eskbank

I try not to get too hung up on age. There seems to be some very immature 45 yr olds and some very mature 20yr olds.

Physical attraction here is key at first, but for lasting fun it’s the mind that turns people on. The mental connection is important!

There is another recent post about an older guy sleeping with a younger girl.. while I see no problem with it the post itself was immature, almost bragging.

As an older man myself, it is frustrating seeing a profile you like and not being able to make an introduction due to age restrictions. I am certain we would have made the earth spin faster. But we have to understand that with so many people (and some not that nice) lady’s / couples do have to somehow limit the amount is messages they get.. as mentioned earlier. Meeting at a club/ pub etc. Is more natural and people can shine in that situation.

Also mention is this post a profile needs to look great to attract the correct attention.

I count myself lucky here. I have met some wonderful people of all ages and count many of them as friends.

Wishing you all. Safe, respectful fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

You will be fine OP loads of women on here regularly meet guts as old as 66

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We have age limits on our profile.

Generally because I don’t want to book anyone I could have give birth to or anyone much older than my hubby.... however, we have broken BOTH ends of the age limits in the past, it’s about chemistry, maturity, physical attraction.

Neither of us particularly look our ages (thankfully) and certainly don’t act or interact our age.. we just go with the flow and see what happens.

Good luck OP X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with men where there is a 20 years age difference either side of me. I have age filters set but I do stray outside of them, they are certainly not set in stone.

It's about the person and the connection and chemistry.

Hope you get to enjoy some fun OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be fine OP I’m oldish and do fine but get my knock backs aswell,stick with it

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"You will be fine OP I’m oldish and do fine but get my knock backs aswell,stick with it "
I'm amazed that this has runso long it only started last week because some had noticed how quiet it was on the site (myself included) there's some interesting facts coming out but does it matter about age if you're enjoying yourselves

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You will be fine OP I’m oldish and do fine but get my knock backs aswell,stick with it I'm amazed that this has runso long it only started last week because some had noticed how quiet it was on the site (myself included) there's some interesting facts coming out but does it matter about age if you're enjoying yourselves "

It'll run to 175 ish. Or die.

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Since this started its generated quite a bit of interest I've also found that there are people out there who are seriously interested in meeting up with the more mature gentleman (one ad male 50 to 80)party being planed for 60 plus age be lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order) "

Maybe try to make yourself look appealing. You look like you’ve just got out of bed in your ph’s and are still half asleep with three days growth. Throw a shirt and tie on, have a shave and smile whilst looking at your camera. I’m just trying to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order)

Maybe try to make yourself look appealing. You look like you’ve just got out of bed in your ph’s and are still half asleep with three days growth. Throw a shirt and tie on, have a shave and smile whilst looking at your camera. I’m just trying to help."

Pj’s even

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order)

Maybe try to make yourself look appealing. You look like you’ve just got out of bed in your ph’s and are still half asleep with three days growth. Throw a shirt and tie on, have a shave and smile whilst looking at your camera. I’m just trying to help.

Pj’s even "
Hi just picked this up again yes your right a better pic been said before it was just a throw it together and get on with it at the time apart from that I'm doing fine I'm not expecting to score every day but I'm really enjoying the banter thanks s-grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi newish to site been OK but do some women really go for the older man, (still in working order)

Maybe try to make yourself look appealing. You look like you’ve just got out of bed in your ph’s and are still half asleep with three days growth. Throw a shirt and tie on, have a shave and smile whilst looking at your camera. I’m just trying to help.

Pj’s even Hi just picked this up again yes your right a better pic been said before it was just a throw it together and get on with it at the time apart from that I'm doing fine I'm not expecting to score every day but I'm really enjoying the banter thanks s-grey "

Draw it out.......

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By *ilvergrey OP   Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just having a quick look at forum topics re the age situation both male and female there seems to be a limit as to how far some people will or won't go (preference springs to mind) unfortunately we are all getting older and if you're 60 plus and find a suitable partner go for it I've met 30 plus on here no complaints check your age range settings girls you may get a message if you're up for it say yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just having a quick look at forum topics re the age situation both male and female there seems to be a limit as to how far some people will or won't go (preference springs to mind) unfortunately we are all getting older and if you're 60 plus and find a suitable partner go for it I've met 30 plus on here no complaints check your age range settings girls you may get a message if you're up for it say yes please

"

And on.........

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