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Positive thoughts gives you a good path

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We had an interesting discussion about it yesterday, that the more positive and good thoughts you have, will automatically drive you to a good path in life as what we do now have a chain reaction of future events and consequences, whats your view of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip. I'm happy 99% of the time and I sail through life x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yip. I'm happy 99% of the time and I sail through life x"

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

A positive outlook certainly assists, although it's not the only answer and even us jolly types aren't infallible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who do you discuss these topics with shag?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. Positive thoughts influence how you react though. We all know those negative people who moan about every, damn thing. They must be terribly unhappy. Being positive just makes stuff easier to deal with and people nicer to be around.

An example, I know someone who when you tell her you're going on holiday her stock answer is "but it will soon be over" . How much nicer it is to talk to someone who replies "ooo lovely, where are you going?"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"No. Positive thoughts influence how you react though. We all know those negative people who moan about every, damn thing. They must be terribly unhappy. Being positive just makes stuff easier to deal with and people nicer to be around.

An example, I know someone who when you tell her you're going on holiday her stock answer is "but it will soon be over" . How much nicer it is to talk to someone who replies "ooo lovely, where are you going?""

Energy vampires..

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"No. Positive thoughts influence how you react though. We all know those negative people who moan about every, damn thing. They must be terribly unhappy. Being positive just makes stuff easier to deal with and people nicer to be around.

An example, I know someone who when you tell her you're going on holiday her stock answer is "but it will soon be over" . How much nicer it is to talk to someone who replies "ooo lovely, where are you going?"

Energy vampires..

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I've known a few of those "energy vampires"

Just keeping the positive people in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Positive thoughts influence how you react though. We all know those negative people who moan about every, damn thing. They must be terribly unhappy. Being positive just makes stuff easier to deal with and people nicer to be around.

An example, I know someone who when you tell her you're going on holiday her stock answer is "but it will soon be over" . How much nicer it is to talk to someone who replies "ooo lovely, where are you going?""

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Positive thoughts are more likely to cause positive feelings and also a more positive response from other people. This is more likely to result in positive things happening. It’s a virtuous circle.

It doesn’t mean bad things won’t happen but we always have a choice as to how we think.

It’s the basis of CBT

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I chose to take early retirement in part due to the negative thinking of my colleagues. Its very difficult to contend with and almost impossible to change. When they see me they say with long faces "you made the right decision"

Damn right I did, I don't have to sit and listen to you bemoaning your fate whilst making absolutely zero effort to change your circumstances.

Positive people will try and alter things, negative people just flaming whinge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who do you discuss these topics with shag?"
I have it it with parents and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that were true id be happy with my who life not just pleasently supprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neurons that fire together, wire together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting points everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had an interesting discussion about it yesterday, that the more positive and good thoughts you have, will automatically drive you to a good path in life as what we do now have a chain reaction of future events and consequences, whats your view of it?"

I agree with this wholeheartedly. Always look for the positive in every situtation. You'll also find the more postive you are the more others will be drawn to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do you discuss these topics with shag?"

Me ! We always having interesting discussions down the gym while we’re getting are massive gains on. Today’s topic is quantum physics,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Positive thoughts influence how you react though. We all know those negative people who moan about every, damn thing. They must be terribly unhappy. Being positive just makes stuff easier to deal with and people nicer to be around.

An example, I know someone who when you tell her you're going on holiday her stock answer is "but it will soon be over" . How much nicer it is to talk to someone who replies "ooo lovely, where are you going?""

My ex is a mood hoover. He drains the life out of everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that were true id be happy with my who life not just pleasently supprised"

Are you pocket texting again ?

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