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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning fabbers..

so just wanted your opinion, so I’m no way new to fab but recently came back a year ago, but seems things are different!

So it seems a lot lately that you get chatting to someone/people you get on/have banter you even add each other to friends list, but all to sit in there friend list then for weeks and weeks gathering dust!

And that’s not from no effort on my part, I’d message and ask how they are etc but to no avail as most of not all the time my messages go unread for days sometimes weeks!!

So is this common and just have to accept it????

But then how is anyone supposed to get a meet lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning fabbers..

so just wanted your opinion, so I’m no way new to fab but recently came back a year ago, but seems things are different!

So it seems a lot lately that you get chatting to someone/people you get on/have banter you even add each other to friends list, but all to sit in there friend list then for weeks and weeks gathering dust!

And that’s not from no effort on my part, I’d message and ask how they are etc but to no avail as most of not all the time my messages go unread for days sometimes weeks!!

So is this common and just have to accept it????

But then how is anyone supposed to get a meet lol?"
Yep I've got friends on my list on here all the time say they're not but never chat it's life always somebody more attractive than you, just move on my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to delete people if not chatted for a long time. It's not being harsh, it's being realistic.

If people want to meet, they'll make the effort to stay in contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning fabbers..

so just wanted your opinion, so I’m no way new to fab but recently came back a year ago, but seems things are different!

So it seems a lot lately that you get chatting to someone/people you get on/have banter you even add each other to friends list, but all to sit in there friend list then for weeks and weeks gathering dust!

And that’s not from no effort on my part, I’d message and ask how they are etc but to no avail as most of not all the time my messages go unread for days sometimes weeks!!

So is this common and just have to accept it????

But then how is anyone supposed to get a meet lol?Yep I've got friends on my list on here all the time say they're not but never chat it's life always somebody more attractive than you, just move on my friend "

Not true, I always chat with you James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble with sites like this is, the amount of people using it..coming and going or having accounts for years..because of the amount of people on here, people have more choices and tend to move on to the next person very quickly.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I talked to a lot of guys and often forget who they are so don't bother replying to them.I only add people i've met to my friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all good points, just gets a bit disheartening and a little annoying really esp when I do actually put effort in to message lol

1 meet in 12 months isn’t what I expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same as you op. I’m not in contact much and send the odd message now and again.....I’ve sent messages and had replies after waiting days or weeks..... But that’s just my Mum.

Here, ladies inboxes are booming at the seams. Send a picture with every message, that’ll make it stand out from the rest.

Or set the colour highlight to green instead of yellow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do the same as you op. I’m not in contact much and send the odd message now and again.....I’ve sent messages and had replies after waiting days or weeks..... But that’s just my Mum.

Here, ladies inboxes are booming at the seams. Send a picture with every message, that’ll make it stand out from the rest.

Or set the colour highlight to green instead of yellow. "

Yeah good tip, I do always send 2/3 pics with every message, but the problem I’m having isn’t the initial start it’s the keeping in touch days after that’s the problem lol

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"colour highlight to green instead of yellow. "

How do you do that? I worry about missing peoples messages who i like talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning fabbers..

so just wanted your opinion, so I’m no way new to fab but recently came back a year ago, but seems things are different!

So it seems a lot lately that you get chatting to someone/people you get on/have banter you even add each other to friends list, but all to sit in there friend list then for weeks and weeks gathering dust!

And that’s not from no effort on my part, I’d message and ask how they are etc but to no avail as most of not all the time my messages go unread for days sometimes weeks!!

So is this common and just have to accept it????

But then how is anyone supposed to get a meet lol?Yep I've got friends on my list on here all the time say they're not but never chat it's life always somebody more attractive than you, just move on my friend

Not true, I always chat with you James "
I know I love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your main problem is your straight

Get your head round letting a bloke nosh you off and your fate would change within hours

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