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By *adame 2Swords OP   Woman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Can’t you just block them?

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Bastards

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

They'll bugger off again when they find someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge."
I've got my crampons on and my spike and rope can I attempt to get to your summit

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge."

They see it as you playing hard to get, not inaccessible. Need to spell it out to them, tell them they're history if that's what you want.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"In the last 2 weeks I've had 4 EX FB/boyfriends get in touch with me, speaking as though nothing had happened. All of them 'ghosted' me, i.e. faded off on here, social media and texts. Now they are back with no apology or explanation. I know 3 were seeing others, so presumably they've been dumped, so they think I'm an easy touch. I've told them all I'm not interested but they keep coming back. FFS! I'm just not answering them any more, because otherwise I look like even more of a challenge.

They see it as you playing hard to get, not inaccessible. Need to spell it out to them, tell them they're history if that's what you want. "

Exactly, you're replying saying you're not interested, but still... you're replying. So I think it's a good idea that you've decided not to from now on. And block them as well.

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By *iger.10Man
over a year ago

Llantrisant


"They'll bugger off again when they find someone else. "

So true....

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hope they read this then OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a hell of a lot of drama for a 49 year old x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want nothing to do with them, don’t respond, or block their numbers.

A response, especially a friendly one can be misconstrued as being interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them after telling them I'm no longer interested.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd stop replying full stop.Dob't encourage anymore messages and prob would block too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just block them

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I agree with the others that you

should stop replying back OP and block

them on here and any other social media

and they will soon get the msg and leave

you alone. They are Ex's for a reason!

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