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"Well I fit absolutely none of your criteria so not even going to offer, but seriously you're gorgeous,I thought they'd be tripping over each other x" Hiya Just Claire It's not easy to find the one believe me. But Im sure he's here lurking somewhere.  | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" Exactly the same here. About a year on and off. Nobody seems to really have whatever it is I’m looking for! | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" The last sentence makes it sound more like you are looking for a boyfriend rather than a FWB 
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"Well I fit absolutely none of your criteria so not even going to offer, but seriously you're gorgeous,I thought they'd be tripping over each other x Hiya Just Claire It's not easy to find the one believe me. But Im sure he's here lurking somewhere. "I'm sure there is a special someone for you out there and wish you all the best in finding him. | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? The last sentence makes it sound more like you are looking for a boyfriend rather than a FWB
Perhaps that's why it's taking a while OP."No it’s totally different. Loads of people have that and are looking for that too. Just one FWB | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" i'm ready x | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" I think if you want exclusivity I'd be calling it a relationship, and you'll be lucky on here - very few want exclusivity. I just want someone new locally. | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? " Im not looking for a standard relationship, that's all I'm really certain of or a boyfriend | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? I think if you want exclusivity I'd be calling it a relationship, and you'll be lucky on here - very few want exclusivity. I just want someone new locally. "Yep that's it...to many sweets in the shop. | |||
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"I want a FWB not even an exclusive one. Still cant find one. Bugger it " I would like a FWB too but as you say they are hard to find  | |||
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"I want a FWB not even an exclusive one. Still cant find one. Bugger it " Omg that made me laugh. | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? " Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" Unfortunately I don't fit what you're looking for and I'm way out of your location range but just want to say that you're stunning and your pics are fantastic  | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.." Thats it | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. Thats it "Yes | |||
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"Is the exclusivity possibly putting him off? "Its that or me..who knows | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.." Would that include texting and chatting on the phone inbetween meeting up? I like the first bit of what you say but I'd rather have a few of those, rather than just one! Diary and all that  | |||
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Hey you, this isn't bloody Tescos check out "Do I get Clubcard points | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. Thats it
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? Unfortunately I don't fit what you're looking for and I'm way out of your location range but just want to say that you're stunning and your pics are fantastic "Not a million miles off for me though!! | |||
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"Well I fit absolutely none of your criteria so not even going to offer, but seriously you're gorgeous,I thought they'd be tripping over each other x Hiya Just Claire It's not easy to find the one believe me. But Im sure he's here lurking somewhere.
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I'm sure there is a special someone for you out there and wish you all the best in finding him."
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Do I get Clubcard points "Buy one get another free. | |||
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"I've posted on a few of the fwb threads hoping for a west Yorkshire even better a Leeds based lady .. no joy as yet..I'm ever hopeful.. may have to cast my net to north and south Yorkshire as well.
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"Ah, the infamous fwb. I think finding the Holy Grail would be easier. It's fun looking, though.... "
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems... "Yep often its the true colours which come shining though after the meet. Anyone can invest time into the build up. | |||
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"I have the full permission of the wife to find a fwb yet after a year of looking and finding no one I am at a loss ,,whether it be as Zoe or as my normal self ( wife is fine with Zoe so it’s not an escape thing ) maybe some help with the profile may help " Yours or mine? Maybe you are right I need a profile refresh update. | |||
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"Looking for the same, I totally get where you’re coming from, someone to spend quality time with but not introduce to the family etc. When you discover the secret please pass it on "Yes | |||
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"I thought there would be a queue forming by now... I'll just slip away quietlyvbefore the rush starts
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Buy one get another free. "You have a twin sister?... It was worth staying on fab after all  | |||
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"I’d it greedy to want more than one? " What more than one fwb? Even in a swinging sort of fwb | |||
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"Im looking halfheartedly.." is that because you have sort of given up | |||
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It was worth staying on fab after all "Get back into your cave | |||
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"I’d it greedy to want more than one? What more than one fwb? Even in a swinging sort of fwb "Different parts of the country! | |||
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"Im looking halfheartedly.." Me too, | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? Unfortunately I don't fit what you're looking for and I'm way out of your location range but just want to say that you're stunning and your pics are fantastic
Not a million miles off for me though!! "Very true | |||
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"Im looking halfheartedly.. is that because you have sort of given up "No its because i sort of have one but a spare is always handy | |||
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"OP and others commenting here, beautiful sexy people with engaging profiles. It makes me despair of my own chances, if you all can't find what you're looking for. I've been here about six years now, aside from a short break. For a site that regularly has 20-30,000 people on-line it's frustratingly difficult to find anyone that ticks all the right boxes even for one meet never mind something on-going. Ah well Good luck all and keep the faith "Its depressing isnt it. I thought when I joined this site that offering a sex only relationship to someone in a swinging environment would be easyish....wow how wrong was I | |||
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"Im looking halfheartedly.. is that because you have sort of given up
No its because i sort of have one but a spare is always handy"Hah you make me laugh | |||
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"OP and others commenting here, beautiful sexy people with engaging profiles. It makes me despair of my own chances, if you all can't find what you're looking for. I've been here about six years now, aside from a short break. For a site that regularly has 20-30,000 people on-line it's frustratingly difficult to find anyone that ticks all the right boxes even for one meet never mind something on-going. Ah well Good luck all and keep the faith
Its depressing isnt it. I thought when I joined this site that offering a sex only relationship to someone in a swinging environment would be easyish....wow how wrong was I "Oh very wrong. I’m the same. | |||
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"I found one when I didn't know I wanted one but tbh I couldn't see myself ever finding another on here. I just got very very lucky, the odds seem to be stacked against it. Not saying to give up but it might happen when you're not looking for it or least expect it. I don't see much point in looking for one as I think they just naturally develop if you enjoy each others company enough. Fuck a few times and if it's so good you want more and more and then you find you enjoy there company as well you're on your way." Yeah people keep saying that to me about dating, stop trying, it will happen etc. I’m like “ yeah someone’s gunna rock up to me in Tesco and ask me out”. Just doesn’t happen. | |||
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"I found one when I didn't know I wanted one but tbh I couldn't see myself ever finding another on here. I just got very very lucky, the odds seem to be stacked against it. Not saying to give up but it might happen when you're not looking for it or least expect it. I don't see much point in looking for one as I think they just naturally develop if you enjoy each others company enough. Fuck a few times and if it's so good you want more and more and then you find you enjoy there company as well you're on your way." Thanks for that. I think you are probably right mwah. Next thread coming up...meet me for a social hah | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. Would that include texting and chatting on the phone inbetween meeting up? I like the first bit of what you say but I'd rather have a few of those, rather than just one! Diary and all that "I’m the same as you, I just need too many boxes ticing to find them, damn my fussiness | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. Would that include texting and chatting on the phone inbetween meeting up? I like the first bit of what you say but I'd rather have a few of those, rather than just one! Diary and all that
I’m the same as you, I just need too many boxes ticing to find them, damn my fussiness "This is my problem! Too fussy. | |||
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"I think I have one but i'm not sure but I would love to have a official FWB like you said OP just to text random stuff too and other random things" | |||
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"I found one when I didn't know I wanted one but tbh I couldn't see myself ever finding another on here. I just got very very lucky, the odds seem to be stacked against it. Not saying to give up but it might happen when you're not looking for it or least expect it. I don't see much point in looking for one as I think they just naturally develop if you enjoy each others company enough. Fuck a few times and if it's so good you want more and more and then you find you enjoy there company as well you're on your way. Yeah people keep saying that to me about dating, stop trying, it will happen etc. I’m like “ yeah someone’s gunna rock up to me in Tesco and ask me out”. Just doesn’t happen. "Think dating is a bit different, you're both going into that with a similar aim of commitment in mind hopefully. On here people do want all different levels of commitment but it's a much more casual pursuit for most. Finding someone in such a casual come and go environment as this who you genuinely connect with and who wants to offer you that little bit more commitment than the average penis does is never going to be easy to find. I just think you have to accept it might happen but it might not you can't do much other than enjoy giving the auditions. | |||
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Hey you, this isn't bloody Tescos check out
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"I found one when I didn't know I wanted one but tbh I couldn't see myself ever finding another on here. I just got very very lucky, the odds seem to be stacked against it. Not saying to give up but it might happen when you're not looking for it or least expect it. I don't see much point in looking for one as I think they just naturally develop if you enjoy each others company enough. Fuck a few times and if it's so good you want more and more and then you find you enjoy there company as well you're on your way." This! I wasn't looking, but sometimes things just happen... if they're meant to happen. | |||
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"NGL, sounds like you want a boyfriend." No I dont. If I was in a real relation ship I would probably leave this life behind me as I dont think sharing is for me. | |||
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"I think I have one but i'm not sure but I would love to have a official FWB like you said OP just to text random stuff too and other random things "shame i'm not down there anymore I think being FWB with you would be amazing | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" sign me up and whip out the Lycra | |||
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"An exclusive friends with benefits? What's the difference between that and a bf? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth. Just my take on it.. Would that include texting and chatting on the phone inbetween meeting up? I like the first bit of what you say but I'd rather have a few of those, rather than just one! Diary and all that "Texting and chatting, yes. My previous fwbs were in pretty much daily contact between meets, just for a quick chat, sexy chat or just share random stuff that amused us. Same sort of contact you would have with a close friend. One or more is personal choice. I consider one safer in many respects.. | |||
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"NGL, sounds like you want a boyfriend. No I dont. If I was in a real relation ship I would probably leave this life behind me as I dont think sharing is for me." I think you've said it all with this statement about sharing not being for you. From my experience here, people on fab, and i'm referring to singles, are free spirits that want to retain the ability to keep their options open, regardless if they've met people that are fwb material or have already become one. Exclusivity is in the domain of a more traditional monogamous relationship and that clashes with what I see most singles looking for here. You might say that you're not looking for a boyfriend but your requirements sound very much like one and that will put most men off that tick your boxes i'm afraid. | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" Geography. That is all. | |||
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"NGL, sounds like you want a boyfriend. No I dont. If I was in a real relation ship I would probably leave this life behind me as I dont think sharing is for me." Sounds like you want a boyfriend.....who you don’t want to live with. ? | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?" I love running and swimming however my bike goes brumm and dissappointly you're straight, Would you consider not being straight?
Seriously tho, I'd say it is definitely possible, but only you know if Fab is working for you.
I started out on here looking for an FWB, since finding him it's flourished and has become a beautiful polyamourous relationship. (Not something I had considered when I first joined but I love it, even if there's never a moment's silence)
I do however feel sharing is a rather large portion of swinging.
As others have mentioned perhaps the exclusitivity you seek is posing a hinderance?
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"NGL, sounds like you want a boyfriend. No I dont. If I was in a real relation ship I would probably leave this life behind me as I dont think sharing is for me. I think you've said it all with this statement about sharing not being for you. From my experience here, people on fab, and i'm referring to singles, are free spirits that want to retain the ability to keep their options open, regardless if they've met people that are fwb material or have already become one. Exclusivity is in the domain of a more traditional monogamous relationship and that clashes with what I see most singles looking for here. You might say that you're not looking for a boyfriend but your requirements sound very much like one and that will put most men off that tick your boxes i'm afraid." 
What I'm trying to say is in a traditional relationship which isnt what Im looking for. I dont think sharing is for me but I dont know how I would feel until I get there. Like many things on here things can change. | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? sign me up and whip out the Lycra "hah hah | |||
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"Don’t think it’s the fwb that’s hard to find Think it the exclusive part that’s more like a dating kind of thing ... " Hiya No not really just enables trust to develop. | |||
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"Don’t think it’s the fwb that’s hard to find Think it the exclusive part that’s more like a dating kind of thing ... Hiya No not really just enables trust to develop." Like building a relationship? A 1-1 exclusive relationship on a swinging site? Is that what your looking for here. Didn’t someone leave the other day because she wanted this and came to the conclusion it’s rare to find someone who wants that on here. Maybe a proper dating site? | |||
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But your single aren’t you? Are you looking for another single to have this relationship with? (Remember, he might like swinging)
Or are you looking for a couple, who you’d like to have an exclusive relationship with one of them....(which doesn’t make sense).
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But your single aren’t you? Are you looking for another single to have this relationship with? (Remember, he might like swinging)
Or are you looking for a couple, who you’d like to have an exclusive relationship with one of them....(which doesn’t make sense).
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there."Always worked with me this way to just meet n have fun and you find u will either click or don’t | |||
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there."I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right. | |||
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
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I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right. "I’m free when you are.. I’m discrete and I love blondes | |||
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right.
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there."
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I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right.
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right. "Completely agree. Good luck ,,...not looking?  For it op. | |||
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right.
I’m free when you are.. I’m discrete and I love blondes
I think I’m probably old enough to be your mum!
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ?It's probably your intimidating good looks or maybe it's the Plymouth thing Must be a Plymouth thing then whatever it is you mean by that "not many down Plymouth way not that I've noticed anyway, I went to Exmouth on a meet last year | |||
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right.
I’m free when you are.. I’m discrete and I love blondes
I think I’m probably old enough to be your mum!
I strongly disagree.. you are only 17 years older than me.. there are couples with 20 years age difference.. so what do you say?
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This is definitely right, I doubt many on a swinging site will jump straight into an exclusive arrangement. We weren't exclusive for a while, it took a few months of meets before we felt like it was what we both wanted. You need to just have some fun first and see what's out there then if you click with one person particularly take it from there.
I agree. I don’t think it’s something you can plan. It sort of just happens if it’s right.
I’m free when you are.. I’m discrete and I love blondes
I think I’m probably old enough to be your mum!
I strongly disagree.. you are only 17 years older than me.. there are couples with 20 years age difference.. so what do you say?
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"The trouble I have with lots of people who are looking for a fwb is that what they're looking for is often no different than the type of thing they'd be looking for for a partner except without the relationship i.e someone wonderful whom they connect with in a broader way than just sex. I just think... if you find that... why wouldn't you want a relationship with such a person? Then I worry that the whole endeavour comes from lowering the bar. A kind of "I give up on finding anyone I'm deeply compatible with so I'm going to find someone to fuck who I kinda like and settle for that". That just feels a bit sad. Both approaches could be undermining the whole endeavour. The first because you're looking for something too amazing in too cautious and ungenerous a way. And the second because what you're looking for is a bit lackluster. That's why I prefer just to date in search of my beautiful other and if I make some beautiful sexy friends along the way then so be it... finding fwbs without looking for them
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. " I've been to clubs wouldn’t say it's my favourite thing mind | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I've been to clubs wouldn’t say it's my favourite thing mind " you weren't with me hah | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. " I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? Exactly the same here. About a year on and off. Nobody seems to really have whatever it is I’m looking for! " Then perhaps you need to re-assess your "wants list". Fantasy is a great thing but it is just that and not something that will last. Men that are everything you are looking for and on here will usually be in a couple. Men that look like what you want are usually married or in a relationship and can't do the "friend" bit as well but just stolen moments. So from my experience of f/b's then you have a choice - a handsome man with all the sexual attributes you are looking for that will only be available for sex or a man that doesn't meet all your wish list but could be a great Fab man with benefits. | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. " Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone | |||
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"I'd love a fwb but Im no further forward than I was a year ago. Someone to text me stupid stuff, laugh on the phone and of course have amazing sex with. Someone to go to parties/clubs/events. Push our boundaries and explore our fantasies together. If your fit, athletic and ride a rd bike oh la la thats bonuses points. I don't ask for much.... honesty yep I said it, decent looking and can have a laugh who doesn't take themselves or life to seriously. The downside is exclusitity. Anyone ? Exactly the same here. About a year on and off. Nobody seems to really have whatever it is I’m looking for! Then perhaps you need to re-assess your "wants list". Fantasy is a great thing but it is just that and not something that will last. Men that are everything you are looking for and on here will usually be in a couple. Men that look like what you want are usually married or in a relationship and can't do the "friend" bit as well but just stolen moments. So from my experience of f/b's then you have a choice - a handsome man with all the sexual attributes you are looking for that will only be available for sex or a man that doesn't meet all your wish list but could be a great Fab man with benefits." No. I know what I want and to be honest I’m more of the mind if it happens it happens so not really that bothered. Good advice though | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I've been to clubs wouldn’t say it's my favourite thing mind you weren't with me hah ahhhh well obviously you're attractive so the crowds will be drawn to you but what happens to me "I was joking | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I've been to clubs wouldn’t say it's my favourite thing mind you weren't with me hah ahhhh well obviously you're attractive so the crowds will be drawn to you but what happens to me
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. " Go fuck yourself | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Go fuck yourself " | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone "Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive? | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone "It's still coming across as contradictory. If you want a swinging type of relationship how can you ask for exclusivity if the nature of that relationship implies sharing with others? There is also the issue that any man that fits your criteria will also tick the boxes of other women as well so he will have interest from multiple people. Single guys in this position on fab are not looking for exclusivity in general...I mean, why would they if they can have a fwb scenario with more than one person? | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
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"Come on guys It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out what exclusivity enables "I didn't want to say it.Thanks | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive?
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive?
Im happy with the sharing as in a form of fwb swinging relationship. It's just we do things together not independently.
Oh right. Do you explain that when you approach them? "Yes..Maybe I need to change my profile as its not that clear. | |||
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"Don’t think it’s the fwb that’s hard to find Think it the exclusive part that’s more like a dating kind of thing ... Hiya No not really just enables trust to develop. Like building a relationship? A 1-1 exclusive relationship on a swinging site? Is that what your looking for here. Didn’t someone leave the other day because she wanted this and came to the conclusion it’s rare to find someone who wants that on here. Maybe a proper dating site? Fwb within a swinging relationship isnt that sharing yep maybe you're right its time to go"how would work? Just watch and be watched? | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems... "This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ? A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that. Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all. OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive?
Im happy with the sharing as in a form of fwb swinging relationship. It's just we do things together not independently.
Oh right. Do you explain that when you approach them?
Yes..Maybe I need to change my profile as its not that clear."They might be thinking they'll never get to have sex with other people again. | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems...
This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ?
A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that.
Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all.
OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive?
Im happy with the sharing as in a form of fwb swinging relationship. It's just we do things together not independently.
Oh right. Do you explain that when you approach them?
Yes..Maybe I need to change my profile as its not that clear.
They might be thinking they'll never get to have sex with other people again. "its whatever suits us at the time it's a journey | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems...
This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ?
A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that.
Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all.
OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X
I like to stay in touch with women I have met if we had a good time and clicked and not just on a sexual level. "yeah I’m the same if it works well why change it and obviously if your getting into a relationship/open/poly/fwb then that will have to be discussed | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems...
This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ?
A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that.
Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all.
OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X
"Its always interesting how much time someone invest before the meet then your only as good as the next message or picture that pops into there box...But that's another story. It's life its how people treat each other. Treat others how you would like to be treated what happen to that.. | |||
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"I want a FWB not even an exclusive one. Still cant find one. Bugger it " Really? But you're beautiful. Damn. | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No dude, it’s STDs"
Plus not giving the time, attention, effort to build the chemistry required to make it special by being diluted with others on the go... Nothing to do with being possessive or jealous | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems...
This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ?
A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that.
Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all.
OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X
Its always interesting how much time someone invest before the meet then your only as good as the next message or picture that pops into there box...But that's another story. It's life its how people treat each other.
Treat others how you would like to be treated what happen to that.."Exactly, I do think to a degree it is about a mans thinking... As in they do not do it very well  | |||
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"Another one here... I’ve met at least 3 guys who fit the bill perfectly, the sex was mind blowing (at least for me lol) but afterwards and after the mandatory “it was great meeting you” message... tumble... total radio silence!
Apparently I’m only good for one offs it seems...
This is typical Fab man behaviour, written in the Fab manual; fuck n fuck off. Let's face it if the profile said " hi I will meet you and talk shite to you to get my rocks off then I will move on and ignore you" would they get meets ?
A few are mature enough to know the benefit of and have the manners to actually staying friends however the majority do not want that.
Whilst some say they want a FwB, it's usually about lining up a fuck options that's all.
OP It's a difficult one on here and my preference, I have been looking 3 years! X
Its always interesting how much time someone invest before the meet then your only as good as the next message or picture that pops into there box...But that's another story. It's life its how people treat each other.
Treat others how you would like to be treated what happen to that..
Exactly, I do think to a degree it is about a mans thinking... As in they do not do it very well "I think it's unfair to characterise most men this way as the same could be said about a number of women as well. I can only speak for myself, but I do put time and effort into establishing good chemistry prior to a meet and as a rule will maintain regular contact with that person between subsequent meets, especially if the attention is reciprocated. | |||
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"This may have been asked and answered above, but what’s the difference between an exclusive fwb and a boyfriend OP? Subjective of course, but for me it's just about the meetings being for sex and pleasant company, but independent lives. I like exclusivity because the sex/sensuality develops more depth and trust to enable me to explore all of our fantasies etc. Why would it matter if he occasionally had sex with other people if you’re living independently? Is it jealousy? No not at all. What then? If it's that open I may as well go it alone. I'd like to go to clubs etc with him maybe a couple profile. I’m still not sure I understand. I can have a fwb that does all of that without necessarily being exclusive. I’m genuinely interested in this not trying to wind you up. Tell me to go fuck myself if you like, there’s a thread for that today. Hah it's fine. You are also married! Im single looking for someone single to be exclusive with me however in a swinging type of relationship. It's just my preference thats all. Otherwise I may as well do it alone
Why would you have a couples profile and go to clubs together if you're exclusive?
Im happy with the sharing as in a form of fwb swinging relationship. It's just we do things together not independently.
Oh right. Do you explain that when you approach them?
Yes..Maybe I need to change my profile as its not that clear.
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