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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure what I'm gerring wrong when approaching people but I class my self as not a bad looking lad polite funny respectful intelligent yet filthy but nope nothing ...

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

How do you approach them?

Your profile could sell yourself better, it's pretty sparse and the note about discretion may put some people off as it suggests there's a reason behind it.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

With honesty, your profile text is next to zero. Your pics aren’t great and suggest a woman the house - which could mean you’re cheating. Also the line emphasising discretion is often used by people here without a partner’s knowledge too. Not always but often.

I like a profile that tells me why we might be compatible and get on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well to be honest there is a reason behind it and I wanted to be honest about that if and when I met someone obviously I'd explain more but i get your point . I don't do any form of social media never have so I may be a bit of robot when it comes to this

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP it's very difficult to advise becaiae we don't know what approach you are taking.

Whenever I receive a message I read the sender's profile first before I look at the message. If I don't see anything that interests me I don't bother reading the message.

A little bit of general advice for you:

If your current profile and approach aren't working for you then maybe you should change things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pink curtains and cuddly toys would suggest you're not single. Along with your need for discretion and your very bare profile you're not really selling yourself.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Not sure what I'm gerring wrong when approaching people but I class my self as not a bad looking lad polite funny respectful intelligent yet filthy but nope nothing ..."

Most ladies and couples will look at the profile and pictures first before even opening a message. Your profile is your shop window. Does yours show you in the best light possible? Would you want to meet someone with that profile? If the answer to those questions is no then make changes.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"Not sure what I'm gerring wrong when approaching people but I class my self as not a bad looking lad polite funny respectful intelligent yet filthy but nope nothing ..."

Clearer pictures and a longer profile wouldn't harm its all about getting attention and right now you don't really stand out from 10000 other men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to stand out and be different. You are one of probably 10s of thousands of men all approaching couples and single females at once.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Id say work on your profile.

Be a bit imaginative with your pics too

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