FabSwingers.com forum: Advice required, what would you do?

By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Our teenage daughter is bringing her first boyfriend home to meet us on Saturday night. Obviously I feel like sitting him in front of a spotlight and interrogating him as well as giving him an unfriendly warning about my rules for dating our daughter! You lot in forum land are normally fabtastic with your advice. How would you handle it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YouTube Phil Jupitus Live at the Apollo

https://youtu.be/zhdpBCCChMk

This will be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will follow this thread for future years when that day comes.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The same way as any other friend they bring home.

Chat be friendly and make them welcome.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to the lad? He will be shit scared as it is!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

How old are they?

Currently on eldest Daughters 3rd BF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as any one else she brings home ,but I know for a fact when our daughter does hubby will be having a quiet word in his ear ,hurt her I’m gonna hurt you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way as any other friend they bring home.

Chat be friendly and make them welcome.

Nita"

Exactly

He might be the nicest lad in the world,you don't want to frighten him off.

He might be a total scuba,in which case,do you really think he is going to listen?

Your daughter will make mistakes in her life,and she has to be allowed to make them to mould her future life.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Treat him the same as anyone else, the more respect he has for you, hopefully he'll extend that to your daughter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scumbag,not scuba

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Our teenage daughter is bringing her first boyfriend home to meet us on Saturday night. Obviously I feel like sitting him in front of a spotlight and interrogating him as well as giving him an unfriendly warning about my rules for dating our daughter! You lot in forum land are normally fabtastic with your advice. How would you handle it?

You can give him your rules to make you feel better but they won't count for a thing, he's a horny teen and will only be thinking about fingering and fucking and very little else.

I'm assuming your teen is of legal age or different rules apply in which case threatening to break his legs and castrate him is fully acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scumbag,not scuba

I thought you meant he wouldn’t be able to hear because of all the scuba gear he’d turn up in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Just be friendly and welcome him... Your daughter must think enough of him to be bringing him home... I'm sure she is confident you will like him otherwise she'd not bring him home.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Treat him the same as anyone else, the more respect he has for you, hopefully he'll extend that to your daughter x"

Add to that, the more he respects you, he'll not want to disappoint you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to him. Just explain to him. Hurt her in anyway. And you will hurt him. Other than that, they will both do what they want to do. No matter what advice you give. I’ve had all this with my 3 daughters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three older boys and my youngest is my only girl. I dread the day she starts showing an interest in boys. At least the poor buggers will have three older brothers to get thru before they get to me tho.

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

You need to suss him out first. Intuition not interrogation! He might actually be the perfect boyfriend. But if you feel any concerns, you need to talk to your daughter, not him. Good luck. I have 3 daughters

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Give her £50 and tell her to go out.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

mum plays good cop

dad plays bad cop

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By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

I hear what you’re saying and it’s great advice so far. The scuba comment had me worried for a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice. If you make her feel embarrassed or that he isn't welcome she won't bring any others home and that'll be worse.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Just be friendly to him and I presume he will be the same back..he is probably going to be a bit nervous about meeting ye at yere house..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is your daughter? Mine just turned 16. No way would I allow some smug horny teenager to lie his way into her underwear.

Come on we all know what young teenage lads are like these days. Like the gent above said, all they want from girls is find the quickest and best way to finger and fuck them.

I have teenage boys too so I hear it from both sides. It's not pleasant to hear but this is the reality.

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By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

She’s sweet 16.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most teenage boys know their intentions are far from pure. They can pull the wool over girls eyes. But he'll be shitting himself that you'll bust him. So maybe be easy on him but then just take a brief moment to look at him seriously when no one else is looking, point to your eye, then point to him. He'll shit himself enough at that as is haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See what he says on any profile he has.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"She’s sweet 16.

Download Arachnophobia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whether you want your daughter to comply with your wishes or not...

Don't be reading him the riot act, just chat to him like you would with anyone..if you start going on saying you can't do this and that it will probably be the last time you see them both in your house...

Treat him with respect and hopefully that will be repaid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s sweet 16.

Jeeze

I feel your pain.

Just don't trust a word he says. Harsh but fair! Your barely legal daughter is all you need to think of. That lad may or may not care about your daughter but he does care about sexual activity with her now he has a girlfriend. It's all he'll be thinking about! You must remember what 16 yr old lads are like! Little has changed.

When I overhear my 17 yr old son online using his PlayStation talking with his friends, it's usually about girls. A certain girl from school who has big boobs apparently. Anyway, I was disgusted to hear him talking what he'd like to do with that girl then laughing his head off! I assume his online friend was saying the same.

I brought my son up to respect women. Yet he's still a hormonal teenage lad with his brain in his scrotum!

I feel if you respect that lad, he'll use it against you to charm you like he's doing so with your daughter. I'm afraid for the sake of daughter, it's best to keep your eye on him and be doubtful concerning his intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is your daughter? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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hot coals make him walk them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him an indian burn until he talks

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By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

How old is your daughter? X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourselves, relax, make him feel welcome, make an effort with him, talk lightheartedly and have lots of laughter. It's really not difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask if there on fab like mum n dad

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By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Give him an indian burn until he talks"

He better not be a villa fan

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

If he says yes , ask to see it and if it’s all good , tell him you’re glad he’s sensible and the ice will be broken . If he hasn’t , kick him out and tell him you don’t want him seeing your daughter until he’s sensible enough to have protection .

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

How would gou expect or want your Son to be treated ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is your daughter? X

16"

Awww , well I’d just treat him as you would a friend. Be welcoming, but give them space. Get a feel for him and how he reacts. X

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

When my daughter brought her first boyfriend home, I was sharpening my collection of knives and axes.

I brought up that my daughter was as good as me at using them.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Waterboard him then invite him to dinner the following weekend, he's got the right motives if he turns up.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

I'm not so sure about that,heavens they may not actually be at that stage yet and just popping around for tea,their daughter may be a bit mortified as well. I think we have to give our teenagers a bit of credit,yeah they're just a hormonal creatures at that age especially boy's,but we have to credit them with a bit of sense.

Op just be friendly to him,she's not running away to marry him (hopefully) and teenagers being teenagers they'll have split up in a few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would gou expect or want your Son to be treated ?"

I’ll second that. I’ve brought both my children up by myself without any any help from dad (or minimal) or no grandparents. I have brought them up to respect woman (son) and their elders. They have manners and social awareness. I’d hope my son gets treated kindly in future by his GF mum dad. And not like he’s some mad boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s sweet 16.

Jeeze

I feel your pain.

I brought my son up to respect women. Yet he's still a hormonal teenage lad with his brain in his scrotum!

You say you brought your sons up well ... so i presume you put just as much effort into bringing up your daughter well

Maybe you should put a bit of faith in the way you have brought her up to mean she has the ability to think for herself, to have her own opinions and be a good judge of character ... surely demonising boys and sex to a girl of legal sexual age will just serve to undo the good work and any honest relationsip you have just now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be there for the day she dumps him.

You ask 'why'

She replies 'omg he was so needie'

You the do the Dance Of The Parents Who have Taught that Child Well'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

Op just be friendly to him,she's not running away to marry him (hopefully) and teenagers being teenagers they'll have split up in a few weeks. "

I agree! If anyone subjected my son to that I’d be a bit annoyed. I wouldn’t dream of asking if his/her daughter was taking similar protection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't need to do the talk to my daughters boyfriend her big brother took him in the garden first I must admit I couldn't help but earwig and have a giggle to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She’s sweet 16.

Jeeze

I feel your pain.

I brought my son up to respect women. Yet he's still a hormonal teenage lad with his brain in his scrotum!

You say you brought your sons up well ... so i presume you put just as much effort into bringing up your daughter well

Exactly what I was trying to say

. I wouldn’t dream of giving a boy (young man) down the banks or have you a condom talk. That to me shows I’ve no faith in my daughter to 1. Choose wisely or 2. Take responsibility for herself. Why should it lay on males always ( referring to above post)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way as any other friend they bring home.

Chat be friendly and make them welcome.

Nita"

Surely it can't be that easy can it

Oh yes it can!

Why fathers have to get over protective about daughters I have no idea.

So make him scared and her uncomfortable and they won't come round much anymore, just resort to having sex in dodgy alleys and cars or maybe his and you don't get to see them.

Or make them welcome. And make him look forward to meeting you.

Presumably you've already taught you're daughter how to be responsi le, take care of herself and aboit contraception?

If not you've got problems ahead.

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny

make yourself scarce, make him welcome, be cool

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

To be fair , I had the chat with my daughters boyfriend some ten years ago now . I’d already had the contraception chat with her , and felt it was important to chat with him too . You can’t be too careful .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

IMO, it’s a bit too full on to be doing this.

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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago

Isle of Arran

I think you have received some good advice .just keep cool and be there when she wants to talk . as a widower and father of three (all grown now)I will just repeat a couple of proverbs .keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer.doughters are god's revenge on men for being men. Keep calm and happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of the time the wife says teenage son is having some friends over for a sleep over Saturday night on the same weekend she is away visiting her mother. any Saturday evening son turns up with 1 mate and 2 girls for the sleep over. I thought oh crap missus has dropped me in it this time anyway I said boys sleep downstairs girls sleep upstairs.

I watched tv in the bedroom and left them alone in sitting room for the evening eventually girls came up and went to bed and boys stayed downstairs all good so far!

2am dog needed to be let out in the garden so I slipped my jeans on went down to kitchen and let dog out, while i'm standing there waiting for dog to come back the 2 girls came down stairs and started to open the door to where the 2 boys where sleeping I popped my head round from the kitchen and said are you girls lost, toilet is the first door on the right outside your bedroom we don't have any facilities downstairs.

the went very red and rush back up to bed I didn't sleep anymore that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there too many times!! Usually I make dinner and we chat around the table. I’m usually warned not to ask too many questions

It always goes well! Our kids hate how much their friends all like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old is she is this her first

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Reminds me of the time the wife says teenage son is having some friends over for a sleep over Saturday night on the same weekend she is away visiting her mother. any Saturday evening son turns up with 1 mate and 2 girls for the sleep over. I thought oh crap missus has dropped me in it this time anyway I said boys sleep downstairs girls sleep upstairs.

I watched tv in the bedroom and left them alone in sitting room for the evening eventually girls came up and went to bed and boys stayed downstairs all good so far!

the went very red and rush back up to bed I didn't sleep anymore that night."

That's funny.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

IMO, it’s a bit too full on to be doing this. "

That’s cool

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Scumbag,not scuba

Thought it was a bit early for diving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I’d do is ask him if he’s got a condom .

IMO, it’s a bit too full on to be doing this.

That’s cool

Yep worked for me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same way as any other friend they bring home.

Chat be friendly and make them welcome.

Nita

Surely it can't be that easy can it

Oh yes it can!

Why fathers have to get over protective about daughters I have no idea.

So make him scared and her uncomfortable and they won't come round much anymore, just resort to having sex in dodgy alleys and cars or maybe his and you don't get to see them.

Or make them welcome. And make him look forward to meeting you.

Presumably you've already taught you're daughter how to be responsi le, take care of herself and aboit contraception?

If not you've got problems ahead. "

This

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

I shall do that to your boy should he meet my daughter

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

I shall do that to your boy should he meet my daughter

He would know how to get out of the zip ties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

I shall do that to your boy should he meet my daughter

He would know how to get out of the zip ties

I would be worried at her choice of boys

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

I shall do that to your boy should he meet my daughter

He would know how to get out of the zip ties

I would be worried at her choice of boys

It’s when we start removing the fingernails that you need to worry about

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Be kind and develop a good relationship with the lad?

Treating people like they're an enemy tends to make them into an enemy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zip tie him to a chair in the basement, bright light, white noise should do to start.

Now you’ve made him feel at home ask him what his intentions are towards your daughter.

Good job we have boys

I shall do that to your boy should he meet my daughter

He would know how to get out of the zip ties

I would be worried at her choice of boys

It’s when we start removing the fingernails that you need to worry about

Oh god, I need to take her acrylics off

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

I would subtly interrogate him with him knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say some of the thoughts are sounding a bit archaic...fair enough being protective of your child is important...but because she is female?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say some of the thoughts are sounding a bit archaic...fair enough being protective of your child is important...but because she is female?"

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"How old are they?

Currently on eldest Daughters 3rd BF."

What did he do and is he putting up much of a struggle?

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Have any of you seen bad boys? Can’t we all just do that instead?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Get to know him and build your own relationship with him. Your Daughter is learning something new, just as you are.

Show trust and respect and you should get it back, when you don't, have a word.

Until then I wouldn't say anything, just watch she doesn't change due to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to know him and build your own relationship with him. Your Daughter is learning something new, just as you are.

Show trust and respect and you should get it back, when you don't, have a word.

Until then I wouldn't say anything, just watch she doesn't change due to him."

Good words

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Do you trust your daughter’s judgement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sign him up to fab ,then read his veries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen BAD BOYS 2??????

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Be nice. If you make her feel embarrassed or that he isn't welcome she won't bring any others home and that'll be worse. "

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think most teenage boys know their intentions are far from pure. They can pull the wool over girls eyes. But he'll be shitting himself that you'll bust him. So maybe be easy on him but then just take a brief moment to look at him seriously when no one else is looking, point to your eye, then point to him. He'll shit himself enough at that as is haha

LMAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust that you have given your daughter the ability to think for herself and knows how to use the word "no" ...... i feared for my daughters first boyfriend more than i feared for her

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

And most 16 year old girls are not exactly passive passengers on that journey! The girls want to explore as much as the boys do.

Anyway, to answer the OP - how you seen bad boys 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, be very glad your daughter respects you enough to introduce him. Don't fuck up this opportunity by being negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer him a drink and something to eat and be friendly. You want him to be comfortable in your home. Ask him a few questions about where he stays/his family/ how he's getting on at school/work. Show him your nosey but friendly. Don't let them go upstairs either. Livingroom or kitchen only and when they leave say what time she has to be home for. Be nice but just put it out there that you have bounderies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch on the "Who is near" function on Fabs on your phone. If a profile pops up "within touching distance" then you may need to have a word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How old is your daughter? Mine just turned 16. No way would I allow some smug horny teenager to lie his way into her underwear.

Come on we all know what young teenage lads are like these days. Like the gent above said, all they want from girls is find the quickest and best way to finger and fuck them.

I have teenage boys too so I hear it from both sides. It's not pleasant to hear but this is the reality."
hasn’t this been this case since caveman times?

some lads will always be lads and if the girls didn’t give it up it wouldn’t happen so food for thought,if it’s mutual why the hell not we’re all doing it just got older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make him feel at home tell him the stories about how she keeps you awake at night with her snoring, how she still wets the bed, about her false teeth and her smelly feet, show him her bedroom, give him beer and cake lull him into a false sense of security then kill him when daughters not looking of course

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Smell his fingers before he leaves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smell his fingers before he leaves "

Did that with my boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tape his hands to his knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tape his hands to his knees"

Ahh the old classic prelude to an evening of water boarding. Those were the days

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By *astie10Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"YouTube Phil Jupitus Live at the Apollo

https://youtu.be/zhdpBCCChMk

This will be me

that was funny even funny as it was my son he was talking about lol

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Smell his fingers before he leaves

Did that with my boy

I'd be amazed if my kids were still virgins at 16 based on their genetic make-up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice to him. I brought a boy at that age home and my dad and 4 brothers wanted to kill him. Only reason he got out alive was because my mum was there. I'll say it again, be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be nice. If you make her feel embarrassed or that he isn't welcome she won't bring any others home and that'll be worse. "

Just think back to when you were a teenager and look at it from that point of view.

Be welcoming and pleasant but realise that he may not last - nothing worse than a Mum that is forever talking about the nice boy you used to go out with.

I find the best way to discourage a relationship with someone you really think is horrible is to be really friendly and treat them like one of the family - your daughter will want to get rid of them as quickly as possible

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By *othofus3Couple
over a year ago

Liss

Aah thats a massive step for both of them,they are respecting you by visiting, think about how nervous he is and how she must love you to introduce him in to family life. Be kind and be just like you would with other friends.

My son and daughter still havent introduced their other halves to their Dad and it's been 6 months... underdtand why though.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Just be nice to the lad, no macho bullshit as it doesn’t accomplish much, your daughter will either be mortified or angry that you don’t trust her friends or her judgement, plus if he is a bit dodgy I would rather have them at home than wondering the street doing who knows what who knows where.

Also don’t forget bad boys are exciting so you push him away and she will chase after him even harder, just be sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear your best gimp mask and strap on. Bet you never see him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched tv in the bedroom and left them alone in sitting room for the evening eventually girls came up and went to bed and boys stayed downstairs all good so far!

the went very red and rush back up to bed I didn't sleep anymore that night.

That's funny."
And sad. Sad how many parents forget what being a young adult is like and how much nicer and safer the warmth and welcome of their own home would instead of backs of cars.

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By *anditMan
over a year ago

irvine

Got four girls and id want to break any guys legs who come near them. But sadly you cant and they hve to make their own mistakes so all i can do is be supportive nice to them and be there when im needed.

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By *bsolutebeginners OP Couple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

I’ve just come home from work, walked through the door and my daughter has vacuumed up throughout the house, even tidied her bedroom!!! I wondered what’s going on and she’s now told me that the boyfriend is coming round tonight instead of tomorrow.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Would I be right in thinking this is dad posting

I soooooo feel your pain my daughter started something with her 1st lad about 6 months ago maybe a bit longer. He lasted well following me chasing the little cunt round the Trafford centre car park not to long. He hit her but think he'll think twice before trying to hit me again. The 2nd lasted a little longer and seemed ok at 1st but her brother chased him off in the end but as yet I've not found out why so yep guessing it was bad. It's nightmare young lads are pricks and young girls are so gulable....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just come home from work, walked through the door and my daughter has vacuumed up throughout the house, even tidied her bedroom!!! I wondered what’s going on and she’s now told me that the boyfriend is coming round tonight instead of tomorrow.

well make him feel welcome at least if they are at your house you can kind of keep an eye on them. And get your daughter that if he messes her around her dad will teach him some manners.

or get her dad to what happened to me when I was 16, she went upstairs so I was stuck in the living room with her mom and dad, he came and sat next to explained quiet calm and politely there won't be any fucking in his house and if I do anything it will be him fucking me

I said later to her your dad seems nice, she said no he's a nut case. riiiight will urm see you around ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Win win, invite him round every week, the housework gets done for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Treat him with respect. Let your daughter know that you're there for her no matter what, but give her the space and respect to make her own decisions and mistakes. Be there, and be safe to turn to, if anything goes tits up. Don't make her choose between him/ her judgement and independence, and you (/the wrath of Mum and Dad). She may not choose you if you don't. I say this as someone whose parents did their best to drive everyone away and protect me well beyond what I needed. The only people they drove away from me were themselves, and being much older I wish I'd had safe, supportive parents to turn to rather than harping morality police. It would have saved me some mistakes and pain.

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