FabSwingers.com forum: Your loss!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

So they feel better about themselves.

In some cases of course they are right but we live and die by our decisions.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because they think they’re the dogs bollocks and you should be honoured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the ego is bigger than the genitalia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

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I suspect that they are feeling the loss more than you are!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Some people have over inflated egos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had to message back to ask why it was my loss

What in life was a losing by not messing you back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

As they think it will make you change your mind or they cant handle rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by your profile I would say they have it very much the wrong way around!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the "I didn't want to speak to you anyway" guys. Uuhhh......yeah you did, you mailed me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I didn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had to message back to ask why it was my loss

What in life was a losing by not messing you back!

Looks like you've had a 'lucky escape'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People generally think that they are better than they are... there is no loss... it is natural selection at work...

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's more like their loss and they hate the rejection. Obviously makes them feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weve politely turned someone down in the past and his ressponse was "Well thats a shame....for you"

Yeah ok, jog on nobhead

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I was messaged 'by mistake' by one guy last night, told him OK, no problem, then he informed me it was my loss lol. Wtf?!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

It's only a loss, if it's something you want & can't have.

You no longer want any contact with these people for whatever reason, therefore you're not the one losing anything.

They are, but it's a knee jerk reaction from them at being rejected.

Bit like little kids sticking their tongues out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously these people are just venting their frustration at being turned down by someone who they clearly wanted for something to happen with, So i think its actually their loss not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

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because they have lost the pleasure of talking to you maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously these people are just venting their frustration at being turned down by someone who they clearly wanted for something to happen with, So i think its actually their loss not yours. "

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

"I like the "I didn't want to speak to you anyway" guys. Uuhhh......yeah you did, you mailed me! "

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Agree with most of the above - they think they’re gods gift and anyone who turns them down is missing out on them. Crazy in my eyes but that’s people for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pride

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Omg you said no and stuck to your own preferences? How very dare you?!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the "It's your loss" response many times before when I've told someone I'm not interested.

If I'm not interested then I'm not losing anything but seems they are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

We had a brilliant message from a, single woman today, completely unsolicited.

Replied very politely we weren't interested and that her profile and ours weren't even a close match.

The response was she doesn't read profiles and we need to get over her and move on.

So it isn't just single guys, and you can just imagine how long it took us to get over our obsession with a, women that didn't fit our type in any way, hahaha. Some people on here are just deranged.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Projecting insecurity don't fret too much it'll wash off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In their head they they are doing all kinds of delightful things to you, and you're losing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh don't forget the "you need to get a life and grow up" response from the rejected party

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

You can’t have a senses of loss if you didn’t want it in the first place.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

We had a brilliant message from a, single woman today, completely unsolicited.

Replied very politely we weren't interested and that her profile and ours weren't even a close match.

The response was she doesn't read profiles and we need to get over her and move on.

So it isn't just single guys, and you can just imagine how long it took us to get over our obsession with a, women that didn't fit our type in any way, hahaha. Some people on here are just deranged. "

Oh, that was priceless lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently we're not genuine swingers because we wont just shag anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently we're not genuine swingers because we wont just shag anyone."
Well you don't want to limit yourself too much otherwise what's point

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I had to message back to ask why it was my loss

What in life was a losing by not messing you back!

Ha ha did you get a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha don’t worry about it, I was called a time waster as I called a guy up on his fake photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently we're not genuine swingers because we wont just shag anyone."

I've been told that before. I'm on a sex site, why on earth am I turning them down??!

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It just makes me laugh as it must be what's printed on their dummy that they have just thrown out of their pram.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Cracks me up.

I don't like mince pies, if someone offers me a mince pie and I decline, how the fuck is it my loss when I don't like them? They offend my nostrils, my tastebuds and remind me I'm not a fan of the festive period.

No "whomever can't take rejection" it's not their loss, it's a simple mismatch of taste.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But it is your loss im fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder on average how many women, couples (and men) loose out on average over a 24 hour period?

But at least it’s not fab guys, I’ve lost out on unprotected sex with a geriatric with 30 plus verifications. . . . . . Yep that was my loss .............................

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm constantly losing out. I'm clearly not a proper swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm constantly losing out. I'm clearly not a proper swinger.

Bloody looser

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Because the ego is bigger than the genitalia

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Cracks me up.

No "whomever can't take rejection" it's not their loss, it's a simple mismatch of taste. "

I think I love you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had to message back to ask why it was my loss

What in life was a losing by not messing you back!

Ha ha did you get a reply?"

I didn’t Miss Morgan, he deleted my message! I thought all guys replied to messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cracks me up.

No "whomever can't take rejection" it's not their loss, it's a simple mismatch of taste.

I think I love you! "

Love this!!! Actually made my day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

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you left or right handed or how's that rubber blow up lifelike woman coming along?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

you left or right handed or how's that rubber blow up lifelike woman coming along? "

Left handed.. she can’t cook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

you left or right handed or how's that rubber blow up lifelike woman coming along?

Left handed.. she can’t cook!

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Ha good job she'd melt

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By *ayMyName123Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

They’re bitter as f

And can’t take rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

you left or right handed or how's that rubber blow up lifelike woman coming along?

Left handed.. she can’t cook!

Ha good job she'd melt "

I think I need a flashlight.. they are on buy 1 get 1 free offer.. do you want one?

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I get that alot myself but I dont reply and just delete. People seem to think that cuz its a sex site, u wil fuck anyone..but thats not the case with me. Its not just about attraction, its personality more so for me and due to having a 20yr old, I hav a minimum age of 30yrs old as it wouldn't feel right..each to their own like but thats me xx xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

Orgasms? What’s one of those again? Been a while

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Cracks me up.

No "whomever can't take rejection" it's not their loss, it's a simple mismatch of taste.

I think I love you! "

You're only human, it's not your fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice today I’ve been said it’s my loss for not wanting to carry on talking to them on here! Why do people say your loss!!

Because you could be jumping on their dick but you decided to start a thread about it

Exactly, what a time wasting bitch I am!

I’m so not a swinger!

People achieve their orgasms differently

you left or right handed or how's that rubber blow up lifelike woman coming along?

Left handed.. she can’t cook!

Ha good job she'd melt

I think I need a flashlight.. they are on buy 1 get 1 free offer.. do you want one? "
I can see where I'm going even in the dark

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Folk say it all the time..

Numerous threads started by ladies being stood up .. folk say it's their loss.. means nothing, just what folk say to make either themselves or the other feel better about that particular situation .

it's just 1's and 0's on a screen..

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