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"Continuing from last post Radiotherapy every day for 6 weeks Thanks for asking" I had 5 weeks of radio with one chemo session a week then and extra 8 days of radiotherapy because I was to ill to have brachytherapy xx | |||
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"Awww you ok now?" Im 3 months in remission just starting to hit my menopause so waiting on an appointment to see the hrt clinic xx | |||
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"Ahh I know what that’s like, my other half has been going through it for 3 yrs" It just feels strange at my age but I'm still here to see my boys grow up and I'm greatful for that when does your chemo start xx | |||
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"Awww you ok now? Im 3 months in remission just starting to hit my menopause so waiting on an appointment to see the hrt clinic xx" I kept wanting how things were sinse I been back back couldn't message. Great news yes?  | |||
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"I’m hoping that I don’t have to do chemotherapy " I shall keep my fingers crossed for you and will keep checking how you are doing I did a thread about my journey on here to it really did help xx | |||
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"I also wish you a speedy recovery I have been recently diagnosed with prostrate cancer However I am trying to cure it myself. Xx" That's brave I wish you luck x | |||
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"Thank you....next blood test in oct. So far lost 9kg. X" Fingers crossed and I only lost a few lbs when I had my treatment but I was told not to lose any because of my radiotherapy tattoos xx | |||
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"Feeling shite tonight " Hugs xx | |||
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"Severe neck and headaches " Not good have a warm bath if you can manage it and rest xx | |||
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"Feeling shite tonight Hug x" Mmmm feeling better already | |||
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"Day 5 of radiotherapy I hate having no saliva My mouth feels like yuk!!!" . Hey lovely you’re doing ace, sending a hug oh and ask your gp to prescribe you some salivix spray or pastilles, they might help, you can buy them but you should get them for free whilst you’re having your treatment, keep strongxxx Mrs blue eyes  | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella" Tell them to do one please don't feel like you can't talk about this sending hugs and well wishes stay strong and kick it's arse xx | |||
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"Only the Admin/Owners can dictate what should/shouldn't be discussed on the Forums - ignore those others who feel the need to limit subject matter. Wishing you all the best for your treatment and recovery. Treat yourself kindly."
You're not breaking any rules and here, in the lounge bit, you can discuss what you like. If people don't like it they can surely go elsewhere.
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella" . Hey, since when did you let others dictate what you talk about, you’re stronger than that, your kicking cancers ass, that is something to hold your up high about and be proud about, this is an open forum, if the mods weren’t happy( which I can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be ) then they would take it down, anyone else who isn’t happy well then move along, if only one person reads this and it helps them then job well done and if it’s helping you then again, job well done, so chip up and keep posting, sending hugs, Mrs blue eyes | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella. Hey, since when did you let others dictate what you talk about, you’re stronger than that, your kicking cancers ass, that is something to hold your up high about and be proud about, this is an open forum, if the mods weren’t happy( which I can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be ) then they would take it down, anyone else who isn’t happy well then move along, if only one person reads this and it helps them then job well done and if it’s helping you then again, job well done, so chip up and keep posting, sending hugs, Mrs blue eyes "Your right  | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella. Hey, since when did you let others dictate what you talk about, you’re stronger than that, your kicking cancers ass, that is something to hold your up high about and be proud about, this is an open forum, if the mods weren’t happy( which I can’t imagine why they wouldn’t be ) then they would take it down, anyone else who isn’t happy well then move along, if only one person reads this and it helps them then job well done and if it’s helping you then again, job well done, so chip up and keep posting, sending hugs, Mrs blue eyes
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"I also wish you a speedy recovery I have been recently diagnosed with prostrate cancer However I am trying to cure it myself. Xx" get medical treatment would be my advice sooner rather than later. | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella" Glad to hear all is going well. Hard to believe anyone's complained & hope you continue with updates. | |||
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"7 down 23 to do " You can do it stay strong xx | |||
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"Session number 8 Done Ever tried to eat a packet of crisps with no saliva? Not much fun lol " Did you try saliva spray? | |||
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"Got to say feeling unwell now, very sore mouth, no taste buds, no saliva, headaches" Sorry to hear this and I no it's really shitty right now but if it gets rid of the fucker it will all be worth it try stay positive sending hugs xx | |||
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"Got to say feeling unwell now, very sore mouth, no taste buds, no saliva, headaches" You can ask your GP for a mouth spray and lozengers to help with the lack of saliva. Also chewing gum is useful xx | |||
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The real stuffs expensive but worth a try IMO.
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"Yes I have some Yuk" There are lots of different ones to try. Worth asking to try different ones. The first ones i was given were gross ! | |||
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"Session number 8 Done Ever tried to eat a packet of crisps with no saliva? Not much fun lol " My friends husband survived throat cancer and still has no saliva. He has a bottle of water with him cibstan9abd all his food has to have a sauce with it. Having said that he is living a very active life so a positive outcome is possible, just with sind minor adjustments. Wishing you all the best with your treatment. | |||
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"Radiotherapy session 14 It’s starting to take its toll, really very sore throat struggling to swallow Headaches, bit of a temperature Not feeling great" Keep an eye on it and if needs be get them to admit you for a couple of days sending hugs xx | |||
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"Today I can’t swallow painkillers Also found a small growth at side of my neck " Go to the hospital please xx | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella" WTF! This needs to be broadcast any where and everywhere. I had cancer years ago, I talk about it quite freely. As if it helps to save one person, I feel it is worth it. | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella WTF! This needs to be broadcast any where and everywhere. I had cancer years ago, I talk about it quite freely. As if it helps to save one person, I feel it is worth it." | |||
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"Today I can’t swallow painkillers Also found a small growth at side of my neck Go to the hospital please xx" I agree xx | |||
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"This is my last post about this, I have had a complaint that this issue shouldn’t be broadcast on this site. Thanks for all the support and kind messages All is going well, 6th session this morning of radiotherapy, looking forwards to Christmas when I will hopefully be back to normal Stella WTF! This needs to be broadcast any where and everywhere. I had cancer years ago, I talk about it quite freely. As if it helps to save one person, I feel it is worth it." . Thanks xxx | |||
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"Post all you want, f*ck the trolls and idiots and remember even Bruce Dickinson is back on stage after it! It’s important to raise awareness that HPV positive throat cancer is on the rise amongst men- and the vaccine should be compulsory for all school children to nail it before it even starts. Luckily my scare turned out to be Streptococcus throat causing a huge lymph swelling on one side, a horrible looking tonsil described as ‘gamy’ by a no bullshit A and E doctor, and lots of other symptoms. I’m sure we’ll be hearing your story for sometime yet- trust medical science not bullshit from Google "Yeh it took months to convince my doctor something was wrong | |||
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"Post all you want, f*ck the trolls and idiots and remember even Bruce Dickinson is back on stage after it! It’s important to raise awareness that HPV positive throat cancer is on the rise amongst men- and the vaccine should be compulsory for all school children to nail it before it even starts. Luckily my scare turned out to be Streptococcus throat causing a huge lymph swelling on one side, a horrible looking tonsil described as ‘gamy’ by a no bullshit A and E doctor, and lots of other symptoms. I’m sure we’ll be hearing your story for sometime yet- trust medical science not bullshit from Google
Yeh it took months to convince my doctor something was wrong"Exactly the experience of my family member. GP kept telling her she had a throat infection. | |||
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"I’ve just posted a photo of my stomach peg, see if admin allow it Lol" As predicted to ride for this site? Photo rejected ahh well | |||
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"I’ve just posted a photo of my stomach peg, see if admin allow it Lol As predicted to ride for this site? Photo rejected ahh well" I saw it so they allowed it then must of changed their minds  What does that little gadget do? | |||
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"Having has acute and chronic laryngitus I can recommend Tyrocets Lozenges - pack of 2 tubes, about 3 quid from the chemist. Suck slowly to get the best of them. Antiseptic, Analgesic and Anti-biotic active igredients. " I swear by them too! | |||
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"It allows you to put fluids or nurturants into your stomach without swallowing as swallowing is now really painful" Yes, I googled it and it seems obvious now, sorry! Hope you're feeling a bit better today | |||
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"How are things going xx" Ok over half way through my therapy, biggest issue is my throat is really really raw and sore, have to take morphine two times a day min to keep on top of the pain But still upbeat | |||
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"How are things going xx Ok over half way through my therapy, biggest issue is my throat is really really raw and sore, have to take morphine two times a day min to keep on top of the pain But still upbeat" You are doing fantastic and yes it will be just take it one day at a time and staying upbeat really helps but remember to take it easy xx | |||
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"So according to my nursing staff I finish treatment on 26 th October 4 to 5 weeks for throat to stop swelling May get some tastes back maybe by Christmas But I’ll be able to drink a pint of flattish beer from December " That's good xx | |||
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"So according to my nursing staff I finish treatment on 26 th October 4 to 5 weeks for throat to stop swelling May get some tastes back maybe by Christmas But I’ll be able to drink a pint of flattish beer from December " Was about to message to ask how it was going. Would be great if you could enjoy some Christmas delights. | |||
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"Having has acute and chronic laryngitus I can recommend Tyrocets Lozenges - pack of 2 tubes, about 3 quid from the chemist. Suck slowly to get the best of them. Antiseptic, Analgesic and Anti-biotic active igredients. " | |||
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"I asked my team of nurses about this and unless prescribed they advise not to use it" How are you feeling today? | |||
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"Ive already asked for it not to be deleted. Hopefully some others will contact admin supporting it. We need uplifting, supportive community focussed threads. Swinging is a community.." This is the problem, people don’t understand it’s supposed to be uplifting, I am really positive and dealing with a life threatening disease Yet, people don’t like to hear about the word CANCER It’s my body, I’m the one who has it, I’m the one trying to let people know it’s effects and how I’m dealing with it... But hey you can’t please everybody | |||
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"So apparently this thread is going to be deleted " Say's who? | |||
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"So you have been given pre warning its going to be deleted ?" Yes but they have now retracted it, I can’t name them as it would lead to me being booted off | |||
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"Ive already asked for it not to be deleted. Hopefully some others will contact admin supporting it. We need uplifting, supportive community focussed threads. Swinging is a community.." Thanks tiger | |||
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"So you have been given pre warning its going to be deleted ? Yes but they have now retracted it, I can’t name them as it would lead to me being booted off" Thats good news. | |||
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"So you have been given pre warning its going to be deleted ? Yes but they have now retracted it, I can’t name them as it would lead to me being booted off" I doubt it was real. You don't get warned that threads are going to be deleted, they just disappear. Anyway.... It's still here and lots of people want it to stay. Very brave of yourself to post your story here | |||
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"So apparently this thread is going to be deleted" That's odd. Who told you that? Just a random fabber? | |||
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"So I will try and explain what day to day life is like, each morning I wake up can’t swallow it’s far to sore but you have to, mix up medicines flush my stomach pipe, I can’t swallow pills now so everything has to be dispersed ( chocked on a pill Sunday) Tastes, I have no sense of taste at all, everything tastes like flour and water mixed, baked beans - flour and water with globules of flour.. yuk!! Throat is constantly raw, no saliva means when you eat you can’t get rid of most of it as it sticks to your gums, so mouthwashing is necessary I am so tired now I slept most of the day and sleep at night. Lost 5 kgs min in weight But, I’m still positive still got my sense of humour ( well I think it’s humour) so I’ll beat the cancer!!! Hopes" If your head says you'll beat it you've done the hard bit it's all down to medication now, fingers crossed for you. On the plus side if you get chance to try the NHS wigs on try them all it's a good laugh x | |||
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"I've always been a flirt with girls so the nurses were a welcome distraction from the 22 tablets I took for breakfast and constant blood tests. I didn't completely loose my hair though, that was kinda important to me for some reason. If there's any inspiration to this story, perhaps a turning point here it is... I had chemo on a Wednesday, then the following Wednesday then one week off to let my body recover from the poison behind fed to me. One Wednesday I went into hospital for chemo and firstly had a blood test to see how my white cell count was. Too low and I couldn't have the chemo. Up until this point(about 2 months in) I'd been positive throughout. But that day felt wrong, I was sick of feeling constantly sick. My weight had gone down to 9st from 12 1/2st. A woman Dr came in to tell me my cell count was ok and I'd be on chemo after lunch. I wasn't my usual flirty joking self. She asked what was wrong and I said nothing. I wanted to reject the treatment and give up that day. She said "ok..I won't put you on today, if your mind isn't going to accept the chemo I believe it won't work. You can go on tomorrow if you like?" I felt shameful I wasn't brave enough to carry on, but glad I'd put it off a day. It was a sunny day and about an hour later she asked if I'd like to walk with her over to the renal unit across the car park. She was gorgeous so I jumped at the chance lol. When we got there I saw all these kidney patients sitting there having their blood pumped round machines. They do that for 8 hours 3 times a week. I looked at them and although I'm sure they weren't under a death sentence like me I actually felt lucky. If I could beat this then hopefully I'd never have to come into hospital again unlike the poor souls who unless they had successful transplants would always be coming back 3 times a week. Perhaps there was something worth fighting for...I never felt down about it again thereafter. About a month after that I had a CT scan to see if the chemo was having any affect, to the astonishment of medical staff not to mention myself it had gone lol. It took me only 3 months of my 6 month death sentence to win. I ha beaten it just before my 21st birthday. I put it down to great Dr's, a loving network of family and friends, great looking nurses lol and a whole lotta luck. But even with all that said, positive attitude and a sense of humour is a large part of my recovery. I'm 49 now and been in remission ever since. My medical files are the size of 2 phone books as I had more medical woes over the years but it makes me smile everyone I see a nurse try and pick them up, especially if she's cute lol. I'm disturbed to see some people have criticised the content of this thread, obviously nothing like this has ever affected them? These things don't happen to you because of a lifestyle choice, I never asked for this to happen. But if you really can't spare the fab space, or are so offended that some of us have issues not to do with sex then I'm really sorry I and others have upset you. To those I say take a look at my profile, there's a picture of my cock in my pictures...you know what to do. To the rest live it fabbers, this ain't a rehearsal xx"
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"Stella and Tickle I had no idea that I'd be reading posts like this and be so inspired by your courage, determination and support that you've been given, for something as nasty as cancer. Although this is NOT the site for these horrific illnesses, I'm not one for rules either. Cancer doesn't respect forum rules either. If anything's going be deleted, it's those cancerous cells. If anythings going be hated, it's cancer and it's related conditions and symptoms Keep up the fight, we need more survivors." not the site... Perhaps. But who can pass by when another is in pain without helping. Kind words you've said there. Neither Stella's plight or my response has hurt no one. If there are those who think it's wrong then there's plenty on this forum somewhere for everyone. Human kindness costs nothing and a little acceptance goes a long way. Fab is of course about other things but there's a thread going in the lounge asking if aliens exist. Now I'm not trying to be funny here and I'd love to be experimented on by some sexy green female space being but nobody's commented on that in anyway lol. I mean no harm but but you can see my point aye? | |||
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"Stella and Tickle I had no idea that I'd be reading posts like this and be so inspired by your courage, determination and support that you've been given, for something as nasty as cancer. Although this is NOT the site for these horrific illnesses, I'm not one for rules either. Cancer doesn't respect forum rules either. If anything's going be deleted, it's those cancerous cells. If anythings going be hated, it's cancer and it's related conditions and symptoms Keep up the fight, we need more survivors." not the site... Perhaps. But who can pass by when another is in pain without helping. Kind words you've said there. Neither Stella's plight or my response has hurt no one. If there are those who think it's wrong then there's plenty on this forum somewhere for everyone. Human kindness costs nothing and a little acceptance goes a long way. Fab is of course about other things but there's a thread going in the lounge asking if aliens exist. Now I'm not trying to be funny here and I'd love to be experimented on by some sexy green female space being but nobody's commented on that in anyway lol. I mean no harm but but you can see my point aye? | |||
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"Which hospital was that at tickle ....." Wordsley hospital. Ward Annex 5. You know it? X | |||
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"Yes tickle ... I remember it well ... " As a nurse? Lol | |||
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"Lets just say it was a fine hospital ..... "Aww your frightened I might remember you lol. I was a regular in there between 28/1/90 until some time in august of that year. I had the little room on my own on the right hand side as you walked up, next to sister Philips office lol. Do you know it that well? | |||
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"I've always been a flirt with girls so the nurses were a welcome distraction from the 22 tablets I took for breakfast and constant blood tests. I didn't completely loose my hair though, that was kinda important to me for some reason. If there's any inspiration to this story, perhaps a turning point here it is... I had chemo on a Wednesday, then the following Wednesday then one week off to let my body recover from the poison behind fed to me. One Wednesday I went into hospital for chemo and firstly had a blood test to see how my white cell count was. Too low and I couldn't have the chemo. Up until this point(about 2 months in) I'd been positive throughout. But that day felt wrong, I was sick of feeling constantly sick. My weight had gone down to 9st from 12 1/2st. A woman Dr came in to tell me my cell count was ok and I'd be on chemo after lunch. I wasn't my usual flirty joking self. She asked what was wrong and I said nothing. I wanted to reject the treatment and give up that day. She said "ok..I won't put you on today, if your mind isn't going to accept the chemo I believe it won't work. You can go on tomorrow if you like?" I felt shameful I wasn't brave enough to carry on, but glad I'd put it off a day. It was a sunny day and about an hour later she asked if I'd like to walk with her over to the renal unit across the car park. She was gorgeous so I jumped at the chance lol. When we got there I saw all these kidney patients sitting there having their blood pumped round machines. They do that for 8 hours 3 times a week. I looked at them and although I'm sure they weren't under a death sentence like me I actually felt lucky. If I could beat this then hopefully I'd never have to come into hospital again unlike the poor souls who unless they had successful transplants would always be coming back 3 times a week. Perhaps there was something worth fighting for...I never felt down about it again thereafter. About a month after that I had a CT scan to see if the chemo was having any affect, to the astonishment of medical staff not to mention myself it had gone lol. It took me only 3 months of my 6 month death sentence to win. I ha beaten it just before my 21st birthday. I put it down to great Dr's, a loving network of family and friends, great looking nurses lol and a whole lotta luck. But even with all that said, positive attitude and a sense of humour is a large part of my recovery. I'm 49 now and been in remission ever since. My medical files are the size of 2 phone books as I had more medical woes over the years but it makes me smile everyone I see a nurse try and pick them up, especially if she's cute lol. I'm disturbed to see some people have criticised the content of this thread, obviously nothing like this has ever affected them? These things don't happen to you because of a lifestyle choice, I never asked for this to happen. But if you really can't spare the fab space, or are so offended that some of us have issues not to do with sex then I'm really sorry I and others have upset you. To those I say take a look at my profile, there's a picture of my cock in my pictures...you know what to do. To the rest live it fabbers, this ain't a rehearsal xx" | |||
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"I've always been a flirt with girls so the nurses were a welcome distraction from the 22 tablets I took for breakfast and constant blood tests. I didn't completely loose my hair though, that was kinda important to me for some reason. If there's any inspiration to this story, perhaps a turning point here it is... I had chemo on a Wednesday, then the following Wednesday then one week off to let my body recover from the poison behind fed to me. One Wednesday I went into hospital for chemo and firstly had a blood test to see how my white cell count was. Too low and I couldn't have the chemo. Up until this point(about 2 months in) I'd been positive throughout. But that day felt wrong, I was sick of feeling constantly sick. My weight had gone down to 9st from 12 1/2st. A woman Dr came in to tell me my cell count was ok and I'd be on chemo after lunch. I wasn't my usual flirty joking self. She asked what was wrong and I said nothing. I wanted to reject the treatment and give up that day. She said "ok..I won't put you on today, if your mind isn't going to accept the chemo I believe it won't work. You can go on tomorrow if you like?" I felt shameful I wasn't brave enough to carry on, but glad I'd put it off a day. It was a sunny day and about an hour later she asked if I'd like to walk with her over to the renal unit across the car park. She was gorgeous so I jumped at the chance lol. When we got there I saw all these kidney patients sitting there having their blood pumped round machines. They do that for 8 hours 3 times a week. I looked at them and although I'm sure they weren't under a death sentence like me I actually felt lucky. If I could beat this then hopefully I'd never have to come into hospital again unlike the poor souls who unless they had successful transplants would always be coming back 3 times a week. Perhaps there was something worth fighting for...I never felt down about it again thereafter. About a month after that I had a CT scan to see if the chemo was having any affect, to the astonishment of medical staff not to mention myself it had gone lol. It took me only 3 months of my 6 month death sentence to win. I ha beaten it just before my 21st birthday. I put it down to great Dr's, a loving network of family and friends, great looking nurses lol and a whole lotta luck. But even with all that said, positive attitude and a sense of humour is a large part of my recovery. I'm 49 now and been in remission ever since. My medical files are the size of 2 phone books as I had more medical woes over the years but it makes me smile everyone I see a nurse try and pick them up, especially if she's cute lol. I'm disturbed to see some people have criticised the content of this thread, obviously nothing like this has ever affected them? These things don't happen to you because of a lifestyle choice, I never asked for this to happen. But if you really can't spare the fab space, or are so offended that some of us have issues not to do with sex then I'm really sorry I and others have upset you. To those I say take a look at my profile, there's a picture of my cock in my pictures...you know what to do. To the rest live it fabbers, this ain't a rehearsal xx "Thanks x | |||
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"Next two weeks will be the hardest, but the neuralgia seems to be better ( fingers crossed)" My friend has recently gone through this. His reactions to both radio and chemo were very bad, but he's back at work now, with no cancer. So, best luck, it's a shit journey, but success rate is high. Bon courage! | |||
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"Hope this comming week goes ok. Love to you xxx" Id like to loosen her negligee and tickle her... Sorry Nellie I thought it was the "what you'd do to the one above" thread lol Stellaheels you remember what I said. Visualise the treatment working. See that tape at the end of the race and run through it. You go girl!!!! xx | |||
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"Thanks" No worries.. And great legs btw. xx | |||
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"Hope this comming week goes ok. Love to you xxxId like to loosen her negligee and tickle her... Sorry Nellie I thought it was the "what you'd do to the one above" thread lol " Cheeky lol | |||
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"As isolated as you may feel at times, there's so many others that can relate with what you are going through right now.. My thoughts are with you and wishing you a speedy recovery. " Yup... How ya been Mr ?? | |||
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"As isolated as you may feel at times, there's so many others that can relate with what you are going through right now.. My thoughts are with you and wishing you a speedy recovery. " Hey stranger how are things with you I was just thinking about you the other day xx | |||
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"As isolated as you may feel at times, there's so many others that can relate with what you are going through right now.. My thoughts are with you and wishing you a speedy recovery. Hey stranger how are things with you I was just thinking about you the other day xx" I’m doing ok thanks x | |||
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"As isolated as you may feel at times, there's so many others that can relate with what you are going through right now.. My thoughts are with you and wishing you a speedy recovery. Hey stranger how are things with you I was just thinking about you the other day xx I’m doing ok thanks x" That's good but was talking to blue sorry lovely xx | |||
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"So now only 7 more sessions of radio to go, finish a week Friday " Finishing line is in sight make sure you ring that bell loud and proud xx | |||
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"So 5 weeks down 1 week to go Really difficult to swallow anything now.." Big hugs your on the last stretch. You can beat this | |||
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"Hope it all kills the cancer, fingers crossed eh? But will keep updating anyway" Fingers crossed it will chemo it's self is pretty shitty I know made me feel worse than the cancer it's self but luckily it beat it x | |||
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"Brilliant" How you feeling Stella? X | |||
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