FabSwingers.com forum: Warning flags

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi fabbers

I’m just curious to know what warning flags prevent you from contacting fabbers and why?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

For me not verified after over a year - easy enough to get an verified at least in chat - and no pics or profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say no single guys I shy away from them, if they're stunning I shy away from them, if they've been here years I shy away from them, if they're shy I shy away from them, if they're divas I shy away from them, if they're lesbians I shy away from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they say no single guys I shy away from them, if they're stunning I shy away from them, if they've been here years I shy away from them, if they're shy I shy away from them, if they're divas I shy away from them, if they're lesbians I shy away from them

That narrows it down a bit

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

A real lesbian on fab ? Ha since when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That narrows it down a bit

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If they're scarey I shy away from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that they're on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are men I shy away from that.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Blank profile, recently joined, ones that add to friends straight away or ask for pics or try to get you off site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

I’m just curious to know what warning flags prevent you from contacting fabbers and why?

-They sound like a weirdo/wacko/numpty

-They’re more interested in tea/cake/cliques.

-They don’t offer to buy the coffee/beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fabbers

I’m just curious to know what warning flags prevent you from contacting fabbers and why?

I’m beginning to stay away from newbies who joined x hours ago and last online x hours ago. Must mean they dipped their toe and thought “nah”. Also I’m beginning to shy away from people who can’t be bothered to get photo verified. "
no pic verification and no meets for a long time or the usual one meet over 12 months ago hidden veri,erm hardly nothing in the profile and dodgy pics plus dirty messy house pics! Instant noooo!!!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A few.....

Profiles that have their phone numbers in, or it's as a status.

All the people who have veried them have hidden profiles.

An unverified single guy who has a multiple 'action' shots.

Guys who say they are looking for something as opposed to someone.

Ones who just sound a bit fucking odd.

It's no wonder I'm a born again fab virgin!!!!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Also moany or crude statuses and prole who use it to say - X, message me, I’ve run out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers fabbers. Some very good flags to look out for.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We stay away from single guys whose pictures all show him in close physical contact with a woman, couples profiles with no pictures of the man, any profile whose only pictures are genital shots, profiles who don't match what we're looking for and the ones with one brief line eg "looking for fun".

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Lots...

Profile names, anything vulgar! ie - PussySlayer

Profile pics - Cock pic.

Both an instant no from me, I wouldn't even look at the profile

After that, profile content...

Height.

Needs no explanation.

Location.

I don't mind a road trip, I travel a lot to visit family & friends but if miles away & no chance of ever going there, then no point.

Status's or tag lines.

Saying I'm bored, need my balls draining etc.. Hmm!

Photos.

I need to see more than a cock, plus age of the photos, are they recent.

Bio, spelling, grammar, punctuation.

I'm dyslexic, I do make typos, but I try hard. Lazy writing is obvious versus a real problem.

How long they've been on here.

Have they been photo verified, if not after 'a year' why not?

Meet verified.

The types of people who left the veri, total opposite to me, then I'd assume we're not compatible.

How long since last one - I've seen a few not verified in over 4yrs,could mean a lot of things but its odd to me.

Cam only.

If everything about their profile seems OK, I wonder why they've never met a real person.

Stupid disclaimers.

Often longer than the bio.

Urmmm... Think that pretty much covers my check list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that you may have already started speaking to that begin to get a bit possesive or question who else you are/have just met and why etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who can't accommodate or won't meet smokers

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

The wearing a balaclava backwards brigade

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By *x2 4 funCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Couples where there is only pics of a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude usernames etc. And people who describe themselves as "nice" ... often aren't in my experience : )

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Barebackers, mens profiles showing intercourse, profiles showing just genetalia, or no pics at all. Poor spelling, no veris etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two-line profiles. Unless they are an uncommonly interesting/witty two lines

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If their guys I shy away from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with more than 10 words in them

Profiles with 9 or fewer words in them

Profiles with 10 words in them

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Guys who can't accommodate or won't meet smokers "

Ooh I missed smokers off my list!

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Barebackers, mens profiles showing intercourse, profiles showing just genetalia, or no pics at all. Poor spelling, no veris etc "

This, and most of what Phoenix said.

Barebackers, generally insistent, a big problem to us at the moment, seems to be an assumption that if the lady can't get preggers then no holds barred.

But no loss really, if folk aren't on our wavelength with that, then they won't be with much else.

Mrs

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Some usernames put me off before I even look at their profile. In fact sometimes I don’t even bother looking at the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles/statuses that whine on about the site and how everybody here is a time waster.

Cock photos or any other kind of explicit photo. Usually turns me right off.

Profiles that say discreet.

Profiles where the bulk of the text is some legal nonsense or other.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Barebackers, mens profiles showing intercourse, profiles showing just genetalia, or no pics at all. Poor spelling, no veris etc

This, and most of what Phoenix said.

Barebackers, generally insistent, a big problem to us at the moment, seems to be an assumption that if the lady can't get preggers then no holds barred.

But no loss really, if folk aren't on our wavelength with that, then they won't be with much else.

Mrs

That we save for ourselves with each other, ontop of the fact of other issues associated with barebackers,just avoid them end off. Should be separate site for them

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Those that join and miraculously have a verification within the hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New couple who are soooo keen they request a full story of what I want to do to there wife ......boring

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"Those that join and miraculously have a verification within the hour. "

Ahh but we've met couples in a club not on fab. They then join & we veri, so not always a flag if verid by someone with veris. Suspicious if verid by someone with dodgy profile tho

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Many of the above but will just add any where their pics reverse image and it's clear they don't belong to the profile owner (even if they have been on page 1 of Hot Pics as was recently the case with one example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who put olives on a pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who drink tetleys.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"People who drink tetleys. "

People who don’t like cake or cybermen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally only contact people in the forums. Too wary of others on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cybercake

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Those that join and miraculously have a verification within the hour.

Ahh but we've met couples in a club not on fab. They then join & we veri, so not always a flag if verid by someone with veris. Suspicious if verid by someone with dodgy profile tho"

To clarify, I know that there are returnees who are verified quickly and cases such as you state.

But locally seem to have had a series of single ladies who join and are verified by meet within a few hours.

Oddly enough, they then go UNLOS after a week or so.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Those that join and miraculously have a verification within the hour. "

I was one of those!

Was told about the site by someone on here & he verified me.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Cock pic as an avatar. Surprisingly common.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Pug ugly fuckers with 45 meet verifications.

Dodgy dodgy geezers......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't discriminate or show bias to ones over others.

I dislike everyone with aplomb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those that join and miraculously have a verification within the hour.

I was one of those!

Was told about the site by someone on here & he verified me. "

Me too. I was verified immediately by someone who recommended the site to me after a meet. Then they left the site. Struggled to get a veri since and that’s eight years

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Will fill in later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discriminate or show bias to ones over others.

I dislike everyone with aplomb.

What’s a plomb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows one day I might meet someone and get verified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discriminate or show bias to ones over others.

I dislike everyone with aplomb.

What’s a plomb?

Aplomb,not a plomb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is dat loik a napple or a norange?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a wonder why anyone in this forum wants to talk to each other....

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Lots...

Profile names, anything vulgar! ie - PussySlayer

Profile pics - Cock pic.

Both an instant no from me, I wouldn't even look at the profile

After that, profile content...

Height.

Needs no explanation.

Location.

I don't mind a road trip, I travel a lot to visit family & friends but if miles away & no chance of ever going there, then no point.

Status's or tag lines.

Saying I'm bored, need my balls draining etc.. Hmm!

Photos.

I need to see more than a cock, plus age of the photos, are they recent.

Bio, spelling, grammar, punctuation.

I'm dyslexic, I do make typos, but I try hard. Lazy writing is obvious versus a real problem.

How long they've been on here.

Have they been photo verified, if not after 'a year' why not?

Meet verified.

The types of people who left the veri, total opposite to me, then I'd assume we're not compatible.

How long since last one - I've seen a few not verified in over 4yrs,could mean a lot of things but its odd to me.

Cam only.

If everything about their profile seems OK, I wonder why they've never met a real person.

Stupid disclaimers.

Often longer than the bio.

Urmmm... Think that pretty much covers my check list.

This plus bareback pics and ones pics showing their body parts in lots of other peoples body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't discriminate or show bias to ones over others.

I dislike everyone with aplomb.

What’s a plomb?

Aplomb,not a plomb."

Brevity is the best way to live a fab existence he says, with aplomb (in his mouth!)

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

That narrows it down a bit

If they're scarey I shy away from them "

Why would they be scary? After all, a lesbian won't be meeting you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skull and crossbones sends me running to the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Ill send face pics through another way”

Fake pics when checked through tineye or google reverse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That narrows it down a bit

If they're scarey I shy away from them

Why would they be scary? After all, a lesbian won't be meeting you!

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Well that's exactly why I said I shy away from them, I can't odds the fact that they have no interest in the best sex on earth that of the man damnit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to take folk how they are bet mostly only meet forum peeps

So get an idea what there like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to take folk how they are bet mostly only meet forum peeps

So get an idea what there like

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Home mess in photos that is perhaps their home at its best

Very new users.

People who don't answer questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will fill in later"

Combined with "Joined over a year ago"

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