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Cuckold - what’s in it for the husband ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?! "

Probably because they put the pleasure of their wife first and get a kick out of their pleasure.

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands

I’m sure that’s easy to answer if you thought about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an emotional masochist. But I also like watching.

It's bizzare but I think it stems from a platonic relationship I once had. As a teenager.

Some need that hasn't been fulfilled by vanilla girlfriends.

Shure I can fuck...I love fucking..

But I'm into the femdomme fettish...

It gets me more than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men love to share their wives. Mmf. Some just like to watch their wives fulfilled. Either way it's the man's way to give his wife the confidence to enjoy the best sex he can provide for her without seeking any favours in return.

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By *olfAndKittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Its a form of emotional masochism.

Cuckholds and cuckqueans both enjoy the twist in emotion from the jealous aspect to the want.

Generally after a cuck session the dominant one "reclaims" the cuck with love and affection which confirms the feelings between them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's 2 different types into this fetish. Some are just standard swingers.

If I had a vanilla girlfriend who cheated on me I would dump her because of lack of trust.

I've never actually tried cuckolding. I've seen domme women before who were not into it.

I have this wierd itch to be dommed by women I like.

I don't feel as strongly about myself taking the lead..

I have a deep fantasy about being controlled (by someone genuine)

But as I say I think I was fixcated and enfatuated by a friend as a teenager. I felt a really strong feeling I've never replicated through normal means.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

He gets to lie back with a fag while some other bloke does all the work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He gets to lie back with a fag while some other bloke does all the work."

Like working for the council, always one bloke working and another one watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do question of I am fully bi or not but i feel pretty neutral to it.

I feel stronger enfatuation towards women.

I like someone I trust demasculating me but I wouldn't let someone who wasn't on the same level walk all over me...

I like women making me feel powerless for them and giving them unconditional affection.

What's more I like women who appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a form of emotional masochism.

Cuckholds and cuckqueans both enjoy the twist in emotion from the jealous aspect to the want.

Generally after a cuck session the dominant one "reclaims" the cuck with love and affection which confirms the feelings between them. "

Ok, I didn’t know that, interesting.

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Whatever he and his Wife want to get out of it.

It’s a shared experience after all. It could be reclaimtion sex, it could be she regails him with intimate detail while helping him to relief.

Each dynamic is different for each couple. Biggest misconception though is it’s about cutting him off, denying, humiliation. I’ve always found it not only strengthens a couples bond it creates a whole new aspect and desire for each other within their relationships

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

I like watching hubby have sex with other women. It's really horny to see him pleasuring another woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure that’s easy to answer if you thought about it "

Thanks for your invaluable input.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

I think it helps with anxiety

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it helps with anxiety "

In what way ?

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He get less nagging in the weak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just lazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely. "

So all cuckold men are submissives then ?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

So all cuckold men are submissives then ? "

Fuck no !

It’s a combination of factors for me .

I had no idea I would enjoy watching my wife having sex with others until it happened . It really was a kind of masochistic emotional mindfuck that made my cock so hard that I realised this was what I had been looking for since my first wank all those years ago .

I thought that it was so wrong , the woman I love being fucked by someone else . That should be for me , but weirdly the more she did it the more I enjoyed it . She started off by not kissing , but that soon went as seeing her get proper intimate was even more horny that seeing her fuck . And all this was eight years ago . I would ( as Granny Crumpet suggested ) sit myself down , make myself comfortable , and wank . Just like watching porn , but for real . Loved it !

Hope this helps

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

So all cuckold men are submissives then ?

Fuck no !

It’s a combination of factors for me .

I had no idea I would enjoy watching my wife having sex with others until it happened . It really was a kind of masochistic emotional mindfuck that made my cock so hard that I realised this was what I had been looking for since my first wank all those years ago .

I thought that it was so wrong , the woman I love being fucked by someone else . That should be for me , but weirdly the more she did it the more I enjoyed it . She started off by not kissing , but that soon went as seeing her get proper intimate was even more horny that seeing her fuck . And all this was eight years ago . I would ( as Granny Crumpet suggested ) sit myself down , make myself comfortable , and wank . Just like watching porn , but for real . Loved it !

Hope this helps "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

So all cuckold men are submissives then ? "

No, no more than all swingers bare back etc..

It's a massively different and complex part of this aspect which will like the spectrum that is our individual sexuality be many, some or not at all much of the commonly thought assumptions that people jump to when they see the word..

The problem like a lot of things is when some men see it on a couples profile they will think he can't satisfy her so I will do that..

As with most things communication is key..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

So all cuckold men are submissives then ?

Fuck no !

It’s a combination of factors for me .

I had no idea I would enjoy watching my wife having sex with others until it happened . It really was a kind of masochistic emotional mindfuck that made my cock so hard that I realised this was what I had been looking for since my first wank all those years ago .

I thought that it was so wrong , the woman I love being fucked by someone else . That should be for me , but weirdly the more she did it the more I enjoyed it . She started off by not kissing , but that soon went as seeing her get proper intimate was even more horny that seeing her fuck . And all this was eight years ago . I would ( as Granny Crumpet suggested ) sit myself down , make myself comfortable , and wank . Just like watching porn , but for real . Loved it !

Hope this helps "

Does it make the bond between you stronger, or does it make you question your relationship ?

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?! "

clean up dutys

and

sloppy seconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?!

clean up dutys

and

sloppy seconds "

Yeah, this I don’t understand. How is that fun.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

So all cuckold men are submissives then ?

Fuck no !

It’s a combination of factors for me .

I had no idea I would enjoy watching my wife having sex with others until it happened . It really was a kind of masochistic emotional mindfuck that made my cock so hard that I realised this was what I had been looking for since my first wank all those years ago .

I thought that it was so wrong , the woman I love being fucked by someone else . That should be for me , but weirdly the more she did it the more I enjoyed it . She started off by not kissing , but that soon went as seeing her get proper intimate was even more horny that seeing her fuck . And all this was eight years ago . I would ( as Granny Crumpet suggested ) sit myself down , make myself comfortable , and wank . Just like watching porn , but for real . Loved it !

Hope this helps

Does it make the bond between you stronger, or does it make you question your relationship ? "

If it made you question your relationship you wouldn't be swinging, totally different dynamics involved that not all cucks are submissive I would say not very many to be honest .Its a generalised word cuckold as in a label but it's so specific for each couple that everyone's different and plays it in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t tell you buddy, because I don’t know it myself

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I don't think a single guy can understand.

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"I don't think a single guy can understand. "

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it helps with anxiety "

So can you get it on prescription?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think a single guy can understand. "

The intensity of the relationship between the husband and wife is what makes it work. Without that it just doesn't.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely.

So all cuckold men are submissives then ?

Fuck no !

It’s a combination of factors for me .

I had no idea I would enjoy watching my wife having sex with others until it happened . It really was a kind of masochistic emotional mindfuck that made my cock so hard that I realised this was what I had been looking for since my first wank all those years ago .

I thought that it was so wrong , the woman I love being fucked by someone else . That should be for me , but weirdly the more she did it the more I enjoyed it . She started off by not kissing , but that soon went as seeing her get proper intimate was even more horny that seeing her fuck . And all this was eight years ago . I would ( as Granny Crumpet suggested ) sit myself down , make myself comfortable , and wank . Just like watching porn , but for real . Loved it !

Hope this helps

Does it make the bond between you stronger, or does it make you question your relationship ? "

It makes our bond stronger than I ever thought possible . My respect for my wife went way up when I realised she was willing to satisfy my deepest desires . It mattered not what I wanted , she was happy to do it and still is , despite the fact that we’ve stopped swinging now . That sounds like she only did it for me , and although her happiness was making me happy , she never did anything she didn’t want to do .

We never once argued over swinging , or used it as a tool to get our own way . We trust each other implicitly . Swinging made us more trusting , and our love for each other grew . The reclamation sex after a meet is amazing !

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I do think some single guys get it and they are the ones that make the meets good.

For me (Mr D) the actual sexual act is only a very small part of it.

The initial social meets, the exchanged messages, the excitement and sometimes denial in the lead up to the meet are all essential parts. In the few days before a meet Laura often tells me to buy hold ups, stockings or other lingerie for her to wear for the meet. The act of going looking for and buying these things is a thrill in itself.

The pre meeting drinks in the hotel bar, not knowing if the guy will turn up, the tension as she flirts with him over a drink with us all knowing what is going to happen are all integral elements of a good meet. Seeing your wife or partner, comfortable and having fun with another is a total mind fuck, with so many emotions and feelings but it is totally addictive.

But having said all of the above I adore holding Laura afterwards and the two of us being together.

Hopefully this gives a small insight into what the partner/ husband gets and to be honest if a single guy has the attitude that the husband doesn’t matter or gets nothing out of it then they shouldn’t try to be with couples.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I do think some single guys get it and they are the ones that make the meets good.

For me (Mr D) the actual sexual act is only a very small part of it.

The initial social meets, the exchanged messages, the excitement and sometimes denial in the lead up to the meet are all essential parts. In the few days before a meet Laura often tells me to buy hold ups, stockings or other lingerie for her to wear for the meet. The act of going looking for and buying these things is a thrill in itself.

The pre meeting drinks in the hotel bar, not knowing if the guy will turn up, the tension as she flirts with him over a drink with us all knowing what is going to happen are all integral elements of a good meet. Seeing your wife or partner, comfortable and having fun with another is a total mind fuck, with so many emotions and feelings but it is totally addictive.

But having said all of the above I adore holding Laura afterwards and the two of us being together.

Hopefully this gives a small insight into what the partner/ husband gets and to be honest if a single guy has the attitude that the husband doesn’t matter or gets nothing out of it then they shouldn’t try to be with couples. "

Yeah you're right. The kind of single guy who gets it does make the best "bull", for want of better phrase. I don't think we'd play as a couple with a guy who "just can't understand it". That's not to say my wife wouldn't use one as a stunt cock if push came to shove though. It's the difference between a good bull who engages in the relationship, and just some guy with a big cock who can fuck.

"Did you enjoy fucking him?"

"Very much!"

"Seeing him again?"

"No"

"What was his name?"

"Didn't care enough to ask".

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4


"I think it helps with anxiety

So can you get it on prescription?"

I'm getting it over the counter daily

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?! "

What makes you think the hubby just stands there like a lemon? You clearly have no idea about it and that's why your so baffled!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?"

Watching a bloke with a bigger cock than you doing a better job ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?!

What makes you think the hubby just stands there like a lemon? You clearly have no idea about it and that's why your so baffled! "

Yes and that’s why people ask questions.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?

Watching a bloke with a bigger cock than you doing a better job ?"

It's nothing to do with cock size, you inserted that yourself. Why are you so fixated on cocks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?

Watching a bloke with a bigger cock than you doing a better job ?

It's nothing to do with cock size, you inserted that yourself. Why are you so fixated on cocks? "

I always insert it myself, don’t need the husband to guide it in. Lighten up dude, I’m pulling your pisser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?"

I love this explanation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He gets to lie back with a fag while some other bloke does all the work."

In the US, that would make the husband offensively bi-curious

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?

Watching a bloke with a bigger cock than you doing a better job ?

It's nothing to do with cock size, you inserted that yourself. Why are you so fixated on cocks?

I always insert it myself, don’t need the husband to guide it in. Lighten up dude, I’m pulling your pisser. "

You can pull my pisser if you've got a good grip

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm going to hazard a guess that you watch porn and wank while you do so. Now instead of watching a laptop, you're on the set watching it live. Instead of rubbish porn sex, the woman is mclovin it. The woman is your wife. You like seeing your wife mclovin it. You like wanking.

Does that make sense?

Watching a bloke with a bigger cock than you doing a better job ?

It's nothing to do with cock size, you inserted that yourself. Why are you so fixated on cocks?

I always insert it myself, don’t need the husband to guide it in. Lighten up dude, I’m pulling your pisser.

You can pull my pisser if you've got a good grip "

It’s your wife I’m interested in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wondered this myself.

Each to their own and all that but I've always thought of it as a little odd that you'd humiliate the person you love in front of someone else and potentially put them in a cock cage too. It's even weirder to me if the cuck is pretty well endowed too (above average).

I've never really understood the humiliation aspect.

Seeing your partner have sex with someone else is hot but the insults and so on...doesn't seem very hot.

Anyway, that's just me.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I've wondered this myself.

Each to their own and all that but I've always thought of it as a little odd that you'd humiliate the person you love in front of someone else and potentially put them in a cock cage too. It's even weirder to me if the cuck is pretty well endowed too (above average).

I've never really understood the humiliation aspect.

Seeing your partner have sex with someone else is hot but the insults and so on...doesn't seem very hot.

Anyway, that's just me. "

Only half of cuckolds utilise humiliation in their play. It's a common misconception.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"I've wondered this myself.

Each to their own and all that but I've always thought of it as a little odd that you'd humiliate the person you love in front of someone else and potentially put them in a cock cage too. It's even weirder to me if the cuck is pretty well endowed too (above average).

I've never really understood the humiliation aspect.

Seeing your partner have sex with someone else is hot but the insults and so on...doesn't seem very hot.

Anyway, that's just me. "

Because they enjoy being humiliated. It pleases them so why wouldn't you do it?

For those into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peace & quiet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?! "
The best explanation I had when i asked a married lady who's hubby just wanted to watch was . She said . " do you watch porn and get turned on " ? . I said yes . She said . Well my hubby gets to watch live porn . Then when we get home he gets to replay it and we have the best SEX ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not adequate in the trouser department and would love my wife to get the sex she deserves so i am all for being cuckolded, would be such a turn on. She has often joked about it, just need to make it a reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that."

I don’t think this would happen, it goes against the dynamic.

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By *imjayneCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Me and my husband have a loving and stable relationship but his sex drive is not as high as mine and although we met and play with some lovely couples he allows me to indulge in some extra fun.

Affairs are not something I wanted to consider so him playing the cuck on meets gives me confidence to enjoy myself knowing and he says he has watched some of the best porn ever - live.

Like everything in life, you just need total honesty in what you desire and enjoy so you can do it together.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that.

I don’t think this would happen, it goes against the dynamic."

Perfectly possible. In playing with around 50 guys, I've only been out gunned on a handful of occasions. (speaking as a couple).

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that.

I don’t think this would happen, it goes against the dynamic.

Perfectly possible. In playing with around 50 guys, I've only been out gunned on a handful of occasions. (speaking as a couple)."

One of my wife's favourite swinging partners has an inch less than me, she's not a size queen and doesn't have a bucket fanny. It's not even a negative.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that.

I don’t think this would happen, it goes against the dynamic.

Perfectly possible. In playing with around 50 guys, I've only been out gunned on a handful of occasions. (speaking as a couple).

One of my wife's favourite swinging partners has an inch less than me, she's not a size queen and doesn't have a bucket fanny. It's not even a negative. "

Exactly this.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So could a guy with a smaller cock than the cuck become the bull????

If thats the case i am up for that.

I don’t think this would happen, it goes against the dynamic.

Perfectly possible. In playing with around 50 guys, I've only been out gunned on a handful of occasions. (speaking as a couple).

One of my wife's favourite swinging partners has an inch less than me, she's not a size queen and doesn't have a bucket fanny. It's not even a negative.

Exactly this. "

She likes his skin tone, body, stamina, technique, face...

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Once upon a time I use to have a friend with more there she use to go out say she fukked someone but got no pleasure and came back to me for me to give her what was missing lol

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

However I'm kind of seeing someone now and wanna watch her get given some of another maybe get a tip or trick I haven't thought off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does the husband get out of it, when some dude is banging the wife, (presumably he’s got a bigger dick), giving her the time of her life, while they’re stood there like a lemon. Just curious, what’s in it for him, cause it baffles me ?!

What makes you think the hubby just stands there like a lemon? You clearly have no idea about it and that's why your so baffled! "

That’s why he’s asking. I’ve never understood this either. I sort of get it a bit more now reading this thread. Definitely not for me but I can sort of see why people do it now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I understand it more, not sure I’d want someone drilling my wife while I tug away though, why have beef burgers when you can have steak, but hey each to there own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love pleasing the mrs as the fella or cuck looks on

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Hubby loves to see anther man give me pleasure. He likes me to be really slutty. I'm like his real life porno actress and he's the director. My decision is final though.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Hubby loves to see anther man give me pleasure. He likes me to be really slutty. I'm like his real life porno actress and he's the director. My decision is final though. "

Perfectly put. As many cuckolds identify as having a "personal pornstar" as want "humiliation"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hubby loves to see anther man give me pleasure. He likes me to be really slutty. I'm like his real life porno actress and he's the director. My decision is final though.

Perfectly put. As many cuckolds identify as having a "personal pornstar" as want "humiliation""

Yep , I’d agree with this too

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I also enjoy it when at clubs with viewing areas, watching my wife getting drilled by a stud with 10 or 15 guys watching wishing it was them in there with her! And i get to take her home!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Best part for me , ( apart from the reclamation sex ) , is when the guys who have been with her , come up to me afterwards and tell me how lucky I am to have such an amazing wife .

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I also enjoy it when at clubs with viewing areas, watching my wife getting drilled by a stud with 10 or 15 guys watching wishing it was them in there with her! And i get to take her home! "

Delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It actually increases testosterone.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2239621/Researchers-test-mens-testosterone-levels-rise-arousal--visiting-sex-club.html

Maybe not the cuckold part ...but the getting involved

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I think you'll find they are not standing there like a lemon.

If the guy they invite into their sex life understands cuckolding and takes the time to get to know what both partners enjoy about a cuckolding meet then the hubby / bf will in fact be enjoying it as much as his wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you'll find they are not standing there like a lemon.

If the guy they invite into their sex life understands cuckolding and takes the time to get to know what both partners enjoy about a cuckolding meet then the hubby / bf will in fact be enjoying it as much as his wife.

"

Sorry, didn’t mean lemon, meant gooseberry. One of your five a day !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with that, it drives me crazy seeing my husband fucking someone eles.

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By *otwifecpICouple
over a year ago

Epsom


"Cuckolding to a Domme is so much more than standing there like a lemon. Its about the D/s dynamic. Her having control over him. The humiliation, degradation etc. Some Domme's require the cuckold to fluff the stud and then clean them both up at the end for example. Both parties consent and enjoy it immensely. "
Can't agree more. Well said!

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By *otwifecpICouple
over a year ago

Epsom


"I think you'll find they are not standing there like a lemon.

If the guy they invite into their sex life understands cuckolding and takes the time to get to know what both partners enjoy about a cuckolding meet then the hubby / bf will in fact be enjoying it as much as his wife.

"

Indeed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into the cuckhold/humiliation idea, I’m not one to feel humiliated. And not into the idea of a guy thinking he’d be showing me ‘how a real man does it’. You know. But, I like he idea of watching her have a wonderful sexy time. It’s like porn, but real life, and my wife would be the star.

*much more complicated than that, but you get the idea.

Hotwife suits my idea best.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Not into the cuckhold/humiliation idea, I’m not one to feel humiliated. And not into the idea of a guy thinking he’d be showing me ‘how a real man does it’. You know. But, I like he idea of watching her have a wonderful sexy time. It’s like porn, but real life, and my wife would be the star.

*much more complicated than that, but you get the idea.

Hotwife suits my idea best. "

Agreed i like it from my wife, but not from the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I understand it more, not sure I’d want someone drilling my wife while I tug away though, why have beef burgers when you can have steak, but hey each to there own. "

They’ll have sex later though and relive what’s happened. The cuckold may have been in a cock cage or locked in a large cage watching, balls full as not been allowed to cum for a while. It’ll make it hotter.

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By *om and BarbaraCouple
over a year ago

Moreton in Marsh

I'm excited to see my man controlled and forced into things that he wouldn't do. Not forced forced but controlled. He is normally the dom to my sub and it's as much as I can be allowed sometimes to give him a BJ so the opportunity has arisen by a bull contacting us and my man is incredibly horny at this too.

He cant't understand why he is. He's a clever guy and normally sorts everything in his head but can't see how me getting fucked by a guy while he has to prepare the bull and even warm the bull up (considering he's straight) and to 'tidy up' ... turns him on such. I'm actually massively turned on because he's turned on and that's a high basis why we are going to try this.

I have met the bull for a social (Tom hasn't) and yet to. I think he's okay but he's not Tom. Whereas I'm sure the bull has asked about bareback and kissing, we have said no at this point. We want this to an 'animal' thing without the affection but using the bull to sate our kinks as a couple and not fussed about the bull really!!

Babs x

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