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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m weighing up the pros & cons of staying on here.

This is my second profile which has been running well for over 2 years now but I feel that the whole Fab thing isnt working for me anymore.

Recently, the whole women are not friendly thing has hit me, i’ve been sticking up for some on here and got shat on from a great height.

Then there’s those that just purposefully like to wind others up.

Of those who have left and re-joined months later, have you found it helps?

Or is just leaving a hidden profile better?

Thanks muchly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time i went, I hid my profile for a few months, then came back and deleted it altogether as i didn't miss being on here. I was away for about 8 months altogether..the break was much needed and i came back with a new attitude to how it all works

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Isn't it just easier to block those women who are winding you up? As that's the only thing you've mentioned thats not going well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I leave I leave then usually come back each time with a better understanding of it all.

Maybe hide your profile for a few weeks then decide where you want to go from xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Isn't it just easier to block those women who are winding you up? As that's the only thing you've mentioned thats not going well. "

You can’t block forum postings unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx"

It’s not so much bullying, just passive aggressive comments.

My view is we’re all here for the same thing so why be judgemental to others?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx

It’s not so much bullying, just passive aggressive comments.

My view is we’re all here for the same thing so why be judgemental to others?! "

Sadly it gets like that on here. Not as bad as it used to be but if it’s upsetting then stay off the forums. I know it’s easier said than done. Remember they are just people behind a screen xx

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx

It’s not so much bullying, just passive aggressive comments.

My view is we’re all here for the same thing so why be judgemental to others?! "

I’ve seen lots of that, just use it as a kind of filter for people you don’t want to meet.

You can’t change the other people but you can change how much you get annoyed by them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx

It’s not so much bullying, just passive aggressive comments.

My view is we’re all here for the same thing so why be judgemental to others?!

I’ve seen lots of that, just use it as a kind of filter for people you don’t want to meet.

You can’t change the other people but you can change how much you get annoyed by them "

Oh I know you can’t change people.

I feel quite sorry for them really but hey, it’s how they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you’re feeling bullied report it to admin xx

It’s not so much bullying, just passive aggressive comments.

My view is we’re all here for the same thing so why be judgemental to others?!

I’ve seen lots of that, just use it as a kind of filter for people you don’t want to meet.

You can’t change the other people but you can change how much you get annoyed by them "

Sadly it’s happened in the forum where the OP can’t block these people.

I think if you block someone should show up on the forum too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If things are getting to you that much it's time to leave.

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