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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im honest and if im looking for a quickie i will tell them etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m honest

It’s the key

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow


"Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

"

Always honest. What’s the point of being any other way. Can’t say that I’ve always had honesty back though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so yes, seems no point meeting if you dont match. I'll usually say what time I am available from and till, as will they and squeeze in what we can in that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re honest, but will go into more detail when we chat x

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"I’m honest

It’s the key "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

"

Im always completely honest beforehand otherwise there isnt much point in meeting anyway...

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

Always honest. What’s the point of being any other way. Can’t say that I’ve always had honesty back though!"

This! I appreciate people might change their mind but it would be nice if they’d then be honest and say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always rather be honest about what I want and – perhaps more importantly – what I can offer. I'd rather do as much to avoid potential disappointment as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck "

its why now i make them make me cum before haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck "

This.

Most single males that message us or messaged me on my previous single profile didn’t care who they were messaging or what for. They just wanted somewhere to put their penis.

Mrs

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Honesty always works for me

That’s why I get pissed when they can’t perform after saying

I won’t let you down

I’m a stayer etc

You just have to laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too honest sometimes and I’m probably too much like hard work.

You have to set out what you want so you can both have an enjoyable experience or you’ll be left disappointed.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Completely honest and probably why I haven't met anyone for sex in over a year! My bullshit detector is finely tuned which has helped with the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them any old shit to trick them into meeting me

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

I never tell them that I saw Chesney Hawkes live..and enjoyed it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We are honest enough that we lose a lot of potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth through messaging, same with social meeting. Its only after that, they say sorry I can't do that for you, even though I've spoke about it loads of times...

Clubs only now - cuts out the bullshit!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"I tell them any old shit to trick them into meeting me"

Woman after my own heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck "

If they are not interested to meet for a social only for first meet I give a wide berth now. Especially if they want to meet as close as possible to where you live or try and get you to allow them to have coffee at yours. Some guys will say anything just to get their end away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest and expect the same in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer. "

I met a "single" woman once only for her husband turn up half way through and offer to join in. Coincidence? I think not!!! Also not happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck

If they are not interested to meet for a social only for first meet I give a wide berth now. Especially if they want to meet as close as possible to where you live or try and get you to allow them to have coffee at yours. Some guys will say anything just to get their end away."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely honest, I’m looking for more than just sex ideally so if I meet someone I let them know beforehand, means I don’t meet very often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never expect anything more than a coffee and a chat in a public place on a first meet. It's sensible and safe for both.

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!

Totally upfront and honest with what I’m wanting from a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t imagine anyone posting here to say that they are’t honest (jokes aside). On my last profile I had a few meets who weren’t honest about their ability to perform with condoms on. Made me wonder what they were doing the rest of the time..

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By *ugga MannMan
over a year ago

Heathrow


"We are honest enough that we lose a lot of potential meets."

I’ve experienced that too. It’s really hard for a decent genuine fella on here - there’s so many knobheads. But I won’t lie just to improve my chances - my integrity is important to me!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible."

^^say that again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am honest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are honest enough that we lose a lot of potential meets.

I’ve experienced that too. It’s really hard for a decent genuine fella on here - there’s so many knobheads. But I won’t lie just to improve my chances - my integrity is important to me!"

We've had several meets where it becomes clear that one or the other of the couple has lied about what they want, it makes things very awkward.

Single men are, in our experience, much less likely to lie once it gets to the social stage although they can give a right load of flannel in messages

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible.

^^say that again? "

Just making sure you heard me

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

It varies wildly. I couldn’t have a check list on my profile as I tend to find I want different things from meets. It all depends on who I meet, if there is a lot of promise or whether I feel there is attraction but not much connection.

Generally I’m vanilla on meets. I like a quickie as much as a wild weekend. Depends on the guy. So once I know how I’m feeling about a prospective meet I’ll generally give them a heads up about what I’m in it for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always am honest and upfront at a meet. A coffee or a social is always necessary. I always try and discuss what the plan is and what both people are after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we mostly meet at a club now because then at least if there isn’t a connection or they don’t turn up we still have a good night. We sometimes meet at a pub for socials and just hope our meet understands it is just social not just a quick drink then off for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely honest. I'm here to get what I want so there's no point lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extremely honest. If you don't ask then you don't get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have usually discussed all that or we wouldn't be meeting. The meet is about affirmation of our mutual attraction and the finer details....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible."

I stopped reading at rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always honest and upfront

Let’s get it on and if we all have fun let’s do it again, if not we move on

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I don't meet for quickies so I always want roughly the same thing, a hot meet that lasts as long as possible.

I stopped reading at rough. "

Just part of the repertoire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

Im always completely honest beforehand otherwise there isnt much point in meeting anyway...

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I completely agree ,nice bum.btw xx

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm honest, part of the reason I am berift of meets I guess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck

This.

Most single males that message us or messaged me on my previous single profile didn’t care who they were messaging or what for. They just wanted somewhere to put their penis.

Mrs "

And thats what gives us single men a bad rep on here , we are all individuals

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth

I'm honest that I'm not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only tell them what they want to hear so as to get laid and use them as a disposable sexual commodity and quickly move onto the next one.

If anyone is interested in that, please hit me up

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town


"I only tell them what they want to hear so as to get laid and use them as a disposable sexual commodity and quickly move onto the next one.

If anyone is interested in that, please hit me up "

Your sweet talk gets me all worked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only tell them what they want to hear so as to get laid and use them as a disposable sexual commodity and quickly move onto the next one.

If anyone is interested in that, please hit me up

Your sweet talk gets me all worked up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only tell them what they want to hear so as to get laid and use them as a disposable sexual commodity and quickly move onto the next one.

If anyone is interested in that, please hit me up "

At least that would be honest and let's face it, that's what most guys want. Sometimes even what some women want.

I'm always as honest as possible. I often change my mind about what I want/need at one particular time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest - how on earth would it be worthwhile otherwise?

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By *aughty1919Man
over a year ago

Lancaster

Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest and if im looking for a quickie i will tell them etc"
What's a quickie, how quick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m honest ..... no point messing around!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been asked what I want. No point being honest when they don't give a shit what the woman wants.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"I've never been asked what I want. No point being honest when they don't give a shit what the woman wants."

So, tell me what you want, what you really really want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never been asked what I want. No point being honest when they don't give a shit what the woman wants.

So, tell me what you want, what you really really want? "

Zig a zig aah

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Honest, otherwise how would everyone get what they wanted out of the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always honest and not just on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1000%

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Honest our profile bio is detailed yet messages show most don't read it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're honest always but people only hear what they want to hear and don't read profiles...we rarely look for people to meet from here any longer...just use it to stay in touch or see what's happening at clubs we attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer. "

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm totally upfront and honest,only way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very honest. No point in lieing.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Always honest. I tell them exactly what i like and what i have done. If they cant handle it then thats their choice.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry. "

MFM is awesome xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck

If they are not interested to meet for a social only for first meet I give a wide berth now. Especially if they want to meet as close as possible to where you live or try and get you to allow them to have coffee at yours. Some guys will say anything just to get their end away."

Always a social first, it gets rid of the instashaggers. I do this with women and couples too, not just single men. I'm equal opportunities.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"Following from another post.

Are you honest with what you are looking for on a meet?

example: a quickie, a long one?

we are all on FS for a reason and do you pull the wool over peoples eyes to get a meet or are you completely honest.

"

I tried pulling the wool when I first joined, doesn't work. I'm flatly honest now, best all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

MFM is awesome xx"
it is awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest, everything on this profile of mine is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

MFM is awesome xxit is awesome "

This and MFMF - no interest in FFM or couples where male doesn't play. We prefer couples where its more gf/bf experience, lots of flirting, kissking etc xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I won't play with couples where the male half doesn't play. Not into putting on a show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

MFM is awesome xxit is awesome

This and MFMF - no interest in FFM or couples where male doesn't play. We prefer couples where its more gf/bf experience, lots of flirting, kissking etc xx"
me to kissing and flirting I'm a serial flirt

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Totally honest, no point taking a chance on getting what you want.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

MFM is awesome xxit is awesome

This and MFMF - no interest in FFM or couples where male doesn't play. We prefer couples where its more gf/bf experience, lots of flirting, kissking etc xxme to kissing and flirting I'm a serial flirt "

Its so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest one couple asked i wanted to join in a Bi mmf. I said it wouldnt do anything for me as im stright sorry.

MFM is awesome xxit is awesome

This and MFMF - no interest in FFM or couples where male doesn't play. We prefer couples where its more gf/bf experience, lots of flirting, kissking etc xxme to kissing and flirting I'm a serial flirt

Its so much fun "
Oooooo I know

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m honest about it. It’s never really been an issue either.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Honest in that i only want to meet for no longer than an hour, what i like and what i dont like to do because some men think women on here all like the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn" "

Do you leave?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

Do you leave? "

Ha ha oo yes they didn’t get thier FMF.. we just got off the bed and left! They weren’t very impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

Do you leave?

Ha ha oo yes they didn’t get thier FMF.. we just got off the bed and left! They weren’t very impressed "

Damm right too cherries x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

Do you leave?

Ha ha oo yes they didn’t get thier FMF.. we just got off the bed and left! They weren’t very impressed

Damm right too cherries x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

Do you leave?

Ha ha oo yes they didn’t get thier FMF.. we just got off the bed and left! They weren’t very impressed

Damm right too cherries x

"

You did the right thing, hope you told them why you left too with a few choice words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any wants or expectations from being here and I'm honest about that. I just want to meet and see how it feels and what happens naturally.

I've had someone talking about regular meets etc before we have even met and to be honest it put me off. I'm open to whatever happens but I can't preplan that, I don't know how anyone can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any wants or expectations from being here and I'm honest about that. I just want to meet and see how it feels and what happens naturally.

I've had someone talking about regular meets etc before we have even met and to be honest it put me off. I'm open to whatever happens but I can't preplan that, I don't know how anyone can. "
exactly until you meet its all just chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gain absolutely nothing by lying about what I am into.

I could get a girlfriend much easier if I didn't mention my kinks.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Yes, no point doing otherwise. My messages and profile are open and honest and I had some enjoyable meets as a result. Nowadays it probably works against me though, as I am also honest about not having had sex in 2 years. Hopefully there's someone just around the corner who isn't put off by that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I gain absolutely nothing by lying about what I am into.

I could get a girlfriend much easier if I didn't mention my kinks.

"

Kinks dont scare many people lol

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

We’re probably too honest. Our inexperience puts a lot of people off.

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By *uuLuuWoman
over a year ago

Watford

I always think its best to be very honest what you want be it just a social meet or a quickie to an all nighter then there isn't any confusion for either of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to be honest I’m not really sure what I want. But then I’m sometimes a bit to laid back. I wouldn’t lie to get meet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinks dont scare many people lol"

Yah but I don't want random women thinking they can just slap me in the balls at the bar.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just honest, as I don't have enough time for enough meets, so ensure that they are relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is best policy,maybe why we get little fun lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm honest, can't see the point in being otherwise.

Seems to work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally honest no point saying one thing if u want something else

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Are people really being honest though, or just saying what they think others want to hear and just because someone said 'honest' does it make it so. It's one of those words on Fab that make you think really?

We have no reason to lie, we are here for our mutual pleasure but we want to share that pleasure with others we are always upfront when discussing our preferred play with people and if they don't want to take things further that's fine. No love lost.

But honestly how do any of us really know who's being 'Honest'!

Just a thought this Thursday evening.

Jo.Xx

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

She usually knows what I want before I do

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Detailed bio hopefully gets this across

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally honest.. No one can be hurt or get the wrong idea, if you're just straight from the offset.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset."

So we’re not getting married now then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m totally honest. Too bloomin honest I think! People need to know the exact score from the beginning. In fact I have my solicitor draw up a 10 page contract to be signed before I will even engage in a snog.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"I’m totally honest. Too bloomin honest I think! People need to know the exact score from the beginning. In fact I have my solicitor draw up a 10 page contract to be signed before I will even engage in a snog. "

And a none disclosure agreement for afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m totally honest. Too bloomin honest I think! People need to know the exact score from the beginning. In fact I have my solicitor draw up a 10 page contract to be signed before I will even engage in a snog.

And a none disclosure agreement for afterwards "

Oh yes that’s in there too

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset.

So we’re not getting married now then? "

Didn't we agree when we're both ready for the nursing home?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset.

So we’re not getting married now then?

Didn't we agree when we're both ready for the nursing home? "

7 years from now?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset.

So we’re not getting married now then?

Didn't we agree when we're both ready for the nursing home?

7 years from now? "

That soon!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always been honest re my intentions. I'm a free spirit and i'm here to meet different people and make amazing memories I can look back upon fondly years from now. It's satisfying getting to know people beyond just the sex and I enjoy lasting friendships. I don't want to date or any exclusivity and I make that known from the outset.

So we’re not getting married now then?

Didn't we agree when we're both ready for the nursing home?

7 years from now?

That soon!? "

Thanks!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I was very upfront and honest when meeting my last two couples as I’d got really disillusioned. I was clear only a full 3 way, sex with both and I wasn’t putting a show on. Both turned out that he didn’t have sex with me it was for the Mrs and at the end of one of them the Mrs asked him if he enjoyed the show.

Not fucking happy so I now don’t meet couples. If I just want a woman I’ll meet a woman alone because my experience is couples will agree to whatever just to get the meet then not follow through. I couldn’t have been clearer.

We hate this!! We have been conned into FMF, we were honest with them about we don't meet couples where the girl or guy doesn't play, our kink is FMFM and everyone joining in, they turned up and before you know it Mr is kicked off the bed and they are trying to have a FMF because "she" doesn't play with other guys

It's unbelievable how many people we have encountered like that, just because they can't get a "unicorn"

Do you leave?

Ha ha oo yes they didn’t get thier FMF.. we just got off the bed and left! They weren’t very impressed "

Too bad, they shouldn't have lied lol.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm honest about my requirements but I think some people lie to say they match my requirements when they are actually just looking for a quick fuck

If they are not interested to meet for a social only for first meet I give a wide berth now. Especially if they want to meet as close as possible to where you live or try and get you to allow them to have coffee at yours. Some guys will say anything just to get their end away.

This "

Agreed. I've had socials like this. One of them, I felt so uncomfortable, I sat in my car and waited for him to drive away first. Was a bit worried about being followed home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s a meet

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Exceptionally honest on the meets I've not had.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"What’s a meet "

That thing where you meet people. You know, coffee, drinks, sex etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a meet

That thing where you meet people. You know, coffee, drinks, sex etc. "

Ah I see

Yep still none the wiser if I’m honest

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I’m always honest, always state I want cheese and pickle sandwiches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am honest before a meet. Whats the point of meeting if we're not what each other want.

I'm not after what most are and i have been very lucky to find someone who is after the same thing.

It only works cause we've been honest with each other.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"I am honest before a meet. Whats the point of meeting if we're not what each other want.

I'm not after what most are and i have been very lucky to find someone who is after the same thing.

It only works cause we've been honest with each other. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"What’s a meet

That thing where you meet people. You know, coffee, drinks, sex etc.

Ah I see

Yep still none the wiser if I’m honest "

I'd meet you if you were 10 years older lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a meet

That thing where you meet people. You know, coffee, drinks, sex etc.

Ah I see

Yep still none the wiser if I’m honest

I'd meet you if you were 10 years older lol. "

Lol I’ll be 1 year older tomorrow if that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always been honest about expectations on a meet , fun . Not play but proper fun ,a laugh a drink a chat .never expected anything else

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