FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone ever worry they might meet someone they know?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey.

I just wondered if anyone ever gets worried that they might be recognised by someone they know.

This isn't a problem for everyone but those who want to be discreet.

Ever happened to anyone?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Have been ... wasn’t a problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a few people I know.. sometimes been awkward but generally remained discreet!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No. But I have a wish list, who I'd love to see and paly with.

Anyone else feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I get recognised often, hasn’t caused me any problems yet. Thankfully I live in a very quiet area (swinging wise) and there isn’t many folk near me anyway.

I’ve met up with someone who I knew before fab after they found me on fab.

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

"Heyyy I know yo... oh shit...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always getting recognised..theres alot of fabsters around my area.

Doesnt bother me at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few times and what does it matter ? We were all in the club doing the same thing . If you feel that badly about swinging that you don’t want people to know then mayb yiu shouldn’t be doing it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was pretty much introduced to fab by a fabster.

I would think it would be awkward but maybe hot too.

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By *onysp654Man
over a year ago

Loddington

Got a surprise message from a social friend on here

But we're all good ..

Sure neither of you are going to broadcast it

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By *igj25Man
over a year ago

I love it i met a lady I use to work with when I was 16 and wanted to fuck back then and found her on here and chanced it and it defo paid off love every meet we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worried, we’ve always said we’d shag them on purpose so they don’t tell everybody

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP I've got friends and very close family on fab, some of whom I've bumped into at swingers clubs.

It's no big deal!

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

A female work mate and I are both on here, but looking for very different things. We have discussed it before and both laugh - No issues

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It happens, as it's an open society. But I can't put my life on hold - or live - by fear. I've come across people I know but never really close friends. Many people are intelligent enough to not want to cause others any problems and most want some level of discretion to be reciprocated.

However, some people may be here and very dishonest, such as with a partner - I think it's important for such people to reflect on how they are interacting with others and how best to minimise any catastrophes.

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By *TBSMan
over a year ago

close enough

I work in an industry that means I have to get hands on with people and it can be interesting when we recognise one another....even better if one has blocked the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey.

I just wondered if anyone ever gets worried that they might be recognised by someone they know.

This isn't a problem for everyone but those who want to be discreet.

Ever happened to anyone?"
why would anyone worry about meeting someone they know are you ashamed of what you do here I for one am not

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Doesn't worry me at, I love my fab live and the friends I've made.

I'm open about it to people and the lifestyle and the social side are perfect for me

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Have seen one guy and one ex gf here. I just ignored and moved on.

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By *adyx4Woman
over a year ago

Durham

"Hey.

I just wondered if anyone ever gets worried that they might be recognised by someone they know.

This isn't a problem for everyone but those who want to be discreet.

Ever happened to anyone?"

Someone recognised me from my mouth! He must of been really studying it on the course we did together. I also got accidentally chatting to a mate and recently bumped into an old college friend at the Newcastle social. We’ve just laughed it off

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Don't shit on your own doorstep

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ah. This was a huge concern when I first started out. Then I met work colleagues, family friends and casual acquaintances on the scene. I quickly realised nobody really cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had people contact me with the old “I know you” line. Normally faceless profiles. Noticed my next door neighbour on here. Let’s be fair, who cares?

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By *layfulfoxMan
over a year ago

nowhere

I messaged a woman from the same town, when she found out I lived in her town she blocked me right away.

Generally they're in the same boat as you are so they would also be hoping you don't out them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few clients on here

It doesn't phase me at all

We're all entitled to a sex life

Some people play it out more publically than others

It does seem kinda weird sometimes though, sitting down to discuss things like margins and peak trading requirements whilst a little demon in my head is saying 'I've seen your cock'

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

Played with a husband of a work colleague. Didn't realise until afterwards when his photo came up on her Facebook.

No harm done and didn't meet again. Obviously never told her.

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By *eepfoughtMan
over a year ago

Burnley

I've bumped into someone I knew from many years ago who still has friends in common. She was with someone so we didn't acknowledge it (although I'm sure she recognised me too).

It felt a bit wakward, but at the end of the day we were both in the same boat, so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few times and it’s never been a bother. Wouldn’t play with them though. Sure the feeling was mutual

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By *innerdateMan
over a year ago

Leigh

Never met anyone I know on here or in a club although I would like to. They would not be in a position to say anything as they are in totally the same boat and you never know you may hit it off Lol

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

walker

Seen a lot of people I know but don't think I'd act on anything. Had one lad message me who is a friend of another very good friend and we all drink together sometimes. It would make things very awkward. He didn't realise who he was messaging as my face pics are private and he identifies as straight.

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over a year ago

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