FabSwingers.com forum: Contacting couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it only me that feel it's rude when someone contacts a couple and only acknowledges one of them.

When we message we always introduce ourselves to the couple not just one of them ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ortobello SionnachWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Is it only me that feel it's rude when someone contacts a couple and only acknowledges one of them.

When we message we always introduce ourselves to the couple not just one of them ?"

Thats because they are shallow and only interested in one half of the couple. Not all are like you with manners.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it only me that feel it's rude when someone contacts a couple and only acknowledges one of them.

When we message we always introduce ourselves to the couple not just one of them ?"

Lack of manners I suppose

It's annoying us as well. Read and delete. If same person will send again the same message - block. We are adults and should have manners in my opinion

Mrs A

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I kind of ignore it because it does say in our profile it's usually me posting or answering mail. He doesn't really pay too much attention.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

A lot of couples profiles do only have pics of one partner (normally the female) and are often written from one viewpoint. It's not a massive leap to think that some men take it as they are talking to the female with a +1 rather than a couple..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fine with me.

Jokes on them...

I made Lacey up anyway

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of couples profiles do only have pics of one partner (normally the female) and are often written from one viewpoint. It's not a massive leap to think that some men take it as they are talking to the female with a +1 rather than a couple.."

When we had a couples profile we never had any messages to just one of us, they were always addressed to both of us. Our profile pic was of us both and we had equal pics of us.

If someone had ever mailed addressing just one of us we wouldn't have bothered with them. We weren't compatible.

I think of mails that I don't like as a positive because it means no time wasted for either of us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only meet couples, because that is my preference. So of course, in a first message i always refer to both, usually by name if they have that on there profile. I always assume i am talking to both unless in a message exchange the husband or wife tells me otherwise. To me, as a single guy looking to meet couples, it's very important that i talk to both husband and wife.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s fine with me.

Jokes on them...

I made Lacey up anyway "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

It used to happen a fair bit when I had a couple profile, always thought it was massively disrespectful. Our pics showed both of us and the text wasn't clearly by either one of us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it very rude. We actually ignore the message personally!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep Mrs T get messages no one remembers I'm here lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happens to us but if it did we’d just block and move on

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread