FabSwingers.com forum: One thing fab has taught me.....,,,,,,,

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will admit that I used to be a bit of a git when it came to chubby people, but now I realise I fancy all shapes and sizes

What have you learnt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there's a surprising amount of people, locally, that partake in all sexual things I like and am here to do.

And also not to be a single man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 Grimmauld Place - that's a Harry Potter reference right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How sexy feet can look when in the right high heels or open shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12 Grimmauld Place - that's a Harry Potter reference right? "

Yes. Although you wouldn’t believe the amount of abuse I get for putting my address on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"12 Grimmauld Place - that's a Harry Potter reference right? "

Yep just saw your name had Leviosa in it and now feel a bit stupid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please say hi to kreacher, Robby and Sirius for me (refusing to believe they're dead)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please say hi to kreacher, Robby and Sirius for me (refusing to believe they're dead) "

Robby?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*****DOBBY

Clearly I need to go back to Hogwarts and retake English Lit

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

That regardless of the dicks on here, you can come across true gems and build genuine relationships/friendships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That regardless of the dicks on here, you can come across true gems and build genuine relationships/friendships "
yeah i know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That regardless of the dicks on here, you can come across true gems and build genuine relationships/friendships "

Can't even imagine the clusterfuck of cringe worthy shit women get sent on here haha.

And also, the dick pics, there must be so many dick pics

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"That regardless of the dicks on here, you can come across true gems and build genuine relationships/friendships

Can't even imagine the clusterfuck of cringe worthy shit women get sent on here haha.

And also, the dick pics, there must be so many dick pics

It's one if the many reasons I rarely read messages. If I wanted a cock in the eye then it would be great, but I much prefer talking to people than penises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some decent ones left ya know lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

Yeah I've found that to be the only reason I get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will admit that I used to be a bit of a git when it came to chubby people, but now I realise I fancy all shapes and sizes

What have you learnt?"

I like athletic body types and a pretty face more than I used to... Fickle I know

And the "no I'm not interested in one offs/one night stands" is a frequent lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

Oh please continue... Great pics

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

What about your wonderful wit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

What about your wonderful wit.

Some men don’t like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

Oh please continue... Great pics"
i intend too

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

"That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

What about your wonderful wit.

Some men don’t like it

Well I appreciate it and makes me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I don’t find men my own age attractive.

Many men find me attractive purely because I have a vagina

What about your wonderful wit.

Some men don’t like it

Well I appreciate it and makes me laugh.

I’m glad

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Fab has taught me that I'm allowed to be confident.

That "strangers" in a forum can care, even though you've never met.

That if something is too good to be true it generally is (praying for an exception on this occasion)

That some people need a humour transplant as they really are like a fun pump in reverse.

That an awful lot of the male variety think women on here must be easy to fuck shlaaaags who live for cock because they're on this site, and can literally send a message saying "when u free" to get in your fandango.

One thing it's taught me that I'm truly grateful for is to walk the planet with an open mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has taught me that I'm allowed to be confident.

That "strangers" in a forum can care, even though you've never met.

That if something is too good to be true it generally is (praying for an exception on this occasion)

That some people need a humour transplant as they really are like a fun pump in reverse.

One thing it's taught me that I'm truly grateful for is to walk the planet with an open mind. "

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

Oh please continue... Great pics i intend too

Got to agree. Great pics indeed.

*Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

Oh please continue... Great pics i intend too

Got to agree. Great pics indeed.

*Mrs"
Thank you and ditto

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Fab has taught us that we might not be as unattractive to other people as we thought.

It’s also taught us to not take everyone at face value.

Like others have said, there are a few lovely people on here and some great fun to be had on the forums. There are also plenty of arseholes and cocks and not just in the photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned how persistent and patient I can be, considering I'm probably too vanilla for most of the women on here and that there is clearly nothing on here for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has taught us that we might not be as unattractive to other people as we thought.

It’s also taught us to not take everyone at face value.

Like others have said, there are a few lovely people on here and some great fun to be had on the forums. There are also plenty of arseholes and cocks and not just in the photos!

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exactly somebody for everybody

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've learnt that the Sky remote is a universal unit of measure and that the vegetable isle is an extension of Love Honey and Anne Summers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That people not liking me is ok & it doesn't bother me like I thought it would.

Also like Queen said, having a vagina means that I will get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that tomorrow is another day

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I’ve learnt that

‘SOME’ men literally have no clue to what women want.

That it’s ok to look different ...

Eventually a bloke will find me attractive

That there’s some awesome funny people in the forums.

And also that I’m very open minded albeit shocked sometimes when I see stuff on here.

(Used to live a sheltered life)

Miss P

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve learned that every is different, just because one woman likes something that doesn’t mean another one will. And that finding out is fun.

I’ve still yet to learn not to google every strange sex term I’ve not heard of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are plenty of entitled and rude couples on here, encountered two on here yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I don't need to get quite so nervous before a first meet!

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

To go with the flow....it can be such good fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To go with the flow....it can be such good fun

It can be, can’t it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That no matter what size I am men will still meet me...although to some it's just one more on their list....but their are a few that genuinely like me and want to see me regularly.

Also that for a shy woman I like people seeing my pics and and it's a nice boost when people fab them"

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

We've learnt that some of the people you meet, have a miss-sense of their own self worth. That they look at themselves through an "out of our league" prism.

Come on folks don't let you're own self doubts hold you back, take that leap of faith and let your personality and respectfulness shine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never read a book without its cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has given me confidence about my body that I had lost due to people constantly slating me for the way I look and the way my body reacts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught and given me the confidence to enjoy rather than suppress my sex drive and impulses, I’m much more open minded and respectful of other people’s differences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve discovered that ‘old people’, like me, are still having great sex, and it’s so much better than when we were younger.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Some people will tell you what they think you want to hear but don’t be jaded by that because there are also those who are very lovely and do mean what they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people will tell you what they think you want to hear but don’t be jaded by that because there are also those who are very lovely and do mean what they say

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thankyou

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Some people will tell you what they think you want to hear but don’t be jaded by that because there are also those who are very lovely and do mean what they say

thankyou "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That you can't trust anyone in here, however much you think you can...

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

....that if I had learnt to be a Farrier I could make a fortune from looking after all of the White Knights' horses

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By *rsSBWoman
over a year ago

toy town

How big the swingers lifestyle is the UK. It's non existent in Spain.

I'm glad I live here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That its always best to take everything with a mahoosive pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These aren’t the droids we are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place has a lot of broken people hiding a broken heart, hurt feelings and committment issues who are simply too afraid to put their heart on the line again.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"That I can take pics of me bits.post em . and not feel like weirdo

Oh please continue... Great pics i intend too

Got to agree. Great pics indeed.

*Mrs Thank you and ditto

Thank you

and thanks for the fabs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That its always best to take everything with a mahoosive pinch of salt

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and patience is definitely a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That the plural of penis is FUN

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"This place has a lot of broken people hiding a broken heart, hurt feelings and committment issues who are simply too afraid to put their heart on the line again.

Are you one of them Miss V?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt to accept rejection more philosophically now that I know it's a very common experience even for men much younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm one of the sane ones.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Good thing-That there are lots of others with just as dirty and kinky a mind as me.

Bad thing-For a supposed open minded bunch, there are lots of judgemental people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That its always best to take everything with a mahoosive pinch of salt

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salts bad for you mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you can't trust anyone in here, however much you think you can..."

Oh I dont want to believe this one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good thing-That there are lots of others with just as dirty and kinky a mind as me.

Bad thing-For a supposed open minded bunch, there are lots of judgemental people on here. "

So very true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These aren’t the droids we are looking for?"

I think you’ll find I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s swinger can sometimes be judgemental, prejudice and self centred, who’d have thought!

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By *aycambsMan
over a year ago

Brierley Hill/Dudley - Visiting

That I can get much more work done, if I just don't log into Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This place has a lot of broken people hiding a broken heart, hurt feelings and committment issues who are simply too afraid to put their heart on the line again.

Are you one of them Miss V?"

I used to be. Now i’m just cynical, which is probably worse.

However, i’m open to finding love again. To be loved is a wonderful thing and i want to feel that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have I learnt....... how amazing and understanding people can be on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That more men than I thought prefer curvy to slim and that without the urban dictionary I’d be bloody clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...that I'm a lot more desirable to ladies in the real world than the world of fab haha

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Trust no one

X files theme tune going through my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one

X files theme tune going through my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That you can't trust anyone in here, however much you think you can...

Oh I dont want to believe this one

I have had it proven time and again

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"This place has a lot of broken people hiding a broken heart, hurt feelings and committment issues who are simply too afraid to put their heart on the line again.

This is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that I really quite like showing off my body and that I'm really quite impatient when I want something!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger.

Neither are a lot of others on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt lots. Two key things:

That my body can really turn people on - wish I’d learnt that years ago.

That the most imaginative, kinky individuals often have the most vanilla exterior.

It’s been a joy meeting some of the funny, interesting people on here.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm not a swinger.

Neither are a lot of others on here."

Also true lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taught us how many fakes there are

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

That people actually like me. (Had that beaten out of me with a crap marriage)

That people can be enormously emotionally giving, even when there is nothing in it for them.

That some individuals use the virtual gap to compensate for a fragile ego, and use it as an excuse to act like a complete twunt on here when in real life they wouldn't look anyone in the eye.

Everyone is dealing with there own shit.

Distance isn't an issue if you want to make something happen.

To avoid ladies with profiles that read like a list of demands.

A smile works better than a picture of a penis in 97% of cases.

I don't need a massive penis. No point having a 12 inch dick if the last 4 inches never get used.

To always check pics for cleanliness off surroundings.

In the big scheme of things, you are ultimately nothing to 99% of people. Lives go on without you.

It's not about how many people you fuck. It's how many want to have sex with you again and again.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"That people actually like me. (Had that beaten out of me with a crap marriage)

That people can be enormously emotionally giving, even when there is nothing in it for them.

That some individuals use the virtual gap to compensate for a fragile ego, and use it as an excuse to act like a complete twunt on here when in real life they wouldn't look anyone in the eye.

Everyone is dealing with there own shit.

Distance isn't an issue if you want to make something happen.

To avoid ladies with profiles that read like a list of demands.

A smile works better than a picture of a penis in 97% of cases.

I don't need a massive penis. No point having a 12 inch dick if the last 4 inches never get used.

To always check pics for cleanliness off surroundings.

In the big scheme of things, you are ultimately nothing to 99% of people. Lives go on without you.

It's not about how many people you fuck. It's how many want to have sex with you again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's taught us how many fakes there are "
fakes here..... Ive not come across one yet

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Don't Google anything!!

Walrus dildo....that's something I cannot unsee!

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

That quite a few take on a playgroup mentality and only look at the pictures and then throw their dummy out when they can't have what they want lol

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Don't Google anything!!

Walrus dildo....that's something I cannot unsee!

Ss"

No!!!!

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Don't Google anything!!

Walrus dildo....that's something I cannot unsee!

No!!!!

Don't do it.....even if you think your going to.....just dont!

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"Don't Google anything!!

Walrus dildo....that's something I cannot unsee!

No!!!!

Don't do it.....even if you think your going to.....just dont!

Ffs yyyyyyy

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

"Don't Google anything!!

Walrus dildo....that's something I cannot unsee!

No!!!!

Don't do it.....even if you think your going to.....just dont!

Ffs yyyyyyy"

Did you look?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

People who define themselves by one attribute only have rarely got anything else going on that would make me want to meet them.

Having big boobs doesn't make you good in bed.

Wearing a uniform doesn't make you stand out (use a dictionary)

I am assuming from a female perspective that just having a big dick doesn't always equate to good at sex.

You can get away with fooling a lot of people you are into kink just by wearing latex. A big part of the fet thing that I have seen is simply displaying how kinky your clothing tastes run.

People's hypocrisy can know no bounds.

People rarely read. Why do I get messages from people who are only looking for bi black men 200 miles away?

More men fab dick pics than women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be a lot more careful with my words when i talk to my clients about roses budding (yes, i looked).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are some really nice people and some who are not. Like day-to-day life really. I think I also understand the swinging mindset more now too.

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