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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you like and not like in the first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few details and politness, with patience. Nout worse than "so you got pics?" Or "want to meet" straight out the gate!

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few details and politness, with patience. Nout worse than "so you got pics?" Or "want to meet" straight out the gate!

S"

So what would you say is the perfect introduction. I usually say " Good evening,

I'm sure you're get plenty of messages from guys. I've attached some pictures for your consideration and hopefully I match what you are after."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply READ the person you are contactings Profile and the construct a relevant message. Follow this and like Jay from the inbetweeners by the end of the night you will be saying....

Fab? Completed it mate...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Simply READ the person you are contactings Profile and the construct a relevant message. Follow this and like Jay from the inbetweeners by the end of the night you will be saying....

Fab? Completed it mate..."

And does that work for you?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit.

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By *assy but classyWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own!


"I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit. "

Ha ha, me too!! Role play scenarios before even saying ‘hello’

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit. "

So what would you prefer then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit.

Ha ha, me too!! Role play scenarios before even saying ‘hello’"

So what would you prefer ?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit. "

‘I walk through the door....and notice that you’ve still not got m’tea on table missus; not even a brew on either, so I go doon t’pub instead’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply READ the person you are contactings Profile and the construct a relevant message. Follow this and like Jay from the inbetweeners by the end of the night you will be saying....

Fab? Completed it mate...

And does that work for you?"

Nope... but I'm fugly and boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read the profile ... the amount of messages with 'u free tonight' comments is unreal .. chancers

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I hate the graphic ones..

I walk through the door, you're wearing just a Basque, I kiss you deeply etc etc.

Vomit.

So what would you prefer then?"

To be honest, the best thing to write is what you'd like to receive. It's all about compatibility.

There are people out there who don't mind hi, or the graphic ones or wanna fuck - if you write these things to them, it work for them.

What you write in a message shows me how compatible we are - if you write what you've been told works for one person, without it being the right thing for you, you're no introducing your real self and somewhere down the line everyone will realise they're not gelling and the conversation will peter out anyway.

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