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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When I get a message and it says 'I know I haven't got a chance but I thought I'd try and send a message'...

This instantly turns me off and takes away if I might choose... Awww well, on to the next...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know what you mean i get them or i met you before at a hotel. never seen the guy before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a way of testing the water

some people like to dip the toe whilst others dive straight in

i like to get in as far as my knees - at least that way, you've made more of an effort, but just in case the waters cold, at least it hasn't got as far as me balls

i know what u mean tho - it can seem somewhat defeatist which isn't very attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's not attractive at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps if you broadened your perceptual horizons to include the more confident ( little bit ) older gentlemen...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know what you mean i get them or i met you before at a hotel. never seen the guy before"

Now that one is sad. Anyone who has to lie on a message to get someone's attention would ring danger bells with me straight away ... hit that delete button!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps if you broadened your perceptual horizons to include the more confident ( little bit ) older gentlemen...;-);-)"

I have done, had the same and gfs ring me up...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Your right, it's not the best line.

But guys get told that ladies receive a 100 messages a day & that you mostly don't get time to read them all, so a closed mindset for some guys is understandable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps if you broadened your perceptual horizons to include the more confident ( little bit ) older gentlemen...;-);-)

I have done, had the same and gfs ring me up..."

Ok... A little additional clarification...;-)

Older gentlemen who are single..

{ To heck with diplomacy...

MEEEEEEEEEE.... }

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