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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do others overcome the nerves of a meet, I've been here years and I still get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol usually helps

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Pre meet beat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nerves too even though I've been in the scene quite a while.

Nerves are a good thing though and the minute I don't get nerves will be the day I give up swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves = excitement

I agree with Ruby

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I always get nerves with new meetings. I make it clear I’m need some time to get relaxed so don’t do quick meets first off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nerves / adrenaline is good! As long as it doesn’t become all consuming and destructive!

When it doesn’t make me pump adrenaline then I’m stopping!

Take deep breaths and remember they’re probably feeling just as nervous too!

I’ve had meets where I’ve literally shook beforehand! Not nerves as such, pure adrenaline!! Once the ice is broken 5 or 10 mins in I’m fine!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't meet them

I think everyone gets nervous, is not a bad thing

C

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it's excitement too, in the past I've shook but I'm getting too old not to enjoy my free time I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do others overcome the nerves of a meet, I've been here years and I still get them "

I've been on here for a few years on and off but still get nervous meeting someone new. For me it's all part of the exciting build up

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Think nerves are part of the buzz to be honest it's exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite normal. Even as a couple we get nervous. Keeps it real.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nerves are a good things. Even when I met someone on previous occasions the nervous excitement is still there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get nervous, I literally shake but I think that’s a good thing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get terribly nervous if it was a private meet. It's partly why I don't do private. In clubs there is no pressure and I don't suffer so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves/anxiety before a meet will be the death of me..

I used to get a lovely flutter of excitement in the pit of my stomach but as ive got older its got worse...

As soon as we have met its fine but until then i am a nervous wreck lol

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