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"I married one. " Me too , and very happy too | |||
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"As a single dad i quite often get tarred because i cant always accomadate. So some women automatically presume im married or got a woman at home." I’m single and I face the same issue.. Bitches will be bitches Bros before hoes | |||
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"As a single dad i quite often get tarred because i cant always accomadate. So some women automatically presume im married or got a woman at home. I’m single and I face the same issue.. Bitches will be bitches Bros before hoes " On the plus side it sorts the wheat from the chaf lol | |||
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"Already filled a thread on the subject recently: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/794553" I would've liked to have commented on that but it's full. I'm not a single mum now but i have my opinions on why MGTOW and MRA are single. | |||
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"Already filled a thread on the subject recently: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/794553 I would've liked to have commented on that but it's full. I'm not a single mum now but i have my opinions on why MGTOW and MRA are single." Go on? | |||
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"Already filled a thread on the subject recently: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/794553 I would've liked to have commented on that but it's full. I'm not a single mum now but i have my opinions on why MGTOW and MRA are single. Go on?" Will take this off topic so i will wait for the next discussion. | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum " So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad " That's not how I read it. | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad " Sorry. Did I muddle my point there? I said I'd almost rather date a single mum. | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad Sorry. Did I muddle my point there? I said I'd almost rather date a single mum. " Yes i get easily muddled at this time of night | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad Sorry. Did I muddle my point there? I said I'd almost rather date a single mum. Yes i get easily muddled at this time of night " No worries. I'm on the Whitley Neill baobab gin... So not too far behind | |||
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"Single mums or dads have to move on same as anyone without kids as for would I date a single mum yes I would and have done. But there has to be respect for each other’s kids and time spent with your own kids without hassle for doing so. " | |||
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"It shouldn’t matter if someone has children, if you like the person you shouldn’t mind if that have baggage of some kind, be that kids or whatever. So no it wouldn’t put me off dating someone with kids. I can’t believe it would put some people off, but that’s just how my mind works I guess M x" i also think there is nothing sexier than a man who is a good dad and takes care of his kids! Its a quality i look for.. | |||
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"I married one. Me too , and very happy too " I was a single parent tooat the time | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? " being a parent comes first, we all need our fun but dont let it get in the way of being a parent. if your partner doesnt agree or doesnt try and work with the situation is it worth it? ps shout out to all the Milfs and Dilfs | |||
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"Clearly yes, I am. In my age group as a single dad I've found that 90% of the women I've dated have been single mum's. Partly because the lions share of singles in my age group have kids and mum's tend to have parental responsibility. And of those in my age group that don't that fact that I'm a single dad with young kids is limiting factor. But the good tging about dating a single mum as a single dad is they understand your challenges and situations. Single women with out kids my age are just in a different phase of life from me. So for me I would always prefer single mum's in general." 'that boy needs therepy'!! | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? " stats mean nothing really it's all about a connection if a guy connects with you it's you he's interested in if you have a child that may well have some impact on a more serious relationship but that's about time surely not about a date | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? " For me, being a single parent would not determine whether or not I was attracted to and liked someone. If the person you like happens to be a single parent then why should that stop the way you feel... | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? As i came from a broken home and feeling dumped when both my parents started new lives i made a decision to never expect a woman to put me before her kids as i wouldn't in my children's young days put a woman before them. Now they have grown up women still want to know about my kids then i get sorry your not for me feels like i shouldn't have had a life just had to sit on a shelf till im needed lol but wouldn't change how i did it no regrets her " | |||
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"I would have not problem dating a single woman with children... if I felt that attraction... " Even if she had 6 kids? | |||
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"Yes I would, love a single mum Why’s that? " I have had a lot of fun with single mums. | |||
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"Yes I would, love a single mum Why’s that? I have had a lot of fun with single mums." How come? | |||
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"I'm almost inclined to say I'd prefer it as we'd have common experiences and needs and we could hopefully create a lovely family all together. But in all honesty the most important thing for me is compatibility with the woman both with myself and my approach to parenting. I'd rather have this with a single woman than not have it with a single mum So you wouldn't date a single mum yet you started a thread because a single woman wouldn't date a single dad " I don't think that's what he's saying tbh | |||
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"Love is amazing it knows no bounds and can and dose overcome the oddest strangest things.a child is least of my worries at least theres a reason to play board games and act like over grown kid......o wait i do that most days " True true | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 11/09/18 10:21:37]" I read that and I don’t think you can improve your self to get replies | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? stats mean nothing really it's all about a connection if a guy connects with you it's you he's interested in if you have a child that may well have some impact on a more serious relationship but that's about time surely not about a date " Ah, that depends if you view dating as a kind of hobby or as a search for a longterm relationship. | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? stats mean nothing really it's all about a connection if a guy connects with you it's you he's interested in if you have a child that may well have some impact on a more serious relationship but that's about time surely not about a date Ah, that depends if you view dating as a kind of hobby or as a search for a longterm relationship." True would have to be long term when kids invovled. | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! X" you have a man don't be greedy | |||
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"I would like to take this opportunity and announce that cute single girls without kids feel free to pm me " you harlot | |||
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"My ex had 3 kids which the father lived away n only came down 2 weeks a year, so it was good to have that male role model so to speak. Difficult when separated coz the kids are involved emotionally. When I'm ready for that kind of commitment then yeah i would " Agreed... a good role model whether biological or not has to be a good thing, personally I still have my stepdaughter living with me who’s now in her 20’s after her mother cheated on me last year, she decided to stay with me. Love her to bits, Good can come from bad. | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! Xyou have a man don't be greedy" I do? Who? | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! Xyou have a man don't be greedy I do? Who? " the guy who was in your profile pic, thought you said you loved him | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! Xyou have a man don't be greedy I do? Who? the guy who was in your profile pic, thought you said you loved him " You mean Chillout? I do love him! As an amazing friend! It’s unlikely we’ll ever have a ‘real’ relationship! Xx | |||
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"I would like to take this opportunity and announce that cute single girls without kids feel free to pm me " Lol yes broaden the field | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! Xyou have a man don't be greedy I do? Who? the guy who was in your profile pic, thought you said you loved him You mean Chillout? I do love him! As an amazing friend! It’s unlikely we’ll ever have a ‘real’ relationship! Xx" Somebody has read your profile very closely lol... He's not missed a thing! | |||
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"I would have not problem dating a single woman with children... if I felt that attraction... Even if she had 6 kids? " Its only a number... | |||
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"In all honesty I can’t imagine (seriously) dating someone who ISN’T a dad! Becoming a parent changes most of us profoundly (there are exceptions - my selfish shit of an ex amongst them) and makes us far less selfish and more focused on the needs of others! I’m aware this is a generalism - but most guys I’ve met/dated in the past who didn’t have kids (by choice) were very self focussed! Dating a fellow parent with the same priorities would be far easier! X" I agree. It's very rare someone who isn't a parent will "get" being a parent. | |||
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"I've always found that women that have had kids are a far better shag than ones that haven't. I think it's because they know how much stick it can take without breaking Steve" | |||
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"I've always found that women that have had kids are a far better shag than ones that haven't. I think it's because they know how much stick it can take without breaking Steve " You beat me to it... | |||
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"I've always found that women that have had kids are a far better shag than ones that haven't. I think it's because they know how much stick it can take without breaking Steve You beat me to it... " #tenderlover | |||
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"I've always found that women that have had kids are a far better shag than ones that haven't. I think it's because they know how much stick it can take without breaking Steve" Hahaha funny as x | |||
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"Yes I am one in a fab relationship, and love her daughters we are reall mates " Congrats | |||
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"Following a thread posted by a guy I’m just wondering others opinions regarding their children coming first. If this is really how guys see it so I don't need any sugar coating. What do you honestly think? I'll admit... it would be a bit depressing if she's right. Does anyone know the stats on single dads getting into new relationships? " Well I'd say most of my exs have been single mums I guess it's hard to find singles wo haven't kids! | |||
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