FabSwingers.com forum: Height

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it bother you how tall someone is?

It used to bother me a lot. When me and my husband first got together, I was a few inches shorter. But over the past seven years I have caught up with him (it didn’t take long at all to be fair) and now I’m an inch taller than him.

It used to really bother me for some reason, but I’m trying not to let it get to me anymore.

Does someone’s height bother you? Be it a meet, in a relationship etc

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

The only time it annoys me is when I still can't kiss someone on the mouth (and they are stood up straight) and I'm on my tiptoes.

And it also means standing up sex is a bit difficult.

However, tall men seem to like me

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me but I'm more attracted to women smaller then me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?"

As in, all is going well, chat is flowing, flirting is happening, and you decide to double check their profile and there is a considerable height difference between you two

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m used to being the shortest even at 5’5.5 so I prefer taller men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it bother you how tall someone is?

It used to really bother me for some reason, but I’m trying not to let it get to me anymore.

Does someone’s height bother you? Be it a meet, in a relationship etc "

Not really although I do tend to go for smaller rather than taller my last two exs have been 5'8"and 5'10"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?"

Yes it does and I didn't meet them. I didn't tell them why though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?

Yes it does and I didn't meet them. I didn't tell them why though. "

Where they shorter or taller?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met guys From 5'1" to 6'5". I don't really look at their height and tall or short it doesn't put me off, though certain things like 69 would be very difficult with those far different to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 6ft 2 and my inbox would suggest that when it comes to no strings sex, a few extra inches to kiss before they reach my lips, is not a deal breaker.

I’m not bothered by a blokes height, so long as they’re confident i’m happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed either way with height. I have met both taller and shorter.

The taller was awkward though as simeone mentioned above if i wanted to kiss her she would have to bend down a bit. Bothered me a little at the time but looking back it must have looled funny to others. Especially when she was in 6" heels

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm used being considerably shorter so no it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure I'd know what to do with another shorter than myself though, would seem very odd indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm used being considerably shorter so no it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure I'd know what to do with another shorter than myself though, would seem very odd indeed."

With someone your height or smaller you could finally make that quest to Mordor.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm used being considerably shorter so no it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure I'd know what to do with another shorter than myself though, would seem very odd indeed.

With someone your height or smaller you could finally make that quest to Mordor. "

would be an epic adventure tho eh?!

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Still looking for a brienne of tarth

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"I was a few inches shorter. But over the past seven years I have caught up with him "

Was he lying down? did you always measure at the same time (i.e. pre coital)?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?"

If they were over 6 foot, yes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was a few inches shorter. But over the past seven years I have caught up with him

Was he lying down? did you always measure at the same time (i.e. pre coital)?"

No...he’s four years older than me. And I was fourteen when we got together. So I was still growing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm used being considerably shorter so no it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure I'd know what to do with another shorter than myself though, would seem very odd indeed.

With someone your height or smaller you could finally make that quest to Mordor.

would be an epic adventure tho eh?!"

Be sure to stop by and see my elven brethren.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm used being considerably shorter so no it doesn't bother me at all. I'm not sure I'd know what to do with another shorter than myself though, would seem very odd indeed.

With someone your height or smaller you could finally make that quest to Mordor.

would be an epic adventure tho eh?!

Be sure to stop by and see my elven brethren. "

Of course!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

No...he’s four years older than me. And I was fourteen when we got together. So I was still growing. "

Ah my dear -they are always getting over exited at that age -it alwways tends to die down as they get older

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?"

Yes!

I prefer a man my own height or taller.

I have met a couple of guys, much shorter than me, in both cases I got to know them over a long period of time as friends first, by that point the height was irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No...he’s four years older than me. And I was fourteen when we got together. So I was still growing.

Ah my dear -they are always getting over exited at that age -it alwways tends to die down as they get older"

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Doesn't put me off, just something to remember for when we meet if he's tall, I'm 5'2" and the guy I really want to meet is 6'2 so I know I'll be on tiptoes for a kiss

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I am at a very awkward height. I am too short to please alot of woman but too tall for the circus.

Oh well fuk it. I wont be getting any taller now at my age.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im only 5ft 2 but I do like tall men at least 5ft 10 or over upto about 6ft 2. Just something about feeling petite which I love.

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By *aileyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Im only 5ft 2 but I do like tall men at least 5ft 10 or over upto about 6ft 2. Just something about feeling petite which I love.

I agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference would be to meet men taller than me, 5'10"+.

Men my height have usually added an inch or two to their height on their profile.

One man was adamant that he was 5'5". He came up to my shoulders. I am 5'6".

I wouldn't count someone out for their height, I would for lying though.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Only time it bothers me is when people make it into an issue. Or I can't reach something. We are massively different heights and it's never been a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being trans its a bonus being short.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Buy hubby a pair of stilettos then?

Seriously though, nah, height doesn't bother me. I had an Auntie that was about a foot taller than ma Uncle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't put me off, just something to remember for when we meet if he's tall, I'm 5'2" and the guy I really want to meet is 6'2 so I know I'll be on tiptoes for a kiss "

Stand on a stack of Yellow Pages

Do they even make those anymore??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my ex husband was the same height as me. I hated wearing heels when out. Not that I wore them that often as not really my style apart from heeled ankle boots. It did bug me and I now really enjoy meeting taller guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, my ex husband was the same height as me. I hated wearing heels when out. Not that I wore them that often as not really my style apart from heeled ankle boots. It did bug me and I now really enjoy meeting taller guys. "

I never really wear heels either, unless I’m going out without my hubby. But that doesn’t happen often

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I’m only 5’3 but have always preferred men over 5’10. Just love feeling little next to them.

Mrs

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By *astings SocialWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

"Doesn't put me off, just something to remember for when we meet if he's tall, I'm 5'2" and the guy I really want to meet is 6'2 so I know I'll be on tiptoes for a kiss

Stand on a stack of Yellow Pages

Do they even make those anymore??"

Not sure if they do, o know the BT phone book got really tiny.

You'll have to get on your knees instead

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im 5ft 9 in heels so prefer men taller than me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Height is a factor for me, I love tall guys. How they tower over me it just makes me feel a bit, I don't know, girly, protected even.

I wouldn't meet anyone under 5'10. The height of a guy is something I can't overlook

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Well I’m only 5ft 7 ish does that mean I’ve got to start wear 5 inch heels to enhance my chance of getting meets or platform shoes like Elton john wore in tommy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do sometimes wish I was shorter, just so I could feel ‘small’ for once. I’ve met a man who’s 5’5, and the two other men I’ve met from here were 6’0

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I’m only 5ft 7 ish does that mean I’ve got to start wear 5 inch heels to enhance my chance of getting meets or platform shoes like Elton john wore in tommy

x "

If that’s what you wanna wear

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

I'm 5ft 2 - late hubby was 5'10 & ex bf was 5'11 - I prefer taller guys but anyone over 5'6 is tall to me ;p - all the same lying down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t bother me, however I am much more attracted to tall men. Not sure why, I’m 5’4!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?"

Wouldn’t put me off meeting them.

But then I’m just 5’4 so men are usually taller than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i once met a guy who was 6ft8

when he knelt down to give me a blow, his head was parallel to my nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. At least 5ft 11 minimum for me

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By *k_intriguedCouple
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Both tall here. Personally (from Mr point of view) I'm attracted to all heights.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

6ft 1 / 6ft 2 is perfect for me.

I appreciate folk can't do anything about their height, but it's a pretty strong preference of mine, so I just don't meet anyone under 6ft.

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"I’m used to being the shortest even at 5’5.5 so I prefer taller men. "

That .5" is all important as I'm sure every man will attest!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height isn't an issue. But I am naturally attracted to shortys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't put me off, just something to remember for when we meet if he's tall, I'm 5'2" and the guy I really want to meet is 6'2 so I know I'll be on tiptoes for a kiss

Stand on a stack of Yellow Pages

Do they even make those anymore??

Not sure if they do, o know the BT phone book got really tiny.

You'll have to get on your knees instead "

But what if I want you on yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 6ft i would prefer men my height or taller as a 69 just doesnt work as well with a shorter man

My ex husband was 6'2" and used to like me wearing heels and i have dated men smaller than me but tall men turn me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 4ft 11 and had a lovely social at the weekend with a guy that's 6ft 6. Play date has been arranged for tomorrow

I was a bit undecided when we first got chatting but I think I'm in for a treat lol

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By *heangelWoman
over a year ago

wonderland

Yup !! 5.8 minimum is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?

Yes it does and I didn't meet them. I didn't tell them why though.

Where they shorter or taller?"

Too tall for me. I'd feel intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 4ft 11 and had a lovely social at the weekend with a guy that's 6ft 6. Play date has been arranged for tomorrow

I was a bit undecided when we first got chatting but I think I'm in for a treat lol"

I’m 5ft8 and I find it awkward having sex with someone that’s 6ft4 and over.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Doesn't bother me unless they're a giant and I physically can't reach to kiss them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 4ft 11 and had a lovely social at the weekend with a guy that's 6ft 6. Play date has been arranged for tomorrow

I was a bit undecided when we first got chatting but I think I'm in for a treat lol

I’m 5ft8 and I find it awkward having sex with someone that’s 6ft4 and over.

My ex was 6ft4 and we never had any issue having sex.

Probably down to flexibility.

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

"Well I’m only 5ft 7 ish does that mean I’ve got to start wear 5 inch heels to enhance my chance of getting meets or platform shoes like Elton john wore in tommy

If that’s what you wanna wear

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. Some do say don’t knock it till you’ve tried it but just haven’t got the ankles for high heels x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a woman I can kiss while we're both standing up without putting my back out.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does it bother you how tall someone is?

It used to really bother me for some reason, but I’m trying not to let it get to me anymore.

Does someone’s height bother you? Be it a meet, in a relationship etc "

I don't find short men physically attractive, just like some men don't find fat women physically attractive.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Not bothered by height but I suspect the same would not be true going the opposite way.

Most women subscribe to the unwritten rule of guys having to be taller than them.

Kinda makes me wonder what the rules are for girls who like girls though? Rulebook out the window? Both about the same height? Tall manly one and short girly girl?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh! And would someone’s height put you off meeting them?

As in, all is going well, chat is flowing, flirting is happening, and you decide to double check their profile and there is a considerable height difference between you two"

When visible my profile states tall and height is the first thing I look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man got to be taller than me because I do wear heels 80% of the time.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border

"Not bothered by height but I suspect the same would not be true going the opposite way.

Most women subscribe to the unwritten rule of guys having to be taller than them.

Kinda makes me wonder what the rules are for girls who like girls though? Rulebook out the window? Both about the same height? Tall manly one and short girly girl?

Same height or taller for me

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Not bothered by height but I suspect the same would not be true going the opposite way.

Most women subscribe to the unwritten rule of guys having to be taller than them.

Kinda makes me wonder what the rules are for girls who like girls though? Rulebook out the window? Both about the same height? Tall manly one and short girly girl?

Same height or taller for me

Huh. Interesting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like girls my height or shorter and guys my height or taller, didn’t think height really bothered me until I met the most gorgeous blonde haired, blue eyed, strong jawline, 6ft5 man... I was heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothered by height but I suspect the same would not be true going the opposite way.

Most women subscribe to the unwritten rule of guys having to be taller than them.

Kinda makes me wonder what the rules are for girls who like girls though? Rulebook out the window? Both about the same height? Tall manly one and short girly girl?

Same height for me if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 4ft 11 and had a lovely social at the weekend with a guy that's 6ft 6. Play date has been arranged for tomorrow

I was a bit undecided when we first got chatting but I think I'm in for a treat lol

I’m 5ft8 and I find it awkward having sex with someone that’s 6ft4 and over.

My ex was 6ft4 and we never had any issue having sex.

Probably down to flexibility. "

I just don’t like being smothered by a big body on me. A few inches taller is ok. 69 is awkward with too much difference. I have no problem with flexibility.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm five foot seven and a half...I prefer taller guys but I've dated shorter.

I do look at heights on profiles tho and use it as a sift.

I prefer my women a similar height to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 4ft 11 and had a lovely social at the weekend with a guy that's 6ft 6. Play date has been arranged for tomorrow

I was a bit undecided when we first got chatting but I think I'm in for a treat lol

I’m 5ft8 and I find it awkward having sex with someone that’s 6ft4 and over.

My ex was 6ft4 and we never had any issue having sex.

Probably down to flexibility.

I just don’t like being smothered by a big body on me. A few inches taller is ok. 69 is awkward with too much difference. I have no problem with flexibility. "

5ft8 and smothered?

Wow, the gorgeous woman who’s only 4ft11 must have her work cut out then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind height as long as she has regular sized elbows

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I like my men to be taller than me , that's pretty easy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like my men to be taller & richer than me , that's pretty easy though.

Is it? Hmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to go less than 2" shorter than me to be honest. No limit on how much taller though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I got no other choice but to go for taller women lol

But, height to me doesn’t matter much. There’s always a way around. Although, I know it might play a massive part in the initial attraction.

I’ve met women as tall as six foot. Loved it!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m 6ft 3 so ladies tend to be a little smaller. Although I have been out with someone taller than me which was pretty awesome. Her legs went on forever and when she was on top it was quite something.

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By *sfleurWoman
over a year ago

wednesfield

How do we measure elbows ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At barely 5ft everyone’s taller than me pretty much ! I do get really tall guys asking me if it’s a problem but it’s not been so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive deal breaker!

I wear heels so ideally same height in heels or just taller. Too tall hurts my neck though; think I’m fussy

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Height doesn't bother me. Tall or short. Same as I always say we're all the same height lay down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height doesn't bother me. Tall or short. Same as I always say we're all the same height lay down "

That isn't true though is it? Well not in my experience anyway

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Height is totally unimportant to me. I like a wee shorty and I've met guys over 6ft as well. It's probably the last thing I look at on a profile as it makes no difference to me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a guy my height or taller.

I really hate being told that we are all the same lying down!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only time it annoys me is when I still can't kiss someone on the mouth (and they are stood up straight) and I'm on my tiptoes.

And it also means standing up sex is a bit difficult.

However, tall men seem to like me

*checks height ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never thought to check a persons height. I would generally prefer taller though so perhaps I should.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"The only time it annoys me is when I still can't kiss someone on the mouth (and they are stood up straight) and I'm on my tiptoes.

And it also means standing up sex is a bit difficult.

However, tall men seem to like me

*checks height ..

Are you taller than 5ft 7?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5'5 hasn't affected me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height doesn't bother me. Tall or short. Same as I always say we're all the same height lay down "

Well stop saying it as, unless you are the same height as me, its not true

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